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refiner:
I fink women are more selfish!....yea guys are selfish buh women are more selfish!....


op d example u sited above was from just a friend of urs and it apply to some men too buh most women does all DAT and even more!....dey might date more Dan 10 men,each has dere purpose......maybe one for sex,one for money,one for love,etcetera!

dey mostly fink abt demslves wifout feelings for oders!

Mutuwa:
well the question is,selfishness in what aspect or facet? men being selfish towards securing worldly materials,selfishness towards learning,love,family,assistance,relationship,advice,sex,leadership?what aspect is a man selfish in and what part is a woman also guilty of?

This is why the word "selfish" in itself is relative and cannot be apportioned to just one gender.
But all and sundry would agree that the woman (Eve) pushed the man to sin against the Almighty,due to her own personal selfish intent. apparently,the devil chose to use her to tempt the man to sin,why?
That is somewhat of selfishness being exercised.

onstelly:
At the bolded ones I don't think she did it for her own selfish reasons, if you ask me she did it with the interest of both her and her partner at heart

pinceprinz:
Why is most of this op's thread always garnered around exposing the uncouthness of men? kilode gangan , mo fe mo mimzy.

onstelly:
My friend my friend Where have u been

...sweety,I was banned
buh am back now...how ur husba....

mimzy:
I was chatting with a colleague of mine (male) amebo things and we got talking bout relationships. One conversation led to another and he made this statement 'I CAN NEVER EVER SHARE MY WIFE!!! infact wife is too deep , i can never ever share my girlfriend with another man'. And i was like really

Before you crucify me, This guy has about five girlfriends that i know of (they come around) and i'm very sure he has more. He wants them to be faithful to him and he is actually cheating on them all . Isn't this selfishness of the highest order
so i told him i'll use his mini story as a case study .

No matter how sensitive or "different" men declare themselves to be they always end up being more interested in making themselves happy than making you happy...all the while expecting you to take care of them when they are sick, cook for them when they are hungry, sleep with them when they want sex. In my experience the only time a man is ever warm or understanding is when he wants pleasing of some kind. No matter how evolved they think they are, that is ultimately what they think your purpose is. To make them feel good. To serve them...but only when it suits them...

Guys/Ladies, in all sincerity, who is more selfish in nature

refiner:
...sweety,I was banned

buh am back now...how ur husba....

onstelly:
Choi sorry
That goat, he should be around the corner
Whose husband

...lol!...ur husba..... don turn to goat!...

u keep replying him dats y he continued spreading ur name upandan,just try ignoring him!

well,I will be glad to come eat jollof wif u guys!

refiner:
I fink women are more selfish!....yea guys are selfish buh women are more selfish!....


op d example u sited above was from just a friend of urs and it apply to some men too buh most women does all DAT and even more!....dey might date more Dan 10 men,each has dere purpose......maybe one for sex,one for money,one for love,etcetera!

dey mostly fink abt demslves wifout feelings for oders!

mimzy:
hmmm. well said. but i still think men are fundamentally more selfish." Unlike women, "they're simply less interested in people. And they're less empathetic.

hmmm. well said. but i still think men are fundamentally more selfish." Unlike women, "they're simply less interested in people. And they're less empathetic.