Chai! If woman fit change her number, then she be ogbologbo for the game she go too bamboozle her man if she commit any offence. Chai! Diaris God ooh! Women sef

OK

You don't need to change your number if you don't wish to do so. BUT, you have to find a lasting solution to your ex's calls. You either tell him politely or block his line if he proves to be stubborn. Btw, what do you guys still talk about self?

Its not compulsry, but u have given him a reason to insist on it. Is ur ex aware u are married? If yes to this question, and he still calls you,and u pick. Then its justified, infact i will also insist on u deactivating ur social media accounts. You have not given him a reason to trust you.

Kachisbarbie:
It's not, can never be. I have friends that willingly changed theirs, they weren't coerced into doing it. I didn't change mine, though I have a main line and work line_ I separate work from family.

In a situation where you personally admitted your ex calls is the reason for his decision, tell your ex to stop calling you kwanu or block his number, old things have passed away_ oro tuntun lanso bayi.

Other calls would naturally reduce with time.

Madame oluwaburna, you need to speak sense into op's head. She speaks woth her ex on phone in her husband's house?



I'm guessing g her hubby is one of those weaklings masquerading as men




I'm sure if she changed her number she would still give her ex the number


Nonsense

skywife:
Dear Nairaland family.

Have been married for a couple of months now and my spouse have been disturbing and threatening me to dispose my sim cards that everything about me needs to change since am now a married woman.He complain alot about frequent calls by my ex,to be sincere I have nothing to do with anyone again since am married and have explain to him but he wouldn't listen.I told him I have other business partners that calls on this same number and one of this line is for business and am well known with it,am scared I might lose some vital businesses or contracts due to this.I told him but all proved aborted.This has been an issue and am fed up.Is it mandatory after I changed name I should also change number? PLZ ADVICE ME

if that will make him happy disposed it except you dont wanna let go ur past.

Endtime ex. Better 'deactivate' him before he deactivates ur marriage.

Naawaaaooo me I can't change my number like that, since its my business line

If you once did Olosho business with the number, you have to destroy it and buy a virgin SIM, if not, your customers will break your home.

Thank me later

FREQUENT calls from your EX?

You are looking for big troubles, madam.

xtervaganza:
she was speaking with her ex on phone.



I wouldn't ask her to change her number though, I'll just send her away

Then it means you aren't mature enough for marriage. I am married doesn't mean I will automatically alienate the whole world. I am not so insecure that I will start crying blue murder because my husband's ex called him. If they remain friends it isn't a problem, as long as nothing is going on underneath.

Ha hah hah... change numbers for what? Will you also change your face and history?

But seriously, you know you can easily block your ex's number from your phone, if that's the issue. You can show hubby that, since you've blocked your ex, no calls or messages can come through.

Then again, I'm not entirely sure about this your husband sef. Even if a woman gets a new phone number and sim, nothing stops her from hiding her old sim in a "side phone" that she can do her dirt with. Ode

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The moment you noticed your ex calling you frequently was the moment you should've blocked his #. You're now a married woman and there're certain things you shouldn't be tolerating: your ex calling you should be one.

Nairalanders pls can any help with two bed or room and parlour self contain around Egbeda,Odin axis.tnks. I mean idimu/sasa

Ishilove:
The way some people carry this marriage thing enh. Mscheeeew. Why on earth will I change my number?

If only you will behave then you are allowed to use your old number but if not.....

I didn't come to comment, I only came to tell that Moderator that Banned me



Any were he/she sees me they should run away or else,



something will happen

That man must be very jealous.

Change the line if that's what he wants for peace to rein bt those who want to contact u will some how get ur new line so what's the point?.

Try and change ur number so DAT u will not always be at loggerhead over trivial issues.

Change SIM kwa

if she was a run girl she should.



all those guys will not give up

skywife:
Dear Nairaland family.

Have been married for a couple of months now and my spouse have been disturbing and threatening me to dispose my sim cards that everything about me needs to change since am now a married woman.He complain alot about frequent calls by my ex,to be sincere I have nothing to do with anyone again since am married and have explain to him but he wouldn't listen.I told him I have other business partners that calls on this same number and one of this line is for business and am well known with it,am scared I might lose some vital businesses or contracts due to this.I told him but all proved aborted.This has been an issue and am fed up.Is it mandatory after I changed name I should also change number? PLZ ADVICE ME

Its important u change it for peace
Even though it may take a time.
Get a new sim and start telling business associates about it.
My candid advice

You are newly married and you carried your marriage matter to NL to seek advise from some ladies who are still thinking of when someone would propose to them let alone of marriage, some boys who judge marriage from boy friend/ girlfriend paspective and those who claim to be !married but couldn't build a happy home.

Sisto, you better listen to your husband to save your infant marriage!

bro, if you can't change it then I will advice to subscribe monthly subscription sharp sharp and download CALL AND SMS BLOCKER IN PLAYSTORE AND block all your EX PHONE LINES.. JUST SUGGESTING SHA

femijossy:
If she be olowo as single girl then its very very mandatory

Why should it be mandatory if she's rich? Insecurity I guess?

Ishilove:
The way some people carry this marriage thing enh. Mscheeeew. Why on earth will I change my number?

"Why on earth should she still entatain calls from her ex?"

This question is a petinent question, not the one you just asked.

Change number?? Why?? All yhu need do is tell mr Ex to stop calling na, or u ddnt tell him u'r married?

this situation usually happen to ladies that hav skeleton in their cupboard. or hav lived a suspicious life in the past. If not that, I don't think there should be any problem because am also married and I didn't say my wife should change her number

Seems you are not ready for the marriage. Your oga says disposes that means not only ur ex that is calling. Sit and ask yourself if truly you want to stay with the man. If yes. Then run away from temptation.