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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by firstolalekan(m): 9:40pm On Apr 16, 2016

tuna4servi:
And she dies

And you perish

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by firstolalekan(m): 9:42pm On Apr 16, 2016

tuna4servi:
And she dies

And you perish

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Drabrah(m): 9:43pm On Apr 16, 2016

wisdomguy4u:
After reading the news about a Doctor At Sayemi Natural science Centre who was accused of Rape, I have come to get the answer to a question I have been asking myself for years about the conduct of a doctor I had encounter with.

It was during my early days in the university , I accompanied a female course mate to the hospital. She was just a friend and nothing more . She was one of the finest in the faculty then. That morning she called me on phone and told me she was feeling feverish, and wants to go to the hospital to see a doctor. Trying to be a good course mate and friend I volunteer to accompany her to the hospital without even asking what the sickness was.

When we got to the hospital, I waited on the reception while she went in to see the doctor . After some minutes, she came out and told me she was asked to wait for a test to be carried out to ascertain was wrong with her. After we had waited for like an hour, the doctor finally came out and request she follow him ( I assumed it was for the test).

After about 10mins, the Doctor came to the reception again were I was innocently sitting and asked me to come with him; I followed him as we went into the operation ward. I was shocked to see my course mate lying on the operation bed unclad from her waist below, with her legs spread wide open . She was given those anesthesia drug that makes one slightly unconscious ( because she opened her eyes once in a while during the operation).

The Doctor requested I should come closer and take a glance ( pointing at a boil close to her vagina; he said to me, "this is what we have to remove". I was still dumbfounded to utter a word. Without wasting anymore time , he cut open the boil and pus began to gush out (my eye see something that day).

About an hour after the operation, she regained her consciousness. The first thing she said to me was "were you there?" I answered her in affirmation. She didn't know if she should hide her face or cry. She was angry with me (as if na my fault) , with the Doctor and everybody. I promised her I won't utter what transpired to any of our class members and I kept my promise.

Since that incident, I have been wondering why did the doctor want me to be present during the operation. I guess I got the answer today; he was only trying to be careful for fear of any accusation of molestation or rape. Probably, he thought I was her boyfriend. He needed a witness.

I think doctors should apply caution while dealing with female patients especially when it got to do with the private parts. They should request for a witness that would be present . The devil can use anyone to bring you down.

While it is advised to av a witness (chaperone) in such instance, u're not right candidate even if u're d boyfriend ( except if u're d legally married husband). A staff of d hospital (preferably female, maybe any of d nurses) wuddav bn ok. Moreover, incision & drainage of an absess is not an emergency. I guess d guy had given anaesthesia b4 calling himself to senses.
On a lighter note, d 2nd hospital u mentioned, r u sure it's a real hospital or one of those herbalists in disguise?

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Bobbybube(m): 9:43pm On Apr 16, 2016

[quote author=firstolalekan post=44755688]And why should a male doctor operate on a female patient in the first fûcking place

Why do we have female doctors?

Go to any medical school in this country, the population of female medical students is always 50% or higher to the male's population.

I CAN NEVER ALLOW MY WIFE TO VISIT A MALE GYNECOLOGIST.

WHERE ARE ALL THE FÚCKING FEMALE DOCTORS? [/quote

Another example of a someone with a myopic view.
1: the female doctors in Nigeria are not enough to to cater for one third of gynaecological problems in the nation.
2: You should also advice that gynaecology students should be strictly female simply because the female private part is so sacred that male doctors should not come near.
3: if your wife has complications and the female gynecologist refers her to a male doctor are you also going to stop her because your convinced all male doctors are perverts willing to handle your wife.
4: Are you unaware of lesbianism and female molestation?
Lastly, 85% of women are delivered by male doctors at least once, your mother inclusive. I'm certain your wife will be among

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Nobody: 9:47pm On Apr 16, 2016

People can lie!
This story belongs to the trash bin.
Though a doctor needs a chaperon in examining or dealing with opposite sex, the chaperon can only be nurses, doctors or clinical medical students.
So, you entered an operating theatre without scrubs. Your lie no get part II.
Worse still, some gullible people would still believe this trash.
I think people need to be educated on the ethics and ethos of medical practice and care.
I will do that some day.

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Jumpy: 10:03pm On Apr 16, 2016

Silvofitz:
People can lie!
This story belongs to the trash bin.
Though a doctor needs a chaperon in examining or dealing with opposite sex, the chaperon can only be nurses, doctors or clinical medical students.
So, you entered an operating theatre without scrubs. Your lie no get part II.
Worse still, some gullible people would still believe this trash.
I think people need to be educated on the ethics and ethos of medical practice and care.
I will do that some day.

This is the first time I have heard of this incident of someone going to operation room like that..

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by jayF19: 10:12pm On Apr 16, 2016

HolyHero:
well she wasn't dead.. Neither did she died

Yekpa

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by firstolalekan(m): 10:12pm On Apr 16, 2016

[quote author=Bobbybube post=44767494][/quote]
Rubbish

Suck it!

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by delishpot: 10:20pm On Apr 16, 2016

wisdomguy4u:
After reading the news about a Doctor At Sayemi Natural science Centre who was accused of Rape, I have come to get the answer to a question I have been asking myself for years about the conduct of a doctor I had encounter with.

It was during my early days in the university , I accompanied a female course mate to the hospital. She was just a friend and nothing more . She was one of the finest in the faculty then. That morning she called me on phone and told me she was feeling feverish, and wants to go to the hospital to see a doctor. Trying to be a good course mate and friend I volunteer to accompany her to the hospital without even asking what the sickness was.

When we got to the hospital, I waited on the reception while she went in to see the doctor . After some minutes, she came out and told me she was asked to wait for a test to be carried out to ascertain was wrong with her. After we had waited for like an hour, the doctor finally came out and request she follow him ( I assumed it was for the test).

After about 10mins, the Doctor came to the reception again were I was innocently sitting and asked me to come with him; I followed him as we went into the operation ward. I was shocked to see my course mate lying on the operation bed unclad from her waist below, with her legs spread wide open . She was given those anesthesia drug that makes one slightly unconscious ( because she opened her eyes once in a while during the operation).

The Doctor requested I should come closer and take a glance ( pointing at a boil close to her vagina; he said to me, "this is what we have to remove". I was still dumbfounded to utter a word. Without wasting anymore time , he cut open the boil and pus began to gush out (my eye see something that day).

About an hour after the operation, she regained her consciousness. The first thing she said to me was "were you there?" I answered her in affirmation. She didn't know if she should hide her face or cry. She was angry with me (as if na my fault) , with the Doctor and everybody. I promised her I won't utter what transpired to any of our class members and I kept my promise.

Since that incident, I have been wondering why did the doctor want me to be present during the operation. I guess I got the answer today; he was only trying to be careful for fear of any accusation of molestation or rape. Probably, he thought I was her boyfriend. He needed a witness.

I think doctors should apply caution while dealing with female patients especially when it got to do with the private parts. They should request for a witness that would be present . The devil can use anyone to bring you down.

The point is not wether there was truly a disease to cure but the doctors taking advantage of the patients condition to abuse them. He the doctor should have known and told her the problem in the consultation room. If he needed to carry out any surgery, he should have told her before hand and had a nurse in there to assist him. This act of his should land him in court. That girl would had milked his ass dry.

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Category1: 10:21pm On Apr 16, 2016

YorubaWoman:
E dakun

Kini nmo fa ewoo labe?

Stop to dey type like mumu abeg.
If u can't type in English pls gtfo nairaland

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by abbiboy: 10:59pm On Apr 16, 2016

firstolalekan:
And why should a male doctor operate on a female patient in the first fûcking place

Why do we have female doctors?

Go to any medical school in this country, the population of female medical students is always 50% or higher to the male's population.

I CAN NEVER ALLOW MY WIFE TO VISIT A MALE GYNECOLOGIST.

WHERE ARE ALL THE FÚCKING FEMALE DOCTORS?

frm the way u sound it show hw myopic u tink,it is foolish pple lyk u dat waste women all in d name of a man nt cin her vagina.oda men neva rubbish d vagina b4 u married her in d first plc..abeg guy bone dos ur primitive talk n wake up...hisssssssssssssssssssssssssss

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by iykenathan162(m): 11:08pm On Apr 16, 2016

krak101:
I see me an extremist, a jihadist. Imagine your wife in labour and you'll want to insist on a female doctor abi you in need of an emergency operation and you'll insist on a male doctor. They're professionals

what the doctor did was wrong, who knows what he has done already to her before call u . what happened to our nurses, if the doctor operating a female patient and see a male then female nurses must be around to support.why calling U? If he needs any help than they must be a nurse around.
around around

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by michealadah(m): 11:09pm On Apr 16, 2016

firstolalekan:
And why should a male doctor operate on a female patient in the first fûcking place

Why do we have female doctors?

Go to any medical school in this country, the population of female medical students is always 50% or higher to the male's population.

I CAN NEVER ALLOW MY WIFE TO VISIT A MALE GYNECOLOGIST.

WHERE ARE ALL THE FÚCKING FEMALE DOCTORS?

Because he was trained to do so undecided

I believe you'd know that if you were civilized

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Faraidi(m): 11:22pm On Apr 16, 2016

krak101:
I see me an extremist, a jihadist. Imagine your wife in labour and you'll want to insist on a female doctor abi you in need of an emergency operation and you'll insist on a male doctor. They're professionals

shut up he was right most. male doctors are perverts

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by comradee1248: 11:34pm On Apr 16, 2016

krak101:
I see me an extremist, a jihadist. Imagine your wife in labour and you'll want to insist on a female doctor abi you in need of an emergency operation and you'll insist on a male doctor. They're professionals

na boko haram idiot na

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by nelronaldo(m): 12:02am On Apr 17, 2016

wisdomguy4u:
After reading the news about a Doctor At Sayemi Natural science Centre who was accused of Rape, I have come to get the answer to a question I have been asking myself for years about the conduct of a doctor I had encounter with.

It was during my early days in the university , I accompanied a female course mate to the hospital. She was just a friend and nothing more . She was one of the finest in the faculty then. That morning she called me on phone and told me she was feeling feverish, and wants to go to the hospital to see a doctor. Trying to be a good course mate and friend I volunteer to accompany her to the hospital without even asking what the sickness was.

When we got to the hospital, I waited on the reception while she went in to see the doctor . After some minutes, she came out and told me she was asked to wait for a test to be carried out to ascertain was wrong with her. After we had waited for like an hour, the doctor finally came out and request she follow him ( I assumed it was for the test).

After about 10mins, the Doctor came to the reception again were I was innocently sitting and asked me to come with him; I followed him as we went into the operation ward. I was shocked to see my course mate lying on the operation bed unclad from her waist below, with her legs spread wide open . She was given those anesthesia drug that makes one slightly unconscious ( because she opened her eyes once in a while during the operation).

The Doctor requested I should come closer and take a glance ( pointing at a boil close to her vagina; he said to me, "this is what we have to remove". I was still dumbfounded to utter a word. Without wasting anymore time , he cut open the boil and pus began to gush out (my eye see something that day).

About an hour after the operation, she regained her consciousness. The first thing she said to me was "were you there?" I answered her in affirmation. She didn't know if she should hide her face or cry. She was angry with me (as if na my fault) , with the Doctor and everybody. I promised her I won't utter what transpired to any of our class members and I kept my promise.

Since that incident, I have been wondering why did the doctor want me to be present during the operation. I guess I got the answer today; he was only trying to be careful for fear of any accusation of molestation or rape. Probably, he thought I was her boyfriend. He needed a witness.

I think doctors should apply caution while dealing with female patients especially when it got to do with the private parts. They should request for a witness that would be present . The devil can use anyone to bring you down.

OP the escort! You volunteered because she is pretty

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Princedapace(m): 12:04am On Apr 17, 2016

donbenedict:
stop being silly please.

The young man is not being silly pls

Why do we have female doctors pls? They are always there in universities and are hardly found in the real world...

Doc are professionals , yeah but many of them have committed evil...a lot...some male and female close pals ha e gisted me how they do some times and they blame it on human factor. Bro...this my guy is not silly. I will search and find a female doc for my wife pls...

My pastor's wife shared an experience she had wit a family doc years back that shocked her off till today.

Humans are humans...many doc just play wit a woman's private part.

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by nelronaldo(m): 12:07am On Apr 17, 2016

Krak:

Hey man...who are you and what are you doing with my name??

Lwkmd! You aint concerned about the topic... Its your name that matters most to you.. Please give him his name oo

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Drabrah(m): 12:26am On Apr 17, 2016

firstolalekan:
And why should a male doctor operate on a female patient in the first fûcking place

Why do we have female doctors?

Go to any medical school in this country, the population of female medical students is always 50% or higher to the male's population.

I CAN NEVER ALLOW MY WIFE TO VISIT A MALE GYNECOLOGIST.

WHERE ARE ALL THE FÚCKING FEMALE DOCTORS?

I'm stupefied by ur magnanimous display of mega ignorance. At this level of ignorance I doubt if u know d diff btw a Dr & a nurse.
My dear, until abt the 80s medical sch was almost an exclusive of d male gender (jst like nursing was more of females). Even in d field of Obs & Gynae wc deals exclusively wt women's health, it's still more of male Drs attending.
Av u ever wondered why d unlearned call every male in d hospital Dr & every female (female Drs alike ) nurse?

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by nosingwa: 12:39am On Apr 17, 2016

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Misternas89(m): 12:48am On Apr 17, 2016

Category1:

Stop to dey type like mumu abeg.
If u can't type in English pls gtfo nairaland

Na u dey type gibberish dude, person dey type wit wetin she understand u dey call her mumu. Respect ursef and if u no understand, guy swerve. Mention me @ ur own risk tho. #MyOneCent #MoYawereGan

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by tenderlaw(m): 12:52am On Apr 17, 2016

firstolalekan:

Mumu

Where do you school?

Jupiter?

You see your life? E dey pain you because someone is exposing your cheap lies for what they are. You who has never been to medical school is trying to give us medical statistics. Shame on you. And for your information, I don't "school"...but I guess even that fact is too heavy for your thick skull.

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 1:03am On Apr 17, 2016

donbenedict:
breach ko, beach ni...

U guys just duno d real reason why he called him in... of course he is a doctor and he knws what the fvck is breach of privacy...

But he just wanted the op to learn something dats all...

that sh!t you quoted just gave me a headache.... pls EPP me ask her why she would use such evil font color...

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by faites(f): 1:06am On Apr 17, 2016

KingCheezyPuff:
Coooorrect.
...If he didn't want to be acussed of rape a female nurse would have been a good eye witness.
He just violated her privacy calling the op in.

Donbenedict
...That is/was a breech of doctor/paitent confidentiality.
It was hers to reveal if/when the time came.

Ur very correct. That doctor is a very wicked person. He violated the girl psychologically by calling the guy to witness the procedure. And it was a very simple procedure dat was not guaranteed to have complications. So why the act?

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by cococandy(f): 1:32am On Apr 17, 2016

My sister

Sunshinelady:
I was beginning to wonder whether nobody here was thinking straight (no offence to anybody) till I read ur comment. What the Dr did was weird, unprofessional & shady. I can bet that he had c@rnal knowledge of that girl b4 calling the OP just to cover his tracks. & it's surprising that d Op isn't or wasn't smart enough to deduce that. What right thinking professional Dr calls a person to withness such a private procedure without first getting consent of d patient or at least asking him his relationship with d patient... Come on... What if he is his sister? And if at all he's calling in anybody as witness the person was supposed to be there b4 undressing d patient. That Dr defiled dat girl... If this story is not fabricated. God save women... I don't know if some (Or many) men are mutating to dogs these days. Kudos to the ones still respectable out there...

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Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by YorubaWoman: 5:40am On Apr 17, 2016

Category1:

Stop to dey type like mumu abeg.
If u can't type in English pls gtfo nairaland

You must be silly, boy.

I can type anything I want
The owner isn't complaining
So shut the f.uck up and never quote me again
Good day!

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Obiwiz(m): 6:21am On Apr 17, 2016

firstolalekan:

Woe betide you

Na all your families be psychos

Dólt

Bro, Keep quiet. Sit down. Listen. If you have any comments, make sure they are issue-based. Don't resort to primitive tactics. Start developing a healthy mentality. Make sure you're in church today. It'll catalyze the rehabilitation process. Good morning.

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by PweshyNonny: 6:39am On Apr 17, 2016

firstolalekan:
And why should a male doctor operate on a female patient in the first fûcking place

Why do we have female doctors?

Go to any medical school in this country, the population of female medical students is always 50% or higher to the male's population.

I CAN NEVER ALLOW MY WIFE TO VISIT A MALE GYNECOLOGIST.

WHERE ARE ALL THE FÚCKING FEMALE DOCTORS?

Illiteracy is indeed real. Smh

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Obiwiz(m): 6:43am On Apr 17, 2016

cococandy:
After he had removed her clothes and she was unconscious? Who's to say nothing went in down before he came to call you?

And your story sounds fakes. In truth if it happened, he should have first asked her who she wanted present and the fellow would be present before she's put under and unclothed.

Exactly my thoughts. Was even thinking that's the main thing the OP wanted to point out.

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by Nobody: 7:27am On Apr 17, 2016

how many are they n how many of them make it to residence level to become a qualified gyen? What u people are thinking is the least that do come to your mind when u are doin V.E infact u will even tired or gt irritated sometim.

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by itslinkin4005(m): 8:10am On Apr 17, 2016

Since u don't want to tell your coursemate about why u come post am for here in nairaland

Re: What A Doctor Did When I Accompanied A Female Friend To The Hospital by ojac1: 8:11am On Apr 17, 2016

donbenedict:
Noooo, I think the reason why the doctor called you in to see was to re-iterate your mind abt tryn to have sex with her.. and to let you knw that not all babes are clean down there...

You should be thankful a thousand times for letting him show you.. he just wanted to teach you somthing

Where is d unlike button biko. Lamest guy ever

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