Sixx:

Talking of eye service tins lol, I wud hv first worn a big bandage on it.
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Towerofgrace:
@Fruitfulwoman, ewoo no vex oo, I no know say e reach ur side, like I said I will do what I can if I were to be in the position not because it is easier and it is still no guarantee that they would be nice or friendly but I go do my own, whatever them do afterwards it is their headache.

I imagine if someone comes to shout or point fingers at me for no reason, infact even with a reason sef, if I don't bite the finger ehn na small e go remain how u even see me self, u go check ursef before u try that with me.

Fvine:
@ praiseworks, it is well. May God give you the wisdom to handle all the issues that might come up from your extended family, Amen. The good thing is you now know them and their character so you can know what and how to carry yourself and how to tackle each one. Stop regretting marrying into the family, it will only make you sad and even depressed. Your husband loves you and the feeling is mutual. That's the major thing that matters. Try to mix up with them when you get to villa, don't always let your dh fight your battles, it can be counter productive and intensify their I'll feelings towards you. They'll just begin to see you as a woman taking away their brother and turning him against them. But in all, forgive them for they no not what they're doing. Lol @ Achana and Saloni. No you're not them but you're a virtuous wise woman and there lies your strength. God Bless.

Gr8fulHeart:
@praiseworks, I'm not much of a good advisor cos I rily don't know how to arange words. but why don't u focus on ur dh? do not take to heart what ur inlaws are doing. focus on loving ur dh more. learn to tolerate ur inlaws. mariage is actually not easy esp during d first few years o, don't allow ur inlaws to Mk it more stressful. focus on getting ur bfp, gt busy or a job if u don't hv. wish u all d best swetie. all is well

heroesoff8:
@ Praiseworks: I sympathise with you on what you are going through with your inlaws! The good news is that your DH is by your side defending which is a very good thing. I have realised that in most families where the MIL is uneducated, lacks exposure and fear of God this kind of friction, fault finding and picking unnecessary fights with their DIL is always prevalent!
Truth is, you have different background/upbringing from them and no matter how hard you try if someone has mischievous agenda towards you nothing you do will please them. I guess you are Igbo(i am too but married to Edo). For now, try as much as possible to keep to yourself. Call occasionally to greet MIL and put it on speaker especially when DH is around no unnecessary banters. Leave some form of mystery and let them keep guessing as I've realised too much familiarity breeds insult. You are only preserving yourself and loving them from afar it doesn't mean you hate them. Silence is also golden as it cannot be misquoted. Reduce or even don't travel to the village unless when it's absolutely required, if you can avoid it for now. Also commit her in serious prayers that God should turn your rship with her like Ruth/Naomi.
My major concern would have been your hubby if he wasn't protecting you but in this case he does. You also need to have a heart to heart talk to with him to understand that you need all the positive energy while ATCing. If avoiding village visits, August meeting, generally things that bring up the drama by all means do!
As per your SIL, she will get a MIL like her mum when she marries that's if she hasnt!
My mum tried being over bearing on my SIL and I warned her sternly to desist and get off her case. Little did I know that shortly I got married, my MIL wanted to show herself and hubby immediately called her to order to NEVER question me or anything of that nature. Today, we re all good and she keeps praying for me.
So my dear cheer up and know you re in that family for a purpose which God himself will fulfil.
I wish you and all my sisters on this thread our big fat positive pregnancy/safe delivery/mother alive/baby alive! In Jesus name!
Amen.

Rose23:
Hello!


New here. First post.

Just found out my Fallopian tubes are blocked at the frimbea ends. Haven't seen my doctor yet. Been looking at my X-rays...wondering if the HSG was done properly... It is well.

I just want to ask the house if anyone was able to unblock their tubes using herbs or Serra.

Thanks

enatasha:



Eyah so sorry to hear that what you learnt here never worked for you. In as much as it never worked for you, I believe that there are mamas that got there bfp through the information they got here. It will interest you to know that God created each one of us with unique DNA's & so what works for Mrs. A
might not work for Mrs. B.
I may not know what you are presently going through, but I as well understand that you are going through depression and you are looking for whom to blame. I've checked your profile and I am not surprised at your outburst cos I realised that this is the only post your have made on nairaland.
My dearest sister, please do not allow yourself to get to that point where nothing else matters, its evident in your post that you are sliding into deep recess. If drugs failed then know that God will never fail you. Please hold on and cheer up cos God comes when you least expect Him.

somuadi:
Please sweet darlings. I am in a fix. All I need now is a job. I need a job badly as one needs breath. I am a graduate. I can do any kind of job that is legal. No salary is too small for me for now. The devil will always loose in my life. My marriage is going through challenge due to TTC. It has gotten so bad that DH no send me again with regards to feeding. I cry my eyes out each new day. Where I work is going through financial stress. No salary since January. Eating is now an issue. Please help a sister in need. God bless you all.

Towerofgrace:
@Fruitfulwoman, ewoo no vex oo, I no know say e reach ur side, like I said I will do what I can if I were to be in the position not because it is easier and it is still no guarantee that they would be nice or friendly but I go do my own, whatever them do afterwards it is their headache.

I imagine if someone comes to shout or point fingers at me for no reason, infact even with a reason sef, if I don't bite the finger ehn na small e go remain how u even see me self, u go check ursef before u try that with me.

Towerofgrace:
@Praiseworks, babes these your inlaws pass becareful oo as other mamas have said deal with them from afar then. So u mean after leaving u outside and sick they wanted you to cook that same day with a sore on ur hand? them no try, I thought u were sighting different instances, maybe I am mixing it up

You cannot come and go and die, it's your happiness and that of DH that matters even as wonderful as my inlaws are, everyone stays on their lane, at least now you know how to deal with them and ur DH gat your back, so no worries.

Rose23:
Hello!


New here. First post.

Just found out my Fallopian tubes are blocked at the frimbea ends. Haven't seen my doctor yet. Been looking at my X-rays...wondering if the HSG was done properly... It is well.

I just want to ask the house if anyone was able to unblock their tubes using herbs or Serra.

Thanks

bisiswag:
Hello sweet mum's. Please to u all staying at abuja,does anyone know any creche that offers overnight care? Thanks

Baaby:

Pls mamas help me, I search for this Chinese Tea at Ebay am seeing a lot of Yi mu Cao and Xi xian Cao tea I don't know the particular one to purchase. when i read through the internet about the tea i understand Xi Xian Cao (Siegesbeckia) and Yi Mu Cao (Leonurus) together with Serrapeptase works better and opens the blocked tubes within 10 days of taking it. Jus want to be sure before i can go ahead.

cc: mummy Olaoye and other sabi mamas.

praiseworks:
Thanks Ayauche for the wonderful advice God bless you!

God Bless u too darling, just be calm and dnt allow anything bother u ok.

praiseworks:


@Rose23 you are welcome even with the negative report i still wish you a very short stay here do not be afraid our God is still on the throne.

Try and see your doctor and hear what he has to say and read up old posts on this forum the truth is there will always be a solution. Goodluck wishing you double for your trouble.

ejimikeokwu:
fvine thank you I wasn't doubting his prescription is just just that I want to know the name of the drugs, even when my dh was given motility and count booster they did the same maybe they don't want us to do self medication as you said but to tell you the truth those drugs are too costly.