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rubsaphy:
MY ADVICE IS FOR THE LADY.... IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET HIS ATTENTION. STOP CALLING, PRETEND YOU'RE MOVING ON. WHEN HE DOES NOT HEAR FROM YOU IN A MONTH HE'LL TRY TO REACH OUT, THEN YOU'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE A CIVILIZED CONVERSATION.

lol OYO...seems yu didnt read the post. the guy has nothing to lose from breaking up wit her. She literaly had nothing to offer him except sex. So wat makes yu think he'll call? When he can just get the sex elsewhere

That is enough sign that you both are not compatible. Run far, poison no be children matter. They say love heals everything but I guess whoever made that quote did not remember poison.

hmmmmmmmmmmm

rubsaphy:
MY ADVICE IS FOR THE LADY.... IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET HIS ATTENTION. STOP CALLING, PRETEND YOU'RE MOVING ON. WHEN HE DOES NOT HEAR FROM YOU IN A MONTH HE'LL TRY TO REACH OUT, THEN YOU'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE A CIVILIZED CONVERSATION.

Swthrt, dis one no go work for dis situation ooo. Read the chat again, I think its up to a month alrdy.

That's what happens when you remove a leash from a dog's neck and place a crown on its head. It begins to assume that it is royalty rather than the dirty street animal that it is.

See a super rich big boy entangling himself with a worthless street girl who has nothing to offer. What if he truly impregnated another girl, so bloody what? We have heard of the likes of Tuface, Flavour, Wizkid and so (public figures at least) who impregnated multiple women, why didn't their girlfriends run riot? It's because when you give a mouse a cookie, it asks for a glass of milk.

That's the problem with men who place worthless girls on a pedestal. Imagine a hood rat bittch that I am trying to help calling me a bastard and telling me that I am taking advantage of women because I have money. Threatening me for that matter. Who give am mouth to talk? God knows I will get her arrested, give SARS operatives N1million to lock her up for months, torture her endlessly until she receives sense. Imagine the animal now bemoaning the fact that she left Lekki and that her uncle's house does not befit her sick mother?

The sort of man that millions of Nigerian girls are jostling to have, you think you can possess him with your worthless broke pussy, and you have the audacity to insult him, threaten him, and damage his car. I blame the man for suffering fools gladly. Serves him right. Next time he will not attempt to rehabilitate a pig. A pig belongs in a pigsty, not a palace.

If truely she love d guy she wont do fight to finish because d guy impregnate someone. Instead she will fight to keep d man despite. Annie idibia is enjoying that attitude now.
Whay if after getting married and d man mistakenly impragnate someone. The fact is that she will truely poision him.

buchi4action:
Guy run as your leg fit carry you. We are talking of lifetime commitment here, and women are very cunny creature and u got to know her true mind only when she is angry. And she has shown you her true colour, so better read the hand writing on the wall. Can u handle a hot tempered woman ? (Talking from experience). Mind you that love is not the most important ingredient for a successful marriage.

The girl is a gold digger...don't c true love there. She's into him cos he's financially stable dats y according to her, she's been tolerating his maltreatment. So d guy shud b wise

How can any sane girl use poison to threaten a guy?

If you were my brother I would tell you never to go back to her, her mind is polluted. The Bible says that out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.

Love my a*s!!!
Violence in whatever form should never be overlooked in a relationship.
...And to think that they were just dating and not married yet.

God don deliver the broda, if em like make em go return to bondage. O-Y-O o

Friends told her the guy impregnated someone else,she never investigated thoroughly she ended up laying this magnitude of cause on him even breaking his car glass.

The guy can forgive her because Bible told us to forgive but not accepting her back.
if she can be this violent when they are not yet married then the guy should know that she has giving him a bit of what she can do if she's angry as a wife.

As a human you can get angry but your reaction to your anger is what shows how mature you are.

Somebody should tell the guy that the lady has given him RED ALERT to keep up.

Ha! God sef no go forgive me if I forgive her.

The Bible preaches forgiveness,but then most of these girls don't deserve forgiveness/second chance. She may likely do worse in future. If he doesn't forgive her, nobody will accuse him of wrong doing. The decision is his.

This kind of girl(s) are the main patronize(rs) of Babalawo,Dibia,juju,jazz and love spell.

Forgive everything but don't play with your life.

Many ladies poison their spouse, it's happening everyday....so the man in question shouldn't even think of forgiving her at all...he should be writing a long petition to commissioner of police to invite the girl to sign an undertaken because she can hire assassins to kill the guy.


People talking about love here are joking; every woman loves a financially loaded man na...and any financially loaded man that thinks a lady he met when he's financially made loves him must be a mad man!

She's there for your money...if she was rich or from rich family, then u can assume that maybe she loves u but since she's broke, u are the one paying her rent and helping her financially....that shows she dating u just because of the money and financial help she's getting from u.

If u are a guy reading this, pls listen: if u are financially okay or rich and u don't have a girlfriend that stayed with u & showed u love right from when u were broke, pls forget about love....no girl will love u truly....all of them are forming l love u becos of your little or big money, just forget love and assume that u are buying company or companion, don't ever believe she loves u cos she doesn't except she is rich herself or from very rich family, if not, she is after your money!

Don't dare listen to those usual ladies' crap words of: girls are not the same, they are all the same when it comes to loving a man for money, guys open your eyes wide!!

herbie27:
Are you the guy in question?, leave matter for the owner to handle.

As we are busy debating on either he shld take her back or not, they may have reconciled and are somewhere chilling

no wonder you have been on this case since



Your evil winsh wishes will not come to pass

laugh!!!.

Dojupyo:
Its best to keep shut when angry.. I understand she might have felt bad, but she said too much.. If the guy has a forgiving heart and truly loves her, he can still take her back.. Most people who say things like this ain't harmful, they are just empty vessels but then if anything happens to the person, they would be held responsible even if they are innocent..

Morale of the story, You can get angry but Silence is the best

She is not Harmful and she broke his mirrors?
Aunty abeg make we dey tell ourselves true, if na ur broda babe u go tell am to forgive am?

rubsaphy:
MY ADVICE IS FOR THE LADY.... IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET HIS ATTENTION. STOP CALLING, PRETEND YOU'RE MOVING ON. WHEN HE DOES NOT HEAR FROM YOU IN A MONTH HE'LL TRY TO REACH OUT, THEN YOU'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE A CIVILIZED CONVERSATION.

it does not work tht way again, after a month of my not speaking to a lady nor hearing from her i happily get over her with another.. And in this case he was even the one who threw her out, he is over her

rubsaphy:
MY ADVICE IS FOR THE LADY.... IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET HIS ATTENTION. STOP CALLING, PRETEND YOU'RE MOVING ON. WHEN HE DOES NOT HEAR FROM YOU IN A MONTH HE'LL TRY TO REACH OUT, THEN YOU'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE A CIVILIZED CONVERSATION.

shove ur advice into ur handbag of lipstick,pancake,bleachers,powder,pampas,nails,roasted corn,.....that lady doesnt need such advice from ladies like u again.. What will happen to ur head if u see her face2face and offer such advice is best left to the imagination.

She sounds like a bini girl. Typical bini girl

SapeleWater:
Ha! God sef no go forgive me if I forgive her.

My brother I tell u o....imagine a girl who isn't my sister, not my mother, didn't contribute a dime to making me who I am now threatening to poison me, ah ah....she will spend the rest of her broke ass in jail!

I won't even take it lightly, I will ensure she writes an undertaken that will cover my life from even mosquito bite.

The guy should also be watchful cos this type of ladies are also diabolical; they can go diabolical.

I don't think I can forgive anybody who threatens to kill me or who tries to kill me....its a no-go area for me.

What is she contributing to the man's life aside ordinary sex which the man can get in quantum number from younger, hotter, prettier, sensible ladies

I pity men spending so much to get sex, they are half-mad

Sex is cheap nowadays! Don't spend much on any girl that isn't your wife no matter how rich u are cos she will definitely have another useless younger guy somewhere she will be using your hard-earned money to train and sponsor while u go around forming Mr Lover, nonsense, I don't blame this lady and her type, I blame some useless men who spend fortune to please their broke ass anyway

I will not take her, she would have been right if she curse the guy, torn his clothes or break stuff like car mirror, etc but threatening to poison him, she crossed the line.

Even if you are mad, love does not harm or threaten harm on the object of his/her admiration. She does not love him, she misses the Lekki apartment and want a comfy place for her ill mother.

Marriage is not a bed of roses, she have shown that, she is unhinged when irate, don't ever think you can change anyone or enter in a relationship with the hope that someone will change; if you don't like it 'as is' move on.

I can bet you 110% that, if you accept her in the near future or when you guys have gotten married situations and circumstances that will irate her to this level will occur and she will again wish she poison you or would have succeed in doing it before you realize it.

Count yourself luck many people, who went into marriage never had this type opportunity to know the true color of the person, they will be spending the rest of their lives with and they regret every moment of it.

And never you fall into the trap of 'pitying' her mother's condition in accepting her. You don't go into any relation out of pity or out of the abundance of your heart or because the other person is suffering...despite the fact that, they appear to be close, charity and love are light years apart.

Good luck!

marvelck:
Comedian Alibaba shared this story on Instagram about a lady who thought her boyfriend had impregnated another lady but later found out it wasn't true as stated by her friends. This was after she had violently attacked him, destroyed the mirror of his G-Wagon car and cursed him. Now she is begging to come back. Above is a screenshot of the text messages from the lady begging her boyfriend after the attack. Read what Alibaba wrote after the cut.

"I don't know how to advise my guy... He says I should help him ask without adding any names. "What if she reads the postings online? I asked him. "Then she will know if I am right or wrong to have packed her out of my flat and ended the relationship". Please note, if you have no advice to give don't comment. Insults will be deleted. Please read the chats before commenting. Don't be asking me what the guy did. She said it all there. To make this clearer, her friends told her that her Bobo was responsible for impregnating a lady. So she went gaga. Then found out it was not her Bobo. At which time, she had been thrown out and she then realized that the girls who claimed to be protecting her from getting hurt (which may be true) did not investigate properly. So things became bad. And got worse when she broke the driver side glass of his Gwagon with a flower pot. Now it had become clear he wasn't the person responsible. Those friends have apologized that they "thought he was the one"... That is the root of all this apology. My Guy's argument is if she had a gun and shot him that night, what will these apologies be for?

@Op thank you for this thread, 1st I don't know how to give advise because I had very similar situation, mine is my wife, a useless friend of her told her I married another wife somwhere, she prceeded to a prophet and that fake prophet told her I'v already paid another woman bride price sef, she Violently fought me,packed out of the house for 3months and later realised its not true! She came back beging! Tho I acepted her back because of my two kids(boys) but the shock of her Violence still remain in my mind! I'm always afraid she couled kill me when she's angry! The love that lady had is a dangerous love. What ever advise we give here can not determine the guys mind as far as its involve two lover trust me! My wife even Lock me up in police, police sef adviced me to divorce her if I don't want to die,my neiboughs were shocked when they saw me and mywife back having witnessed her violent act that day. I wll only say may God help that guy in decition making. But that lady is too ash oh.

marvelck:
Comedian Alibaba shared this story on Instagram about a lady who thought her boyfriend had impregnated another lady but later found out it wasn't true as stated by her friends. This was after she had violently attacked him, destroyed the mirror of his G-Wagon car and cursed him. Now she is begging to come back. Above is a screenshot of the text messages from the lady begging her boyfriend after the attack. Read what Alibaba wrote after the cut.

"I don't know how to advise my guy... He says I should help him ask without adding any names. "What if she reads the postings online? I asked him. "Then she will know if I am right or wrong to have packed her out of my flat and ended the relationship". Please note, if you have no advice to give don't comment. Insults will be deleted. Please read the chats before commenting. Don't be asking me what the guy did. She said it all there. To make this clearer, her friends told her that her Bobo was responsible for impregnating a lady. So she went gaga. Then found out it was not her Bobo. At which time, she had been thrown out and she then realized that the girls who claimed to be protecting her from getting hurt (which may be true) did not investigate properly. So things became bad. And got worse when she broke the driver side glass of his Gwagon with a flower pot. Now it had become clear he wasn't the person responsible. Those friends have apologized that they "thought he was the one"... That is the root of all this apology. My Guy's argument is if she had a gun and shot him that night, what will these apologies be for?

The only reason I will accept her is to gain easy access to fùck her sisters and her friends and then do the real dumping, if her mum is available, I will do so too.

Reminds me of this TV show: For Better or Worse. The woman in that show burnt her husband's sports car and all his clothes for something he didn't do. But in the end, they still reconciled. Love conquers all you see.

rubsaphy:
MY ADVICE IS FOR THE LADY.... IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET HIS ATTENTION. STOP CALLING, PRETEND YOU'RE MOVING ON. WHEN HE DOES NOT HEAR FROM YOU IN A MONTH HE'LL TRY TO REACH OUT, THEN YOU'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE A CIVILIZED CONVERSATION.

Unless am sucidal (...and am not), nothing will make me reconsider a lady who have threaten to poison me.

Especially, as a girlfriend or wife, they will occupy that unique position of preparing my meals..person no dey use life play calucalu like that.

herbie27:
It was only stated that the guy wasn't responsible, men are cynical and i only asked a question that wat if he was?, most of the stories you see online aren't the whole truth to some matters.

I knw why i asked that question so i owe no man an apology.

This girl get out of here and stop wasting space. What if he impregnated someone else? What did Tuface's girlfriend at the time (Annie) do when he impregnated 3 other girls? What of Flavour, Wizkid, and uncountable other rich guys who do same daily? You must be mad to think that you can possess a successful man in this part of the world. So you can call me a bastard and threaten to ruin me because I used my wealth to get any girl I like. Did you help me make the money? Very annoying things who overrate their own importance.

Why is the guy heartless? Accept her back ASAP so she can poison you at the next available opportunity.
A woman that will hear stories about you and without investigating will start calling you names. Even if she investigated, then she believed her friends rather than believing you. Bro, you have no business considering taking this viper of a woman back.
Funny enough, she is not even ashamed of telling you the major reason of wanting you back which is spelt C O M F O R T!
She said it's been two weeks since she left Lekki and her uncle's place that they are putting up is not good enough for the mom' s health.
This simply means that if she had a comfortable place to stay, coming back to you wouldn't have been an option.
Abeg run jare and thank God for the deliverance.

rubsaphy:
MY ADVICE IS FOR THE LADY.... IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET HIS ATTENTION. STOP CALLING, PRETEND YOU'RE MOVING ON. WHEN HE DOES NOT HEAR FROM YOU IN A MONTH HE'LL TRY TO REACH OUT, THEN YOU'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE A CIVILIZED CONVERSATION.

You think that move will work on the guy? The girl f**ked up big time. Read the comment above mine.

mummydirect:
Helloooooo, it isn't easy handling unfaithfulness in any relationship you know. Yes, she said all that in anger and of course over say things but nonetheless, the girl went too far. In as much as u guys are still dating, no need to fume, I would rather keep mute on hearing that my bf (not husband oooo) impregnated some one, carry out a silent investigation and if found to be true, save as much as i can get from the bobo, try another relationship that would be unknown to him and when I am done saving enough, I will tell him to his face and quit the relationship instead of fuming and killing one self over a guy who obviously isn't worth ones headache, just be mature and quit peacefully, that will leave the guy sober and fearful for the rest of his life. Ladies be wise! My humble take though.

The lady here and her mum are babalawo specialists. I guess her mum is out of her father's house. Your advice is not for this type o. Most bini girls are like this o, i served there