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skeendyke:
I will forgive her. Definitely. But, I will NEVER let her back into my life. Never. Even a blind man knows the sound of an oncoming train which is the sound of death if he insists on staying on its tracks. This lady with her 'threats' is the sound of approaching death and the man will do well to stay clear from her tracks if he wants to live another day.

Ogorwyne, you're the ONLY voice that made sense among other ladies on front page. Nice contribution.

Thanks.

Dojupyo:
Its best to keep shut when angry.. I understand she might have felt bad, but she said too much.. If the guy has a forgiving heart and truly loves her, he can still take her back.. Most people who say things like this ain't harmful, they are just empty vessels but then if anything happens to the person, they would be held responsible even if they are innocent..

Morale of the story, You can get angry but Silence is the best

it doesn't take much to cease to be an empty vessel. that same harmless Anger will cause her to start with poison and rant later when the guy has eaten 4 spoons of cyanide laden rice.
Off I go. As for forgiveness, Why not?!! but we ain't dating no more.

Don't you guys think she's only bothered & concerned about what she used to get in the relationship & now she's missing? I mean you are begging for forgiveness for your wrong doing yet you are pointing out how it's been two weeks you've been thrown out of lekki & how your uncle's place is not good for your mum. Guys in my opinion, her plea is not sincere but just trying to get her source of income or earnings back inline & been who I am, I would never have anything intimate with a destructive lady however low-value that thing might be. But then who knows, na the two of them know where & how dem meet, i believe the bobo knows what's best for him & that he should do

Phizzlephizz:
She said "I prayed in church for you yesterday for God to TORCH your mind". me I will not forgive her, cause she didn't use the right words when she was angry, now that she's still apologising she's still not using the right words. I no go forgive lailai

make holy ghost Torch the heart to aches... that girl was born angry I tell u.

rubsaphy:
MY ADVICE IS FOR THE LADY.... IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET HIS ATTENTION. STOP CALLING, PRETEND YOU'RE MOVING ON. WHEN HE DOES NOT HEAR FROM YOU IN A MONTH HE'LL TRY TO REACH OUT, THEN YOU'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE A CIVILIZED CONVERSATION.

for una wey dey rant say the guy has moved on. If he has moved on he won't ask his friend to post this online, he obliviously cares about the lady, and he is enjoying the attention he's getting from her. If he has moved on he wouldn't be asking for other people's opinions.

DAT only works on broke /jobless guys. the guy seems to be gainfully employed and loaded do u know how many other gals re hunting for these characteristics .Sincerely He is already gone.

vince001:
Reminds me of this TV show: For Better or Worse. The woman in that show burnt her husband's sports car and all his clothes for something he didn't do. But in the end, they still reconciled. Love conquers all you see.

The man is an idiot!

herbie27:
There was a clear reason 4 her action so he shld forgive her if he loves her.

She may have input her time and resources to make the relationship work and she loves the guy.... looking at her apology, so on receiving the info that he impregnated some1 else reacting the way she did is inevitable.

Bt wat if he actually impregnated the girl

why are girls this dumb?

ogorwyne:
Violence is neva the answer. If I were a guy in this situation, the babe should say her goodbyes o. This kinda woman, if u ever hurt her in marriage she will maim you, and later start regretting. They don't think straight in anger o.

thanks o. woman go come blind me for eye come dey tell me "it's in the heat of the moment ", " I was just angry I didn't mean to hurt u" stories that touch. I'm off. I'll forgive her but I'll run for my life.

The Bible said "out of the abundance of heart the mouth speaks" , and also " a wise man proceeded to see danger and concealed himself" and no one light fire on his bosom. Forgive her but stay far away from her otherwise you will endanger your life. Gov Tambulwa of Sokoto, Former Gov Chime of Enugu, Obansanjo , Sanuasi , former Kebbi state governor, Ibori impregnated his commissioner's daughter, just to mention a few took a second wives , the heaven did not fall, watch your shoulders with a girlfriend like this. You were fortunate she did not have opportunity to poisoned you, assuming she succeeded , will you come back from the grave to forgive her and continue to care for her and her family?

I will end my advice with a story of a pregnant wife of a former aide to the commissioner in AKS, her friend told her that her husband bought a flight ticket for an opposite sex to travel out of the country, with her condition she overreacted , but sadly she died, it turn out that the husband only booked a flight for his boss and the wife to travel out , but the man had lost his dear wife and the baby because of false information past to his wife by her so called friend. Lesson: Stay away from such friends, they are digging your grave, what you do not know will not hurt you, many of them are jealous and unhappy for your success, and will capitalized on your naivety to end your happiness. A word is enough for the wise.

rubsaphy:
MY ADVICE IS FOR THE LADY.... IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET HIS ATTENTION. STOP CALLING, PRETEND YOU'RE MOVING ON. WHEN HE DOES NOT HEAR FROM YOU IN A MONTH HE'LL TRY TO REACH OUT, THEN YOU'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE A CIVILIZED CONVERSATION.

for una wey dey rant say the guy has moved on. If he has moved on he won't ask his friend to post this online, he obliviously cares about the lady, and he is enjoying the attention he's getting from her. If he has moved on he wouldn't be asking for other people's opinions.

Story! The guy has moved on. No sensible man has time for a drama queen

You could have poisoned him? redflag!! The other day we read a thread of a diabolic girl who admitted poisoning a bro and here again another girl warned she could have poisoned another bro!! ! Wtf?

Poison is a baptismal name for murder!! what is it with people and how they react to being cheated on. Are they married? Even if they are, you believed your friends over your boyfriend/husband. Did he at some point not tell you he didn't do it? Yet you choose to believe your friends because you think all men are dogs

Now you are crying us a river because you were sent out of his lekki home .. E be like say na that one de pain you pass lol same money you claimed he deceives girls with

Get off Jare!! baba don't take that prospective killer back!


This is a lesson to the guy that left his house for a heartless sick girl after recovering from food poisoning. Send her away!! Feed her to dogs!!!

"Forgive us our tresspases as we forgive those who trespass against us"

freshpzy1:
Nice to be here...............hope I will be aving anice time wit ma fellow nairalander

Welcome..
You would certainly have a nice time on Nairaland. I can guarantee you that...

sammieguze:
Lol...

She hasn't given you a child, she isn't feeding you, she is not contributing to your financial success, you ve not even wedded her and she spoilt your gwagon based on mere rumour alone, cursed your generation, threaten to poison and you are still contemplating going back to her?

I am actually thinking... What if its after marriage?

She ll just wreck you. Simple.

u are onpoint, the guy should really thank God she didn't poison him.

Forgiving her and taking her back as ur woman is a different thing all together, as a Christian I advise you to forgive her and then move on with your life. Believe me this is a warning signal, you have not married her and she is destroying your properties, cursing you and above all regretting for not poisoning you just because of a mere speculation. Well if you don't want to die young then you have to forgive her and move on.... My candid advice.

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Gosh...the only girl who made sense on this thread...let me pm you...hope it will go tru?

amokeme:
"My uncle's place is not good for her health" really?
If she wasn't dating him, where were they going to get shelter before? Ok, he got a girl pregnant, (even if it was true) will smashing his screen "unpregnant" the other lady Such things are painful and hurting no doubt, but please we should learn to sort these things out better.
If I were in her shoes and I hear something like that, ill ask him 1st.he definitely cannot deny such.and if I can't cope with the truth, just leave his life. Simple. Nature will deal with him for you.
Now she doesn't have anywhere to go and obviously doesn't have a job, since she didn't have the wisdom to work, what happened to saving some of the money he gives to her? They will not think of that.
Now, I'm sure if he doesn't accept her, finding another "care taker" will be the next resort. And we all wonder why guys treat women as trash.

My advise to HER is, she should forget the guy (she has already done him enough harm) move on, get a JOB and stop harassing the guy with calls and messages. Imagine asking the mum to beg him I can never put my mum through such humiliation

1000 ways to die number 462: marry a hot tempered lady... I can't pass through all d stages in life as hard as things are just to be gunned down by a lady who can't control her emotions. Let her go and work on herself abeg

The Lady really went too far. With d anger in her, if she had a gun, she fit shoot ooo. Well, its up to d guy now. If he will be able to forgive n forget d whole issue, better. But if he can't trust her again, don't take her back......

Odikwa risky

samsam2019:
no wonder you have been on this case since



Your evil winsh wishes will not come to pass

See me see trouble o who am i wishing evil?, guy shift abeg!.

oribi:
She flipped and realised her daily bread is gone

Not all women depend on guys for their daily bread.

hedonistic:
This girl get out of here and stop wasting space. What if he impregnated someone else? What did Tuface's girlfriend at the time (Annie) do when he impregnated 3 other girls? What of Flavour, Wizkid, and uncountable other rich guys who do same daily? You must be mad to think that you can possess a successful man in this part of the world. So you can call me a bastard and threaten to ruin me because I used my wealth to get any girl I like. Did you help me make the money? Very annoying things who overrate their own importance.

You jst showed the whole world that you don't have value and respect for women, must every guy be Tubaba or Flavour?, they are celebrities and is natural that they are always surrounded by women who end up being impregnated by them.

Receive sense and quote me later.

Zceesneh:
why are girls this dumb?

Girls are dis dumb because you are a dumb ass.

my advice to the man is to let her go, marriage is a lifetime business and definitely u will step on one another's toes at times. living with a woman with anger problem is deadlier than driving with ur eyes closed. just learn from the story of leye oyediran, am also sure the wife will say she acted out of love for her husband. just think of if the rumour was true,you may probably be a dead meat by now and you know we all are human and bound to make mistakes. if you think she needs help and u are capable you can render it.

herbie27:
Not all women depend on guys for their daily bread.

Yup agreed but the one in this picture clearly does

marvelck:
Comedian Alibaba shared this story on Instagram about a lady who thought her boyfriend had impregnated another lady but later found out it wasn't true as stated by her friends. This was after she had violently attacked him, destroyed the mirror of his G-Wagon car and cursed him. Now she is begging to come back. Above is a screenshot of the text messages from the lady begging her boyfriend after the attack. Read what Alibaba wrote after the cut.

"I don't know how to advise my guy... He says I should help him ask without adding any names. "What if she reads the postings online? I asked him. "Then she will know if I am right or wrong to have packed her out of my flat and ended the relationship". Please note, if you have no advice to give don't comment. Insults will be deleted. Please read the chats before commenting. Don't be asking me what the guy did. She said it all there. To make this clearer, her friends told her that her Bobo was responsible for impregnating a lady. So she went gaga. Then found out it was not her Bobo. At which time, she had been thrown out and she then realized that the girls who claimed to be protecting her from getting hurt (which may be true) did not investigate properly. So things became bad. And got worse when she broke the driver side glass of his Gwagon with a flower pot. Now it had become clear he wasn't the person responsible. Those friends have apologized that they "thought he was the one"... That is the root of all this apology. My Guy's argument is if she had a gun and shot him that night, what will these apologies be for?

forgive and forget.. the Holy Bible says so. if God can forgive us our sins then we are to forgive others. if you don't forgive her God won't forgive you too. this is a lesson for everyone. thanks.

DedeNkem:
Here is my thought or advice.

She over-reacted and made things worse by smashing his property. That's a runz or street girl's attitude. She has terrible friends and anyone who keeps this type of friends is bad herself. The guy probably likes this kind of girls. Who knows?

If I were the guy's friend, I would scold him to dumb her as*s immediately. This type of woman shouldn't be kept and I hope he never thought of marrying her, because it will be a disaster.

Even if the guy cheated on her, she has no right whatsoever to threaten his life or destroy his property. She would be in jail if this happened in a civilized country.

When you're in a relationship with anyone, you DON'T own the person. The person has the right to to dumb your as*s any time he or she wishes. The same applies to marraige, a husband or wife has right to end the marraige at any time he or she wishes.

That's why you must trust and treat your partner with utmost respect and diginity if you want him or her to stick around long.

If anyone tells you something about your husband or wife or boyfriend or girlfriend, investigate first before jumping to a dumb conclusion!

I absolutely love this contribution.

@bold
I love this line even more.

Truckpusher:
You can't stay with a woman that has so much hatred for you under any circumstances .

Run from her and her likes .

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