Gurgle:
Wow

OP hope youre ok now?

Eniqurl:
Baby gurl focus.... These niggurs ain't loyal
Nice story Nasha.

CUM4WHAT:
NONSENSE

Jwhizzy:
@OP. Sorry about your experience. I could literally feel the hurt in your words. You loved and you lost.

I read a story once about a Mobil driver who was dating this girl from when she finished secondary school. He trained her thru Uni, fees accommodation, upkeep, sometimes extending his goodwill to her family. During her NYSC, he got her a placement to serve with Mobil, and then got her a permanent position based on his longstanding relationship with his ogas at work. Fast forward a few months, she drops the bomb that she can't be with a driver!

Point is, these things are not gender-specific. A breach of loyalty/trust is a character flaw that you will find in males and females alike. Dust yourself up, move on, and find happiness. Love yourself and find comfort in your strength and the fact that what goes around will surely come back around.

nasha1:


I am okay now,i am at peace with myself.
I have a great family and they have been very supportive.I am focusing on my saloon and very soon with the help of my brother,i am going to open a clothing store.God has been thankful.

Thank you

RickRichards:
You waltz in here like you're a 'known entity'!
You waltz in here and t-t-tell a story without p-p-paying respects to the elders of this land!!
Then you proceed to advise the ladies of our great land to become gold diggers!!!
Huhuhuhahaha!!!
You're in what? You are in soup. Pepper soup. Mexican ghost pepper - just in case you were wondering. The poster below me will read you your rights.

On a more serious note, ladies have been known to act the same way. So don't try to make it look like some 'gender-specific' thingy. You really have to know what you're investing in before you start pumping in your hard-earned benjamins. It's bad business to just arbitrarily splash the cash and expect 'returns' - especially when you're investing in 'something sentient'. But hey, Bill Gates made some bad investments, Warren Buffet and Dangote did too. But guess what? They're still very much in the business of investing, because sometimes.......sometimes you strike gold.

nasha1:


I am okay now,i am at peace with myself.
I have a great family and they have been very supportive.I am focusing on my saloon and very soon with the help of my brother,i am going to open a clothing store.God has been thankful.

Thank you

CUM4WHAT:
NONSENSE...

If


Only God could

Relieve you of yur f00lishness

nasha1:

Thank you for your kind words.

nasha1:
I want to talk about my experience and believe that many will learn.I started learning hand work(hair) when i was in university just to fall on something whenever i graduate and couldn't find a job and my parents were very supportive.After i graduated i opened a saloon with the help of my elder brother abroad and i am doing very well for a 25 years old. I started dating a guy that has been my friend for years and I was really happy I had him, though he wasn't rich nor didn't have any job but I believed he still has a future. Things went well for years and I help him also from the little I make, sometimes I even ignore my family needs just to make him happy and he promised that as soon as things gets better he will go and see my parents.I rejected many rich men who were married men anyway,even very promising suitors because of him,i never cheated on him,there were nothing i needed from a man that i didn't have.I wasn't rich but i had what i wanted in life and paid my bills.
On different occasions, I have given him some huge amount of money to start up something, even the kind of amount that I never dreamt that I could get when I was going for training years back.
He used some of it to fix his car, the remaining to do what God knows best and tell me afterwards that he has to fix his car because he cannot enter a bike (okada) because people will think that he is deadly broke meanwhile he is really broke which I never complained about, while I don't even have wheelbarrow to boast of.

After 4 years of courtship,he finally got a job then trouble started.He will sometimes ignore my calls then limiting his visit to my shop.I asked him many times what was the problem,he said it was nothing just job hectic.But after a year,he told me that he wants to settle down and that his family want him to marry a family friend blabla.i cried and went to his house to talk to his mother because they know me,she said she was not aware of anything and she will talk to him but the cousin told me that she doesn't know,it is the uncle that want him to marry the girl because he is doing business with her dad.she is 24 years old and lived in USA.i begged to the extent of falling sick.
he called me after 3 months just two weeks to his traditional wedding that he want to settle me for all i have done for him,that he loves me but the pressure is much.I abused him and left him in the hands of GOD.I am not hungry,the same money that took care of him and sometimes his mother for 4 years will take care of me.

I want to warn the ladies that they should Forget yam wey dey fire oh. Go for yam wey don done. Poor men will cheat when money comes in such a way that they will make up for their years of lack.
STOP following broke man with bright future. which future is bright when you dont have money. that is what we women have been using to deceive ourselves.
Pls stop giving him money. Dont give a man ur money. Its supposed to be the other way round
now i believe what my aunt has been saying that a woman that gives a man money is an unhappy woman.
Imagine if he's the one giving u money to expand... Won't u be happy? My dear wisen up, brace ur ego and keep ur head high. No man is worth all these. Broke men are always humble. Wait for him to be financially stable so that his true colours will show before you settle down with him.

Thanks.
cc farano,ishilove

nasha1:


And also may God relieve you of your masturbation.Is that why you turn to self-service because you don't want to be foolish?

RickRichards:

I'm waiting for my 'thank you' too. My words were equally kind.

CUM4WHAT:
NONSENSE...


If


Only God could




Relieve you of yur f00lishness