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pbs4real:
cum nah u dey dt ur dp

Genea:
yes ofcourse

Maamin:
Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy



The hookup culture in modern society makes it look like Sex is the best way to finding the right one. This has totally damaged the dating culture in out society because relationships are now more focused on Sexual intimacy than emotional intimacy.



Women tend to disregard emotional intimacy which includes sharing each other’s experiences, opinions and feelings and would feel guilty about not jumping into bed too soon with a guy they like.

As much as physical intimacy is important, there’s always a reward for waiting. Inspired by YourTango, here are three things to consider before having Sex with your partner.



1. Are you both interested in staying together in long-term commitment:
Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy. You have to first see yourself in a committed relationship with your partner otherwise, save yourself the heartbreak.



2. Are you satisfied with where you both stand:
Emotional security is constantly overlooked by most people and if you can’t honestly give a ‘yes’ to if you are both secure then you should reconsider the Sex. idea.

3. Do you both share the same ideas and values:
It’s not how he feels about you, it’s how you feel about him. You should know how he fits into your life in terms of certain values such as work-life balance, religion, lifestyle, parenting style, religion, money management.



http://app.pulse.ng/relationships/for-ladies-only-dont-have-sex-with-him-till-you-consider-these-3-important-things-id4444430.html

Genea:
evening

Mercyhosas:
So true. Team Virginia

Dojupyo:
Don't have sex with him until you're both married..
That's what I know and was taught.. Not the other way round

BumBae:
Wetin be ur own lol ..

grad2012:
even if I changed it it will still be the same,then the question will be why do you like changing your pics everyday?
Can't stress myself just let be there will do so when I want too atleast am not naked or showing any flesh.
Lols why am I even answering you sef.

Genea:
yes ofcourse

pbs4real:
lol, cum wen ur location turn surulere?

petkoffdrake2:
Sister Gradice... This ur back-side can fit injure person

Dojupyo:
Don't have sex with him until you're both married..
That's what I know and was taught.. Not the other way round

pbs4real:
so u wont ans b4 shey Lemme catch u first,u go hear am hot 4 my hand.

Dojupyo:
Don't have sex with him until you're both married..
That's what I know and was taught.. Not the other way round

grad2012:
True talk.

Maamin:
Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy



The hookup culture in modern society makes it look like Sex is the best way to finding the right one. This has totally damaged the dating culture in out society because relationships are now more focused on Sexual intimacy than emotional intimacy.



Women tend to disregard emotional intimacy which includes sharing each other’s experiences, opinions and feelings and would feel guilty about not jumping into bed too soon with a guy they like.

As much as physical intimacy is important, there’s always a reward for waiting. Inspired by YourTango, here are three things to consider before having Sex with your partner.



1. Are you both interested in staying together in long-term commitment:
Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy. You have to first see yourself in a committed relationship with your partner otherwise, save yourself the heartbreak.



2. Are you satisfied with where you both stand:
Emotional security is constantly overlooked by most people and if you can’t honestly give a ‘yes’ to if you are both secure then you should reconsider the Sex. idea.

3. Do you both share the same ideas and values:
It’s not how he feels about you, it’s how you feel about him. You should know how he fits into your life in terms of certain values such as work-life balance, religion, lifestyle, parenting style, religion, money management.



http://app.pulse.ng/relationships/for-ladies-only-dont-have-sex-with-him-till-you-consider-these-3-important-things-id4444430.html

pbs4real:
seen that pix somewre b4

yinkslinks:
OP na una dey make rape cases high now for naija

otunba88:
Bros OP, na ladies dey ask for sex nowadays. Even we the responsible guys re confused nd irritated.

maestroz:
@OP

konji no dey understand this write up nor grammar. when konji hold you, you go begin speak in unknown tongues

CaroLyner:
NOOOOOOO.only do it if you've both tied the knot

adroitvezy:
I'm sure this OP is either pretending or he's a learner.

freecocoa:
Like seriously?


Well, I guess this can apply to people who may be thinking of being together long term.

Missmossy:
True!! In addition to other things that are essential.

Maamin:
So u dont plan to be together for long term?

Emmahunk:
Maybe in a sane Society, right now in Nigeria, all that matters is cash. No one is interested in love anymore. With the right cash or fame, you can buy yourself a husband or wife.
A female Facebook friend sent me this ;

freecocoa:
Some people just want only sex with someone, you know.

Doesn't always have to be long term and this isn't about me.

Smartguy001:
OP see ur BIG Head...so u won spoil show abi