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Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by MzMercie: 1:31pm On May 07, 2016
Love is not blind, shine ur eyes b4 u propose or say YES, no be by force to marry

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Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by Adatob(m): 1:32pm On May 07, 2016
Brb
Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by EmmahO(m): 1:33pm On May 07, 2016
Enough of this Tiwa and Teebillz bullshet.... grin

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Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by Coldfeets: 1:34pm On May 07, 2016
Leçon Six: Avoid Dubai Wedding At All Cost

It's wasteful.

Worse still, it doesn't guarantee a long lasting married life.

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Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by Btruth: 1:35pm On May 07, 2016
It is well with both of them. Only the 2 of them will know what they want in each other sha......, but to me, that's not love @ all.
Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by armadeo(m): 1:36pm On May 07, 2016
Oh not this shit again.


I don't know why you guys really don't understand that we have no more bleeps to give.
Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by anny268(f): 1:39pm On May 07, 2016
menstrualpad:
don't believe Tiwa's lies
Believe Teebillz's..
Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by Nobody: 1:43pm On May 07, 2016
You can never please women 100%

Tiwa became popular, famous & felt Teebliz was no longer important.

It's Teebliz I pity because in d end it's always d guys that suffer d pain

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Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by Nnemuka(f): 1:46pm On May 07, 2016
this thread stinks of male chauvinism.

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Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by Agozie48: 1:46pm On May 07, 2016
Nigerians Eh opportunistic people this matter that is already dying that you are bringing up instead of educating us on the lessons of their marriage Educate yourself on how to make a living and how you would quit being jobless

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Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by sanity12(m): 1:47pm On May 07, 2016
Abeg we are tired of dis....make una allow dem rest.....anyway listening to d'banj's new jam"breaking news"....

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Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by 400billionman: 1:48pm On May 07, 2016
Coldfeets:
Leçon Six: Avoid Dubai Wedding At All Cost

It's wasteful.

Worse still, it doesn't guarantee a long lasting married life.

Didnt Tuface wed in Dubai ?
Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by Nobody: 1:54pm On May 07, 2016
none of my damn business
Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by dufort(m): 1:55pm On May 07, 2016
The op made a point worthy of note and for me, it explains it all. "A rotten ingredient cannot make a good meal." Irresponsible people lack what it takes to make a marriage work.

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Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by Nobody: 1:56pm On May 07, 2016
In the London grin
Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by josite: 1:58pm On May 07, 2016
the only lesson is when u are close to any guy,no matter the relationship,dont tell or let them know who u were fucking.tiwa let the guy knew who she was fucking while the guy was her manager,so the guy knew what he was saying when he said she is sleeping with other men.

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Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by adebayolukmon(m): 1:58pm On May 07, 2016
anny268:
Guess she should have written "Married Woman" on her forehead for people like u to see the trace of married woman in her..
choi! u wikkedi oo
Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by cold(m): 2:00pm On May 07, 2016
Yeah right. Tiwa should just pause her life and wear all black for at least 6 months...sigh

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Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by Egabs(m): 2:03pm On May 07, 2016
Op what u jst posted is no lesson but jst blaming tiwa u re jst one sided all u av stated hear is ur oWn opinon and nt any lesson this is an interview many ppl av listen to any u come out wth ur own opinion and blame if u av sister wll u encourage ur sister to stay in such marriage

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Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by dare2differ: 2:04pm On May 07, 2016
Number one is BS. They must finda wau to blame the woman. What about this?

Tiwa fired him instead of making a name for himself, he became lazy, touchy and insecure.tongue. The little money Tiwa gave him, he used it for faaji (entertainment) and rake up more debts. He assumed that Tiwa is his meal ticket, he thought he could do and undo with her money.
Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by LordIsaac(m): 2:06pm On May 07, 2016
NEHLIVE:
It's been the number one trending entertainment topic for the past one week.

After Tiwa savage’s manager and husband, Tunji Balogun A. K. A Teebillz, went on social media last week to call out his wife accusing her to have slept with Tuface, Dr. Sid and Don Jazzy, amongst other serious allegations, after which he made an attempt to commit suicide by trying to jump inside a Lagos Lagoon; Tiwa in about 48 hours also granted an interview on camera narrating her own side of the story.

In the highly emotional interview, which some people believe was staged by her PR team to attract public sympathy for her, the singer accused her husband and father of her son of cheating whenever she was not in the country, taking cocaine, stealing from her as a manager, involved in a 45million Naira fraud case being investigated by the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC), amongst other allegations.
Most people are of the opinion that Tiwa Savage shouldn’t have gone to the extent of revealing all the incriminating allegations about Teebillz even if those allegations were true, as doing that shows that she was bent on destroying him, when it’s obvious the man needed help; this was a man who wanted to commit suicide!

Many also faulted the parts of the interview where Tiwa Savage kept mentioning that she was the breadwinner. The truth is that men have been breadwinners from creation without anyone complaining, should it now be a big deal to some women whenever they find themselves in a position to provide for the family, due to circumstances which make their men unable to be breadwinners?

Amid her failed attempt at winning public sympathy with the interview, Tiwa was also heavily blasted by many, especially some women folk who told her to keep her mouth shut for saying she could not be the breadwinner and still have time to cook for her man; according to them there are many women in this country, who due to circumstances find themselves becoming the breadwinner and still cook for their family. Yet, their marriages are still very intact.

All in all, there are a couple of lessons to take home from the saga and one of them is the fact that Teebillz has himself to be blame for his woes because he allowed his drive for Tiwa’s success to derail him from his own personal visions (if he had any to start with)

Lesson 1: A man without a dream is dead
Tiwa confessed in the interview that Teebillz work so hard and sacrificed to see her succeed when she was trying to find her feet in the industry.
However, after she was successful, Teebillz was not able to forge ahead with his own personal dreams, instead he kept hanging on to Tiwa’s, and some women when they start doing better than the man, honestly, starts to feel that their husband does not deserve them. This was obviously one of the problems with Tiwa and Teebillz’s marriage.

Obviously, Tiwa expected him to do something with himself instead of just being her manager, when she said in the interview; “I had to pay for everything so that he can go out and hustle, and get the contracts. He didn’t have money for diapers, but he had money to have a bi-weekly haircut, had money to pay for his laundry.”
Teebillz should have taken a cue from P-Square’s elder brother and manager, Jude Okoye, who had his own record label while still managing the twins. His record label, Northside Inc, gave birth to the sensational Dancehall star, Cynthian Morgan. Jude is also into music directing and he is highly sought-after. It was this side incomes that enable Jude to have his own larger-than-life personality instead of being overshadowed by the stardom of his brothers. It was also this knowledge that gave Jude the confidence to call his brothers’ bluff during their recent drama.
Thefirst lesson is, it’s totally fine to support your woman’s dream, but never lose focus of your own dream. But unfortunately, Teebillz failed to hustle (as Tiwa put it) for his own dream.

Lesson 2: What goes around, comes around

It’s been said that Karma is a bitch! That statement can’t be any truer. The announcement of Tiwa and Teebillz’s relationship about three years ago, stirred a lot of dust owing to the fact that Teebillz was married with two children to a woman in the London. Therefore, Tiwa is believed to have snatched Teebillz from his wife and children. Teebillz himself denied his wife in the London just to be with Tiwa, a celebrity. Today, that woman has got the last laugh. Tiwa and Teebillz have now been served a hefty dose of the bitter medicine they concocted for the poor woman in the London.

Lesson 3: Before you kill yourself over any man or woman, think again

I won’t say that you should not kill yourself at all. In Charly Boy’s voice, ‘na u know wetin make you think say the solution to your wahala na to kpeme’. Teebillz wanted to kill himself because of Tiwa Savage, when their issues could have been easily resolved through dialogue. If not for the miraculous intervention of a stranger named Ani Chukwuma and Banky W and Peter Okoye who showed up in the nick of time, we would have been saying Rest in Peace to Teebillz by now. And Tiwa Savage would have still continued to shake her tiny “bumbum” in music videos and on stage even before Teebillz is buried.
Or is it not the same Tiwa whom despite the ongoing serious marriage issues, was pictured shooting a new music video with her dancers barely 5 days of the drama which almost had her husband committing suicide.

Just hours ago, Tiwa was also pictured on set of a new episode of Funke Akindele’s TV series, Jenifa’s Diary, all smiles. Although, you shouldn’t be surprised about the Funke Akindele’s part, because you know what they say about birds of a feather.
Not that one expects Tiwa to go and hang herself, but here is woman who just lost her marriage, (not a piece of jewelry) and her husband had just been rescued from committing suicide over an issue he claimed has to do with her.
What does all that implies to Tiwa? This is logically not the time to move on, but a time for sober reflection. You can move on discreetly.

Lesson 4: Never marry out of pity

Marry someone because you truly want them, not based on pity or compensation. You are meant to be with this person forever, and you shoud ask yourself if the reason for which you are marrying them can sustain your interest in them forever, even in the most violent storms of life. From the interview Tiwa Savage granted, what she said about Teebillz working hard and sacrificing for her career shows that she might have chosen to marry him because of that, or probably Tiwa Savage just wanted someone to help her produce a baby, and Teebillz appeared to be the perfect man for that purpose. If you check the part she mentioned that she told a friend the marriage was over after Teebillz Internet rant, you would realise that the marriage meant nothing to her in the first place.

Lesson 5: A rotten ingredient cannot make a good meal

Marriage is not for irresponsible people. If everything Tiwa savage said about Teebillz is anything to believe, then aside from Tiwa’s many short-comings, Teebillz’s irresponsible lifestyle is highgrade.

Just read some of her accusations; “I walked in on TJ taking cocaine in my house in 1004 (Victoria Island, Lagos). I didn’t even know he takes cocaine. I walked into the kitchen, and I saw him taking cocaine, so I screamed, and asked if that is cocaine. HE started screaming that ‘What am I doing down here, where is the cocaine?’ How can someone without money take cocaine? I called his parents and complained that I can deal with weed, but cocaine, no. So I am dealing with his alcohol problem, you come home late, infidelity, coaciane, bad debt, jealousy over my success.”

Finally, it is worthy of note that during the interview, when asked, Tiwa never denied sleeping with Tuface, Don Jazzy, and Dr. Sid, as Teebillz initially accused her of. What most people didnot observe is that, she gave a very smart and dodgy answer there by saying that she never cheated on her husband when she replied;
“I have never cheated on my husband. Not with Don Jazzy, Dr Sid, 2face Idibia or anybody. I have never cheated on my husband, and Tunji knows this. He knows that in his heart.”

The question was supposed to be whether she slept with those people her husband said she has slept with, and if Tiwa Savage slept with those people way before she got married to Teebillz, then ofcourse she never cheated on her husband.

But does that mean she has denied sleeping with Tuface, Don Jazzy and Dr. Sid?

http://www.blueprint.ng/2016/05/06/5-vital-lessons-from-tiwa-savageteebillz-marriage-crash/
The satire in your post cannot go unacknowledged...keep it up!
Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by Ginaz(f): 2:07pm On May 07, 2016
Number 20 I learnt is that, amebo will kill you o.p.

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Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by bebe2(f): 2:09pm On May 07, 2016
#teamtiwa#

The man is a loser.

He brought melon, and the woman help am break am.

Suicide indeed.

Why he no take overdose inside house, na to come bridge delay traffic.
Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by 9jatatafo(m): 2:11pm On May 07, 2016
Both Tiwa and TeeBillz are not serious. TeeBillz as a manager of Tiwa, is there no agreement as regards percentage from Tiwa' contracts that is suppose to go to the husband?
So Tiwa can be a passive smoker of sensimilla means Tiwa can consume Choco as well.
Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by bebe2(f): 2:24pm On May 07, 2016
emilil:
The thing here is that tiwa used and dump teebillz, tiwa only wanted a child, so she used teebillz to gain money and fame, the thing here is teebillz was used and dumped, tiwa had fun with other male celebrities buh teebillz maintained as a man, tiwa discovered teebillz extra marital affair she became angry not knowing she isn't holy, as far as teebillz paid tiwa's bride price, the child belongs to teebillz, the thing here is tiwa will brainwash the child that his dad is evil, drug addict just for him not to go back to his dad, am so sorry for teebillz

Dat doesn't stop Tbz from being a thief
Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by OgbeniLazaruz: 2:33pm On May 07, 2016

Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by ThundrCork(m): 2:33pm On May 07, 2016
bebe2:
#teamtiwa#

The man is a loser.

He brought melon, and the woman help am break am.

Suicide indeed.

Why he no take overdose inside house, na to come bridge delay traffic.

shocked you go sabi wicked oo

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Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by Salimmuhammad(m): 2:33pm On May 07, 2016
NEHLIVE:
It's been the number one trending entertainment topic for the past one week.

After Tiwa savage’s manager and husband, Tunji Balogun A. K. A Teebillz, went on social media last week to call out his wife accusing her to have slept with Tuface, Dr. Sid and Don Jazzy, amongst other serious allegations, after which he made an attempt to commit suicide by trying to jump inside a Lagos Lagoon; Tiwa in about 48 hours also granted an interview on camera narrating her own side of the story.

In the highly emotional interview, which some people believe was staged by her PR team to attract public sympathy for her, the singer accused her husband and father of her son of cheating whenever she was not in the country, taking cocaine, stealing from her as a manager, involved in a 45million Naira fraud case being investigated by the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC), amongst other allegations.
Most people are of the opinion that Tiwa Savage shouldn’t have gone to the extent of revealing all the incriminating allegations about Teebillz even if those allegations were true, as doing that shows that she was bent on destroying him, when it’s obvious the man needed help; this was a man who wanted to commit suicide!

Many also faulted the parts of the interview where Tiwa Savage kept mentioning that she was the breadwinner. The truth is that men have been breadwinners from creation without anyone complaining, should it now be a big deal to some women whenever they find themselves in a position to provide for the family, due to circumstances which make their men unable to be breadwinners?

Amid her failed attempt at winning public sympathy with the interview, Tiwa was also heavily blasted by many, especially some women folk who told her to keep her mouth shut for saying she could not be the breadwinner and still have time to cook for her man; according to them there are many women in this country, who due to circumstances find themselves becoming the breadwinner and still cook for their family. Yet, their marriages are still very intact.

All in all, there are a couple of lessons to take home from the saga and one of them is the fact that Teebillz has himself to be blame for his woes because he allowed his drive for Tiwa’s success to derail him from his own personal visions (if he had any to start with)

Lesson 1: A man without a dream is dead
Tiwa confessed in the interview that Teebillz work so hard and sacrificed to see her succeed when she was trying to find her feet in the industry.
However, after she was successful, Teebillz was not able to forge ahead with his own personal dreams, instead he kept hanging on to Tiwa’s, and some women when they start doing better than the man, honestly, starts to feel that their husband does not deserve them. This was obviously one of the problems with Tiwa and Teebillz’s marriage.

Obviously, Tiwa expected him to do something with himself instead of just being her manager, when she said in the interview; “I had to pay for everything so that he can go out and hustle, and get the contracts. He didn’t have money for diapers, but he had money to have a bi-weekly haircut, had money to pay for his laundry.”
Teebillz should have taken a cue from P-Square’s elder brother and manager, Jude Okoye, who had his own record label while still managing the twins. His record label, Northside Inc, gave birth to the sensational Dancehall star, Cynthian Morgan. Jude is also into music directing and he is highly sought-after. It was this side incomes that enable Jude to have his own larger-than-life personality instead of being overshadowed by the stardom of his brothers. It was also this knowledge that gave Jude the confidence to call his brothers’ bluff during their recent drama.
Thefirst lesson is, it’s totally fine to support your woman’s dream, but never lose focus of your own dream. But unfortunately, Teebillz failed to hustle (as Tiwa put it) for his own dream.

Lesson 2: What goes around, comes around

It’s been said that Karma is a bitch! That statement can’t be any truer. The announcement of Tiwa and Teebillz’s relationship about three years ago, stirred a lot of dust owing to the fact that Teebillz was married with two children to a woman in the London. Therefore, Tiwa is believed to have snatched Teebillz from his wife and children. Teebillz himself denied his wife in the London just to be with Tiwa, a celebrity. Today, that woman has got the last laugh. Tiwa and Teebillz have now been served a hefty dose of the bitter medicine they concocted for the poor woman in the London.

Lesson 3: Before you kill yourself over any man or woman, think again

I won’t say that you should not kill yourself at all. In Charly Boy’s voice, ‘na u know wetin make you think say the solution to your wahala na to kpeme’. Teebillz wanted to kill himself because of Tiwa Savage, when their issues could have been easily resolved through dialogue. If not for the miraculous intervention of a stranger named Ani Chukwuma and Banky W and Peter Okoye who showed up in the nick of time, we would have been saying Rest in Peace to Teebillz by now. And Tiwa Savage would have still continued to shake her tiny “bumbum” in music videos and on stage even before Teebillz is buried.
Or is it not the same Tiwa whom despite the ongoing serious marriage issues, was pictured shooting a new music video with her dancers barely 5 days of the drama which almost had her husband committing suicide.

Just hours ago, Tiwa was also pictured on set of a new episode of Funke Akindele’s TV series, Jenifa’s Diary, all smiles. Although, you shouldn’t be surprised about the Funke Akindele’s part, because you know what they say about birds of a feather.
Not that one expects Tiwa to go and hang herself, but here is woman who just lost her marriage, (not a piece of jewelry) and her husband had just been rescued from committing suicide over an issue he claimed has to do with her.
What does all that implies to Tiwa? This is logically not the time to move on, but a time for sober reflection. You can move on discreetly.

Lesson 4: Never marry out of pity

Marry someone because you truly want them, not based on pity or compensation. You are meant to be with this person forever, and you shoud ask yourself if the reason for which you are marrying them can sustain your interest in them forever, even in the most violent storms of life. From the interview Tiwa Savage granted, what she said about Teebillz working hard and sacrificing for her career shows that she might have chosen to marry him because of that, or probably Tiwa Savage just wanted someone to help her produce a baby, and Teebillz appeared to be the perfect man for that purpose. If you check the part she mentioned that she told a friend the marriage was over after Teebillz Internet rant, you would realise that the marriage meant nothing to her in the first place.

Lesson 5: A rotten ingredient cannot make a good meal

Marriage is not for irresponsible people. If everything Tiwa savage said about Teebillz is anything to believe, then aside from Tiwa’s many short-comings, Teebillz’s irresponsible lifestyle is highgrade.

Just read some of her accusations; “I walked in on TJ taking cocaine in my house in 1004 (Victoria Island, Lagos). I didn’t even know he takes cocaine. I walked into the kitchen, and I saw him taking cocaine, so I screamed, and asked if that is cocaine. HE started screaming that ‘What am I doing down here, where is the cocaine?’ How can someone without money take cocaine? I called his parents and complained that I can deal with weed, but cocaine, no. So I am dealing with his alcohol problem, you come home late, infidelity, coaciane, bad debt, jealousy over my success.”

Finally, it is worthy of note that during the interview, when asked, Tiwa never denied sleeping with Tuface, Don Jazzy, and Dr. Sid, as Teebillz initially accused her of. What most people didnot observe is that, she gave a very smart and dodgy answer there by saying that she never cheated on her husband when she replied;
“I have never cheated on my husband. Not with Don Jazzy, Dr Sid, 2face Idibia or anybody. I have never cheated on my husband, and Tunji knows this. He knows that in his heart.”

The question was supposed to be whether she slept with those people her husband said she has slept with, and if Tiwa Savage slept with those people way before she got married to Teebillz, then ofcourse she never cheated on her husband.

But does that mean she has denied sleeping with Tuface, Don Jazzy and Dr. Sid?

http://www.blueprint.ng/2016/05/06/5-vital-lessons-from-tiwa-savageteebillz-marriage-crash/




Seriously this person just said all what i have been thinking. Kudos...
To add mine i just think celebrity life is all fake..the only ones that succeed are those that Mind their business, solve their problems within them selves, wealth doesnt get to their heads...
Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by Milo30(m): 2:39pm On May 07, 2016
izzou:
Tiwa again?



I thought it aff passed


Can't we read something else? Niger delta avengers are waiting to be noticed
Avengers ko? Justice League ni!
Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by ijebu2020: 2:40pm On May 07, 2016
both Tiwa and Tebliss are crooks and both had a plan to use each other bt one being the bread winner played a fast one..but quote me Tiwa Savage will sure pay for it in the future
Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by johnson232: 2:41pm On May 07, 2016
anny268:
Guess she should have written "Married Woman" on her forehead for people like u to see the trace of married woman in her..
lol.... cheesy

u obviously misconstrued my point....

it is what it is, trust me... u get what u give...
Re: Relationship Lessons From Tiwa Savage/Teebillz Marriage Crash by Trexnemesis(m): 2:45pm On May 07, 2016
Next celebrity scandal please!!! NEXT1

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