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Re: When Did U Loose Hope In True Love by charijee(f): 6:32pm On Apr 13, 2016

JeffreyJamez:
rants?

[color=#CD1076]Yes, rants[/color]

Re: When Did U Loose Hope In True Love by JeffreyJamez(m): 6:45pm On Apr 13, 2016

charijee:
[color=#CD1076]Yes, rants[/color]

Where

Re: When Did U Loose Hope In True Love by charijee(f): 6:50pm On Apr 13, 2016

JeffreyJamez:
Where?

[color=#CD1076]There[/color]

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Re: When Did U Loose Hope In True Love by Nturguy1122: 7:00pm On Apr 13, 2016

About to...Am sure it'll happen pretty soon

Re: When Did U Loose Hope In True Love by ifeajikap(op): 7:19pm On Apr 13, 2016

Oche211:
hehehehehehehe take heart man bt was the back to back a hit?

super hit

Re: When Did U Loose Hope In True Love by schumastic(m): 7:20pm On Apr 13, 2016

MRBrownJ:
you see the love you have for your parents/family?! then the day you feel the same way about a partner then you wont be too far from TRUE love (if you have a fukced r/ship with your family then disregard this)
IMHO, love and true love is mostly the same thing, with slightly different intensity/aim. love has levels, there is the love for a buddy, then love for family/friends, which has the same intensity as the love for a partner... and then there is that extra push where true love finds itself... where your own being as an individual doesnt matter as much as what you guys are sharing. you cant find true love before finding love, and it is simply the obvious result when the LOVE plant has been watered right.
its an emotion where you elevate to a state of mind where that feeling takes over and overlooks some things that love may not. see these old people who 1st loved each other for a certain reason (physical/emotional etc) and then after few decades, they havent got that physical anymore but yet are still deeply loving one another? they've elevated to that true love state of mind state, where you guys are TRULY one.

its easy to love and accept a person because of a few details about them, but finding that person that connects with you, to the point where you can let go of yourself, open up yourself, fully and that everything about them makes sense in your life, isnt easy.

sadly many african brothas cant trust a person fully enough to remotely fall in love with anyone.

i wish we can see one on one and have this convo..meanwhile from your definition i see where you are actually coming from and my reason why i still stand on my ground...

like you said up there about finding that person that would make you experience ''true love'' is hard and to me, the chance is 1% cus of the sacrifices required by both party to make it stand the test of time..another thing i will like to draw your attention is the fact that is not a one sided thing meaning both have to give it their all, not where one party is giving his or her all and the other is not. Also in this current world we are in, if we leave sentiment and face the realities in life, we would understand more about the true love itself..

if you ask a person to describe the person he or she would want to spend the rest of their life with, they would come up with a list and image of what they want that person to look like and possess in characters and possessions.meanwhile, they forget the fact that such a person may not want them as the someone who they would like to spend the rest of their life with as well..

''sadly many african brothas cant trust a person fully enough to remotely fall in love with anyone.'' to me is not the africa brothers ish but a general issue and not only brothers but sisters as well cus often times they must have trust someone in one way or another but got disappointed at the end.. reason they find it hard to trust..a friend once told me ''IS GOOD TO TRUST BUT IS BETTER NOT TO'' and i agree with him.

true love and trust go hand in hand but if you ask a person can you trust the person you are dating? you will get mixed answers but deep within those that say yes, you will notice an atom of doubt in them...

Psalms 118:8 - It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in man.

Micah 7:5 - Trust ye not in a friend, put ye not confidence in a guide: keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom.

that's for saying i don't know much about the bible..like i said earlier would have preferred a one on one argument on this to learn one or two.. atletico and barca match is next wink

Re: When Did U Loose Hope In True Love by ifeajikap(op): 7:30pm On Apr 13, 2016

schumastic:
i wish we can see one on one and have this convo..meanwhile from your definition i see where you are actually coming from and my reason why i still stand on my ground...

like you said up there about finding that person that would make you experience ''true love'' is hard and to me, the chance is 1% cus of the sacrifices required by both party to make it stand the test of time..another thing i will like to draw your attention is the fact that is not a one sided thing meaning both have to give it their all, not where one party is giving his or her all and the other is not. Also in this current world we are in, if we leave sentiment and face the realities in life, we would understand more about the true love itself..

if you ask a person to describe the person he or she would want to spend the rest of their life with, they would come up with a list and image of what they want that person to look like and possess in characters and possessions.meanwhile, they forget the fact that such a person may not want them as the someone who they would like to spend the rest of their life with as well..

''sadly many african brothas cant trust a person fully enough to remotely fall in love with anyone.'' to me is not the africa brothers ish but a general issue and not only brothers but sisters as well cus often times they must have trust someone in one way or another but got disappointed at the end.. reason they find it hard to trust..a friend once told me ''IS GOOD TO TRUST BUT IS BETTER NOT TO'' and i agree with him.

true love and trust go hand in hand but if you ask a person can you trust the person you are dating? you will get mixed answers but deep within those that say yes, you will notice an atom of doubt in them...

Psalms 118:8 - It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in man.

Micah 7:5 - Trust ye not in a friend, put ye not confidence in a guide: keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom.

that's for saying i don't know much about the bible..like i said earlier would have preferred a one on one argument on this to learn one or two.. atletico and barca match is next

shuma awfa

Re: When Did U Loose Hope In True Love by Jessidaisy4(f): 9:40pm On Apr 13, 2016

sexymoma:
what do you know bout love... c'mon get inside small gurl like you... who dey expect make u get bf before

Re: When Did U Loose Hope In True Love by Jessidaisy4(f): 9:40pm On Apr 13, 2016

sexymoma:
what do you know bout love... c'mon get inside small gurl like you... who dey expect make u get bf before

Why does everyone keep calling me a small girl/kid on nairaland. Hmmm, i guess its cos i look so young huh

Re: When Did U Loose Hope In True Love by chigoizie7(m): 11:04pm On Apr 13, 2016

I lost all hope in 2010, because it doesn't exist, so I stopped expecting/looking for it long time ago.

Re: When Did U Loose Hope In True Love by Aromas: 11:46pm On Apr 13, 2016

Jessidaisy4:
I've never dated anyone!

Same also to me, but will you give mi a trial huh

. Serious!!!

Re: When Did U Loose Hope In True Love by schumastic(m): 4:34pm On Apr 15, 2016

ifeajikap:
shuma awfa

i dey bro, hope you are good.

Re: When Did U Loose Hope In True Love by ifeajikap(op): 6:56pm On Apr 15, 2016

schumastic:
i dey bro, hope you are good.

I dy manage o

Re: When Did U Loose Hope In True Love by MRBrownJ: 8:08pm On Apr 15, 2016

schumastic:
i wish we can see one on one and have this convo..meanwhile from your definition i see where you are actually coming from and my reason why i still stand on my ground...

its ok to have difference of opinion

like you said up there about finding that person that would make you experience ''true love'' is hard and to me, the chance is 1% cus of the sacrifices required by both party to make it stand the test of time..another thing i will like to draw your attention is the fact that is not a one sided thing meaning both have to give it their all, not where one party is giving his or her all and the other is not. Also in this current world we are in, if we leave sentiment and face the realities in life, we would understand more about the true love itself..

the above to me is a cheap way to give up while blaming it all on whatever unrelated issues, instead of keeping searching for that one and only. even if the chances were 0.001%, you still have a duty towards "yourself", to seek for that person who will take your life from good to FANTASTIC, that person that will make you discover the best ever version of yourself. yes, its "possible" to live the rest of your life without true love, but what is the point of living, if you aint remotely hoping to WIN?

if you ask a person to describe the person he or she would want to spend the rest of their life with, they would come up with a list and image of what they want that person to look like and possess in characters and possessions.meanwhile, they forget the fact that such a person may not want them as the someone who they would like to spend the rest of their life with as well..

but there is that special someone out there, and unless you keep being open minded and aiming for her, you may never find her.

''sadly many african brothas cant trust a person fully enough to remotely fall in love with anyone.'' to me is not the africa brothers ish but a general issue and not only brothers but sisters as well cus often times they must have trust someone in one way or another but got disappointed at the end.. reason they find it hard to trust..a friend once told me ''IS GOOD TO TRUST BUT IS BETTER NOT TO'' and i agree with him.

A) disappointments in love are a learning process and shouldnt be used as a reason to stop believing in love.

B) the above in bold is such a cheap, lazy, coward way to look at love, because i doubt you ever stopped seeking to be rich, simply because you had a few obstacles, so why act differently with love?!
if a man remotely hope to find true love then he MUST open up to his partner so that she can know/understand/feel/read and possibly love his true self. the only way to achieve that is if/when they both stop treating each other as an enemy, and instead as allies who will have your best interest at heart. when the time is right, you MUST open up and let your partner into your MIND/SOUL/SPIRIT/THOUGHTS and also be fully honest about your FEARS/FUTURE/HOPES/DREAMS.
you can NEVER find true love if you dont... and therefore, this is the reason why many brothas and sistas dont. how can anyone think they can find true love with a "stranger"?! makes no damn sense.

true love and trust go hand in hand but if you ask a person can you trust the person you are dating? you will get mixed answers but deep within those that say yes, you will notice an atom of doubt in them...

trust must be earned, but if you cant ever trust someone that has never given you a reason NOT to, then the problem is YOU, and true love there will never be until you fix yourself... because you are emotionally damaged good!

Psalms 118:8 - It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in man.
Micah 7:5 - Trust ye not in a friend, put ye not confidence in a guide: keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom.

here are other verses for you to consider:
1 John 4:8 Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.
1 John 4:18 There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.
1 Peter 4:8 Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.

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