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olihilistic:
me na niqqa wey like kitty well well.

so I believe you go the like mimzy too
and you go the carry one eye the see her sexy bombom too

vote mimzy for miss Nairaland 2016 sha

Lol.. first of all,mimzy is a friend/sister and someone I respect so much. Such tots nor fit enter my head

Secondly, I love punna wella but not someone I ve grown to love and admire as a sister


Mimzy for miss NL joor

Smellymouth:
Lol.. first of all,mimzy is a friend/sister and someone I respect so much. Such tots nor fit enter my head

Secondly, I love punna wella but not someone I ve grown to love and admire as a sister


Mimzy for miss NL joor

Smellymouth:
Lol.. first of all,mimzy is a friend/sister and someone I respect so much. Such tots nor fit enter my head

Secondly, I love punna wella but not someone I ve grown to love and admire as a sister


Mimzy for miss NL joor

olihilistic:
you u know her in really??

you love kitty??

I heard Muslims don't do that thing often na

talk2alabama:
wetin dey worry dygeasy sef wit dis miss nairaland thing.. abi dem Don cancel am

Smellymouth:
Shey dem nor be human being?

mimzy:
ha lolz.

Good One. but it's ok to display a lil bit of jealousy. it's healthy

olihilistic:
Lwkm

them be human being na but to be holy holy and their 10 virgins awaits them in heaven

mimzy:
1. He’s Not Around You And Makes No Effort To Be Around You

This is the single most important sign.
When a guy wants something – he’s going to go after it. He’s not going to sit back twiddling his thumbs.
So if he’s not spending time with you, hanging around, and making excuses to hang out with you… when is he going to have the opportunity to try to get closer to you?
The short answer is, he’s not.
Guys aren't stupid. If he wants you, he knows that he has to spend time with you and be around you in order to get closer to you.
So if he’s not hanging around, or hanging out with you, or even showing up in your life – he’s not trying to go after you… which means he doesn't like you.



2. He Doesn't Really Listen When You Talk And Doesn't Remember What You Tell Him

People remember things that are important to them.
Simply put: if your subconscious decides something is important, you’re going to remember it.
And if he likes you, his subconscious is 100% going to know about it – and it’s going to automatically make him remember the things you say.
If he’s not listening to you or remembering the things you say, it means you’re not important to him. Can you remember the last time you liked a guy and he wasn't important to you (at least right then?)
Obviously, if he’s trying to learn how to juggle 3 flaming chainsaws when you tell him your favourite colour – he might not remember.
But 99% of the time, if he likes you, he’s going to listen to you, and remember the things you tell him.
https://www.vixendaily.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/signs-he-doesnt-like-you-4.jpg

3. He Doesn’t Care About Your Relationships With Other Men Even In The Slightest

Let’s play pretend.
You say to him, “I saw my friend KingRex1 last night.”
Do his ears perk up? Does his tone of voice change? Most importantly: does he ask, “Who’s KingRex1 ?”
If he’s into you – he’s gonna care about the other guys you’re hanging out with. And unless he’s the most sophisticated man on the planet – he’s going to reveal he cares (even if he just makes a joke) about what you did with “KingRex1.”

Guys are hard-wired to pick up on competition.
That’s why if you can’t get a guy to care about something, the best way to get him hooked is to make it into a competition.
He doesn't care about doing the dishes? Bet him that you can clean the dishes faster than he can.
Point is, if there’s one thing that guys love, it’s a competition. And they’re able to sniff one out from a mile away.
So if he’s interested in you, he’s going to be hypersensitive to the idea that anyone else is interested in you… and is in direct competition with him.
Obviously, he’s not going to say something incredibly romantic because you mentioned another guy, but if he likes you, he’s definitely going to have some sort of reaction.
And if you mention another potential suitor, only to get no reaction from him – it means that you’re not grabbing the attention of even his competitive side… which is a huge sign that he’s not interested.


4. He Treats You The Same As He Treats Everyone Else – No Difference

This one is simple. When a guy is into you – he feels differently about you than other people.
When he feels different, he acts different. Simple, right?
If that doesn't sound simple – think about it this way.
Let’s say you’re out with your friends. You’re laughing, you’re having a good time, you’re relaxed and comfortable… and then your boss shows up.
All of a sudden, the whole dynamic is probably going to change for you (unless you have the coolest boss in the world).
You’re going to reign yourself in, watch what you’re saying way more, and in general become way less relaxed.
Why? Because you care about what your boss thinks about you! You don’t want to make a mistake or lower your status in your boss’s eyes, so you act differently than normal.
It’s the same with a guy who likes you. He’s not afraid that you’re going to fire him (unless you’re his boss, which is a whole different can of worms), but he’s definitely going to care what you think of him, which is going to make him act differently.
Just like you want to know how to be cute around him, to make him like you.
If he likes you, it’s gonna show. He’ll act differently around you than other people. Unless he’s a world famous actor or a hardened spy… in which case, good luck.
https://www.vixendaily.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/signs-he-doesnt-like-you-3.jpg



5. He’s Not Really Curious About Your Life

If a guy is interested, he’s going to want to know more about you. What makes you tick, what you like, what you don’t like, EVERYTHING.
He’s going to want clues about what you’re really about – both so that he can get to know you better and also so that he can make himself more attractive to you.
And all that starts with getting to know you, which starts with being curious about your life.
If he likes you, he’ll be interested in you. He’ll want to know more about you – and he’ll care when you tell him about yourself.


6. He Openly Mentions Other Women He’s Interested In / He’s In A Serious Relationship

OK – let’s start out here – if he’s talking about someone else that he’s seriously interested in, not just throwing a woman’s name out there to see how you react… it means that he’s not interested.
If he’s seriously interested in someone else, and telling you about it, he’s not trying to make you jealous. He’s giving you a blatant signal that he’s not interested in dating you.

Of course, he might be sending you signals just for his own thrill, but that’s pretty unlikely…
https://www.vixendaily.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/signs-he-doesnt-like-you-5.jpg

7. He Never Contacts You First

If he likes you, he’s going to want to see you. He’s going to want to be around you. And he’s going to want to talk to you.
That urge you feel in your stomach to be around a guy you like – men feel that too. And if he feels that urge, he’s going to be reaching out to you to see you again.
If he’s not calling, or texting, or making plans to be with you, then he doesn't feel that urge.
https://www.vixendaily.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/signs-he-doesnt-like-you-2.jpg


8. He’s A Super Friendly/Super Flirty Guy In General

This ties back into sign #4 – if he’s a super flirty guy and he flirts with you – he’s not really treating you differently. He’s treating you the same as he treats everyone else.
He might make you feel really special – compliment you, make you laugh, call you pet names…
But if he does that with every girl he meets… he’s not treating you any differently, is he?
https://www.vixendaily.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/signs-he-doesnt-like-you-1.jpg


9. He’s Always Busy / He Doesn't Put In Any Extra Effort

This is about priorities.
There are some guys out there that are really busy – and that’s ok. And if he’s too busy to see you as much as you’d like him to – it doesn't mean he doesn't care about you.
But if he’s too busy to see you at all – it means you’re not even on his list of priorities. And even the busiest guy on the planet will make time to see you – as long as you’re a priority for him.
So it comes down to the question – are you among his priorities or not?
If you are – great. If you’re not… instead of following all these books and crazy things that tell you to try to change him and make him come around and chase after you…
You should be dropping him and spending your time with a guy who does make you his priority.


10. The Truth: It Will Be obvious That He Likes You -

Look – guys aren't subtle.

This is all about your gut instinct. Honestly – what do you really think in your gut about him.
Do you really think he likes you?
Listen to your gut – whether you get a sinking feeling or an excited, butterfly feeling will tell you everything you need to know.
ok – so those are the signs. Chances are, you probably got your answer from one or more of the signs above.
And before you jump down my throat with, “Oh but one time this guy didn't call me for 3 years and it turned out he was a secret agent working deep undercover but really he liked me the whole time!” – I'm not talking about the crazy outlier cases here.
If he’s giving you 4 or more of the signs – it’s a pretty safe bet that he doesn't like you.
https://www.vixendaily.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/signs-he-doesnt-like-you-6.jpg

Source: http://www.vixendaily.com/love/signs-he-doesnt-like-you/


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tbliss22:
Wow!! This is so true but what choice do I have as a guy? Since I don't want to keep repeating myself that I'm not just in love with her.

She kept calling and like seriously I know she's so deep in love with me but I got no feelings for her.

I can recall d other time she requested that we should be together @ an event we both attended and she told me she's now in with another guy who loves her, I just laughed and told her that's good news but to my suprise she bursted into TEARS!!! (What an expensive joke)

Hmmm what a world!! I pray all single ladies and guys out there finds their true happiness as partners to love. Because once missing, its an eternal pain till death.

ronald4lif:
Very apt points but disagree with number 3. I never display jealousy when a lady tells me she met with a male friend or hang out with him. To me I know it's a calculated and mischievous attempt to make me feel jealous and I don't fall for petit mind games.

Not that I'm not jealous but I hardly show and make it obvious. Every reaction and thoughts is done reticently.

Smellymouth:
Lol.. first of all,mi.mzy is a friend/sister and someone I respect so much. Such tots nor fit enter my head

Secondly, I love punna wella but not someone I ve grown to love and admire as a sister


Mimzy for miss NL joor

Mediapace:
Make i help you add some .

But before that,warn your team mateS oO,If any one should try and bash me,they will regret it OO :

11.He constantly flakes on you :
When a man says he’d do one thing for you and does not follow through, sets up date at the last minute, keeps on rescheduling dates, and CONSTANTLY stands you up during dates (i.e. does not show up) – he doesn’t want you. To be fair – If a guy did miss out on a date once, or even twice (due to valid reasons) – he will go out of his way to make it up to you. Tested and proven.


12. His body language says it all Apart from visual expressions :
The way a guy acts and moves before you can give you important clues to his feelings for you. The direction a guy’s shoulders and chest point or slightly lean towards definitely indicates the most important thing in the room for him. So even if a guy is ostensibly talking to you, if he subconsciously turns away , it is probably an indication that he is dissociating from the object at hand which is you. As you sit talking to a guy, notice the position of his palms – if they are open and facing you, it means he likes you but if they are closed into fists or turned back to you, then it indicates that he is hesitant to open up to you.

#TEAM_LANICKY
#VOTENOTFIGHT

ronald4lif:
That's true. A little bit jealousy is healthy but one has to gauge the intent. If it's meant to make you feel jealous then one should be careful not to show it in their reaction but if it's an innocent act then reacting in a jealous manner is fine. If intent is to make one jealous then the guy is making himself a willing tool for manipulation.

Smellymouth:
So I nor be husband material?

OUR QUEEN haff murdered me oo

ladyF:
Cont'd 11. He doesn't buy you gifts

As the popular saying goes: you can give without loving but you cannot love without giving.

Does he buy you vals gift? Birthday gift? Money to flex for the weekend? Happy new month gift? Credit to call your uncles and anties to greet them nko?

If the answer to all these questions is no, sister biko, look for someone that loves you! Love will find you...

mimzy:
Hmmmm. U did right by not 'dating' her out of pity.
It might take a while for her to get over you..in fact she might not get over you completely but its good that you didn't edge her on out of pity.

Amen to your prayer.

mimzy:
Safe to refer to you as bestie
You are the best jorrr

tbliss22:
Dating a lady out of pity? Who does that in this era?? In fact men who go into marriage with such ladies will end up beating up d lady @every slight error she commits.

But seriously I still wonder why a girl u have crush for takes u like forever to get her serious attention while d ones you've got no feelings for keep showing up.

mimzy:
You're so smart.
I just learnt something from u.
Thanks

RoyalBlak007:
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[color=#AB56BA] Nice writeup[/color]

iAmCharis:
Are you kidding? What about happy new week gift and money to buy chewing gum?

mimzy:
not to forget Easter Gift, Happy new week's gift, petty cash for unforeseen contingencies

StKnight:
Women and money

HurricaneMIMZY:

...Or he's got another plan with another woman.


Then again, maybe he's had a scheduled plan for it and you around would distract him.


Check my signature.

Michellla:
-He’s always busy. No rain check. -he sets up dates last minute -he keeps rescheduling, -he flakes constantly on you

Mafking:
Characteristics of someone's bf... Lol

definitely not mine

Michellla:
definitely not mine

Mafking:
Lol.. No need to deny dear.. You can't have it 100%.. It always comes with a defect, just that yours are rounding up to five.. Piece of advice?? Those list have something in common if you look well... You can actually group it under one heading(it always comes with a defect will then be valid)

Michellla:
its not mine.
i cant stand all that flaws.
and yea its actually a point i broke down into places.

Michellla:
-He’s always busy. No rain check.
-he sets up dates last minute
-he keeps rescheduling,
-he flakes constantly on you