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sinaj:
I know a couple that met on nl that are getting married soon.



Not errione likes attention.

KingCheezyPuff:
Everybody else is arguin' so I'll help you op

Don't pm her if you haven't had conversation with her here first.
Give her chance to know you a bit and you her.
She'd more likely be respective to your pm then.

And when you talk with her here don't tell her you like/love/have a crush on her.
IT's not at all flattering forsomeone you don't know to bombard you with words of "love"
Talk to her normally.
Talk to her regularly but don't pester her with constant attention.
Take it slow an gradually work into an acquaintance with her.
Then send that pm.

HateU2:
Cutehector
Words are not just enuf.


Whenever a guy sends me pm, I browse tru his profile and see his 'comments'. Some guys are just tooo abusive and it's annoying. I hardly reply pms thou.

Just be urself and be nice wen commenting. Nobody wants a 'kid'

Decker:
I understand your point. But you can't rule out the fact that NL is a platform to meet people and make friends. You musn't have to know a girl first offline before chatting with her online. I know people who have met themselves on NL and have become good friends in real life.

And he isn't crushing on pictures. If for instance I go to google images and on the search box I type "pretty female," the search results will return pictures of random females who are pretty. If I save one of those pictures on my phone and begin to develop a crush on her, and think about her all the time, then that means I am crushing on a picture, because she is just a random girl I know nothing about and probably will never meet.

But the OP isn't crushing on a random image. He is crushing on the human behind the picture. A human controls the account and the picture is just a means of identification. He might not just be attracted to her photo, but also her comments and personality(which although I know could be a facade, but there is still a chance it might not be) and he wants to get her attention and know her better. He isn't committing any crime. If and when he gets to meet her and she turns out not to be what he initially thought, then that's his own cup of tea.

And the OP didn't create this thread to asslick anyone. He didn't even mention the girl's name. He just asked for tips on how to get her attention.

lapazi:
I knw I could easily just attach her moniker to the post...but even that will be crossing the line for me...but I'm pretty sure she will eventually see this. I don't want to look too desperate.
But cutehector you na boss na...I knw you have some tricks up your sleeve...pls help a bro out

lapazi:
well said... its funny how some people take things too personal on Nairaland... he seemed very pained

falconey:
things too personal

he seemed pained

do you even know what those mean?

lapazi:
Really
Pls could be kind enough to find out how the guy pulled it off

HateU2:
Cutehector
Words are not just enuf.


Whenever a guy sends me pm, I browse tru his profile and see his 'comments'. Some guys are just tooo abusive and it's annoying. I hardly reply pms thou.

Just be urself and be nice wen commenting. Nobody wants a 'kid'

falconey:
slowpoke don't you have girls around you? place of work, vicinity etc?


keep fooling around.

midehi2:
hey! you might not know who you meet here, alot of celebrities here, they hardly comment, don't ask me how i got to know one here

chibwike:
You are crushing on pishure
You dont even know if the girl is someone you really want.
Ugly people find dates online.

falconey:
who needs them?

HateU2:
Cutehector
Words are not just enuf.


Whenever a guy sends me pm, I browse tru his profile and see his 'comments'. Some guys are just tooo abusive and it's annoying. I hardly reply pms thou.

Just be urself and be nice wen commenting. Nobody wants a 'kid'

KingCheezyPuff:
Everybody else is arguin' so I'll help you op

Don't pm her if you haven't had conversation with her here first.
Give her chance to know you a bit and you her.
She'd more likely be respective to your pm then.

And when you talk with her here don't tell her you like/love/have a crush on her.
It's not at all flattering for someone you don't know to bombard you with words of "love"
Talk to her normally.
Talk to her regularly but don't pester her with constant attention.
Take it slow an gradually work into an acquaintance with her.
Then send that pm.

lapazi:
The other day I saw a topic on front page that says "couples that met on Twitter are now engage".
It got me really thinking, there is this nice lady I'm really crushing-on here on nairaland....I have followed her (she refuses to follow back), I have sent PMs on several occasions (no reply)...I'm even begining to think its probably a guy behind the Monika.
Why can't we see topics like "couples that met on nairaland are now engaged"?
I mean how do you get the attention of someone you like on Nairaland to like you back?
or is this impossible?
Please romancelanders I need your help on this.
No bashing Abeg, this is matter of the heart

100Cents:
Thanks.

Wait dude,you related ta 49cents

unapapadeycraze:
you get time sha.

You must have gone through my posts, am i abusive?

Cutehector:
oh cmon hat.eu2, if a guy isn't abusive nw, u people will tag him a sissy just like irene... I knew u wouldn't even reply my pm, d reason why I neva bothered to send any.

midehi2:
you just said it all and most times a faceless being will send a pm too, how on earth will one know if hes a kid coz alot of kids on nairaland

100Cents:
Cant take your name serious.

Hate hmm

KingCheezyPuff:
Everybody else is arguin' so I'll help you op

Don't pm her if you haven't had conversation with her here first.
Give her chance to know you a bit and you her.
She'd more likely be respective to your pm then.

And when you talk with her here don't tell her you like/love/have a crush on her.
It's not at all flattering for someone you don't know to bombard you with words of "love"
Talk to her normally.
Talk to her regularly but don't pester her with constant attention.
Take it slow an gradually work into an acquaintance with her.
Then send that pm.

HateU2:
Clap 4 yaself

Cutehector:
lol why

KingCheezyPuff:
Everybody else is arguin' so I'll help you op

Don't pm her if you haven't had conversation with her here first.
Give her chance to know you a bit and you her.
She'd more likely be respective to your pm then.

And when you talk with her here don't tell her you like/love/have a crush on her.
It's not at all flattering for someone you don't know to bombard you with words of "love"
Talk to her normally.
Talk to her regularly but don't pester her with constant attention.
Take it slow an gradually work into an acquaintance with her.
Then send that pm.

HateU2:
bcox u no send pm

HateU2:
Cutehector
Words are not just enuf.


Whenever a guy sends me pm, I browse tru his profile and see his 'comments'. Some guys are just tooo abusive and it's annoying. I hardly reply pms thou.

Just be urself and be nice wen commenting. Nobody wants a 'kid'

lilzcee:
u never fall in love before

sapiosexual1:
My guy are you a learner? NL babe? Seriously? Issorai

HateU2:

What does love have to do with this bro