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Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by skywife: 6:31pm On Apr 13, 2016
Dear Nairaland family.

Have been married for a couple of months now and my spouse have been disturbing and threatening me to dispose my sim cards that everything about me needs to change since am now a married woman.He complain alot about frequent calls by my ex,to be sincere I have nothing to do with anyone again since am married and have explain to him but he wouldn't listen.I told him I have other business partners that calls on this same number and one of this line is for business and am well known with it,am scared I might lose some vital businesses or contracts due to this.I told him but all proved aborted.This has been an issue and am fed up.Is it mandatory after I changed name I should also change number? PLZ ADVICE ME

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by Justycxx(m): 6:32pm On Apr 13, 2016
grabs a cushion. Waiting to read comments

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by Prevho: 6:36pm On Apr 13, 2016
so your ex still calls you? then your husband is justified. I just pity you. men can cheat for any reason.

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by Nobody: 6:36pm On Apr 13, 2016
It's not, can never be. I have friends that willingly changed theirs, they weren't coerced into doing it. I didn't change mine, though I have a main line and work line_ I separate work from family.

In a situation where you personally admitted your ex calls is the reason for his decision, tell your ex to stop calling you kwanu or block his number, old things have passed away_ oro tuntun lanso bayi.

Other calls would naturally reduce with time.

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by darkenkach(m): 6:40pm On Apr 13, 2016
I use to think its not until my sister got married hers. She even went as far deactivating her old Facebook account and opening a new one.

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by donbenedict(m): 6:42pm On Apr 13, 2016
If u like be saying it's for business. By the time he gets to knw u are still flirting with ur exes, ur own don be.



Besides, some men should quit this over-jealous attitude abeg.. it's gettn so annoying these days.


Just tryna be fair.

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by byvan03: 7:10pm On Apr 13, 2016
I didn't change mine, it wasn't an issue for us. Did he change his?

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by Acidosis(m): 8:23pm On Apr 13, 2016
You still talk frequently with your ex?
grin grin
And you're here claiming married woman? Madam you're not a married woman yet.

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by Ishilove: 8:35pm On Apr 13, 2016
The way some people carry this marriage thing enh. Mscheeeew. Why on earth will I change my number?

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by Sunnycliff(m): 8:42pm On Apr 13, 2016
At marriage you are subject to the decisions of your husband! If you don't want change of name why get married? Is marriage by force

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by Aviero: 8:42pm On Apr 13, 2016
I can't blame your husband.

Madam, if you husband's ex still calls him, how'd you feel?

Well, changing your number means nothing. Your ex can still trace you via online platforms.

And if your ex still has your soul, then I'm sorry for your marriage. These days, things happen spontaneously, and we can't help it.

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by OLUJOSHINS(m): 8:42pm On Apr 13, 2016
No



Else I'm marrying someone with a past I cannot deal with

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by tintingz(m): 8:43pm On Apr 13, 2016
It is only someone that has skeleton in his/her cupboard that will think of changing phone contact/number.

It is NOT obligatory but Change your number if you want your marriage to last.

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by gbaskiboy(m): 8:43pm On Apr 13, 2016
To allow peace to reign in the family if your husband mandated that you should change ur numbers go ahead. When you get new number you can notify your customers or clients as the case maybe. As for ur ex(s) still calling you, I'll suggest you have them bar from calling you, the feelings you have for them before can arouse again. Play responsibly to avoid 'had I know'

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by tooman: 8:43pm On Apr 13, 2016
That one Na before before but now if she like make she useless her self forgetting she be matar aure
Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by drnairalov: 8:43pm On Apr 13, 2016
very obligatory...U see females tend to have lot of contacts.. even while in a relationship some people in that contacts are still interested.. bla bla bla...and you know some men don't take no for an answer married or not dey will still chase you. my pretty ex got married I still called up to meet..even though she wasn't comfortable with it ..she obliged me. moral of the story there re some exes no matter what u will still have soft spot for them. to avoid story that touches end all communication except business maybe undecided

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by Mopolchi: 8:44pm On Apr 13, 2016
Hmmm

Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by cold(m): 8:44pm On Apr 13, 2016
Hmmm
Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by xtervaganza(m): 8:44pm On Apr 13, 2016
skywife:
Dear Nairaland family.

Have been married for a couple of months now and my spouse have been disturbing and threatening me to dispose my sim cards that everything about me needs to change since am now a married woman.He complain alot about frequent calls by my ex,to be sincere I have nothing to do with anyone again since am married and have explain to him but he wouldn't listen.I told him I have other business partners that calls on this same number and one of this line is for business and am well known with it,am scared I might lose some vital businesses or contracts due to this.I told him but all proved aborted.This has been an issue and am fed up.Is it mandatory after I changed name I should also change number? PLZ ADVICE ME
you mean you're married and still speak with your ex on phone?




You can only try it with the fool you call husband.




Dem never born woman wey go try am with me. I'll drive her straight to her father's house and dump her there

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by BE811APP: 8:44pm On Apr 13, 2016
depends .. if she was a runs woman..

We didnt change our numbers...

But woman wey wan do runs go still do runs..

It is only God that helps!

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by mystiqueDZ(f): 8:44pm On Apr 13, 2016
Whatever for??
Block your ex from calling....
Case closed!!

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by Joyce28(f): 8:45pm On Apr 13, 2016
Hmmmm
Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by xtervaganza(m): 8:45pm On Apr 13, 2016
Ishilove:
The way some people carry this marriage thing enh. Mscheeeew. Why on earth will I change my number?
she was speaking with her ex on phone.



I wouldn't ask her to change her number though, I'll just send her away

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by jnrbayano(m): 8:46pm On Apr 13, 2016
If you are in the habit of sharing your number like groundnut, changing phone number after marriage is compulsory.

Since he is aware your ex calls you, he is justified to want you to change your line.
Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by mytime24(f): 8:46pm On Apr 13, 2016
tongue

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by donconior: 8:46pm On Apr 13, 2016
Waiting for the married to comment
Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by SimonN(m): 8:46pm On Apr 13, 2016
If you know you were a "cheerful giver", then you have to change it.

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by dozymars(m): 8:46pm On Apr 13, 2016
It is not obligatory but you have given your husband the reason to insist on you changing your sim. Why is ur ex still calling ? Obey ur husband and change it and let peace reign. Your ex should move on simple.

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Re: Is It Obligatory To Change Number After Marriage Basically For Women? by Dyt(f): 8:47pm On Apr 13, 2016
Clears throat
Deep clearing
Swallows spit

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