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nasha1:
I want to talk about my experience and believe that many will learn.I started learning hand work(hair) when i was in university just to fall on something whenever i graduate and couldn't find a job and my parents were very supportive.After i graduated i opened a saloon with the help of my elder brother abroad and i am doing very well for a 25 years old. I started dating a guy that has been my friend for years and I was really happy I had him, though he wasn't rich nor didn't have any job but I believed he still has a future. Things went well for years and I help him also from the little I make, sometimes I even ignore my family needs just to make him happy and he promised that as soon as things gets better he will go and see my parents.I rejected many rich men who were married men anyway,even very promising suitors because of him,i never cheated on him,there were nothing i needed from a man that i didn't have.I wasn't rich but i had what i wanted in life and paid my bills.
On different occasions, I have given him some huge amount of money to start up something, even the kind of amount that I never dreamt that I could get when I was going for training years back.
He used some of it to fix his car, the remaining to do what God knows best and tell me afterwards that he has to fix his car because he cannot enter a bike (okada) because people will think that he is deadly broke meanwhile he is really broke which I never complained about, while I don't even have wheelbarrow to boast of.

After 4 years of courtship,he finally got a job then trouble started.He will sometimes ignore my calls then limiting his visit to my shop.I asked him many times what was the problem,he said it was nothing just job hectic.But after a year,he told me that he wants to settle down and that his family want him to marry a family friend blabla.i cried and went to his house to talk to his mother because they know me,she said she was not aware of anything and she will talk to him but the cousin told me that she doesn't know,it is the uncle that want him to marry the girl because he is doing business with her dad.she is 24 years old and lived in USA.i begged to the extent of falling sick.
he called me after 3 months just two weeks to his traditional wedding that he want to settle me for all i have done for him,that he loves me but the pressure is much.I abused him and left him in the hands of GOD.I am not hungry,the same money that took care of him and sometimes his mother for 4 years will take care of me.

I want to warn the ladies that they should Forget yam wey dey fire oh. Go for yam wey don done. Poor men will cheat when money comes in such a way that they will make up for their years of lack.
STOP following broke man with bright future. which future is bright when you dont have money. that is what we women have been using to deceive ourselves.
Pls stop giving him money. Dont give a man ur money. Its supposed to be the other way round
now i believe what my aunt has been saying that a woman that gives a man money is an unhappy woman.
Imagine if he's the one giving u money to expand... Won't u be happy? My dear wisen up, brace ur ego and keep ur head high. No man is worth all these. Broke men are always humble. Wait for him to be financially stable so that his true colours will show before you settle down with him.

Thanks.
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nasha1:
I started dating a guy that has been my friend for years and I was really happy I had him, though he wasn't rich nor didn't have any job but I believed he still has a future. Things went well for years and I help him also from the little I make, sometimes I even ignore my family needs just to make him happy and he promised that as soon as things gets better he will go and see my parents.I rejected many rich men who were married men anyway,even very promising suitors because of him,i never cheated on him,there were nothing i needed from a man that i didn't have.I wasn't rich but i had what i wanted in life and paid my bills.

sinequanon:
Are you saying that you only gave him money because he had promised to propose to you?

Or what are you now complaining about?

miszeno:
Hessssshhhhh shut up, dont use ur bad luck and foolishness give useless advice. Whether rich a poor, a good man is a good man, so u didnt see tbe handwriting on the wall, u self? A guy without job driving car, and giving u rubbish excuse for it, sister abeg carry ur cross. We dont need ur advice

nasha1:
I wrote in english....

engrkenny:
My dear if you're the one that passed through that, am really sorry.

But really the signs were right in front of you, you either chose to ignore or didn't see clearly enough (blinded by love perhaps).

It's good thing you moved on, Please ignore him and keep waxing stronger, there's always a future. Am sure you'll find deserved love.

Lastly, why should he even call you? His regrets if true is entirely his problem, let him wallow in them alone, don't give him that closure.

skywalker240:
that muppet dont know what he lost
And now its gone,and i know he's gonna regret it, trust me when i said that cos no man (real man) see's a womans worth and not keep it in his brains..
But pls u dont hav to generalise it and advice the innocent ladies here to go 4 ready made, just because a guy is broke then the lady should go 4 d ready made?
thats not d right advice 4 d ladies.
What makes u think a ready made man wont be like the crazy dude?
Women and their low sense of reasoning(no ofense intended to all d ladies)
Truly i am sorry, but i beleive after every dissapointment comes the blessing
I know you will meet a TRUE MAN better than that fool who will apreciate ur every grace and ur worths and also ur values.

kaziblake:
He called you?
I'm so sure he regretted what he did...I'm glad you moved on.
Someone better coming your way soon.

sinequanon:
Trying to evade the question?

Would you have given him all that money if he hadn't promised to eventually propose to you?

nasha1:
Like i said i wrote in English.didn't u see where i said i supported him ever since we were dating? what proposal are u talking about?
i beg i have moved on and very happy enjoying life and my money,i suggest u move on too.

nasha1:
^^^^^
mumu

sinequanon:
Trying to evade the question?

Would you have given him all that money if he hadn't promised to eventually propose to you?

nasha1:
Thank you for your kind words.

Mikkie31:
Some of you ladies deserve what you get.

nasha1:
thank u bellong, 2 tell u the truth there were no signs.He was always in my shop, his family knew about me and they were very fond of me.
I believed in him so much and sometimes,love can blind you.But i am glad i have grown and move on,he called me this december telling that he regret marrying his wife and moving to the USA. He wants 2 comeback but he need 2 know if i still love him.lol
He said he want 2 work more and save 2 comeback so dat "we" can run businesses.I just hangup the call.

itstpia8:
You receive kind words but you dont give kind words.

Pity!

itstpia8:
Hiss.

nasha1:
everyone on Nl know I am a lunatic, a mad 40 years old witch who live a lonely life. no husband,no child. I am a frustrated wicth,old cargo.

itstpia8:
Sorry for your life sweetie!

You are blaming me for your condition, right?

nasha1:
I am an old witch,still a virgin at 45 no man has ever look at me, I am a yaba left patient.how do I live with myself?I am lonely and frustrated. I am on NL 24/7 no jobs,no family,no husband,no kids.
shame on my parents 4 not keeping me in the psychiatric hospital.
I will continue changing my words, I am a lunatic.

itstpia8:
Sorry o!

nasha1:
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nasha1:
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nasha1:
everyone on Nl know I am a lunatic, I am a mad 40 years old witch who live a lonely life. I have no husband,no child. I am a frustrated wicth,old cargo.

nasha1:
I want to talk about my experience and believe that many will learn.I started learning hand work(hair) when i was in university just to fall on something whenever i graduate and couldn't find a job and my parents were very supportive.After i graduated i opened a saloon with the help of my elder brother abroad and i am doing very well for a 25 years old. I started dating a guy that has been my friend for years and I was really happy I had him, though he wasn't rich nor didn't have any job but I believed he still has a future. Things went well for years and I help him also from the little I make, sometimes I even ignore my family needs just to make him happy and he promised that as soon as things gets better he will go and see my parents.I rejected many rich men who were married men anyway,even very promising suitors because of him,i never cheated on him,there were nothing i needed from a man that i didn't have.I wasn't rich but i had what i wanted in life and paid my bills.
On different occasions, I have given him some huge amount of money to start up something, even the kind of amount that I never dreamt that I could get when I was going for training years back.
He used some of it to fix his car, the remaining to do what God knows best and tell me afterwards that he has to fix his car because he cannot enter a bike (okada) because people will think that he is deadly broke meanwhile he is really broke which I never complained about, while I don't even have wheelbarrow to boast of.

After 4 years of courtship,he finally got a job then trouble started.He will sometimes ignore my calls then limiting his visit to my shop.I asked him many times what was the problem,he said it was nothing just job hectic.But after a year,he told me that he wants to settle down and that his family want him to marry a family friend blabla.i cried and went to his house to talk to his mother because they know me,she said she was not aware of anything and she will talk to him but the cousin told me that she doesn't know,it is the uncle that want him to marry the girl because he is doing business with her dad.she is 24 years old and lived in USA.i begged to the extent of falling sick.
he called me after 3 months just two weeks to his traditional wedding that he want to settle me for all i have done for him,that he loves me but the pressure is much.I abused him and left him in the hands of GOD.I am not hungry,the same money that took care of him and sometimes his mother for 4 years will take care of me.

I want to warn the ladies that they should Forget yam wey dey fire oh. Go for yam wey don done. Poor men will cheat when money comes in such a way that they will make up for their years of lack.
STOP following broke man with bright future. which future is bright when you dont have money. that is what we women have been using to deceive ourselves.
Pls stop giving him money. Dont give a man ur money. Its supposed to be the other way round
now i believe what my aunt has been saying that a woman that gives a man money is an unhappy woman.
Imagine if he's the one giving u money to expand... Won't u be happy? My dear wisen up, brace ur ego and keep ur head high. No man is worth all these. Broke men are always humble. Wait for him to be financially stable so that his true colours will show before you settle down with him.

Thanks.
cc farano,ishilove

Mikkie31:
Some of you ladies deserve what you get. Anyway, there comes a time in every man's life when a line is drawn between marriage or relationship and status. Once a man's status changes,it is almost natural for him to detach himself from everyone who will not match his new status,including his lover and friends. Now that is a fact every honest,made man will agree to. #Pele_dear

tpiah11:
i am a bitter fool!

itstpia8:
i am Sorry o!

nasha1:
I am mad and frustrated!

nasha1:
I am an envious bitter witch!