Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? - Romance (6)

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by stallion2: 7:05am On Apr 19, 2016

rubsaphy:
MY ADVICE IS FOR THE LADY.... IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET HIS ATTENTION. STOP CALLING, PRETEND YOU'RE MOVING ON. WHEN HE DOES NOT HEAR FROM YOU IN A MONTH HE'LL TRY TO REACH OUT, THEN YOU'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE A CIVILIZED CONVERSATION.

rubsaphy:
MY ADVICE IS FOR THE LADY.... IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET HIS ATTENTION. STOP CALLING, PRETEND YOU'RE MOVING ON. WHEN HE DOES NOT HEAR FROM YOU IN A MONTH HE'LL TRY TO REACH OUT, THEN YOU'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE A CIVILIZED CONVERSATION. Wrong advice number 2

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by Bigcake: 7:06am On Apr 19, 2016

Dojupyo:
Its best to keep shut when angry.. I understand she might have felt bad, but she said too much.. If the guy has a forgiving heart and truly loves her, he can still take her back.. Most people who say things like this ain't harmful, they are just empty vessels but then if anything happens to the person, they would be held responsible even if they are innocent..

Morale of the story, You can get angry but Silence is the best

An empty vessel that broke a car side glass?

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by omogin(f): 7:07am On Apr 19, 2016

vince001:
Reminds me of this TV show: For Better or Worse. The woman in that show burnt her husband's sports car and all his clothes for something he didn't do. But in the end, they still reconciled. Love conquers all you see.

No be TV show you call am cheesy

ok na.

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by millhouse: 7:08am On Apr 19, 2016

tola9ja:
anger leads her to spew trash he should forgive her

yes forgive but he should not go near her even with a long spoon!! Taking her back with all that she spued will give d a thought that she can replicate this kind of anger again and get away scot free. With this kind of anger when she is only a girlfriend... I swear to you that when she becomes a wife that office she couldn't enter because of no previous appointment she will slap d receptionist and burst his office door when they have slight misunderstanding.

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by Nobody: 7:11am On Apr 19, 2016

omogin:
No be TV show you call am ok na.

Is it not possible in real life? huh

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by omogin(f): 7:12am On Apr 19, 2016

BuddhaPalm:
You don't understand the dynamics at play here.

Babe just lost her meal ticket, plus choice accommodation.

She can't afford to move on (pun very accidental).

Excellent summary

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by omogin(f): 7:14am On Apr 19, 2016

vince001:
Is it not possible in real life?

People die everyday, why not? It can happen, and you'll be the first to type rip on the thread. Advice is easy when you are not involved

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by ichommy(m): 7:22am On Apr 19, 2016

amokeme:
welcome to NL

amokeme U re adding flesh o @ Profile Picture. How exam to far?

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by blaise26abj(m): 7:24am On Apr 19, 2016

See Nigerians with double standards. How is her outburst any different from what Wizkid said? She even went as far as damaging the dude's car. Is it because the man can't play the gender card without being called a wuss? He should report her to the Lagos commissioner of Police. Let her cool her sorry arse in Jail for threat to life and damage to property

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by realmindz: 7:27am On Apr 19, 2016

Take her back fire...I like the part she said she prayed to God to TORCH his heart

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by ayamAgenius: 7:27am On Apr 19, 2016

Dojupyo:
Its best to keep shut when angry.. I understand she might have felt bad, but she said too much.. If the guy has a forgiving heart and truly loves her, he can still take her back.. Most people who say things like this ain't harmful, they are just empty vessels but then if anything happens to the person, they would be held responsible even if they are innocent..

Morale of the story, You can get angry but Silence is the best

Is she your benefactor? undecided

Take what back? huh

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by whytepawn1(m): 7:28am On Apr 19, 2016

rubsaphy:
MY ADVICE IS FOR THE LADY.... IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET HIS ATTENTION. STOP CALLING, PRETEND YOU'RE MOVING ON. WHEN HE DOES NOT HEAR FROM YOU IN A MONTH HE'LL TRY TO REACH OUT, THEN YOU'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE A CIVILIZED CONVERSATION.

for una wey dey rant say the guy has moved on. If he has moved on he won't ask his friend to post this online, he obliviously cares about the lady, and he is enjoying the attention he's getting from her. If he has moved on he wouldn't be asking for other people's opinions.

I hardly think that will happen!!. the lady over reacted... there is a thin line between love and hate. Nothing should justify violence in a relationship. if the opposite was the case, most ladies will brand the guy as a "wife beater " ,"violent and abusive " and will advice the lady to leave the relationship. I once dated a lady who got all temperamental at the slightest provocation. and i tell you, It's not worth it.

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by dulphines: 7:29am On Apr 19, 2016

He should forgive her, what she simply lacks is emotional intelligence.

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by bonna4u(m): 7:31am On Apr 19, 2016

@the boyfriend, forgive but don't forget. keep her arse out.

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by Nobody: 7:39am On Apr 19, 2016

dulphines:
He should forgive her, what she simply lacks is emotional intelligence.

Oga he lacks a bit more than dat

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by humilitypays(m): 7:40am On Apr 19, 2016

Ladies ought to know that all men, I mean all (including whitemen) that have 1million dollars (50million naira for Nigerians) and above have more than 1 woman in their life.

And 80% of rich men have fathered a child outside their marriage #FACT

You can only know some of these truth when the man dies.

So any lady that wants a completely faithful man should go for a very broke man, sadly that's the world for u cry

So the lady in question threatening to poison her boyfriend because she heard that he impregnated another girl shows how heartless and stupid she is.

That means if she was 2face, Flavour, Wizkid, Davido, 50cent, PDIDDY, Bill Clinton, former Italian Prime Minister Berlusconi's girlfriends and wives, those men would have been dead since....useless poor girl reaping where she didn't sow!

In fact, that her boyfriend and men like him deserve useless ladies like her, useless men spending all their life income on pigs sad

If your man cheats on you, the worst u can do is breakup with him or u cheat on him too!!

If he impregnated another girl, u too go and carry belly for another guy, simple!!!

Why poison a man because he admired and had a fling with another woman, was he created to worship u for life huh

Are u a god huh

Any woman like her ought to be jailed or killed if possible, what bulshit!!! angry

Any woman that thinks a financially rich man will forever be faithful to her is a dreamer, wake up!! Stop listening to crap; all rich men cheat, take it or leave it! Argue it, na u sabi angry

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by tivta(m): 7:40am On Apr 19, 2016

Lmao, stupid love, seems like the girl jazzed him, did someone say he rented an apartment for her and her mum? Men this jazz is strong, the man must have a death wish if he takes her back...
Girls will never learn

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by habsydiamond(m): 7:44am On Apr 19, 2016

Its better to let go now because if u forgive this lady she will still do it again and again becos the instinct responsible for her reaction is from within her. She will still do worse that breaking of the G wagon mirror. Becos of rumour she want to poison her guy what if its true she may end up killing him.

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by shadol0083(m): 7:56am On Apr 19, 2016

For ur girlfriend or girllover to act like dis without confirming what she was told, bro ur life is more important to me.I rest my case

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by lebrotin: 7:57am On Apr 19, 2016

The lady only showed who she really is. He should not take her back because she will eventually poison him.

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by cococandy(f): 7:59am On Apr 19, 2016

100

DedeNkem:
Here is my thought or advice.

She over-reacted and made things worse by smashing his property. That's a runz or street girl's attitude. She has terrible friends and anyone who keeps this type of friends is bad herself. The guy probably likes this kind of girls. Who knows?

If I were the guy's friend, I would scold him to dumb her as*s immediately. This type of woman shouldn't be kept and I hope he never thought of marrying her, because it will be a disaster.

Even if the guy cheated on her, she has no right whatsoever to threaten his life or destroy his property. She would be in jail if this happened in a civilized country.

When you're in a relationship with anyone, you DON'T own the person. The person has the right to to dumb your as*s any time he or she wishes. The same applies to marraige, a husband or wife has right to end the marraige at any time he or she wishes.

That's why you must trust and treat your partner with utmost respect and diginity if you want him or her to stick around long.

If anyone tells you something about your husband or wife or boyfriend or girlfriend, investigate first before jumping to a conclusion!

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by morganwizzy55(m): 8:02am On Apr 19, 2016

make una forget that thing, woman sabi spit trash when they get annoyed.. my girlfriend hurt me without apologizing... I pretended to be OK for over 2 months. I then do her the worst wey no man fit do him girlfriend, ladies and gentlemen, she threaten to deal with me o, but as man wey get liver, I no shake. After she come remember wetin she do for 2 months ego, na she come dey beg o...but I have nutin to do Dan to accept her apology.

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by Nobody: 8:08am On Apr 19, 2016

Oya where are all these gender equality people o. Food don set

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by Coldfeets: 8:21am On Apr 19, 2016

He shouldn't.

At least, I know I wouldn't.

ONCE BITTEN; TWICE SHY.

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by Nobody: 8:24am On Apr 19, 2016

Dojupyo:
Its best to keep shut when angry.. I understand she might have felt bad, but she said too much.. If the guy has a forgiving heart and truly loves her, he can still take her back.. Most people who say things like this ain't harmful, they are just empty vessels but then if anything happens to the person, they would be held responsible even if they are innocent..

Morale of the story, You can get angry but Silence is the best

just Negodi!!! What you wrote up there "love" when at the slightest instance she threatened to "poison" do you know what that means? Gosh! Firstly like linda I will sue her for threatening my life. Secondly she should go to hell (f**k her love). Some people here don't how grave it is to threaten people with food poisoning.

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by eightsin(m): 8:43am On Apr 19, 2016

Op, sing this to her

To the left, to the left
To the left, to the left
To the left, to the left
Everything you own in the box to the left
In the closet that's my stuff
Yes, if I bought it, please don't touch
And keep talking that mess that's fine
But could you walk and talk at the same time
And, it's my name that's on that jag
So come move your bags, let me call you a cab

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by 100Cents: 8:50am On Apr 19, 2016

Csami:
She's an illiterate with bad temper , not a very nice combination. True, if she had a gun she would have shot the bobo and for what? Wrong accusation?
Me can never accept such a woman in my life. As a matter of fact, I'll be filing a restraining order on her.
I can't dodge all the problems in Nigeria only to get killed in my house by the hands of a woman who claims to love me. Never!

Mah nigga.

Quote of the week..

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by skeendyke: 9:01am On Apr 19, 2016

I will forgive her. Definitely. But, I will NEVER let her back into my life. Never. Even a blind man knows the sound of an oncoming train which is the sound of death if he insists on staying on its tracks. This lady with her 'threats' is the sound of approaching death and the man will do well to stay clear from her tracks if he wants to live another day.

Ogorwyne, you're the ONLY voice that made sense among other ladies on front page. Nice contribution.

Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by marvelous000: 9:03am On Apr 19, 2016

Dojupyo:
Its best to keep shut when angry.. I understand she might have felt bad, but she said too much.. If the guy has a forgiving heart and truly loves her, he can still take her back.. Most people who say things like this ain't harmful, they are just empty vessels but then if anything happens to the person, they would be held responsible even if they are innocent..

Morale of the story, You can get angry but Silence is the best

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I refuse to have a forgiving heart for this kind of woman. Even God will be angry with me if i forgive her, cos God mean well for me and my future.

This is why it's absolutley wrong for a man to solicit for emotional advice from a woman. You peeps are damn myopic and sentimental to say it as it is.

If the guy is your brda. Will you push such potential blood-sucking lady to him, all for the string of hope that she may be an empty vessel ?

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by marvelous000: 9:08am On Apr 19, 2016

Donpressman:
see mumu. No be only clear reason na nuclear reason

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I tell you my brda!

Just imagine how the gal excuse the bullshit with "CLEAR REASON FOR HER ACTION."

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by Nobody: 9:12am On Apr 19, 2016

rubsaphy:
MY ADVICE IS FOR THE LADY.... IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET HIS ATTENTION. STOP CALLING, PRETEND YOU'RE MOVING ON. WHEN HE DOES NOT HEAR FROM YOU IN A MONTH HE'LL TRY TO REACH OUT, THEN YOU'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE A CIVILIZED CONVERSATION.

for una wey dey rant say the guy has moved on. If he has moved on he won't ask his friend to post this online, he obliviously cares about the lady, and he is enjoying the attention he's getting from her. If he has moved on he wouldn't be asking for other people's opinions.

for ur mind, u threaten to poison me, u expect me to call u again, think about it, if she trys to do what u listed, the guy will get another bae, if me i think the guy should move on, he is even rich, g-wagon is not meant for poor guys, he is every girl's dream with that type of car, this na life matter naa,

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