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Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by Nelgenius4me(m): 1:06pm On Mar 06, 2016
Hmm! What can I say? Sister don't let a small boy rob mud in your eyes when you can see. I advise you to take the next bus to the nearest station called "serious relationship" why wasting your time when you know it isn't leading you anywhere.
Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by mart2k(m): 2:16pm On Mar 06, 2016
Sunkyphil:
are u sure no sex yet
for where? Wen d guy don nearly tear d thing. She only said no sexx after they re unite
Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by mart2k(m): 2:18pm On Mar 06, 2016
Naomite:

Thanks 4 the advice
I have tried 2 call it quite so many times but I still end up finding my self with him again.
Sorry, daz how it wil continue. Am experiencing it right now. she won't leave me despite telling her we cnt b 2geda.
Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by holajeedayy: 2:32pm On Mar 06, 2016
My dear sister haven check or read comment it obvious he isnt serious with u but u realy have his absolute and complete interest i guess u should forcefully alienate him bcox u appear not to want him go even when u are behind his plan "A" .....
Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by holusormi(m): 3:03pm On Mar 06, 2016
See ,, stop lying to yourself ... The sex is great and you are hooked to it ... Find someone else who would fvck you better than he fvcks you .... And stop being a cradle robber , pls leave the young boy alone to find a sweet sixteen that would suit him and gerrarahea joor ... Old cargo grin angry cool
Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by Sunkyphil(m): 3:11pm On Mar 06, 2016
mart2k:
for where? Wen d guy don nearly tear d thing. She only said no sexx after they re unite
grin grin
Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by skywalker240(m): 6:07pm On Mar 06, 2016
in my own words'

Baby ur'e somthing i never wished for , but i dont want to lose u..
Thats what he is tryin ta say8)
Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by skywalker240(m): 6:07pm On Mar 06, 2016
in my own words'

Baby ur'e somthing i never wished for , but i dont want to lose u..
Thats what he is tryin ta say8)
Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by favourmic(m): 8:04pm On Mar 06, 2016
Sunkyphil:
are u sure no sex yet

Two people can not loose lie, at least she knew she lieing to us

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Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by holajeedayy: 8:27pm On Mar 06, 2016
favourmic:

Two people can not loose lie, at least she knew she lieing to us
op is that true?
Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by holajeedayy: 8:27pm On Mar 06, 2016
favourmic:

Two people can not loose lie, at least she knew she lieing to us
op is that true?
Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by Sunkyphil(m): 9:18pm On Mar 06, 2016
favourmic:


Two people can not loose lie, at least she knew she lieing to us
wen we no b small pikin
Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by donfelix4sure(m): 9:33pm On Mar 06, 2016
LORDSAMURAI:
hmm well according to what i can decipher from ur acute postology, its that the guy has some hidden palavation in his mindology, hav u ever confront him and require to acquire d reason why he dnt want to actualize datetology now, why is he taking time? ask him and get his responsive reproval, he must tell u a reasonable answer or else if he refuse to communicate his inner demons then move on with ur lifetology.
Lol
Wetin be ur own self?
Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by JohnieWalker(m): 9:43pm On Mar 06, 2016
dat bobo must have affiliations with the Pharisees and Sadducees the bible was talking about because he doesn't want to enter and doesn't want odas to enter....op i will accept pm from yu cos its mothers day w

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Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by favourmic(m): 12:00am On Mar 07, 2016
holajeedayy:

op is that true?


Sit down there let the Fed you well..
Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by holajeedayy: 7:55am On Mar 08, 2016
Op i couldnt reply your mail base on server and technical issue....in that wise here is my number zero,, ,seven ,zero, three ,zero ,eight ,four, two, five, eight , nine
Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by andyanders: 1:38pm On Mar 10, 2016
Naomite:

Thanks 4 the advice
I have tried 2 call it quite so many times but I still end up finding my self with him again.

Listen, you don't get emotional on something that lacks relevance.He is just trying to keep you as a side partner while still exploring to see somebody that is better than you. He is not real and might probably turn violent in future.

You better take a walk out of this relationship as the taste of friendship is not the taste of marriage. He is busy enjoying his bad habit top your detriment.
Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by TheSpellChecker: 7:37pm On Apr 07, 2016
Naomite:
We knew each other for years even before we started the relationship. I never dreamed or even thought of dating dis guy because he is like a "no go" area 4 me(reason is because am way too older than he is). We serve in thesame unit in the church bt we hardly spoke 2 each other, I really like his calmness and gentleness and this made me created more interest in getting 2 know him better. Oneday, he cought me stirring at him and he immediately confronted me with this accusation, he said and I quote " why are u stirring at me? Do u have a crush on me?", jeez! I was speachless, no word could come out of my mouth at that particular moment. From that day on, he started calling me his crush and I call him that aswell.

Although it was all on a level of joke as I didn't have any hidden agender, but unknown to me he actually meant what he says. After spending the holiday, I went back to school and we chat mostly on whatsapp that was how it all began. We never really had any form of agreement to date, cos he didn't actually ask me out and I was owk with it. All my intention then was that, as soon as I find a guy I like and want 2 date, I'll just let him know and everything will stop, but to my greatest amusement, I fell in love with him coupled with the type of care and attention he gave 2 me, this inturn made me not 2 give any other guy the chance even when I know deep down that the relationship has no future. To cut the story shot, six months letter, I started noticing some changes in his behavior, he wasn't honest with me anymore, uses so different girls pic on his DP, and I also started hearing so many rumors on how he flirt around with different girls, so we had to end the relationship. After a month, he started visiting me again and every time he visit, we will both end up kissing and romancing (no sex) 4 what may look like eternity (trust me it feels good) what baffles me most is that he gets angry and jealous whenever he sees me with another guy, so last Saturday, ask him 2 let us DTR (define the relationship) and all he could say is that "I don't want u 2 date any other guy cos I want b able to handle it, so let's just be what we are till when am ready 2 start dating again"
Please romancelanders, I need a mature advice on what to do, because trully am also finding it difficult to move on since he is still here, can't stop him from coming to our house and I can't stop my self from getting emotional when ever he comes around cos I still love him.
Mature advice please.......thanks guys!

Nice narrative you've got there but I must say, I'm not really impressed with your spellings and grammar. undecided
Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by Naomite(f): 7:57pm On Apr 07, 2016
TheSpellChecker:


Nice narrative you've got there but I must say, I'm not really impressed with your spellings and grammar. undecided
Mr "thespellchecker" I guess dats ur specialty, so do d needful.
I don't mind if u correct my spoken English and spellings afterall no one is perfect.

Btw some of the wrong grammar and spellings were actually typographical error. thanks anyway smiley
Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by TheSpellChecker: 9:50am On Apr 09, 2016
Naomite:

Mr "thespellchecker" I guess dats ur specialty, so do d needful.
I don't mind if u correct my spoken English and spellings afterall no one is perfect.

Btw some of the wrong grammar and spellings were actually typographical error. thanks anyway smiley

Alright, challenge accepted. I'll do the needful for you.



We knew each other for years even before we started the relationship. I never dreamed or even thought of dating this guy because he is like a "no go" area for me (reason is because I am way too older than he is).

We serve in the same unit in the church but we hardly spoke to each other, I really like his calmness and gentleness and this made me have more interest in getting to know him better.

One day, he caught me staring at him and he immediately confronted me with this accusation. He said and I quote "Why are you staring at me? Do you have a crush on me?"

Jeez! I was speechless. No words could come out of my mouth at that particular moment. From that day on, he started calling me his crush and I call him that as well.

Although it was all on a level of joke as I didn't have any hidden agenda, but unknown to me he actually meant what he says. After spending the holiday, I went back to school and we chat mostly on Whatsapp.

That was how it all began.

We never really had any form of agreement to date, because he didn't actually ask me out and I was okay with it. All my intention then was that, as soon as I find a guy I like and want to date, I'll just let him know and everything will stop, but to my greatest amusement, I fell in love with him coupled with the type of care and attention he gave to me. This in turn made me not to give any other guy the chance even when I know deep down that the relationship has no future.

To cut the story short, six months later, I started noticing some changes in his behavior. He wasn't honest with me anymore, uses different girls pictures on his DP, and I also started hearing so many rumors on how he flirts around with different girls.

So we had to end the relationship. After a month, he started visiting me again and every time he visits, we will both end up kissing and romancing (no sex) for what may look like eternity (trust me it feels good). What baffles me most is that he gets angry and jealous whenever he sees me with another guy.

So last Saturday, I asked him to let us DTR (define the relationship) and all he could say is that "I don't want you to date any other guy because I wont be able to handle it, so let's just be what we are till when I’m ready to start dating again."

Please romancelanders, I need mature advice on what to do because truly I’m also finding it difficult to move on since he is still here. I can't stop him from coming to our house and I can't stop myself from getting emotional whenever he comes around because I still love him.

Mature advice please… thanks guys!



There you have it.

When writing a story, ALWAYS try to make good use of paragraphs to allow your readers to logically follow your thoughts. Good paragraphs also make it easier for the eyes to read. In other words, it will keep the attention of your readers.

Also, try to make good use of punctuation marks to bring out the sense in your story. About your spellings, take note of the redlining error spell checking features of many word processors or even better still, make use of your dictionary all the time.

Have a nice day.
Re: He Don't Want To Have Me And Won't Let Me Go. by Naomite(f): 3:34pm On Apr 09, 2016
TheSpellChecker:


Alright, challenge accepted. I'll do the needful for you.



We knew each other for years even before we started the relationship. I never dreamed or even thought of dating this guy because he is like a "no go" area for me (reason is because I am way too older than he is).

We serve in the same unit in the church but we hardly spoke to each other, I really like his calmness and gentleness and this made me have more interest in getting to know him better.

One day, he caught me staring at him and he immediately confronted me with this accusation. He said and I quote "Why are you staring at me? Do you have a crush on me?"

Jeez! I was speechless. No words could come out of my mouth at that particular moment. From that day on, he started calling me his crush and I call him that as well.

Although it was all on a level of joke as I didn't have any hidden agenda, but unknown to me he actually meant what he says. After spending the holiday, I went back to school and we chat mostly on Whatsapp.

That was how it all began.

We never really had any form of agreement to date, because he didn't actually ask me out and I was okay with it. All my intention then was that, as soon as I find a guy I like and want to date, I'll just let him know and everything will stop, but to my greatest amusement, I fell in love with him coupled with the type of care and attention he gave to me. This in turn made me not to give any other guy the chance even when I know deep down that the relationship has no future.

To cut the story short, six months later, I started noticing some changes in his behavior. He wasn't honest with me anymore, uses different girls pictures on his DP, and I also started hearing so many rumors on how he flirts around with different girls.

So we had to end the relationship. After a month, he started visiting me again and every time he visits, we will both end up kissing and romancing (no sex) for what may look like eternity (trust me it feels good). What baffles me most is that he gets angry and jealous whenever he sees me with another guy.

So last Saturday, I asked him to let us DTR (define the relationship) and all he could say is that "I don't want you to date any other guy because I wont be able to handle it, so let's just be what we are till when I’m ready to start dating again."

Please romancelanders, I need mature advice on what to do because truly I’m also finding it difficult to move on since he is still here. I can't stop him from coming to our house and I can't stop myself from getting emotional whenever he comes around because I still love him.

Mature advice please… thanks guys!



There you have it.

When writing a story, ALWAYS try to make good use of paragraphs to allow your readers to logically follow your thoughts. Good paragraphs also make it easier for the eyes to read. In other words, it will keep the attention of your readers.

Also, try to make good use of punctuation marks to bring out the sense in your story. About your spellings, take note of the redlining error spell checking features of many word processors or even better still, make use of your dictionary all the time.

Have a nice day.
Wow this is indeed an eye opener, didn't noticed I made this much mistake. Tnx 4 d corrections really grin

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