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Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by tochstorm(m): 12:36am On Apr 27, 2016

Mikylopez:
av gt no business wit u i jes saw smtin ah lyk

kilode!!!

Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by Nobody: 1:29am On Apr 27, 2016

Gf and bf topic again grin

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Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by adejaresalami1(m): 2:21am On Apr 27, 2016

How this kind post go make fp......changee sef don affect lalasticala grin

Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by amtaken(f): 2:36am On Apr 27, 2016

Na so una dey gather spirit husband put for una dream. grin

Mikylopez:
D guy in d picture iz hawt!

Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by Myself2(m): 4:10am On Apr 27, 2016

[size=14pt]@ OP

Did you or some dude close to you just have a recent experience in that regard ??[/size]

Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by Funkychic(f): 4:13am On Apr 27, 2016

Fabolousibk1:
mtchewwww....abeg who get pin mouth charger,..my ba3 don low ooo

Hehehehehe.....i get oo, come borrow mine and give me money jeyjey#owunasam#

Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by benideey(m): 5:25am On Apr 27, 2016

Even good girls are vulnerable! When the guy in school gives her more attention and so much care, she may likely feel attached to this other guy, anything can happen!

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Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by franugo(m): 5:40am On Apr 27, 2016

This made fp huh

yet after pleading with mods to help push this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/3062358/what-u-suggest-situation
to fp, they refused...a thread that might aid several families who have been wronged by uduaghan's govt.
.
.its clear ur mods know not what they are doing oga seun.

Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by sexytyga(m): 5:49am On Apr 27, 2016

Mikylopez:
av gt no business wit u i jes saw smtin ah lyk

that's what u like, seeing a guy hurt bah? Chai we knw your type

Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by sexytyga(m): 5:55am On Apr 27, 2016

Funkychic:
Hehehehehe.....i get oo, come borrow mine and give me money jeyjey#owunasam#

Broke girl undecided

Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by Ondoboi12345678: 6:01am On Apr 27, 2016

I give my gf surprise visit when I know am tired of the relationship so I can use that as an excuse to leave her. May God forgive me

Afama:

Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by Uwanaskye(f): 6:57am On Apr 27, 2016

The poor guy still has his goodie bag, the boy must have really 'chi chomchin'

Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by Eberex(m): 7:09am On Apr 27, 2016

naijaboiy:
[b][color=#1980BC]First, sometimes you don't need proof to act. It's not as if when you just have a feeling that something is wrong you just jump on the next bus to wherever she schools and go visit her. It takes time and patience to note all these things.

Common, no matter how you trust someone when the person starts faulting you should be sharp enough to know.

Loool....this your second point is quite funny and very laughable. What in the seven rivers of Africa do you mean by she's in campus so I should let her enjoy campus like I did? Are you indirectly saying I should allow my girlfriend frolick and flirt with other guys because that's campus life?

Is that how you handle your own girlfriend?

You see how many of you guys make silly mistakes? Now I see why some of you are sissies. It's not like checking on her will stop her from doing what she wants to do but at the same time it's quite foolish to let her "enjoy campus life" at the detriment of our relationship. Don't you think?

And your third point, you think if I want to surprise her I will let her know that's the reason I came to see her? Common you should be more intelligent than that.

What is the meaning of "that's her territory"? I don't really get how some of you handle your relationships but please don't tag it as "mature", it's far from it.

Your girl will be cheating on you and you'll keep quiet because you want to be mature about it. LOL! [/color][/b]

All I'm saying is, you don't own her yet. She is only your gf not your wife. If you love her and then catch her with a dude in one of your visits, who do you think would get hurt the more? Its you. Because your worst fear scenario has become a reality. When you go back maybe after saying your mind to her, she on her own part would feel less worried because she is in campus where distractions will not permit her to even think of her issue with u.

The only time a girl would concentrate on her bf is when she is back home from holiday or after graduation. Campus dating is common hence are u prepared face the shock you think is never possible?

Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by Mikylopez(f): 7:21am On Apr 27, 2016

DDeliverer:
your nose tho

u lyk?

Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by Mikylopez(f): 7:22am On Apr 27, 2016

sexytyga:
that's what u like, seeing a guy hurt bah? Chai we knw your type

seen:-)

Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by Mikylopez(f): 7:25am On Apr 27, 2016

emusmith:
Smh

easy so it wont fall off

Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by Mikylopez(f): 7:27am On Apr 27, 2016

MrDoGood:
babe......................

la hot, la burn u
shikina

dnt worry abh my safety..tnx tho

Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by Mikylopez(f): 7:29am On Apr 27, 2016

emymeeky:
That is me

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Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by normrebel(m): 7:53am On Apr 27, 2016

ebubey:
g,

Are you in unijos?

Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by IRserveMyComent(f): 8:36am On Apr 27, 2016

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]In the first place nobody can be 100% trusted,so what are you telling me?

Most times what we do in relationships is to give our partner the benefit of the doubt and not necessarily trust per se.

Relationships are so fücked up these days that it's like being in a fool's paradise to say you fully trust someone and know that he or she can never hurt you.

It doesn't work that way trust me. [/color]

If yours doesnt work that way mine do. My dear if you cant trust 100% thats for you. And if you believe relationships of these days has gone so bad that trusting is like living in a fools paradise thats how is would be for you. Another thing is when you dont trust yourself you can never trust someone else no matter who they are.

Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by ebubey(f): 9:01am On Apr 27, 2016

normrebel:
Are you in unijos?

yes i am

Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by BrownShawty(f): 9:38am On Apr 27, 2016

See weytin dm put for fp..what a pity

Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by JoeCutie(m): 10:19am On Apr 27, 2016

Whether or not I'm cheating isn't the issue. I like surprises, but if you leave your place (far from school) just to pay me a 'surprise visit' in school, you're on your own. I'll just leave you and goan watch ball. Or if there's no match to watch, I wouldn't mind gallivanting around like ashewo.

Next time you call me before coming over to my place. You dey pay me 'surprise visit'. You no fit send me 'surprise money'?! undecided

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Re: When You Decide To Pay Your Girlfriend A Surprise Visit In School by Abee79(m): 10:28am On Apr 27, 2016

In 2005, my [female] cousin who attends the same school with my then girlfriend advised me to pay a surprise visit to my girl. She did not tell me why, and i did not insist on knowing why. For about two weeks, I formed a pattern of asking about her daily itinerary. I would call everyday and after the usual pleasantries, I asked:
"So, how is your day going to be like?"

One day, she told me she would spend the day at home [her place off campus] doing laundry. She lives in a different town. Within 15 or so minutes [of serious reckless speed] I was at her place. True to her words, she was outside her house washing clothes. There was no incentive to lie, since I usually asked her the same question everyday for two weeks.

She ushered me into her room. I was right behind her. Then I saw it!

A large frame with another guy's picture in the middle of her room, with her own little pix lovingly tucked at the bottom left corner of the frame.

I spent about three (3) hours in the room maintaining my normal cheerful & loving self - without making direct or indirect reference to the 'strange' picture. She was uncomfortable and I was happy she was. Her friends that saw my car outside came in to greet me and as soon as they came in, they froze on seeing the large frame still in its place - and me not loosing my cool. lol!

After that, the relationship started having 'k-leg' but I continued to give in my very best. In fact, I increased my love quotient towards her. Hehehehe [It was a great emotional torment for her. I knew the relationship was on its way to its grave, but I wanted to give her enough reason to regret leaving me for the rest of her life. lol!]

A year latter, the [shameless] girl used that incidence as one of the grounds to break off with me. She said if I really loved her, I would have shown signs of envy and jealousy when I saw another guy's picture frame in her room - can you imagine?

She eventually got married to one 'broke ass' [I sincerely apologise for using such derogatory phrase. I could not find a suitable one to apply to the sentence]. I still keep in touch with her family, so she will know what she missed. I know its not a Christian thing to do, but a little revenge won't hurt right? Everytime I buy a new car [I change cars annually], I pay her elder sister a visit, and I ensure that I leave a generous 'gift'. I am aware that the walls have ears . . .

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