Our sexuality is complex. And just as any
relationship requires continuous inquiry,
communication and attention so does your sexual
relationship.
People attach many things to their sexuality: power,
attraction, acceptance, control and so on. Exploring
your sexuality and communicating with your partner
about sex can be both rewarding and enjoy.
But there are some mistakes women make and
they just don’t realize it. But with a little adjustment
within themselves, they can get the satisfaction
they rightly deserve and get their game on.
NAIJ.com has come up with six biggest mistakes
women make in bed but can be avoided.
1. Failure to initiate sex
This is one of the biggest mistakes women make.
Men don’t necessarily want to have to run the show
all the time. Be willing to initiate sex: Men like to be
seduced as well. Be willing to try new things and
show your interest by taking the first step from time
to time.
Learn to get comfortable being out of your comfort
zone and you will find a new level of satisfaction in
taking responsibility for your sexual experience.
2. Fear of Erotic Nature
Some women fear to explore their sexual fantasies,
others fear if they are erotic: they will be seen as a
cheap woman. But do you know that may be just
what your man want at times. So why not have the
courage to let go.
Let loose once in a while. Make him notice you. Be
erotic. Play to his visual nature. Get on top during
sex and take charge. Finally, become a freak in
bed.
3. Seeing sex as a usual routine
After a couple has been together for a while, it is
natural for them to be willing to spice up things with
a little variety.
Variety may not be the spice of life always but a
little mixing up of things in the bedroom definitely
keeps your man engaged the more. Do not see sex
as a casual act or usual routine; rather a very
important act. so don’t minimize it.
4. Criticism
You need to avoid this at all cost. Nothing will turn
your partner off faster than you talking or telling him
what you don’t like ad what you don’t want taking
place. What will be a complete arousal and turn-on
is letting him know what he can do to please you
and what will excite you if he does it. A clear
direction will be greatly appreciated by your man.
5. They expect their lover to perform on demand.
A woman must take responsibility for her sexual
encounter. No man can buy a woman to orgasm if
she doesn’t take responsibility for her sexual
experience. You don’t have to wait for your partner
to turn-you on always or make love to you rather
get into the bed.
Take the lead, seduce him, tease him and even
tempt him. Men are entitled to be tired, stressed or
sometimes not in the mood for sex. Respect the
fact that just because you want sex doesn’t mean
your lover is and willing to perform on demand.
It is important to be sensitive to the moods and
needs of your partner, as this is the only way to
achieve a satisfying sexual relationship with your
spouse.
6. Thoughts of their physical looks
The thoughts of how you look like during sex stops
you from enjoying yourself and ruin your chances of
achieving an orgasm. This makes some women
appreciate sex when the lights are turned off. But
during sexual intercourse, concentrate on the
pleasure of the act.
Abandon yourself in sex play, do not be anxious
about your physical looks as men often times don’t
notice half the things women obsess about.
What most men find as a lasting turn-on more than
anything is that how a woman carries herself. When
you are in charge of your own body, you can flaunt
your biggest assets and this attracts your partner
to you the more. So it is best if you try something
new, new sex position or location and do not lie on
the bed like a corpse.
However, as a woman, you need to nurture your
sex life even after child-birth. Be attractive to your
spouse so we won’t lose interest in you. This will
breed a healthy marriage.

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Sex is boring jare...I didn't see the hype abt sex

ireneony:
Sex is boring jare...I didn't see the hype abt sex

For real?

#toobad you never this guy who happens to be ME!!!

ireneony:
Sex is boring jare...I didn't see the hype abt sex

Wait until your your man uses my herbal tea.

ireneony:
Sex is boring jare...I didn't see the hype abt sex

If sex is boring, I suggest you take 30mins class from irunuobo

herkzprince:


For real?
#toobad you never this guy who happens to be ME!!!

Taaarh!

Ayeesharh:

Taaarh!

I'm awesome? Yeah I know

ireneony:
Sex is boring jare...I didn't see the hype abt sex

seconded § it's nt as intrestin as reading it in a foriegn romance novel

Lubixy:
seconded § it's nt as intrestin as reading it in a foriegn romance novel

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Novel freak ..wow!!!
Funny tho

this is all about pre marital or marital?

judey1992:
this is all about pre marital or marital?

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