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| "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by ArinzeAlec(m): 6:26am On Apr 11, 2016 |
I hear some women say things like "No matter what she says to you, you have no right to hit her". Oh yes, most men are adherance to that but can we be for real once? When a man fights his follow man who says even less than what she says to him? I agree with a man not hitting a woman but i think we should balance this advise we give sometimes abeg. YES! He has no right to hit you. But you have a "FEMINIST GIVEN" right to blatantly verbally berate him continuously. You expect him to be a gentle man and walk away, while you be a wild lady pursuing him room by room to scatter him with abuses. I would never be a party to man constantly hitting his wife/girlfriend at a slight provocation but when pushed the wall, the pusheee should be called to order. What happened to learning the bitter way? Something is wrong with this picture, unu ihota m at all? 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by chocolateme(f): 6:31am On Apr 11, 2016 |
Ok |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by Nobody: 6:33am On Apr 11, 2016 |
Is it monday already  |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by Nobody: 6:39am On Apr 11, 2016 |
crotonite:It is o.. N the traffic is crazy... Were haf all these people been living sef..!!  |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by Nobody: 6:46am On Apr 11, 2016 |
Really?? Any man who hits a woman is a big coward. Men are supposed to love women while women be submissive. The moment a man hits a woman its shows that he hasnt gotten the balls to subdue and he is a coward. If his fellow man does the same thing that made him hit the woman he would remain still but would quickly lash out on a lady. This shows that he is a brain dead cow who would hit a woman just because he can.. I repeat any man who lift a finger against a lady is a coward.. Mtcheww |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by Bluezy13(m): 6:50am On Apr 11, 2016 |
Hehehe... Hitting a woman is unmanly. But some women really need hitting sha  |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by Nobody: 6:56am On Apr 11, 2016 |
lol I disagree with you op. if she verbally berates you, you can verbally berate her right back. if she hits you, you can hit her back. Don't go and be hitting women because they insulted you. what happened to your own mouth? insult her back cause in that vein you are both equal. in terms of physical strength, you at an advantage so don't go swinging at her unless in self defence or in retaliation to physical abuse. 9 Likes |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by ArinzeAlec(m): 7:00am On Apr 11, 2016 |
baebae: You made no point or obviously did not understand the post. Words from a wild mouthed individual goes straight up the soul. It beats down emotionally especially when it comes from the one you love? I will say it till tomorrow that if a female is in an abusive relationship, he really should save herself. I wouldnt support my friend hitting his woman but some of yall females tend to hide under the umbrella of "No matter what she says to you, you have no right to hit her", if he does, his a coward but she beats him with her words, she what? Be real, if you see your mama always dey bad mouth your papa yet the man no do anything caution am, whom you go side please?? 2 Likes |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by ArinzeAlec(m): 7:03am On Apr 11, 2016 |
Bluezy13:slap na manual reset bro. Na to apply am when due 2 Likes |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by iPopAlomo(m): 7:07am On Apr 11, 2016 |
there's nothing bad in manually resetting a girls brain... 4 Likes |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by Bluezy13(m): 7:07am On Apr 11, 2016 |
ArinzeAlec:Abi 1 Like |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by LazyWasterners: 7:07am On Apr 11, 2016 |
Why hit her when u can leave the house for her? By the time she spends 2days without seeing who to abuse her brain will reset. |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by Bluezy13(m): 7:11am On Apr 11, 2016 |
Rxpetite:No matter what; never raise you hand on a woman. If she hits you, walk away... If she blatantly berates you and there is no room to walk away, be quite and think about something else better. You can always discuss it later...depending on you. Always be in control... of yourself! |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by Nobody: 7:11am On Apr 11, 2016 |
ArinzeAlec:excuse me bro, i do not support women being disrespectful and i am not an advocate of gender equality as i stated in my post because i believe women should be submissive and all that. But no matter what she does a woman should not be hit by a man. I say this without apology. Yes SOME not ALL women can be difficult but it is the duty of the man to cleverly SUBDue her without violence.. Men too are no walk in the park. So at the end it just boils down to the level of understanding communication and maturity of both parties in resolving quarrels when they arise which is bound to happen in every friendship relationship and marriage. 1 Like |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by ArinzeAlec(m): 7:13am On Apr 11, 2016 |
Rxpetite: Insult her back really? Haba! Two people can be mad together na. Asin which sane man would to stand to dey exchange words with a female? Lol! Me self Fit not. Hitting her is not to prove superiority, rather to correct her to opte for better choice of words to use. I wouldnt even hit a woman for pleasure. Most men wont. 2 Likes |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by obiorathesubtle: 7:17am On Apr 11, 2016 |
baebae:well said.. But what would you say about an annoying woman? Who nags, abuses, and brings disgrace to a man... Constantly!! What would you call her?? What would you tell her to do?? You'd tell her Stop right?? Well.. What if she doesn't stop?? Have you heard the story about the man who couldn't hit his wife even just once??.. Lemme remind you.. Very good man, could never beat his wife.. No matter what she does.. And his wife pushed the boundaries, she was out of control.... Did whatever.. One day, she invited another man over.. So they could _fuck.. She wasn't gonna hide from her husband.. She wanted her husband to see her _fucking another man.. The husband came back, saw them _fucking.. Didn't utter a word.. Greeted em.. Went to the sitting room, put on the TV.. Acted like nothing was up.. Her lover, all remorseful and all.. Left the house in shame.. But the woman, She went straight to her husband.. Calling him names.. "Coward.. Idiot.. Ball less swine.." Etc.. She said he has no sense.., he caught her sleeping with another man and did nothing.. She went on and on about his inability to be a man and stop walking away all the time.. The man was boiling.. You can't blame him.. He's only human.. Then hell was let loose..she finally got him to beat her.. And he did.. All that anger bottled up inside for years came right out!! He didn't spare any effort to make her suffer in pain.. The story ends where the nagging woman dies.. You know what happens next?? The guy spends the rest of his life in Jail.. Now, I'm not saying a man should beat a woman under a certain circumstance.. I'm asking.. Since you've said a man shouldn't even contemplate hitting a woman "no matter what".. Are you saying women are free to annoy?? As much as they can?? And not fear, because they'll never feel the consequence?? Anyway.. If you decide to reply.. I want you to only type sth to women who would even contemplate annoying a man.. That's all I want.. 3 Likes |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by Bluezy13(m): 7:22am On Apr 11, 2016 |
ArinzeAlec:As stated above: Subdue her without violence Peradventure you are married; How long will you keep hitting her? ?? Would you hit her when you both age How would your children feel seeing you hit your wife, their mother If you can hit her now, be sure to hit her perhaps, 50+ years later... |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by Nobody: 7:26am On Apr 11, 2016 |
obiorathesubtle: |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by Nobody: 7:29am On Apr 11, 2016 |
ArinzeAlec: two people cant be mad? so hitting her makes you the sane party? sweet heart hitting her while knowing you are stronger is fighting dirty so expect a direct kick in the groin. if you are going to take advantage of my lack of physical strength, you can be sure I'll take advantage of your weakness. its not like she became mad without provocation. You can't make somebody mad and expect her to be silent |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by Bluezy13(m): 7:29am On Apr 11, 2016 |
obiorathesubtle:Sorry, can't obey your last Paragraph. Back to the issue; Walking away doesn't mean you wouldn't discuss it later. In your story, the man never talked it calmly aftermath with the wife. If he did, the wife would definitely have come to her senses. The bottom line is that: A man should marry a woman he knows and understands |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by Nobody: 7:31am On Apr 11, 2016 |
obiorathesubtle: the story u gave is obviously fake.. No doubt abt that. As i said earlier it all comes down to the maturity of both individuals. I do not support ladies disrespecting men. men are always complaining that women nag and all that but they too are very difficult. Understanding is the key to this issue |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by ArinzeAlec(m): 7:31am On Apr 11, 2016 |
LazyWasterners: Leaving the house would soon be a routine that attimes, she go challenge you saying "Afterall, highest wey you fit do na to commot go your girlfriends dem house". It leads to depression and to slow death in all research i have made 1 Like |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by Nobody: 7:34am On Apr 11, 2016 |
Bluezy13: if you are not going to walk away after being hit by a man then I won't ask you to walk when it involves a woman. That would kind of defeat the whole idea of feminism never mind sounding hypocritical |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by Nobody: 7:35am On Apr 11, 2016 |
Bluezy13: if you are not going to walk away after being hit by a man then I won't ask you to walk when it involves a woman. That would kind of defeat the whole idea of feminism never mind sounding hypocritical |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by ArinzeAlec(m): 7:38am On Apr 11, 2016 |
baebae: understanding, yes but not when something is constantly repeated after the walking out on her, rejecting her meals, leaving the house. One should stand up to this problems, not let it out weigh him 2 Likes |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by ArinzeAlec(m): 8:04am On Apr 11, 2016 |
Bluezy13: Non of our options should even be considered if debated. My suggestion still remains, correct an issues before it gets out of hand Running away from it defines unmanly 1 Like |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by ArinzeAlec(m): 8:06am On Apr 11, 2016 |
baebae: understanding, yes but not when something is constantly repeated after the walking out on her, rejecting her meals, leaving the house. One should stand up to this problems, not let it out weigh him |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by Strahovski1(m): 8:19am On Apr 11, 2016 |
BS thread... real men don't lay hands on women. What does a woman want to say to you that will push you to hit her? If a man says same thing would you just hit him like that? No you won't. You might want to make it verbal at first except he goes violent. Same with a woman. Unless she is violent you have no right to hit a woman. It's even illegal hitting another person. (Male or female) the woman can report to the police. |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by Bluezy13(m): 9:31am On Apr 11, 2016 |
Rxpetite:That depends on individual's ideology. The morale remains that no responsible man lays hands on a woman |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by emperorchedda(m): 9:45am On Apr 11, 2016 |
baebae:You just said NOTHING Read the OP and type again 1 Like |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by Section8(m): 11:32am On Apr 11, 2016 |
There are some ladies with python tongues that deserve a reset to factory settings. Although I will never hit a girl 1st, but if she try am!! She don die!! I dey fast kill am 1 Like |
| Re: "No Matter What She Says To You, You Have No Right To Hit Her" Says Who? by cr7lomo: 12:00pm On Apr 11, 2016 |
baebae: I dont know if u are a graduate, but if u are...i doubt if you wrote your exams urself 2 Likes |
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