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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by emerged01(m): 7:58pm On Apr 16, 2016
firstolalekan:
And why should a male doctor operate on a female patient in the first fûcking place


Why do we have female doctors?

Go to any medical school in this country, the population of female medical students is always 50% or higher to the male's population.

I CAN NEVER ALLOW MY WIFE TO VISIT A MALE GYNECOLOGIST.

WHERE ARE ALL THE FÚCKING FEMALE DOCTORS?

Siddon there. I pray you don't fall under situation which will warrant male doctor to carry out operation on your wife.

I was there at about 2am when a male doctor put glove on and dipped his finger into my wife's vagina during child labour to see if the baby was making progress and to know what next to do when the pain was becoming unbearable.
Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by HolyHero: 7:59pm On Apr 16, 2016
Chukazu:


what is special about pussy?

if she had died, that pussy won't matter a thing, infact every body would run away from her no matter how beautiful she is.

there is more to life than pus.sy

the silly girl should have been greatful she came out alive, than been more concerned about unclothedness
well she wasn't dead.. Neither did she died
Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by tuna4servi(m): 8:18pm On Apr 16, 2016
firstolalekan:
And why should a male doctor operate on a female patient in the first fûcking place


Why do we have female doctors?

Go to any medical school in this country, the population of female medical students is always 50% or higher to the male's population.

I CAN NEVER ALLOW MY WIFE TO VISIT A MALE GYNECOLOGIST.

WHERE ARE ALL THE FÚCKING FEMALE DOCTORS?
And she dies
Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by tenderlaw(m): 8:18pm On Apr 16, 2016
firstolalekan:
And why should a male doctor operate on a female patient in the first fûcking place


Why do we have female doctors?

Go to any medical school in this country, the population of female medical students is always 50% or higher to the male's population.

I CAN NEVER ALLOW MY WIFE TO VISIT A MALE GYNECOLOGIST.

WHERE ARE ALL THE FÚCKING FEMALE DOCTORS?

Your statement shows you have NEVER seen a medical school in your life. Males outnumber females 5 to 1 in medical schools. But I guess your bias-filled skull is too thick to get that.

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by ugonna1054(m): 8:23pm On Apr 16, 2016
HolyHero:
so you actually saw her vagina just like that...

The doctor should have asked who you are to her..

The fool just showed you puss.y like that
Lmaoooo......na him luck nau
Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by ugonna1054(m): 8:24pm On Apr 16, 2016
firstolalekan:
And why should a male doctor operate on a female patient in the first fûcking place


Why do we have female doctors?

Go to any medical school in this country, the population of female medical students is always 50% or higher to the male's population.

I CAN NEVER ALLOW MY WIFE TO VISIT A MALE GYNECOLOGIST.

WHERE ARE ALL THE FÚCKING FEMALE DOCTORS?
ehhn, if u dinoh see female doctor, goan treat her urself

Mtcheww.
Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by fostermd(m): 8:27pm On Apr 16, 2016
As a male doctor,I have delivered women of more than 200 babies per vag*na excluding Caesarean section,and several other procedures.The key is to abide by the best medical practice and it's no big deal.
We are professionals with high degree of sense of responsibility ,confidentiality,guided by very strict ethics(perhaps the strictest amongst many professions).we give the maximum respect to our patients based on Hippocratic oath,privacy and inform them about there rights.Many hospitals here have Charters,which explains patients' rights

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Damikevin(m): 8:28pm On Apr 16, 2016
Where were the nurses them?
Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by spiralwedge(m): 8:39pm On Apr 16, 2016
wisdomguy4u:
After reading the news about a Doctor At Sayemi Natural science Centre who was accused of Rape, I have come to get the answer to a question I have been asking myself for years about the conduct of a doctor I had encounter with.

It was during my early days in the university , I accompanied a female course mate to the hospital. She was just a friend and nothing more . She was one of the finest in the faculty then. That morning she called me on phone and told me she was feeling feverish, and wants to go to the hospital to see a doctor. Trying to be a good course mate and friend I volunteer to accompany her to the hospital without even asking what the sickness was.

When we got to the hospital, I waited on the reception while she went in to see the doctor . After some minutes, she came out and told me she was asked to wait for a test to be carried out to ascertain was wrong with her. After we had waited for like an hour, the doctor finally came out and request she follow him ( I assumed it was for the test).

After about 10mins, the Doctor came to the reception again were I was innocently sitting and asked me to come with him; I followed him as we went into the operation ward. I was shocked to see my course mate lying on the operation bed unclad from her waist below, with her legs spread wide open . She was given those anesthesia drug that makes one slightly unconscious ( because she opened her eyes once in a while during the operation).

The Doctor requested I should come closer and take a glance ( pointing at a boil close to her vagina; he said to me, "this is what we have to remove". I was still dumbfounded to utter a word. Without wasting anymore time , he cut open the boil and pus began to gush out (my eye see something that day).

About an hour after the operation, she regained her consciousness. The first thing she said to me was "were you there?" I answered her in affirmation. She didn't know if she should hide her face or cry. She was angry with me (as if na my fault) , with the Doctor and everybody. I promised her I won't utter what transpired to any of our class members and I kept my promise.

Since that incident, I have been wondering why did the doctor want me to be present during the operation. I guess I got the answer today; he was only trying to be careful for fear of any accusation of molestation or rape. Probably, he thought I was her boyfriend. He needed a witness.

I think doctors should apply caution while dealing with female patients especially when it got to do with the private parts. They should request for a witness that would be present . The devil can use anyone to bring you down.


Wow... Wonderful doc that was. A professional! And of course, your friend was not comfortable to have known you saw it since you weren't dating yet.
Thanks for posting this.
Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by PipSurgeon(m): 8:41pm On Apr 16, 2016
firstolalekan:
And why should a male doctor operate on a female patient in the first fûcking place


Why do we have female doctors?

Go to any medical school in this country, the population of female medical students is always 50% or higher to the male's population.

I CAN NEVER ALLOW MY WIFE TO VISIT A MALE GYNECOLOGIST.

WHERE ARE ALL THE FÚCKING FEMALE DOCTORS?
you are obviously dumb and ignorant,, i rest my case

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Onegai(f): 8:41pm On Apr 16, 2016
Why didn't the doctor first ask the OP who he was to the patient?
Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Onegai(f): 8:42pm On Apr 16, 2016
Macgabe:


Male doctors are calmer when it comes to handling medical issues. Remember, women are very emotional so they may not be able to handle some medical issues properly without their emotions getting in the way.

You're kidding, right?

So when you fall down whilst playing or fell sick, did your mother's emotions cloud her mind that she couldn't treat you? Because according to you, that would have been impossible, her emotions will keep her from responding. But the fact that you're here, typing this, shows that there is a woman who has responded well to some medical issue in your life.

Have you met a female before or did you base your comment on the type of females you are surrounded by?


fostermd:
As a male doctor,I have delivered women of more than 200 babies per vag*na excluding Caesarean section,and several other procedures.The key is to abide by the best medical practice and it's no big deal.
We are professionals with high degree of sense of responsibility ,confidentiality,guided by very strict ethics(perhaps the strictest amongst many professions).we give the maximum respect to our patients based on Hippocratic oath,privacy and inform them about there rights.Many hospitals here have Charters,which explains patients' rights

Dr, you're on Nairaland attempting to sound sensible and explain reason to Nigerians. Best leave and go do something more productive grin

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Nobody: 8:44pm On Apr 16, 2016
belloabd1914:
Lol, dude are u kidding me?, u promised not to tell any1 but u just told over a million member of NL and guest too. If she catch u ehn.
O boy this got me laffing so tey I nearly die grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Dminister(m): 8:45pm On Apr 16, 2016
She was very careful not to let you see it and you probably saw it.
Lesson for ladies: Don't ever see your entire body as too precious like gold to be seen by a man cos you might be unconscious and later regain concious only to see the man you hate most looking at your naked kitten.. Girl!

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by godwinasky: 8:49pm On Apr 16, 2016
I still think d doc should have found out who u are in the first place before letting u in, if at all he really did.

Also, it was not an emergency at such, since removing pus won't get the fever away immediately. The Procedure is called Marsupialization which is usually indicated in Bartholin's Abscesses,among others, and it is usually an elective minor surgical procedure in majority of cases.

Also, i find it rather interesting that female patients like to see male medical professionals, just as many female medics don't tend to have much inclinations towards obstetrics and gynaecology. In the university college hospital, Ibadan,for instance, there were really few female consultants compared with the male counterpart in the department of O & G as at 2014!

Let me add that medics are professionals, and do things professionally and ethically. The use of Chaperones is an example of such practices that was necessary in the stated clinical scenerio( a chaperone being a trained or properly oriented medical or paramedical personnel such as a nurse, as d case may be) who would preferably be of the same sex as the patient and at such should be in the best place to testify about any malpractice while a procedure is being carried out on a patient.

In essence , I find this post highly " embellished" and rather not real life. as the Op can't convince me that there wasn't any chaperone on ground to at least take pictures or do some video recording on the phone as d patient may reque..... but if it really did happen, it was a wrong thing to do, knowing fully well u were a student ( whether boyfriend or not)!

But the point is that having a chaperone is the patients right and a prudent thing to do for legal reasons at least, when it is done rightly.

I rest my case!!!

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Supermama: 8:50pm On Apr 16, 2016
wisdomguy4u:
After reading the news about a Doctor At Sayemi Natural science Centre who was accused of Rape, I have come to get the answer to a question I have been asking myself for years about the conduct of a doctor I had encounter with.

It was during my early days in the university , I accompanied a female course mate to the hospital. She was just a friend and nothing more . She was one of the finest in the faculty then. That morning she called me on phone and told me she was feeling feverish, and wants to go to the hospital to see a doctor. Trying to be a good course mate and friend I volunteer to accompany her to the hospital without even asking what the sickness was.

When we got to the hospital, I waited on the reception while she went in to see the doctor . After some minutes, she came out and told me she was asked to wait for a test to be carried out to ascertain was wrong with her. After we had waited for like an hour, the doctor finally came out and request she follow him ( I assumed it was for the test).

After about 10mins, the Doctor came to the reception again were I was innocently sitting and asked me to come with him; I followed him as we went into the operation ward. I was shocked to see my course mate lying on the operation bed unclad from her waist below, with her legs spread wide open . She was given those anesthesia drug that makes one slightly unconscious ( because she opened her eyes once in a while during the operation).

The Doctor requested I should come closer and take a glance ( pointing at a boil close to her vagina; he said to me, "this is what we have to remove". I was still dumbfounded to utter a word. Without wasting anymore time , he cut open the boil and pus began to gush out (my eye see something that day).

About an hour after the operation, she regained her consciousness. The first thing she said to me was "were you there?" I answered her in affirmation. She didn't know if she should hide her face or cry. She was angry with me (as if na my fault) , with the Doctor and everybody. I promised her I won't utter what transpired to any of our class members and I kept my promise.

Since that incident, I have been wondering why did the doctor want me to be present during the operation. I guess I got the answer today; he was only trying to be careful for fear of any accusation of molestation or rape. Probably, he thought I was her boyfriend. He needed a witness.

I think doctors should apply caution while dealing with female patients especially when it got to do with the private parts. They should request for a witness that would be present . The devil can use anyone to bring you down.

Is either he was that good Dr. or he wanted to ensure things were okay and safe.
Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by donem: 8:51pm On Apr 16, 2016
firstolalekan:
And why should a male doctor operate on a female patient in the first fûcking place


Why do we have female doctors?

Go to any medical school in this country, the population of female medical students is always 50% or higher to the male's population.

I CAN NEVER ALLOW MY WIFE TO VISIT A MALE GYNECOLOGIST.

WHERE ARE ALL THE FÚCKING FEMALE DOCTORS?
you are just stammering Sir no offense, pray situation don't make u kneel and beg a male doctor to operate on your wife.
Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by fostermd(m): 8:54pm On Apr 16, 2016
[quote author=Onegai post=44765935]

Dr, you're on Nairaland attempting to sound sensible and explain reason to Nigerians. Best leave and go do something more productive ;

@Onegai,have I said something inappropriate.Just thought I should share my experience on a forum whilst I have got free time
Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by BuddhaPalm(m): 8:55pm On Apr 16, 2016
firstolalekan:
And why should a male doctor operate on a female patient in the first fûcking place


Why do we have female doctors?

Go to any medical school in this country, the population of female medical students is always 50% or higher to the male's population.

I CAN NEVER ALLOW MY WIFE TO VISIT A MALE GYNECOLOGIST.

WHERE ARE ALL THE FÚCKING FEMALE DOCTORS?

This thing you are shouting for, e no even reach N100 kpomo.

So long as your wife doesn't mind, and he behaves in a professional manner, I don't see what all the fuss is about.

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Obiwiz(m): 8:55pm On Apr 16, 2016
firstolalekan:
And why should a male doctor operate on a female patient in the first fûcking place


Why do we have female doctors?

Go to any medical school in this country, the population of female medical students is always 50% or higher to the male's population.

I CAN NEVER ALLOW MY WIFE TO VISIT A MALE GYNECOLOGIST.

WHERE ARE ALL THE FÚCKING FEMALE DOCTORS?
Carry this ur monkey mentality go stay inside bush joor. Na so una dey use dis una psychopathic set of beliefs dey kill and maim people all over the country and the world at large. For male doctor to treat woman no dey decent, but for fully grown man to forcefully marry and fhuck a 13yr old girl dey decent abi? Psychos!

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by 0gbeni(m): 8:56pm On Apr 16, 2016
firstolalekan:
And why should a male doctor operate on a female patient in the first fûcking place


Why do we have female doctors?

Go to any medical school in this country, the population of female medical students is always 50% or higher to the male's population.

I CAN NEVER ALLOW MY WIFE TO VISIT A MALE GYNECOLOGIST.

WHERE ARE ALL THE FÚCKING FEMALE DOCTORS?


fam.. i think you are mistaken, in most schools in the south west here the proportion of males to females in medical school is greater than 70:30, in the favour of males.. in fact for most residencies there are far more males than females.. and the situation is worse in the north

interestingly, O and G is not a female-friendly speciality, its soo demanding esp for women with young families, so there are far more male obstetrician-gynecologists

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by fostermd(m): 9:02pm On Apr 16, 2016
[quote author=fostermd post=44766222][/quote]
Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by leghagha: 9:04pm On Apr 16, 2016
I don't believe this story
Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Supermama: 9:19pm On Apr 16, 2016
emeckzy:
You really kept to your promise of not telling anyone what you saw...





This is a fabricated gist my guy...docs dont need to call you in as a witness, as a matter of fact, you can be in the operation room if the patient requests for your presence or if you are a related. The presence of the nurses alone covers your witness excuse. Try harder next time when cooking such a gist. well done

Hahahahaha... but is possible remember!!
Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Sunshinelady(f): 9:22pm On Apr 16, 2016
cococandy:
After he had removed her clothes and she was unconscious? Who's to say nothing went in down before he came to call you?

And your story sounds fakes. In truth if it happened, he should have first asked her who she wanted present and the fellow would be present before she's put under and unclothed.
I was beginning to wonder whether nobody here was thinking straight (no offence to anybody) till I read ur comment. What the Dr did was weird, unprofessional & shady. I can bet that he had c@rnal knowledge of that girl b4 calling the OP just to cover his tracks. & it's surprising that d Op isn't or wasn't smart enough to deduce that. What right thinking professional Dr calls a person to withness such a private procedure without first getting consent of d patient or at least asking him his relationship with d patient... Come on... What if he is his sister? And if at all he's calling in anybody as witness the person was supposed to be there b4 undressing d patient. That Dr defiled dat girl... If this story is not fabricated. God save women... I don't know if some (Or many) men are mutating to dogs these days. Kudos to the ones still respectable out there...

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Onegai(f): 9:28pm On Apr 16, 2016
[quote author=fostermd post=44766222][/quote]

Everything you made perfect sense. That's the problem, you are addressing a forum filled with over 70% of people who DO NOT like Common Sense. So rather than keep hitting your head against wood trying to explain and run out of breath, I suggested you spend your time more productively. As I am about to do with a good book! Bonne Nuit! cheesy

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by 0gbeni(m): 9:32pm On Apr 16, 2016
fabricated story imo... a chaperone is usually of the same sex with the client(patient ) and no doctor will ask you to chaperone without ascertaining your relationship with the client.

whenever a doctor wants to perform an examination on your intimate parts, always ask for a chaperone.. it is your right
Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by firstolalekan(m): 9:33pm On Apr 16, 2016
Obiwiz:

Carry this ur monkey mentality go stay inside bush joor. Na so una dey use dis una psychopathic set of beliefs dey kill and maim people all over the country and the world at large. For male doctor to treat woman no dey decent, but for fully grown man to forcefully marry and fhuck a 13yr old girl dey decent abi? Psychos!
Woe betide you

Na all your families be psychos

Dólt
Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by firstolalekan(m): 9:36pm On Apr 16, 2016
PipSurgeon:
you are obviously dumb and ignorant,, i rest my case
Your father and mother are obviously dumb and ignorant.
Dólt
Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by firstolalekan(m): 9:39pm On Apr 16, 2016
tenderlaw:


Your statement shows you have NEVER seen a medical school in your life. Males outnumber females 5 to 1 in medical schools. But I guess your bias-filled skull is too thick to get that.
Mumu

Where do you school?

Jupiter?
Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Supermama: 9:39pm On Apr 16, 2016
PipSurgeon:

you are obviously dumb and ignorant,, i rest my case

Hahahaah
Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by TrumpDonald(m): 9:40pm On Apr 16, 2016
belloabd1914:
I might not know her but all I need to do is to check d op's profile, I might be lucky enough to know d skul he graduated from and set, d rest is history.

U may never knw d girl

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