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me and my gf just called it quits.I don't know if am at fault , first of all our chat was going boring until I told her to tell me about her ex,she has warned me before cause it makes her cry and I was only joking .she told me to stop acting like a baby cause dats how they ask questions i was negatively moved by this and stopped chating with her she then called me to tell me DAT she doesn't want anymore cause I just brought back her pain.please anyone help me am confused

dude.
pls move on.. plss. I'm kneeling down and begging you

I don't know what kind of help you need. How is she your gf if she cant even comfortably tell you about her exes? Unless she is still in love with him/them. Let her go back to her ex. Bro, no time. You cant take on all that emotional baggage.

She is going through an emotional trauma. Give her some time to go through it then call her and spend some recreational time with her..

Op, u pulled trigger in a wrong direction...u agreed to call it off too.. so why Ur still confused? Juz move on and next time, stop acting like a baby...

majorbravo:
I don't know what kind of help you need. How is she your gf if she cant even comfortably tell you about her exes? Unless she is still in love with him/them. Let her go back to her ex. Bro, no time. You cant take on all that emotional baggage.

You're wrong you don't know what the Girl must have been goin thru

Lilprincey:
You're wrong you don't know what the Girl must have been goin thru

The guy is supposed to be her boyfriend for crying out loud. She didn't feel comfortable telling him and he didn't make it easier for her either. He should know how to handle his woman without being sarcastic about her past. He really isn't mature or man enough to take on all that emotional baggage cos he joked about it and decided to talk about it when the chat got boring(wtf?). This is likely a chat(online) relationship, I doubt they actually see one on one. They no dey compartible (Q.E.D)

majorbravo:
The guy is supposed to be her boyfriend for crying out loud. She didn't feel comfortable telling him and he didn't make it easier for her either. He should know how to handle his woman without being sarcastic about her past. He really isn't mature or man enough to take on all that emotional baggage cos he joked about it and decided to talk about it when the chat got boring(wtf?). This is likely a chat(online) relationship, I doubt they actually see one on one. They no dey compartible (Q.E.D)

True...maybe the niqqa ain't telling us everything

Lilprincey:
True...maybe the niqqa ain't telling us everything

Dude don't appear real init? I think so too. What kind of gf breaks a relationship over mention of an ex. I say the relationship aint even started at all.

Greenbullet:
me and my gf just called it quits.I don't know if am at fault , first of all our chat was going boring until I told her to tell me about her ex,she has warned me before cause it makes her cry and I was only joking .she told me to stop acting like a baby cause dats how they ask questions i was negatively moved by this and stopped chating with her she then called me to tell me DAT she doesn't want anymore cause I just brought back her pain.please anyone help me am confused

She is going through a post traumatic emotional stress. Which obviously you just worsen... Due to wrong emotions..
You failed to understand her and know your limits.
Tbh move on, cos to her you're no different from her Ex...

calliope:
She is going through a post traumatic emotional stress. Which obviously you just worsen... Due to wrong emotions..
You failed to understand her and know your limits.
Tbh move on, cos to her you're no different from her Ex...

But now he also becomes an Ex she wont even cry about or hesitate to tell her next bf about being a baby. Life definitely sucks.

OP my advice, Don't be a rebound for any girl. If you cant handle their emotional baggage, let them be until they get over their past.

majorbravo:
But now he also becomes an Ex she wont even cry about or hesitate to tell her next bf about being a baby. Life definitely sucks.

She was healing? She's human, a lady for that matter, we r fragile.... So not wanting to talk about her past, is equivalent as her being a baby?

calliope:
She was healing? She's human, a lady for that matter, we r fragile.... So not wanting to talk about her past, is equivalent as her being a baby?

No I meant she would tell her next bf, how this guy was a baby.

majorbravo:
No I meant she would tell her next bf, how this guy was a baby.

Relationships r big deal, persons like that op need to be emotionally stable and mature to handle issues...
I think he walked into it for the wrong reasons.....
Indeed he is a baby boy

calliope:
Relationships r big deal, persons like that op need to be emotionally stable and mature to handle issues...
I think he walked into it for the wrong reasons.....
Indeed he is a baby boy

Certainly not for the faint hearted. That, I can tell you

calliope:
She was healing? She's human, a lady for that matter, we r fragile.... So not wanting to talk about her past, is equivalent as her being a baby?

And she broke up with him only for mentioning her ex?
Makes no sense at all.

Girls can harbour emotional pains sha...and you, somehow you are @fault here...girls hate to be remined of what has traumatized them in the past especially the emotional ones....and if you must ask her question thay you know she might get angry like this one now, do it when she's in the best of her moods.

Why can't u just make her forget abt her past... instead of helpin her to be reminded of it.. Be her future