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raumdeuter:
You couldnt deal

Imagine what her husband if he is dependent on her would have to face. Maybe being emotional is why they cannot really handle being the bread winner

I have seen this very recently especially with the oil industry bust, Many guys who were balling previously and had loving wifes have lost their jobs and been kicked out now all over Houston because they cant fend like before again

One guy his wife woke him up at night to get out he got out that night drove to Odessa like 8hours away and he says he would not return until he gets something, even if and when he gets a job he isn't returning back to her. He would rather pay child support

Some don dey go drive uber say rather than make dem wife feed them and insult them all day dem go move to Auston and drive uber

Awwww poor guys. Naija babes never reach that level ooo

Or maybe the marriages were strictly based on money from inception so when the main ingredient of the contract finish, wetin remain naa lol

Edwife, I wish Tiwa hadn't responded sha, Linda Ikeji is just building mansions on top them celebrity issues. And again, I think it's more dignifying. Has Toke ever directly addresses her issues? No need.

Jesus fix it.

Kimoni using Tbillz as a yardstick to judge how men (over)react when their wife is the breadwinner get as e be. You sef reason am. This is tbillz

edwife:
tv welcome back.

Thank you. I really missed everyone. Managed to catch some of your good work.

Kimoni:
In short ehnn, women are strongly advised to marry upwards henceforth. No sideways talkless of downwards. And again, no baby daddies. TV01, what sayeth thou? No baby daddy for women anymore

My position remains unchanged. Healthy wholesome, well founded and strongly established marriages ! And yes, the dynamics between male/female are not to be sneered at or taken for granted.

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TV01:
My position remains unchanged. Healthy wholesome, well founded and strongly established marriages ! And yes, the dynamics between male/female are not to be sneered at or taken for granted.

TV

My position remains the same too TV. Ama start preaching against baby daddies aggressively henceforth I learn from the best. #saynotobabydaddies

Kimoni:
@lol at using insecurity as a cop-out. But it's true naa.

It's not easy taking up a woman's roles combined with the man's roles and still have to live on egg shells around the house just so that the man does not misinterpret her actions as being disrespectful. She will go berserk one day! Common guys, is it so difficult to understand the woman's burden in this situation?

Women!!!

Kimoni:
My position remains the same too TV. Ama start preaching against baby daddies aggressively henceforth I learn from the best. #saynotobabydaddies

As much as my main focus is men - hence it may appear I post with a bias against women - I would never advise a woman to marry a baby-daddy. Especially a woman of real worth and accomplishment. For a start, which girl grows up with a picture of her knight being a divorcé or single-dad? C'mon, demand and expect better - but also give it sha 0!


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An0nimus:
Kimoni using Tbillz as a yardstick to judge how men (over)react when their wife is the breadwinner get as e be. You sef reason am. This is tbillz

Bro, I no talk so oo

Just that this is the side of marriages most people don't get to see or hear about. All they hear is the kind of gist we heard about Tiwa yesterday from hubby. And like the dutiful wife, she would continue to cover up. That's my point really. It's not always what it looks like it is.

crackhaus:
Women!!!

but did you hear this same statement from Tiwa? Exactly these words?

Kimoni:
Edwife, I wish Tiwa hadn't responded sha, Linda Ikeji is just building mansions on top them celebrity issues. And again, I think it's more dignifying. Has Toke ever directly addresses her issues? No need.

Jesus fix it.

lalasticlala:
[size=16pt]I walked in on TJ taking cocaine in my house in 1004 (Victoria Island, Lagos)[/size]. I didn’t even know he takes cocaine. I walked into the kitchen, and I saw him taking cocaine, so I screamed, and asked if that is cocaine. HE started screaming that ‘What am I doing down here, where is the cocaine?’ How can someone without money take cocaine? I called his parents and complained that I can deal with weed, but cocaine, no. So I am dealing with his alcohol problem, you come home late, infidelity, coaciane, bad debt, jealousy over my success."[/i]

http://pulse.ng/celebrities/tiwa-savage-21-things-tiwa-savage-said-about-teebillz-accusations-id4978550.html

Kimoni do you notice anything wrong with the bold? Thats an example of what I am saying

raumdeuter:
Kimoni do you notice anything wrong with the bold? Thats an example of what I am saying

Hahahaha I did and I also noticed my child and I found it strange until she finished her story before I finally understood why.

They've been separated for 2 months, so she has been using that phrase "my house" for sometime now. Same with "my child" - she's been taking sole responsibility of the child and her mind has been conditioned to believe that she is solely responsible for him. A duty she accepts but still with its own pains.

TV01:
As much as my main focus is men - hence it may appear I post with a bias against women - I would never advise a woman to marry a baby-daddy. Especially a woman of real worth and accomplishment. For a start, which girl grows up with a picture of her knight being a divorcé or single-dad? C'mon, demand and expect better - but also give it sha 0!
TV

A girl doesn't plan on this TV, it's just love. Like Tiwa said, she simply followed her heart and married for love but

Kimoni:
Hahahaha I did and I also noticed my child and I found it strange until she finished her story before I finally understood why.

They've been separated for 2 months, so she has been using that phrase "my house" for sometime now. Same with "my child" - she's been taking sole responsibility of the child and her mind has been conditioned to believe that she is solely responsible for him. A duty she accepts but still with its own pains.

What would have been wrong with came into OUR HOUSE? Thats how many people would have describe it but since she is the main bread winner it became MY HOUSE

Honestly after watching the video, I tend to believe the guy more

Now I heard she is claiming he takes cocaine, EFCC is after him what next he sponsors Fulani herdsmen, he started insurgency

Most of her claims are the money part he is broke. Period.

He takes cocaine in MY HOUSE. Lol. I wonder what the guy must have faced daily. I can imagine him talking on the phone and she yelling why are you making noise in MY HOUSE.

You now see why I said I would rather travel very far to find a job or something to at least care for myself and kids?

I have seen threads where women said its not possible to steal from your husband but Tiwa now claims he steals from her. Lol

Naija women and money, Of course she ties a scarf ends it with some tears to show she has been downcast all week. LOL

Kimoni:
but did you hear this same statement from Tiwa? Exactly these words?

Abeg na who be Tiwa again?

Okay I remember, you mean that dark-complexioned Yoruba girl with big fresh laps and very tiny voice wey her house-husband wan to jump from bridge because of..abi?

I don't mean to judge, but does Tiwa seem like someone wey put her head for ground ni
She definitely got that treat-me-like-the-famous-princess-that-i-am vibe about her.

The only issue I have with the whole drama is this former London abi na American hustler of a man typing all that shiit on social media...even with all the weed and cocaine he has smoked, dude still had no chill.

raumdeuter:
What would have been wrong with came into OUR HOUSE? Thats how many people would have describe it but since she is the main bread winner it became MY HOUSE

Honestly after watching the video, I tend to believe the guy more

Now I heard she is claiming he takes cocaine, EFCC is after him what next he sponsors Fulani herdsmen, he started insurgency

Most of her claims are the money part he is broke. Period.

He takes cocaine in MY HOUSE. Lol. I wonder what the guy must have faced daily. I can imagine him talking on the phone and she yelling why are you making noise in MY HOUSE.

You now see why I said I would rather travel very far to find a job or something to at least care for myself and kids?

Dayo, this is a highly subjective analysis. Haba! You picked only one issue with her and forgot the 99 others from the guy? Does all the debt she paid on his behalf not demonstrate how much she cares? How is a woman supposed to even love a cheating husband? Do you know how that act pierces a woman's soul?

Kimoni:
A girl doesn't plan on this TV, it's just love. Like Tiwa said, she simply followed her heart and married for love but

Is true..












Either that, or the sex was good...really good and she wasn't quite thinking straight.
You know what good sex can do to you women na abi

Well, I'm happy for the couple because they've reached the lowest they can possibly get to in their marriage. From now on, the high way is the only way. He that is down need fear no fall. I wish them the very best.

crackhaus:
Abeg na who be Tiwa again?

Okay I remember, you mean that dark-complexioned Yoruba girl with big fresh laps and very tiny voice wey her house-husband wan to jump from bridge because of..abi?

I don't mean to judge, but does Tiwa seem like someone wey put her head for ground ni
She definitely got that treat-me-like-the-famous-princess-that-i-am vibe about her.

The only issue I have with the whole drama is this former London abi na American hustler of a man typing all that shiit on social media...even with all the weed and cocaine he has smoked, dude still had no chill.

That just shows you that where a woman's love is concerned, there is no alpha male. I just dey laugh you and Tim sometimes

Have you read Greeks and Trojans? How the battle for a woman's love(Helen) caused great battles amongst kingdoms and claimed several lives?

Kimoni:
A girl doesn't plan on this TV, it's just love. Like Tiwa said, she simply followed her heart and married for love but

I like to speak generically and for the most part typically, without making it about individuals. But even without inside knowledge of the mentioned relationship, all the classic signs are there.

Typically, women don't follow their hearts, they follow their feelings. If she married for love, what is she divorcing for? After all, he did not file, she did no? Love is great within marriage, it is not the sole or main predicate for it.

Shaybebaby narrated something that resonates on 5mins thread. Let me post there before I turn in.


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Kimoni:
Dayo, this is a highly subjective analysis. Haba! You picked only one issue with her and forgot the 99 others from the guy? Does all the debt she paid on his behalf not demonstrate how much she cares? How is a woman supposed to even love a cheating husband? Do you know how that act pierces a woman's soul?

There is a skill you can use to hear a lengthy story and pick out what the main issue is. I can tell it from her interview.

His problem: He is broke, he is still trying to put up appearances, He is a little spoilt

Her problem: He is broke.

All those other were just maggi to elicit sympathy.

I have heard women sob stories a lot and this is so eerily familiar honestly I could have predicted the story yesterday. The EFCC and cocaine part was just her amateur part which would show an experienced person that this is just a sob story to get pity

If your husband bought the house fully and he comes in with your feet on the television and he rakes for you why are you doing bla bla in MY HOUSE?

If that slip can come in an interview then imagine what she must have made him go through all day

I know both of them embellished but can she say anything she did wrong?

The interview was over 50mins she mentioned Money or my money at least 50 times almost every minute

gademmnit.

If you know your husband doesnt have a job, and you are a rich celebrity but you have to go ask your husband who doesnt have a job for baby food? Are you not driving at something?

Yoruba say Asukun rojo Obinrin ile lo fe tu

He has an alcohol problem, he has a weed problem, he is jealous of my success, He doesnt care for his child, he has a cocaine problem, he owes EFCC, he is sleeping with every woman, he doesnt check up on her when in Jamaica, he swindles people, he has a 3rd child etc

Even the legendary Esu doesnt have that much rap on his neck.

Dayo!!!!!!!! I can't even quote what you've posted. I soo dont agree. Obviously, she was only reacting to all the accusations leveled against her ni. If that's what her PR team advices, then so be it. She was not the first person to bring the story out ke? Has she not been covering up for him all these months? And yes, she said something good about him, she said ' I admit he hustled and sweated for my breakthrough" (can't recollect the exact words)

Didn't you read the part where he was always claiming he made her? Like she was picked from the gutters? And to prove it, is that not how he started his rants yesterday? With that gloomy picture of hers?

She also said something most people overlook in issues like this which I mentioned subtly earlier, likewise Crackhaus - no woman feels proud saying it out that she is the breadwinner of her home. Every woman loves to show her man off as a worthy King. It brings honor to him and to her as well. So what joy would she derive in constantly stamping that authority over him? Meanwhile, at the end of it all, she apologized for all her imperfections. Wetin remain wey she go do nah?

@TV
she married for love, she is also divorcing for love.

Kimoni:
Well, I'm happy for the couple because they've reached the lowest they can possibly get to in their marriage. From now on, the high way is the only way. He that is down need fear no fall. I wish them the very best.

Tiwa's filed for divorce or so they say. If Tbillz is as painted then good riddance.

On the other post, I get you. It might not always be the case of the woman rubbing it in. But if we take a survey, you'll find out that more times it's the woman rubbing it in that gets to the man.

Kimoni:
Dayo!!!!!!!! I can't even quote what you've posted. I soo dont agree. Obviously, she was only reacting to all the accusations leveled against her ni. If that's what her PR team advices, then so be it. She was not the first person to bring the story out ke? Has she not been covering up for him all these months? And yes, she said something good about him, she said ' I admit he hustled and sweated for my breakthrough" (can't recollect the exact words)
Didn't you read the part where he was always claiming he made her? Like she was picked from the gutters? And to prove it, is that not how he started his rants yesterday? With that gloomy picture of hers?

The part of him making her was public knowledge that couldnt be denied, because there were people in the industry who knew them, Its like Wizkid cant deny Banky W. Its public knowledge.

That MY HOUSE is a deadly slip that a smart lawyer would take you out on it easily. It was amateurish and showed every of her sobs and story to just be insincere

She also said something most people overlook in issues like this which I mentioned subtly earlier, likewise Crackhaus - no woman feels proud saying it out that she is the breadwinner of her home. Every woman loves to show her man off as a worthy King. It brings honor to him and to her as well. So what joy would she derive in constantly stamping that authority over him? Meanwhile, at the end of it all, she apologized for all her imperfections. Wetin remain wey she go do nah?

No woman feels proud saying it in public, but most women wont miss the opportunity to rub it in in private on the man

That last part of apologizing is the age long reverse psychology to guilt trip him and buy more sympathy. What more can get sympathy that saying you are praying for a spouse who does every bad thing in the world.

That her interview na sympathy getting stunt just like his suicide attempt. Those scarf like a mourning widow, those tears, those I wan jump na sympathy getting devices

raumdeuter:
The part of him making her was public knowledge that couldnt be denied, because there were people in the industry who knew them, Its like Wizkid cant deny Banky W. Its public knowledge.

That MY HOUSE is a deadly slip that a smart lawyer would take you out on it easily. It was amateurish and showed every of her sobs and story to just be insincerely so
No woman feels proud saying it in public, but most women wont miss the opportunity to rub it in in private on the man

That last part of apologizing is the age long reverse psychology to guilt trip him and buy more sympathy. What more can get sympathy that saying you are praying for a spouse who does every bad thing in the world.

That her interview na sympathy getting stunt just like his suicide attempt. Those scarf like a mourning widow, those tears, those I wan jump na sympathy getting devices

Dayo, you have no chills on this case...it's strictly your mindset that is talking and not what you read

Kimoni:
That just shows you that where a woman's love is concerned, there is no alpha male. I just dey laugh you and Tim sometimes

Have you read Greeks and Trojans? How the battle for a woman's love(Helen) caused great battles amongst kingdoms and claimed several lives?

He loves Tiwa so much that's why he went on social media to vibe? This is your theory? Lmao...
The guy is a grade A cvnt for pulling that kinda stunt, he was never truly an alpha male...just a pretender to the fact


Yea yea, the Greeks, Agamemnon, Troy, Paris...etc
Didn't read the books, but I've seen almost all (if not all) of the cinematic adaptations.

My take?
The men who went to war because of Helen are grade A cvnts. Quote me anywhere!
Innocent people died because two men were dragging one woman, and this is the kind of love I'm supposed to look up to?


As per the Tiwa and Tbillz issue, neither of them deserve pity...they both contributed equally to where they at now.

crackhaus:
He loves Tiwa so much that's why he went on social media to vibe? This is your theory? Lmao...
The guy is a grade A cvnt for pulling that kinda stunt, he was never truly an alpha male...just a pretender to the fact


Yea yea, the Greeks, Agamemnon, Troy, Paris...etc
Didn't read the books, but I've seen almost all (if not all) of the cinematic adaptations.

My take?
The men who went to war because of Helen are grade A cvnts. Quote me anywhere!
Innocent people died because two men were dragging one woman, and this is the kind of love I'm supposed to look up to?


As per the Tiwa and Tbillz issue, neither of them deserve pity...they both contributed equally to where they at now.

Lol...Crackhaus, you are not serious. Reduce your crack this weekend, ok!

Remember, crack is whack!

Kimoni:
Dayo, you have no chills on this case...it's strictly your mindset that is talking and not what you read

My point is this

He wants to continue living the good life on her bills, She cant stand him for being broke. End of discussion.

All the other stories na to just to appeal to sentiments. Simply put it my husband is broke and I cant stand him anymore. Not the long story. The additional calling a dog a bad name just to hand it na him piss me off

I hate freeloaders too and many people do. But because I want to divorce a gold digger I now call her a witch, she sleeps with everyone, she is dirty, she eats people and all the bad thing in the world just to justify one thing: The fact that I cant stand her gold digging arsee.

That her interview na sympathy getting stunt just like his suicide attempt. Those scarf like a mourning widow(When was the last time she tied a scarf in that manner), those tears, those I wan jump from bridge na sympathy getting methods. If he was serious about suicide why the Lekki bridge, aren't there other quiet and lonely places? Between Ozumnba Madiwe and Lekki First roundabout there are at least 500 spots you can kill yourself quietly and peacefully

in retrospect, when you look at the glamorous wedding they(Tiwa & Tunji) had in Dubai who would have had a whiff of hint that it'd all end in such a huge debacle.

the 21st century marriage is sham!!! . . . . .if i give it a trial and it doesn't work I'll just sign a contract with some fine unknown damsel - i bed you, you get pregnant for me and when it's time for delivery i pay you and take my kid(s) away to raise on my own. . . . .every one wins!!!...

raumdeuter:
There is a skill you can use to hear a lengthy story and pick out what the main issue is. I can tell it from her interview.

His problem: He is broke, he is still trying to put up appearances, He is a little spoilt

Her problem: He is broke.

All those other were just maggi to elicit sympathy.

I have heard women sob stories a lot and this is so eerily familiar honestly I could have predicted the story yesterday. The EFCC and cocaine part was just her amateur part which would show an experienced person that this is just a sob story to get pity

If your husband bought the house fully and he comes in with your feet on the television and he rakes for you why are you doing bla bla in MY HOUSE?

If that slip can come in an interview then imagine what she must have made him go through all day

I know both of them embellished but can she say anything she did wrong?

The interview was over 50mins she mentioned Money or my money at least 50 times almost every minute

gademmnit.

If you know your husband doesnt have a job, and you are a rich celebrity but you have to go ask your husband who doesnt have a job for baby food? Are you not driving at something?

Yoruba say Asukun rojo Obinrin ile lo fe tu

He has an alcohol problem, he has a weed problem, he is jealous of my success, He doesnt care for his child, he has a cocaine problem, he owes EFCC, he is sleeping with every woman, he doesnt check up on her when in Jamaica, he swindles people, he has a 3rd child etc

Even the legendary Esu doesnt have that much rap on his neck.

Did you also see the part where she said his cheating was unbearable? The part where he was being fraudulent and was stealing from her? How about refusing to man up to his responsibilities? Didn't you notice he blamed everyone but himself for his failure??

The reason for the break up was his irresponsibility and recklessness

Ishilove:
Did you also see the part where she said his cheating was unbearable? The part where he was being fraudulent and was stealing from her? How about refusing to man up to his responsibilities? Didn't you notice he blamed everyone but himself for his failure??

The reason for the break up was his irresponsibility and recklessness

All those additional were maggi to make it sweeter.

The guy wanted a meal ticket for life because he raised her up and she declined, I dont blame her for this but all the mud slinging from both sides the maggi and salt. I want to commit suicide she slept with everyone she did this and that .

Some of the allegations from both sides might be true but thats not the reason they are divorcing.

Tiwa knows Teebillz smokes drinks, womanizes, sniffs and likes the good life and she wouldnt have had a problem with that if he wasn't broke

Teebillz knows Tiwa wasnt going to cook or dote on him like other women, she probably have had a few sexual partners in the industry and whatever but all that wouldnt be a problem if he was given unrestricted access to her money

Its like a rich man wants to divorce a leeching wife

The wife starts: My husband beats me, he sleeps with my friends, he take drugs he owes people
The husband: My wife is a slut, she sleeps with everyone, she is a bad cook, she tried to kill me once

All those are sympathy seeking and trying to find justification for the main issue. "I want your money, I cant give you my money."

raumdeuter:
What would have been wrong with came into OUR HOUSE? Thats how many people would have describe it but since she is the main bread winner it became MY HOUSE

Honestly after watching the video, I tend to believe the guy more

Now I heard she is claiming he takes cocaine, EFCC is after him what next he sponsors Fulani herdsmen, he started insurgency

Most of her claims are the money part he is broke. Period.

He takes cocaine in MY HOUSE. Lol. I wonder what the guy must have faced daily. I can imagine him talking on the phone and she yelling why are you making noise in MY HOUSE.

You now see why I said I would rather travel very far to find a job or something to at least care for myself and kids?

I have seen threads where women said its not possible to steal from your husband but Tiwa now claims he steals from her. Lol

Naija women and money, Of course she ties a scarf ends it with some tears to show she has been downcast all week. LOL

Chris Rock said it best. Nothing dries up a woman's vajayjay quicker than her having to reach for her wallet when she's with a man. Tiwa at this rate must be nearing menopause

I think Tee-Billz is the problem here though. All these insults he brought on himself tbh. Even the best behaved man would receive insults when he is not bringing home the bacon never mind when he is not doing so and still going around like life's a peach.