Vinshu:
Is there anything wrong in a text message? Are you getting paid when she calls you on the phone to make request? What difference does it make? Smh

She is probably shy to ask over the phone via voice call. It's normal. That's why she sends a text instead.

obiorathesubtle:
you're probably not Nigerian..


His point is.. Texting him for her needs is informal and disrespectful.. If you're black(preferably yoruba Nigerian), you'd understand..

Vinshu:
Is there anything wrong in a text message? Are you getting paid when she calls you on the phone to make request? What difference does it make? Smh

She is probably shy to ask over the phone via voice call. It's normal. That's why she sends a text instead.

Vinshu:


So it's all about respect? What an ego.

Respect over the phone as well? I thought they were dating. He is not her dad. He is a potential boyfriend so what's with the respect? Gosh

obiorathesubtle:
ermm.. I don't know how to explain this thing to you...


If you were born into a yoruba Nigerian family(80s or 90s).. You'd understand..

domwas2:


Why can't she tell me while we having conversation on phone, we talking on phone the next thing I heard is
"pls go to ur WhatsApp I'd send u a message"
What I don't understand is there something behind such attitude?

domwas2:


Why can't she tell me while we having conversation on phone, we talking on phone the next thing I heard is
"pls go to ur WhatsApp I'd send u a message"
What I don't understand is there something behind such attitude?

Vinshu:


Are you speaking for yourself or the op? And how do you know where the op is coming from?

Lol.. Please, I'm innocent o.. I kinda sortof just re phrased a small part of what he said..


Uuh, I intuitively know where the op is coming from.. Intuition gotten from years of living in Nigeria

domwas2:


Why can't she tell me while we having conversation on phone, we talking on phone the next thing I heard is
"pls go to ur WhatsApp I'd send u a message"
What I don't understand is there something behind such attitude?

Vinshu:


Please shut up. There isn't anything wrong in a text message. Stop the chauvinistic attitude. She prefer to send a text, if you are not willing to respond to her then you don't! Not making an issue out of nothing. You ain't the only guy around

You are JUST a boyfriend. Hope you understand?

Vinshu:


Please shut up. There isn't anything wrong in a text message. Stop the chauvinistic attitude. She prefer to send a text, if you are not willing to respond to her then you don't! Not making an issue out of nothing. You ain't the only guy around

You are JUST a boyfriend. Hope you understand?

maxti:


Personally, I think it's uncalled for. It's shows there is no "communication" between both parties. It also shows distance and it isn't a good body language.
#Justmyopinion

domwas2:

Thanks for this...I have other pple who just say it to me just like " Hey Dom, I need this n that can u help" but my so call girl though we have distance issue anyway as u mentioned but from her attitude of requesting for my help I sense something is wrong and she knows it thats why she find it hard to tell me...
To be frank I felt she too know she is scamming me bcs this is becoming frequent.
I don't just know...that's why am here.

domwas2:


Why can't she tell me while we having conversation on phone, we talking on phone the next thing I heard is
"pls go to ur WhatsApp I'd send u a message"
What I don't understand is there something behind such attitude?

ariyike23:


I cn swear shez shy to ask yu physically.. i do d same too,i feel very awkward to ask people for hlp so i cope beta via text or watsapp msgs..Take her as she is,dnt warn her again..Jes encourage her to tell yu instead of watsapp