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The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by LegalIcon: 10:35am On May 13, 2016 |
This is my opinion on marriage, "Marriage is like shoe. When you wear oversize be ready to drag it along through out life, and when you marry under-size be ready to feel the pains through out life." One thing about marriage is that you don't drop your shoe or remove it at any point no matter how painful or how stressful it is - That is why I thought it necessary to write you this letter Dear Singles, When you are ready to buy your own shoe please take note of these three things 1. Physical appearance: Do not look for the beautiful once, the nice once or the cheap once. Look for the one that is your size. Not every handsome, wealthy or intelligent guy is for you, not every beautiful woman is for you. Look for the one that is meant for you, the once that aligns with your values and belief, the one who you meet at your life's journey. *** It is important to know where you're going in life before you think of getting a wife. *** 2. Position: All sizes of shoes are not placed in the same place. There is a place for cover shoes, rope shoes, canvers, snickers etc. We have Children sizes, young people's sizes and the adult size. Know where to get your own shoe. Your size can not be everywhere my brother, your type cannot be everywhere my sister. You cannot be a Christian, and be looking for a wife material at a club. Your wife or husband can't just be everywhere. *** Stick to your values and therein you shall find someone like you, but when your values are not defined anyone can just match you. *** Discover yourself and define your values 3. Perception: In this kind of shoe purchasing enterprise, you are not permitted to try the shoe before you buy. This is why it is important to seek guidance and counselling, from people who have bought shoes before or are into the business of directing people to the right shoes (Pastors and Relationship coaches) *** And most importantly to avoid much time wasting time, simply consult the shoe manufacturer to tell you your size (God Almighty). *** "You do not prepare for wedding, you prepare for marriage." Ladies these days get so motivated when they attend wedding and they will quickly want to say yes to that guy. Wait!!! It is not just the wedding Ooh, wedding is just one day. After the wedding. WHAT NEXT? Finally, it is not something you rush to the market and just pick a shoes because you like or can purchase it. Ask questions -Where is this shoe made from? (Background) -What's the size (Values) -How much (His/Her interest) -How long will it last (His/Her Character) -Who made it? (Is she/He of the same faith This is compatibility) -Will it match me? (This is whether he/she love you and will accept you the way you are) *** Dear one. Remember, many are dragging their foot and they would hardly reach their destinies, many are feeling endless pains and wish they could pull off the shoes but no way!!! I have seen people with beautiful shoes and when they show you their foot, you will see scares. Beloved, it is not about the physical, it is the size, you can't know the size from afar so come close, build a relationship first but remember 'you are not permitted to try it before you buy it' And for those who have purchased the wrong shoes, you can still make it your size again if you'd consult the manufacturer and let Him have His way in your marriage. Your fulfilment is my priority Is a parable for u and I and an encouragement to others. Think over this 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by Purpletee(f): 12:01pm On May 13, 2016 |
nice one op |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by halfricanadian(f): 12:11pm On May 13, 2016 |
Nice one op Nairaland has really changed from dumping ur gf nd using her p*ssy to dumping ur bf nd spending all his cash till he his broke To now saving ur marriage This is a serious wind of change on nl |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by missvera(f): 12:11pm On May 13, 2016 |
Hope to find my size someday... |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by sinaj(f): 1:15pm On May 13, 2016 |
I pray I find my size |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by misspicy(f): 1:17pm On May 13, 2016 |
This is a new one Marriage in relation to shoe size? A successful marriage is not about finding a "perfect shoe size" It goes beyond that there was a time Marriage was "arranged", they never met to decide whether its a perfect shoe size or fit . and they still had more successful marriages than all this shoe size counselling. I believe the problem 21st century African marriages have is adopting the "westerner" views on marriage. My advice to those aspiring to get married is to go back to the old ways of marriage, 1)wives respect/obey your husbands 2)Husbands love/listen to your wives 3)Forgive each other no matter the offence committed 4)Advice yourselves 5)Patience, endurance,humility. etc. if you sit there looking,searching,for "shoe size" you go old for your papa house. punkyV what you think 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by halfricanadian(f): 1:18pm On May 13, 2016 |
Shoe size is 42 pls any one interesed in a person with shoe size 42 for marriage pm me |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by ArchEnemy(m): 1:28pm On May 13, 2016 |
It's a cool write up |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by halfricanadian(f): 1:35pm On May 13, 2016 |
misspicy: U are so right but then again some humans over do things seriously |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by Nobody: 1:37pm On May 13, 2016 |
I hope to find my size |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by misspicy(f): 1:43pm On May 13, 2016 |
halfricanadian:I understand the OP's point But then, Not every one is or will be lucky to find their perfect match "shoe size" majority don't,that's why it's more preferable to go with a size you can relate with because a perfect fit is not always readily available its called marriage "diverse background mingling together to tolerate each other's different upbringing in peace". |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by halfricanadian(f): 1:44pm On May 13, 2016 |
misspicy: I can tolerate any one bt to a certain extent Lest u loose ur life if u tolerate too too mch |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by gentlegenius(m): 1:57pm On May 13, 2016 |
misspicy:You are right on point. The difference between the old way of marriage(how are grand parents marry) and the way we marry today is this: In those days, people love who they marry but today we marry who we love. We are busy looking for a perfect person we can love and marry only for the love to deteriorate or die after marriage. LOVE alone isn't enough to keep two people in marriage. RESPECT is also sacrosanct. These two things must flow from the right direction - LOVE from the husband and RESPECT from the wife. So says the scriptures. |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by askakim(m): 2:00pm On May 13, 2016 |
@op.. I know all ladies will love your write up; it is one thing to love it and is another thing to do it.;God bless u @op |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by misspicy(f): 2:02pm On May 13, 2016 |
halfricanadian:Tolerance is a two way thing,applicable to both partners if you read my initial post,I gave 5 points. which means,every one is assigned to a duty,once we carry out this duties,we will be more tolerance with each other and before you know it,we grow and understand each other. its just like when a young girl goes to live with a relative,its a different environment,but with time,she will adjust and become part of that environment. |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by halfricanadian(f): 2:04pm On May 13, 2016 |
misspicy: I get u tho wen d right time comes And i get d right person * not really perfect* But i will apply all u av taught me Tanx spicy |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by misspicy(f): 2:05pm On May 13, 2016 |
gentlegenius:Thank you for expressing my thoughts appropriately. That is why love is a sham in this present age... The way people grow out of love shows they weren't never in love |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by misspicy(f): 2:09pm On May 13, 2016 |
halfricanadian:We are all learning But I have took the pain to learn from the people that experienced "marriage" not "wedding" That perfect shoe size is not always available,its fallacy,you use what you have judiciously. That's the way I see marriage |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by Hannysmilez(f): 2:33pm On May 13, 2016 |
misspicy:Ouch! |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by misspicy(f): 2:39pm On May 13, 2016 |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by Hannysmilez(f): 2:51pm On May 13, 2016 |
misspicy:How can I not remember you baby. Well,I think its applicable to some. Every marriage is unique and should be treated uniquely. The shoe size thing doesn't work for everyone,neither does the old school thing. Just find what works for your union nd apply,that's why you court before marrying. Courting is hardly the time for gifts and romance,you will have all the time in the world for that. |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by Hannysmilez(f): 2:54pm On May 13, 2016 |
misspicy:How can I not remember you baby. Well,I think its applicable to some. Every marriage is unique and should be treated uniquely coz we all have different reasons for marrying. The shoe size thing doesn't work for everyone,neither does the old school thing. Just find what works for your union nd apply,that's why you court before marrying. Courting is hardly the time for gifts and romance,you will have all the time in the world for that. There's hardly a universal guideline or advice for marriage. |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by misspicy(f): 2:59pm On May 13, 2016 |
Hannysmilez:I understand you I just feel the old ways is better as problems were rarely recorded eg divorce etc cc halfricanadian Now don't forget Monday 16 05 moi birthday |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by halfricanadian(f): 3:01pm On May 13, 2016 |
misspicy:really? i will buy u wateva u tinking Happy birthday in advance |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by misspicy(f): 3:06pm On May 13, 2016 |
halfricanadian:I will take whatever you buy thanks dear...we getting closer to the grave |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by halfricanadian(f): 3:07pm On May 13, 2016 |
misspicy: No no no no closer to d grave ke? Na babe u still young for me U precious nd very important u not a want to life bt a need in life ok U closer to a blissful blessed life |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by Hannysmilez(f): 3:09pm On May 13, 2016 |
misspicy: |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by Hannysmilez(f): 3:10pm On May 13, 2016 |
misspicy:Well,they wanted diff things outta marriage than some folks do now. You're a May Baby too? Happy Birthday in advance baby girl. I hope there's a giant cake baking? I'm a cake monster. You're so lucky,I'm good at picking out gifts. |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by misspicy(f): 3:15pm On May 13, 2016 |
halfricanadian:You are the best booey I appreciate this |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by misspicy(f): 3:17pm On May 13, 2016 |
Hannysmilez:Thank you yes yes there is guess you are MAYBORN too |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by halfricanadian(f): 3:20pm On May 13, 2016 |
Re: The Marriage Shoe, A Must Read For Every Intending Couple by Hannysmilez(f): 3:24pm On May 13, 2016 |
misspicy:Nah April . But a lot of special peeps in my life are MAYBORN |
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