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Re: Am I Being Used by jahB(m): 10:34pm On Apr 04, 2016

fire him and find another.

Re: Am I Being Used by firstking01(m): 11:07pm On Apr 04, 2016

joliyp:
Have not really been lucky in relationship,not any that i can remember.my boyfriend of recent has been so demanding, he told me of a project called helping hand which he intend to invest into i gave him the money 25,000 he asked for another which i also gave him, he recently complained about his school stuff i gave him part of the fee,though am through with school and working he is still in school and older than me
Now the problem,he want to celebrate his birthday on April 22nd he told me to lend him 1000,000, i promised to get him 70,000 and he became so angry i eventually gave him 70k to balance him 30k latter.he wasn't happy he refused to pick my calls nor reply my text i went to his house met a lady in his apartment i asked who she is she told me she a friend to my bf my bf came in telling me if have met his cousin.
am really not too happy cos either one of the lying i really love my bf and i don't want to lose him to any cousin,of friend should i give him the 30k?

or i should let him go, cos he"s so awful in bed and i mean it.pls any advice? you can as well bash me can someone talk some sense to me. mind not my English.....not good at writing

What's wrong with you justina undecided

Re: Am I Being Used by drmikeadams(m): 11:14pm On Apr 04, 2016

and I still dey find independent woman for naija cheesy

Na criminals and looters I dey get grin

Re: Am I Being Used by Cultured(m): 11:25pm On Apr 04, 2016

People, forget about the OP and her illusory story, she's just an attention seeker- a big troll.

Re: Am I Being Used by joliyp(op): 12:54pm On Apr 05, 2016

firstking01:
What's wrong with you justina??

everything, how r u dear

Re: Am I Being Used by firstking01(m): 1:09pm On Apr 05, 2016

joliyp:
everything, how r u dear

not happy with you

Re: Am I Being Used by joliyp(op): 1:15pm On Apr 05, 2016

firstking01:
not happy with you

i know, am so sorry so busy with work

Re: Am I Being Used by firstking01(m): 1:17pm On Apr 05, 2016

joliyp:
i know, am so sorry so busy with work

not only that, your phone kept being switched off even as i'm typing this now undecided

Re: Am I Being Used by xtervaganza(m): 1:34pm On Apr 05, 2016

You're not being used. You have been used already

You see good guys like me you no date

Re: Am I Being Used by tropaz(m): 1:00pm On Jul 30, 2016

joliyp:
Have not really been lucky in relationship,not any that i can remember.my boyfriend of recent has been so demanding, he told me of a project called helping hand which he intend to invest into i gave him the money 25,000 he asked for another which i also gave him, he recently complained about his school stuff i gave him part of the fee,though am through with school and working he is still in school and older than me
Now the problem,he want to celebrate his birthday on April 22nd he told me to lend him 1000,000, i promised to get him 70,000 and he became so angry i eventually gave him 70k to balance him 30k latter.he wasn't happy he refused to pick my calls nor reply my text i went to his house met a lady in his apartment i asked who she is she told me she a friend to my bf my bf came in telling me if have met his cousin.
am really not too happy cos either one of the lying i really love my bf and i don't want to lose him to any cousin,of friend should i give him the 30k?

or i should let him go, cos he"s so awful in bed and i mean it.pls any advice? you can as well bash me can someone talk some sense to me. mind not my English.....not good at writing

Some1s story, I guess....u look too gud to be used in dis manner...my opinion

Re: Am I Being Used by Nobody: 1:21pm On Jul 30, 2016

Dear OP, ur story no get part 2.. person wey still dey school dey demand 100k for birthday celebration and u carry ur mumu self give am 70k ... Both of una no get sense at all.. sorry. huh

Re: Am I Being Used by passionate87(m): 5:41am On Jul 31, 2016

jollyp u are a beautiful lady u deserve someone better not a lazy gold digger. helping hands registration is 6600naira though one can open several account. my advice for you is pls ensure to collect ur 70k first before quitting that God forsaken relationship.

Re: Am I Being Used by Nobody: 9:03am On Jul 31, 2016

joliyp:
Have not really been lucky in relationship,not any that i can remember.my boyfriend of recent has been so demanding, he told me of a project called helping hand which he intend to invest into i gave him the money 25,000 he asked for another which i also gave him, he recently complained about his school stuff i gave him part of the fee,though am through with school and working he is still in school and older than me
Now the problem,he want to celebrate his birthday on April 22nd he told me to lend him 1000,000, i promised to get him 70,000 and he became so angry i eventually gave him 70k to balance him 30k latter.he wasn't happy he refused to pick my calls nor reply my text i went to his house met a lady in his apartment i asked who she is she told me she a friend to my bf my bf came in telling me if have met his cousin.
am really not too happy cos either one of the lying i really love my bf and i don't want to lose him to any cousin,of friend should i give him the 30k?

or i should let him go, cos he"s so awful in bed and i mean it.pls any advice? you can as well bash me can someone talk some sense to me. mind not my English.....not good at writing

You are very wonderful. That guy is using you and you're still there with him! What manner of love is that? You better let him be else when he is satisfied with scamming you he will dump you mercilessly without thinking twice. Jeez!

Re: Am I Being Used by joliyp(op): 12:30pm On Jul 31, 2016

elomez:
You are very wonderful. That guy is using you and you're still there with him! What manner of love is that? You better let him be else when he is satisfied with scamming you he will dump you mercilessly without thinking twice. Jeez!

thanks dear

Re: Am I Being Used by dikeigbo2(m): 11:27pm On Nov 12, 2016

You are a sacrificial and a dumb lamb.listen and clap for yourself.

Adankita

Re: Am I Being Used by fergieboy: 7:46am On Nov 13, 2016

Nawa we guys no like ourslf at all .. See all the comment above.. But we like it when a girl maga a guy abi? Now one guy in a million is magary a gal and see as boiz they para.

Op I like that your guy.. After all love conquers all

Re: Am I Being Used by Mileslamar1(m): 10:14am On Nov 13, 2016

this is a joke right? she's kidding

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Re: Am I Being Used by MChaze25(m): 11:14am On Jan 16, 2017

lolzz....he aint into you dear...can you do an Usain bolt on him?

Re: Am I Being Used by AdeOluwaTomiwa(m): 12:09pm On Jan 16, 2017

LOL I'm weak

Smellymouth:
So you nor fit give your mama #70,000, na ur bobo when nor Sabi fvck u dey pack money give?

"Helping hands" kor, "Helping Legs" ni

Re: Am I Being Used by minexpo(m): 1:04pm On Jan 16, 2017

I wish i can find a gal lyk u embarassed

well u r been ......... huh

Re: Am I Being Used by R3B3L(m): 1:24pm On Jan 16, 2017

U shuld know u have a bit more controlling power in this relationship than how it would appear. Try staying away from him for a while if u really want this to work. Create a space so wide it's actually possible for u to see a life without him. If den u decide u want the relatnshp den u need to set some ground rules. This is where u can design the relatnshp how u would want it, if u still do. You have a kind heart, its a blessing so don't let others take u for a ride Cos of it.

Re: Am I Being Used by obyno5(m): 2:27pm On Jan 16, 2017

Dear the truth is that you know very well that you are being used only maybe you dread the truth. The earlier you assume the 'no boyfriend status and move ahead.... the better for you '

Re: Am I Being Used by Charleynmuo: 3:16am On Jan 18, 2017

Can I luv u dearie?

Re: Am I Being Used by Nobody: 12:15pm On Jan 18, 2017

Money making machine

Re: Am I Being Used by marklele(m): 12:35pm On Jan 18, 2017

some guy's are lucky... He wouldn't know what he has till he lose it

Re: Am I Being Used by davidif: 6:55am On Feb 15, 2017

joliyp:
Have not really been lucky in relationship,not any that i can remember.my boyfriend of recent has been so demanding, he told me of a project called helping hand which he intend to invest into i gave him the money 25,000 he asked for another which i also gave him, he recently complained about his school stuff i gave him part of the fee,though am through with school and working he is still in school and older than me
Now the problem,he want to celebrate his birthday on April 22nd he told me to lend him 1000,000, i promised to get him 70,000 and he became so angry i eventually gave him 70k to balance him 30k latter.he wasn't happy he refused to pick my calls nor reply my text i went to his house met a lady in his apartment i asked who she is she told me she a friend to my bf my bf came in telling me if have met his cousin.
am really not too happy cos either one of the lying i really love my bf and i don't want to lose him to any cousin,of friend should i give him the 30k?

or i should let him go, cos he"s so awful in bed and i mean it.pls any advice? you can as well bash me can someone talk some sense to me. mind not my English.....not good at writing

Wait what?!?!?!?!? he has showed you his true colors and you are still asking what to do when the answer is before you? huh

Nairalanders sef, na wa for una o.

They say that when someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.

Re: Am I Being Used by johnime: 8:22am On Nov 20, 2017

joliyp:
Have not really been lucky in relationship,not any that i can remember.my boyfriend of recent has been so demanding, he told me of a project called helping hand which he intend to invest into i gave him the money 25,000 he asked for another which i also gave him, he recently complained about his school stuff i gave him part of the fee,though am through with school and working he is still in school and older than me
Now the problem,he want to celebrate his birthday on April 22nd he told me to lend him 1000,000, i promised to get him 70,000 and he became so angry i eventually gave him 70k to balance him 30k latter.he wasn't happy he refused to pick my calls nor reply my text i went to his house met a lady in his apartment i asked who she is she told me she a friend to my bf my bf came in telling me if have met his cousin.
am really not too happy cos either one of the lying i really love my bf and i don't want to lose him to any cousin,of friend should i give him the 30k?

or i should let him go, cos he"s so awful in bed and i mean it.pls any advice? you can as well bash me can someone talk some sense to me. mind not my English.....not good at writing

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