kola1930:
We've been married for a year now and blessed with a pretty daughter. My wife feels little or no urge to be intimate. Its been more than a month now since I had s*x. Reason being that, am angry inside of me that she is always not in the mood, so I decided to hold myself and see when she'll realize it that am angry about it and do the needful. But it seems like am just suffering my self because she seems not to realize she needs to do something fast. I am feeling like cheating on her as a way to punish her maybe she'll realize it that she needs to satisfy her husband to keep him away from other ladies outside. I urgently need advice from married nairalanders... Is the situation d same or similar in ur marriage, and how do I resolve this differences. Am really disturbed

Ngokafor:








...You sound so childish!...just go through the gibberish you have been spilling on this thread ...Which sensible married man does not know that having a baby is not child's play and that the women needs to heal physically and psychologically?


..To make matters worse,you are married....It beats me why some of you guys cant just grow up and behave responsibly...I pity your wives and other so-called married women who have chosen to live with men like you...I certainly would not tolerate half the crap i read from you guys from my husband.

uncleFola:
lol ... smh.

halfricanadian:

Exactly my thought

austine4real:
Mayb the load is too much 4her to bear, wash clothes,cook,breastfeed,wash yansh


and u go com bak 4rm work remove ur smelling prik 4rm ur dirty boxers and say baby spread ur legs i want fvck,no intimacy no hw are u? No hw did ur day went


my broda u must b wicked oo aaah u must be D 2nd satan sef


do u communicate things to her,i mean hw u feel?

megley:


Aah! You harsh o. And funny too ...

Ahmed0336:
were her eyes closed when he married her?

FTBOY:
no woman would have the guts to come out in public and complain of sex starvation

kola1930:
We've been married for a year now and blessed with a pretty daughter. My wife feels little or no urge to be intimate. Its been more than a month now since I had s*x. Reason being that, am angry inside of me that she is always not in the mood, so I decided to hold myself and see when she'll realize it that am angry about it and do the needful. But it seems like am just suffering my self because she seems not to realize she needs to do something fast. I am feeling like cheating on her as a way to punish her maybe she'll realize it that she needs to satisfy her husband to keep him away from other ladies outside. I urgently need advice from married nairalanders... Is the situation d same or similar in ur marriage, and how do I resolve this differences. Am really disturbed

brandnew3:
OP's picture would suffice.

But some women can be frigid sha!

All they get into marriage for is to hook up a sperm donor for procreation..Datz all.

mummydirect:

Huh! oga you are trying, well if your wife is comfortable with that and you too are, good for you guys but I personally will rot in guilt not giving my hubby is other food even when it is glaring to me that he needs it. Anyway, I understand sha, I will be ten years soonest too in marriage, so I understand. Do u know during labor, due to the pain inherent in it, I usually and angrily too promise not to near hubby for six months after delivery but alas, just three weeks into delivery, he will stylishly and romantically lure me into giving him which I can never say no to, so you see why I say that something is wrong somewhere, judging from my own scenario though I understand the disparities in men's ability to control their sexual urge. Anyway, women should be careful in this aspect of marriage, in other for the devil not to gain entrance into their homes due to negligence. May God Bless our marriages, amen

Abel202:


My sister, God bless you. Please continue to give your husband the other food in an overdose bases. You don't know what evil & complications you are preventing him from doing or bringing to your family by merely performing your normal wifey bedroom duties, chai you realy don't know. I wish my lovely wifey could also satisfy me as much. Unfortunately I know for sure she can't (unless something close to a miracle happens). So am trying to carry my cross with as much ease as I can manage under the circumstances, majorly focusing on her other really great attributes. Yea - May God Bless our marriages.

Taryur3:

its awful for a wife to denied her husby of sex.you are pushing him away.this is why am still searching for a lady that love sex cos am addict.I love it when am back from my office or when I wanna sleep.two tins disorganised marriage.sex and money.

kola1930:
We've been married for a year now and blessed with a pretty daughter. My wife feels little or no urge to be intimate. Its been more than a month now since I had s*x. Reason being that, am angry inside of me that she is always not in the mood, so I decided to hold myself and see when she'll realize it that am angry about it and do the needful. But it seems like am just suffering my self because she seems not to realize she needs to do something fast. I am feeling like cheating on her as a way to punish her maybe she'll realize it that she needs to satisfy her husband to keep him away from other ladies outside. I urgently need advice from married nairalanders... Is the situation d same or similar in ur marriage, and how do I resolve this differences. Am really disturbed

ladycomfort:
. Magun lo ma lu gbeyin aye re.

ladycomfort:
. Magun lo ma lu gbeyin aye re.