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olac21:
To hell with you&maturity..as old as you're,you can't distinguish btw small affection and sex..now swerve you biatch

tanks

Let him go. God will direct the right guy to you. A responsible guy would never make such request on the first day of visiting you.

rahymat:
the reason y i said it always lead to sex is dat ive had some experiences in d past for example i accepted to hug a guy nd he was like can i at least get a kiss after kissing him he couldnt let go nd he wanted sex bt i stopped him it has happened wit several guys nt him alone.

olac21:
To hell with you&maturity..as old as you're,you can't distinguish btw small affection and sex..now swerve you biatch

easy troll, she's just a lady. When no be say dem pepper your ass .

GreenWhiteGreen:
Let him go. God will direct the right guy to you. A responsible guy would never make such request on the first day of visiting you.

If He goes, will u replace him?
You don't even know this guy so don't judge him just yet. You don't know the full story too. BTW, this girl don't seem like she's opting out just yet , so let her learn. You don't just jump off like relationships like its some Danfo bus...

Replace him ? No of course but there are guys better than any girl's current boyfriend. If he threatens to leave for no good reason, let him go. The right guy will come for you. Don't be a slave to any guy.

pinceprinz:
If He goes, will u replace him?
You don't even know this guy so don't judge him just yet. You don't know the full story too. BTW, this girl don't seem like she's opting out just yet , so let her learn. You don't just jump off like relationships like its some Danfo bus...

sister a hug and little peck does not lead to sex.. unless you're telling us you can easily be lured to bed.
Apologize to that guy and try to be a little affectionate it doesn't hurt.


And if you're a no sex b4 marriage type then make it clear to him so that he'll either choose to stay or leave..

GreenWhiteGreen:
Replace him ? No of course but there are guys better than any girl's current boyfriend. If he threatens to leave for no good reason, let him go. The right guy will come for you. Don't be a slave to any guy.

oh, you're actually saying if matters come to worse she should Lego right? Now I getchu!

layla129:
Oh,i forgot about the topic...just read the story. Anyways, Op! it doesn't always lead to sex...that thought of yours is shallow.


Am i free now don

eh eh, I need an attitude, I need u to vent ur anger for her.. like you are so angry... hw will u feel u go to visit ur boyfrnd and he just doesn't even hug u not to talk of peck? Angry ryt? Yes, dats d energy I need u to vent ur anger for her

layla129:
She said she just met him...is that the same as dating

I overkiss my boyfriend sef. But, honestly we didn't even hug on our first date.

u are like this

pinceprinz:
easy troll, she's just a lady. When no be say dem pepper your ass .

Am not a troll niqqa..am a gentle man..kunle is the name..what's yours?

rahymat:
Im a graduate I recently met dis cute guy.he came to visit me today bt he got angry because i refused to peck,hug nd kiss him because it leads to sex.he said im nt caring nd affectionate.did i do anytin wrong. Update i just broke up with him i cnt date sumone who doesnt care about my feelings

Do you know how many times married women dey dash me hug for my church? Dey do like say you pure pass virgin mary, abeg shift one side.

Congrats! You did it..

Merlissa:
Not every hug, Peck and kiss leads to sex..


He came to visit you, the least you could have done was to kiss him..


Haba

What kind of absurd reasonong is that? Does she have to kiss or hug him? See trouble o. The girl has principles and If the boy cannot respect the fact that she has boundaries then he doesn't deserve her. He should go find some other girls he can try that with.
In my honest opinion, the girl is very lucky to have dodged a bullet by breaking up with him.

rahymat:
Im a graduate I recently met dis cute guy.he came to visit me today bt he got angry because i refused to peck,hug nd kiss him because it leads to sex.he said im nt caring nd affectionate.did i do anytin wrong. Update i just broke up with him i cnt date sumone who doesnt care about my feelings

It's good that you broke up with him. He sounds like a very entitled, spoilt and manipulative boy who is used to getting what he wants and when he doesn't get it, he throws a tantrum.

Girl, you better be grateful that you dodged the proverbial bullet by refusing to date him.

rahymat:
the reason y i said it always lead to sex is dat ive had some experiences in d past for example i accepted to hug a guy nd he was like can i at least get a kiss after kissing him he couldnt let go nd he wanted sex bt i stopped him it has happened wit several guys nt him alone.

Please girl, stick with your principles. if the guy does not respect that, then he doesn't deserve you.

rahymat:
the reason y i said it always lead to sex is dat ive had some experiences in d past for example i accepted to hug a guy nd he was like can i at least get a kiss after kissing him he couldnt let go nd he wanted sex bt i stopped him it has happened wit several guys nt him alone.

Then quit dating until u are ready for the dramas that comes with being in a relationship!

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davidif:
Please girl, stick with your principles. if the guy does not respect that, then he doesn't deserve you.

fvck u niqqa.... what shambolic principles.
To begin with,why is she in a relationship in the first place?
Even the whites that we try to immitate in all things,they are usually honest from the outset of the relationship.
And u sit here praising a child who knows next to nothing abt life.
Does the relationship revolves around her?
swerve jor

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FeminineSniper:
fvck u niqqa.... what shambolic principles.
To begin with,why is she in a relationship in the first place?
Even the whites that we try to immitate in all things,they are usually honest from the outset of the relationship.
And u sit here praising a child who knows next to nothing abt life.
Does the relationship revolves around her?
swerve jor

Good relationships are about mutual respect. It's based on two different people coming together, and understanding each other. That includes there values and principles. If both parties don't understand that, that means they are not compatible and that they should go there separate ways. The fact that you are talking to a girl does not mean that you own her. There is something called boundaries.