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emusmith:
sometimes sef, some happens to be married o

emusmith:
The truth is painful but must be spoken nonetheless. I've heard some complaints from some friends plus some of my past experiences. Ladies, if you don't have plans for a guy stop the following:

1. Stop calling him "sweet names" like dearie, sweetheart, honey, love etc.

We know you're a "lovie duvie" but biko, control it enh...don't give him false hope. Let friends be friends NOT lovers. Unless you want to switch over, then you open up.


2. Stop visiting him on skimpy clothes and buttoned shirts, especially when you're 'courageous'.

You visit a guy whose ear NL has filled with topics like 'How ladies behave when they want to get laid". If you don't have plans for him, quit sending those signals. Remember: To every sequence, there is a consequence.


3. Stop getting jealous when you see him with other girls

You don't want to marry him, yet you get jealous when he's making headway, relationship-wise. You're not his mother, biko. Friends sef have limits.

4. Stop discussing your past relationships with him- it's not his business.

This thing you are saying is communicating something different to his mind. You want to talk with someone, you have besties right? False hope everywhere! Now, what do you want him to do? Leave his girl and come solve your relationship problems?


5. Stop visiting him at odd or questionable hours

This is one major way smart and decent girls nicely wipe the thought away from the mind of numerous suitors. If you don't want intimacy, don't visit him at all sef. Not like all guys are like that, but MOST girls are like that. A girl visits you and choose to be a good boy, then she hates you. The next point expatiate more...


6. Don't suggest sleeping in his house or vice versa because something might happen.

This offers a protective measure. Don't get me wrong: if there's an understanding, it's okay. More often than not, in a corrupt world of ours, no one can be trusted in a cold bed. You can trust him but can you trust his "down there". If you don't want "harassment", avoid stuff like this.

7. Don't "miss" him.

Ever woke up in the morning and you see a text message in your phone by "just a friend' saying 'I miss you'. That stirs up questions as much as it does hormones. It's risky.

JUST ADDED:

8. Stop 'breasting' him

You don't have plans for him and you'll be staining his white clean shirt with your b**bs. C'mon! That's unfair! Some will just come with their coconut and rest on your body as if your skin cells are dead and gone. Let's change in 2016.

Abeg enh, let's know the ladies that are still single and available. Don't colour-blind us. If you are in love, show it and don't act funny when we reciprocate. Relationship leads to marriage when both parties are honest to themselves. Its childish and evil to start acting innocent after you have caused him to sin at heart. I honestly believe, a few guys won't easily swallow this bitter pill as they'll seek ways to avenge.

You can share your experiences too.

Goodnight.

SnakeXenzia:
op, you're so on point
that was how this bae was making advances at me,and i was a gentle boy,the shy type self.
i always pretend not no know what she's doing.
fast forward...@ the end of the day,she kissed me on the cheek mehn,girls are desperate!
And things went on like that.
Long story tho
Then,after sometime I thought I should ask this girl out formally...was a teen then,lol
And she said NO
I can never make such mistake again in my life,lol.

queebeediva:
Noting is more confussing like a girl dating a broke guy who is good in bed!

MrCEO69:
bro, na just this exact thing i just went tru oh, the girl fine ganh.. Told her my mind oh she still no agree, oya why u been the show me green light, they call me boo, they hug me ( me wey be Virgin ). All my friend think sai i dey date her oh... Na so so explanation i dey give them. Well i told her my mind oh just 2day ago mk she stop all those her stunt. Me don tire!
Girls sha like to do this kind thing ganh.

AheadMarket:
for Slap. Which is what you'll get for booking space

DharmyYinks:
I dislike dis one Ehn

And the moment the Knight rises... they are quick to tag him with bad names.

A guy will always know wen a boobs touch him even if he is sleeping not to talk of resting it on him.

Biko ladies don't punish the guy.

emusmith:
haha, my ear don full of sweets and honey... Some even say, 'handsome'...in my mind, I'm like, 'you are a superstar'

falconey:
There was a connection when i wanted her but since we became friends and she had opened up telling me about her relationships bla bla bla
etc


I'd kill the connection because i don't want it to be like i'm taking advantage ,you should see how she roam with undies in my room.

firstking01:
They do these to you if they wanna put you in the friendzone.

anochuko01:
this is great o! that's how they friendzone guys!
after friendzoning me insisting that she's got a bf, this girl is still telling me ''I miss you'' and I was like ''thank you''. again she asked my house address...and I was like ''when you get to the bus stop, just scream my name''

DharmyYinks:
I dislike dis one Ehn

And the moment the Knight rises... they are quick to tag him with bad names.

A guy will always know wen a boobs touch him even if he is sleeping not to talk of resting it on him.

Biko ladies don't punish the guy.

emusmith:
I had to stop replying one's messages et al. What do you want from me? I asked my self. Hian

MrCEO69:
i dnt mean to border u!!!

Bye!

emusmith:
Haha, wasn't talking to you bro!
Was quoting the lady in question...
How could I...

MrCEO69:
lol... Ok

davit:
I have same issue too. I really want to do that but afraid not to hurt her. She wants to hear my before she sleeps and still says NO to my proposal .

I tire o.

killsmith:
even a dead man would feel it