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Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by smileysmiley(f): 6:06pm On Apr 23, 2016
What is slut shaming?
Slut shaming is the act of criticising a woman for her real or presumed sexual activity, or for behaving in ways that someone thinks are associated with her real or presumed sexual activity.
In simpler terms, slut shaming is when a woman is branded a slut due to her sexuality. Since I reside in Nigeria, I will base my discussion on slut shaming in Nigeria.
Slut shaming in Nigeria is an old practice that has passed on from generation to generation and the real reason I decided to talk about it is because of its alarming increase in Nairaland. Every Nigerian female at one point or the other has been called a slut, an "ashawo", an "olosho", or something related cause of a disagreement with the male folks. The annoying part is that some women help men to slut shame their fellow women all in the bid to stand out.
E.g: Guy: Girls are slut
Girl: Not all o... Like me, I am not a slut
Correct response: Why do you think girls are sluts?

Ladies let's hear how we deal with slut shaming, I'm sure we will all be able to learn one or two things from each other.






How I deal with it:
Most times I ignore but if I get time, I give naughty replies like:
"Every dick was a hit
From Ifeanyi to Femi to Ahmed
Olosho ti take over".


"Oga if you vex me, I go marry your papa turn you to step son"

Or any other one I can think of, there is no way I'll allow one male born of a female to slut shame me into silence or into slut shaming my fellow lady or into defense mode.

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Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by Cutehector(m): 6:15pm On Apr 23, 2016
Fvck your opinion abt me.



Cc: y'all
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by Maxi112: 6:15pm On Apr 23, 2016
who know no say ashow for Nigeria is higher than d so called good and decent girls in our country


sweetness of di'cks, is the cause of everything tho I don't expect them to agree with me.
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by Nobody: 6:18pm On Apr 23, 2016
OP. What is this ??

Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by Nobody: 6:18pm On Apr 23, 2016
Click like if u think d op is an olosho.

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Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by smileysmiley(f): 6:25pm On Apr 23, 2016
SAINTSAMURAI:
Click like if u think d op is an olosho.
Men sha! What do we do when men have decided to wear the skirts. I clearly said "ladies". What are you doing here? You don turn woman? Don't sell your birthright cause of a little opportunity to bash a female.

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Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by Nobody: 6:27pm On Apr 23, 2016
smileysmiley:
Men sha! What do we do when men have decided to wear the skirts. I clearly said "ladies". What are you doing here? You don turn woman? Don't sell your birthright cause of a little opportunity to bash a female.
LOL wareva. kiss my dick as i leave.
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by smileysmiley(f): 6:29pm On Apr 23, 2016
BreadandBeans:
OP. What is this ??
Oga concentrate on eating your bread and beans, leave woman matter... u no go understand
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by smileysmiley(f): 6:31pm On Apr 23, 2016
SAINTSAMURAI:
LOL wareva. kiss my dick as i leave.
only God knows why you guys resort to slut shaming... I won't kiss your dick cause the stench is unbearable
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by Maxi112: 6:31pm On Apr 23, 2016
smileysmiley:
Men sha! What do we do when men have decided to wear the skirts. I clearly said "ladies". What are you doing here? You don turn woman? Don't sell your birthright cause of a little opportunity to bash a female.
take it easy b4 u derail ur thread with ur own hand (just wanna make common sense)
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by Nobody: 6:34pm On Apr 23, 2016
smileysmiley:
only God knows why you guys resort to slut shaming... I won't kiss your dick cause the stench is unbearable
THEN i will just pour out my speerm in ur mouth.
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by smileysmiley(f): 6:37pm On Apr 23, 2016
SAINTSAMURAI:
THEN i will just pour out my speerm in ur mouth.
eeewkk!!! shoo!!!
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by layla129(f): 6:38pm On Apr 23, 2016
I've gotten tones of the slut shaming comments here on Nl from who.re to bi.tch to slut etc after a minor disagreement. But girl, i just ignore. Repying them isn't worth it...like am i gonna try to defend being a who.re when i'm not even close to been crowned as one
Pfffttt undecided

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Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by smileysmiley(f): 6:38pm On Apr 23, 2016
SAINTSAMURAI:
THEN i will just pour out my speerm in ur mouth.
eeewkk!!! shoo!!!
Lalasticlala, Seun come and see this guy is misspelling censored words
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by grad2012(f): 6:40pm On Apr 23, 2016
Go gal u did good by speaking your mind.we pray things change and take a better turn someday.
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by smileysmiley(f): 6:41pm On Apr 23, 2016
layla129:
I've gotten tones of the slut shaming comments here on Nl from who.re to bi.tch to slut etc after a minor disagreement. But girl, i just ignore. Repying them isn't worth it...like am i gonna try to defend being a who.re when i'm not even close to be crowned one
Pfffttt undecided
at times I wonder why they do it... insecurity? they just feel they have landed when they slut shame a female
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by Nobody: 6:44pm On Apr 23, 2016
smileysmiley:
eeewkk!!! shoo!!!
Lalasticlaa, eun come and see this guy is misspelling censored words
LOL why calling d mods, so u mean u have not once in ur life tasted sperrm while sucking a dick?
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by layla129(f): 6:47pm On Apr 23, 2016
smileysmiley:
at times I wonder why they do it... insecurity? they just feel they have landed when they slut shame a female

I feel they are quick to say it because they feel those are the most painful words they can tell a girl. I don't see why i should be pained over it when i am not a slut.
They know nada about you but know you're a slut cheesy...its just a tag that comes with being a girl
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by smileysmiley(f): 6:47pm On Apr 23, 2016
grad2012:
Go gal u did good by speaking your mind.we pray things change and take a better turn someday.
Pray things change? That won't help matters. The only way females can end slut shaming is by standing up to the slut shamer. Instead of cowering over or getting defensive like they expect, we could come up with a reply that hurts their ego equally

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Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by mostHandsome01: 6:48pm On Apr 23, 2016
hmm
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by smileysmiley(f): 6:52pm On Apr 23, 2016
layla129:


I feel they are quick to say it because they feel those are the most painful words they can tell a girl. I don't see why i should be pained over it when i am not a slut.
They know nada about you but know you're a slut cheesy...its just a tag that comes with being a girl
that's why I try to attack them with ego hurting words since we are out to witch hunt our ego cheesy
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by grad2012(f): 6:55pm On Apr 23, 2016
layla129:
I've gotten tones of the slut shaming comments here on Nl from who.re to bi.tch to slut etc after a minor disagreement. But girl, i just ignore. Repying them isn't worth it...like am i gonna try to defend being a who.re when i'm not even close to been crowned as one
Pfffttt undecided
more like it gal shake it off.
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by smileysmiley(f): 6:56pm On Apr 23, 2016
SAINTSAMURAI:
LOL why calling d mods, so u mean u have not once in ur life tasted sperrm while sucking a dick?
you look like a troll, I know no real man will have time to engage in a feminine thread... troll on Saint! have fun while trolling
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by Nobody: 6:57pm On Apr 23, 2016
smileysmiley:
you look like a troll, I know no real man will have time to engage in a feminine thread... troll on Saint! have fun while trolling
K
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by IamLEGEND1: 7:05pm On Apr 23, 2016
a harlót is a harlót
no number of threads is gonna change that.
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by Nobody: 7:09pm On Apr 23, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
a harlót is a harlót

no number of threads is gonna change that.

Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by rosieluv(f): 7:30pm On Apr 23, 2016
smileysmiley:
at times I wonder why they do it... insecurity? they just feel they have landed when they slut shame a female
lols i think dey feel lyk real men wen dey insult/slutshame,d best tyn to do is to ignore dem
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by obontami: 7:31pm On Apr 23, 2016
If ur toto dey available just pm me I pay good money in no time cool
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by Nobody: 7:42pm On Apr 23, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
a harlót is a harlót

no number of threads is gonna change that.
°•°•An a hoe is a hoe dispite the titles he hides behind...
....°•°If a sexually liberal woman is 1
... so is a sexually liberal man.


°•°YO Op! °•°You on point!
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by smileysmiley(f): 7:51pm On Apr 23, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
°•°•An a hoe is a hoe dispite the titles he hides behind...
....°•°If a sexually liberal woman is 1
... so is a sexually liberal man.


°•°YO Op! °•°You on point!
chop knuckle jaree

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Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by IamLEGEND1: 7:52pm On Apr 23, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
°•°•An a hoe is a hoe dispite the titles he hides behind...
....°•°If a sexually liberal woman is 1
... so is a sexually liberal man.
°•°YO Op! °•°You on point!
K
Re: Dealing With Slut Shaming - Ladies Get In Here by IamLEGEND1: 7:53pm On Apr 23, 2016
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