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Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Adaowerri111(op): 5:33pm On Apr 14, 2016
Been dating for years and today I decided to go through my Bf's pics/gallery...I found this, is it for real?

Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by halfricanadian(f): 5:37pm On Apr 14, 2016
This means d guy bought u

Chai he can do wateva he likes with u

cry cry i prefer to be seen as a companion i will b his puppet ni
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Nobody: 5:38pm On Apr 14, 2016
probably grin
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by nvictor: 5:39pm On Apr 14, 2016
Suriously. Let him negotiate those items
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Flashh:
[color=#1970BC]These massive items are only valid if they are selling their daughter for money ritual. [/color]
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by talktonase(m): 5:42pm On Apr 14, 2016
nah provision shop featuring beer parlour this people wan start for the guy head why wont he think twice.
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by DaGC(m): 5:42pm On Apr 14, 2016
I highly doubt any parent will issue such a list.

Probably just a comic relief to scare some peeps of Igbo girls.....and yes I know some family demands can be extreme, cause I've been to a few of the weddings.

As for me, there's always the power of negotiation. wink
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Adaowerri111(op): 5:45pm On Apr 14, 2016
halfricanadian:
This means d guy bought u

Chai he can do wateva he likes with u

cry cry i prefer to be seen as a companion i will b his puppet ni
lol...I will jokingly show my parents, they should know better
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by sinaj(f): 5:45pm On Apr 14, 2016
Seriously this is too much sad





They had a meeting nd reduced this item in some communities in Rivers state sometime last year.


It's just too much sad
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by gbadenor(m): 5:45pm On Apr 14, 2016
na sell dey wan sell her ni....when my cousin just wan collect 5k lasan as bride price
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by donbenedict(m): 5:50pm On Apr 14, 2016
Imo state elders will never reduce their bride price
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by panini(m): 5:50pm On Apr 14, 2016
Lol, even viju milk! How humble! cheesy
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by halfricanadian(f): 5:53pm On Apr 14, 2016
Adaowerri111:
lol...I will jokingly show my parents, they should know better
cheesy good
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Kenzico(m): 5:54pm On Apr 14, 2016
This kinda dowry is capable of making Ladies to remain spinsters till further adjustments.




This is why most ladies remain single
cry
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by umehmj(m): 5:59pm On Apr 14, 2016
grin

nobody charges that na.
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Sistem007(m): 6:04pm On Apr 14, 2016
Hehehe...Baba is still weighing his options. Am sure he is asking himself "is she really worth it?". by the way, I tot bride price was for the ladies and dowry for guys. I stand corrected though.
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by wiringdpt(m): 6:07pm On Apr 14, 2016
Not much
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Galacious1: 6:10pm On Apr 14, 2016
sinaj:
Seriously this is too much
sad
Seconded

A friend of mine had to sell his land to pay almost 1m for dowry. He always listen to my advice but he didn't involve me in this. I'm so mad at him ehn!
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Aguiyi13(m): 6:21pm On Apr 14, 2016
Is he getting married to all the maidens in her community ? ! 22 caract gold ?


tell Me his father Inlaw is a Goldsmith .



imagine
After paying all these and the bride to be, doesn't know how to prepare Our very dear jellof rice !
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by swiitJese(f): 6:21pm On Apr 14, 2016
Oho

grin

Sannunku


Wetin dem go chop after wedding? Na kwakwa?
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by MilesLamar(m): 7:09pm On Apr 14, 2016
Our Igbo sisters ain't cheap.. smiley
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by pet4ril(f):
shocked shocked shocked who will see fire and still want to enter inside?
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by cruzita(f): 7:14pm On Apr 14, 2016
shocked if na me too I go run oo
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by HardMirror(m): 7:42pm On Apr 14, 2016
halfricanadian:
This means d guy bought u

Chai he can do wateva he likes with u

cry cry i prefer to be seen as a companion i will b his puppet ni
Please what is wrong with the list?
These things are normal and I don't think they are too much. May not even cost 500,000 naira.
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by HardMirror(m): 7:46pm On Apr 14, 2016
panini:
Lol, even viju milk! How humble! cheesy
Abi? Those things only look much. They are not. They should forget about the gold chain anyway
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Nobody:
This iis just so out of place, I think this dowry thing shud be checked n iin the aftermath unified nationwide by FG via HOR bill or something. grin

This iis the core reason why some self acclaimed 'Sharp guys' end-up impregnating their beloved to ghostly escape gigantic fee by prospective inlaws. cool

This kinda extortion iis directly proportional to the amount of disrespect(panel-beating) the poor lady gets when they finally tie the knot.

#MyCandidOpinion
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by halfricanadian(f): 7:50pm On Apr 14, 2016
HardMirror:
Please what is wrong with the list?
These things are normal and I don't think they are too much. May not even cost 500,000 naira.
grin oya boss money see as my oga is talking bou cash

Too mch money aint enough money
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by HardMirror(m): 7:56pm On Apr 14, 2016
halfricanadian:
grin oya boss money see as my oga is talking bou cash

Too mch money aint enough money
Lol
U funny. But take a second look at the list. Those things don't cost much. Only the 22 carat gold chain will be a problem which is an outright NO. Will get then 8 carat instead grin
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by halfricanadian(f): 7:59pm On Apr 14, 2016
HardMirror:
Lol
U funny. But take a second look at the list. Those things don't cost much. Only the 22 carat gold chain will be a problem which is an outright NO. Will get then 8 carat instead grin
U see my oga is loaded oga u have it all

Chai waut lemme go wash toilet make i come praise u well

My oga is a walking bank nlders back off angry
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by HardMirror(m): 8:06pm On Apr 14, 2016
halfricanadian:
U see my oga is loaded oga u have it all
Chai waut lemme go wash toilet make i come praise u well
My oga is a walking bank nlders back off angry
huh
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by halfricanadian(f): 8:17pm On Apr 14, 2016
HardMirror:
huh
Oga me pls after u squeeze face u go pay salary o
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by JhimmySpark(m): 8:28pm On Apr 14, 2016
This is too much na
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