There are somethings i really don't understand.
A friend needs an advice. The story goes:-

I met this lady 2 yrs ago or more she didn't say yes until last year September or so, i figure out that are supposed bf broke her h@,

So i was very careful and everything was fine then i discover she couldn't get over the guy so i asked her if she was going to leave me if the guy comes back
Then she started crying (that was a yes for me) i pet her not to cry cos I can't withstand her tears i let her realise I care and want something serious that's why I ask.
Later I discover she stop/reduce the time we see her attitude changed so i ask her and i got to know she is back with her ex. All this happened within 2 month.
So i put myself together as i saw it coming i try to comfort her that I know it's not easy for her.she said she still want to be my friend which i didnt object.

Fast forward to late January she told me she want me to get a woman for mysef that she is getting married this month February, so as a good guy i kept my distance from Her i don't want to affect a relationship. Suddenly she started complaining that am avoiding her blah blah and have changed, this continued for days so I decided to visit her, one of the days I went to her place i tried to get close to her(just to know her motive, if that's what she wanted) she objected but she won't still stop chatting me.

Up till midnight and as early as 6 in the morning. Now i don't even know what she want. Abeg una ladies wetin this kain babe dey find ooo her wedding shud be 2 weeks from now

Abeg talk something else.... it takes two to tango.... stop pushing the blames on her... you are also playing your own parts... please stay away from the married woman if you really respect her marriage

u're her pain reliever.if u understand my point.

you are an accessory in her makeup bag

maybe the eye shadow... she needs that idea that someone somewhere cares about her

she is sick.. and u are the placebo

peter0071:
Abeg talk something else.... it takes two to tango.... stop pushing the blames on her... you are also playing your own parts... please stay away from the married woman if you really respect her marriage

Bro Peter you probably don't get the point am not pushing the blame on her, but thanks anyway

newyorks:
u're her pain reliever.if u understand my point.

Maybe i understood maybe not Abeg explain

kilokeys:
you are an accessory in her makeup bag

maybe the eye shadow... she needs that idea that someone somewhere cares about her

she is sick.. and u are the placebo

Hmmm

You are a means to an end.

igidaduro:

Maybe i understood maybe not Abeg explain

she njoys ur chattin skills and ur torelance.maybe u are good at polishin heartbroken ladies.

newyorks:
she njoys ur chattin skills and ur torelance.maybe u are good at polishin heartbroken ladies.

Lol thanks, but tolerance isn't in my dico

it is well... All i am trying to explain is that you must do everything possible to cut the relationship since she is getting married to another man... from the way you spoke, you like her... but this is what you ought to do...no matter the cost... she is leading to a corner that may have consequences

igidaduro:

Bro Peter you probably don't get the point am not pushing the blame on her, but thanks anyway

ok.....ds wont end well

ok.....ds wil nt end well

Bro.. .just be yourself, tell her how things stands between u 2 now, do not be an obstacle between the two couples.. .as I see with what you wrote up there, you said the ex broke her heart...this somehow indicates that the marriage "may" not last..

Now u shouldn't keep urself too close to this woman.. .its clear she wants u BUT bro, just as a friend.. Know your place.

joliyp:
ok.....ds wil nt end well

How? Am not understanding

You should ve cut all contact with the chick when she went back to her ex.I mean delete her number from your phone,block her on whatsapp,give her a wide berth.Don't allow people that are confused to also sow confusion in your life.

infatuation at work

Your guy dey turn her brain like DJ Crazy, but she no wan do kerewa with him because say she don marry. Is that hard to get?

***Changes gear***

Your nigga is in the god damn fvckless friend zone of a fvcking married lady mehn. Tell ya nigga to just see her as a nice assed friend who has no fvck for him, and just go get a fvcking girlfriend, because this one is both fvckless and married.

***Changes gear***

Igota go?

ikp120:
Your guy dey turn her brain like DJ Crazy, but she no wan do kerewa with him because say she don marry. Is that hard to get?

***Changes gear***

Your nigga is in the god damn fvckless friend zone of a fvcking married lady mehn. Tell ya nigga to just see her as a nice assed friend who has no fvck for him, and just go get a fvcking girlfriend, because this one is both fvckless and married.

***Changes gear***

Igota go?

what's up bro

lodphil:
You should ve cut all contact with the chick when she went back to her ex.I mean delete her number from your phone,block her on whatsapp,give her a wide berth.Don't allow people that are confused to also sow confusion in your life.

end of discussion!

lodphil:
what's up bro

I'm cool man, and you?

ikp120:


I'm cool man, and you?

great bro,you promised your guy one E-book lyk that.Pls is it ready,even if it means purchasing it.

lodphil:
great bro,you promised your guy one E-book lyk that.Pls is it ready,even if it means purchasing it.

Bro abeg just forget it. The thing no dey stable like that. I can't just give you something that's not stable and reliable, even if it's for free.

ikp120:


Bro abeg just forget it. The thing no dey stable like that. I can't just give you something that's not stable and reliable, even if it's for free.

Ok,no probs bro.

She just needs a friend.

op as big as u r u dnt knw??

megareal:
She just needs a friend.

And the guy she is marrying is what?

fumisko:

And the guy she is marrying is what?

A husband.

You asked her if she was going to leave you if the other guy comes back, then she started crying.

Lol. No comment.

Let go of d confused gal,life x too confusing dis days,so y add more stress 2d burden,buh I guess 1of d reasons y she didn't wnt 2b wiv u was cos of yuh english nigga u slayed dt sh!t up dia...

give her a send forth gift she would never forget from your loins,over load her with the cassava