MomSomyy:

@ebonychic18 thank you so much. I will just reapply b2 and tell the truth that I am going for child birth and take all my correspondence (Even tho Dr and Hospital wants me to come in before I pay) but while filling the form the part that asks if you traveling with a companion do I state my kid there or not? Baby is a citizen. Thanks again.

TheLeakyTribe:


Hope you are doing well.

While I would have preferred thag you do not reapply at this time, if you insist on reapplying I would suggest that you do the following and make your reapplication more about being honest and starting to establish trust again with the embassy than about wanting to obtain the B2 visa at all costs.

Please consider the following if you can.

1. When filling the form state as much as you can to clearly show that you intend to have a baby again in the US.

E.g in reason for refusal, tell the absolute truth about all that has transpired.

In contact information use your intended doctor etc. In length of stay estimate and state the actual time you truly intend to stay.

2. I would advise against bringing in this baby needs to see a pediatrician angle. Quite frankly it looks to me like you're trying to anchor on your baby being a citizen to get a visa. This is not favourable to someone who is trying to prove non-immigrant intent in a visa application.

3. On whether you should even travel with your child or state that you're doing so. Would it be easy for you to establish any other ties to Nigeria (considering you already said you're not married to the the baby daddy?) What other ties can you rely on?

4. Ensure all documentation is available for the appointment ie doctor and hospital appointment, your budget etc.

5. Please don't state anything about having a sudden medical emergency while on the annotated visa, just tell the whole truth and be prepared to face the consequences.

6. In the event of an unfavourable interview please accept it as the consequence of your mistakes and do not reapply until circumstances have truly changed preferably on another pregnancy.

7.in the event of a favourable interview please do not exceed the stated time you applied with, pay your bills and return once you're done.

Ensure that you use the doctor/hospital as stated in your application.

I sincerely wish you the best.

methodjim:
Good morning all, its good to be on this family supporting thread that has been so helpful. Though I am new and I have read through many posts and successes. I would appreciate your advice and contributions on this prospect. My wife and I wishes to have our baby in the US but I just secured admission to apply for F1 visa category, do you advice my wife apply for F2 visa to give birth or she should apply for B1/B2 visa category. Note she intend going with her Mum for the interview to assist her during the period of childbirth and after. My wife is working, her mum is working and I am also working too. Please who do you think should apply first, me or her? Please just advice. We have gotten a hospital in California and a doctor correspondence as well, waiting for the doctors invitation letter.

TheLeakyTribe:


Hope you are doing well.

While I would have preferred thag you do not reapply at this time, if you insist on reapplying I would suggest that you do the following and make your reapplication more about being honest and starting to establish trust again with the embassy than about wanting to obtain the B2 visa at all costs.

Please consider the following if you can.

1. When filling the form state as much as you can to clearly show that you intend to have a baby again in the US.

E.g in reason for refusal, tell the absolute truth about all that has transpired.

In contact information use your intended doctor etc. In length of stay estimate and state the actual time you truly intend to stay.

2. I would advise against bringing in this baby needs to see a pediatrician angle. Quite frankly it looks to me like you're trying to anchor on your baby being a citizen to get a visa. This is not favourable to someone who is trying to prove non-immigrant intent in a visa application.

3. On whether you should even travel with your child or state that you're doing so. Would it be easy for you to establish any other ties to Nigeria (considering you already said you're not married to the the baby daddy?) What other ties can you rely on?

4. Ensure all documentation is available for the appointment ie doctor and hospital appointment, your budget etc.

5. Please don't state anything about having a sudden medical emergency while on the annotated visa, just tell the whole truth and be prepared to face the consequences.

6. In the event of an unfavourable interview please accept it as the consequence of your mistakes and do not reapply until circumstances have truly changed preferably on another pregnancy.

7.in the event of a favourable interview please do not exceed the stated time you applied with, pay your bills and return once you're done.

Ensure that you use the doctor/hospital as stated in your application.

I sincerely wish you the best.

nefertitiram:


Ok, here is me being polite. Don't reapply for the next 5years, except you can ascertain you have not been banned.

I mentioned using an immigration lawyer, I think they are the ones that can get your banned or not banned status from the embassy. If you haven't been banned, you can go ahead to build a defence. If you have been banned, I heard Canada is pretty nice in summer and Brazil also gives citizenship

Porshebabymama:
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LadyG ututu oma my sister! Ur oversabi is out of this world Jare!!! Sabinus or sabi gurl choose one cause I'm christening you ..

At the bolded, that was my first thought wen I read your post @ momsommy. The cbp ofcr. Must hv just tested to see ur integrity and you fell yakaya ..Even VO dash u just 1month with annotation) but ya not opening ya eyes of understanding to torchlight d matter...Even sef u said in one post that u had no plans to deliver American pikin, then you later said you thought of attending the conference and then come back to apply for childbirth...sister which way na? ..Anyways you have done the deed and blown your 2nd chance kwa..I see only God's intervention helping you here and Honesty...since you're really determined to reapply read up( I think someone recently said something about explaining ur case in a space given, on d visa application form (check MadameU's recent posts) then call on God, arm yourself well and go back..

Sorry about your son's health and your stressful pregnancy..God will see you through...

Querylady24:



Lol...honestly if not for this forum a lot of people make mistakes and once they do the fear of doing the right thing pop on then. Brazil does give citizenship you go just need stay for 2 years.

nefertitiram:


Ok, here is me being polite. Don't reapply for the next 5years, except you can ascertain you have not been banned.

I mentioned using an immigration lawyer, I think they are the ones that can get your banned or not banned status from the embassy. If you haven't been banned, you can go ahead to build a defence. If you have been banned, I heard Canada is pretty nice in summer and Brazil also gives citizenship

methodjim:
@nefertitiram. Thanks very much, 16 weeks gone. if she is going through the visitors route, do you advice she goes first for the interview with mumsy , then later I can go for my own F1 or I go first before she goes.

methodjim:
@nefertitiram. Thanks very much, 16 weeks gone. if she is going through the visitors route, do you advice she goes first for the interview with mumsy , then later I can go for my own F1 or I go first before she goes.

nefertitiram:


Vcole, Modath, Firsttymum, where my peeps @!!! Only 2 years and we become Brazilians (All I know about Brazil is secrets of the sands, Raquel and Ruth).

But seriously, how does one get to rectify this kind of problem? Is it by going over and over again till you get a fair hearing? Lot's of people are in this category.

MomSomyy:
You need to learn how to pass a message in the most polite manner cause that's just the right thing to do and thank you for your contribution. Cheers.

nefertitiram:


Just cos you asked me... me thinks:

She goes with mum for the b2 visa. You remain at home as ties. If they get it, all well and good. If they don't get it, there is plan B, F2 visa. Now I don't know how long that will take for you guys.

Anyways, all the best

nefertitiram:


Vcole, Mo, Firsttymum, where my peeps @!!! Only 2 years and we become Brazilians (All I know about Brazil is secrets of the sands, Raquel and Ruth).

But seriously, how does one get to rectify this kind of problem? Is it by going over and over again till you get a fair hearing? Lot's of people are in this category.

modath:


You mean i can finally kidnap a real Brazilian and harvest hair direct? Oya nah, lee go dia..





@MomSomyy

Me , i bin wan stay on the sideline and observe but just had to chip in...

Like Nerf advised, get the status on your profile, some things go beyond cash affordability, emotional investment nko? Cos as you are saying it , we both know you dearly desire to have the next baby in the US.

Sometimes when people are banned, it's not done in an overt manner, someone here narrated a case of someone who was rejected 4x straight only to discover that this individual had desperate noted on her profile, and she wasn't aware, she just kept on re applying....


& nor dey talk dat thing my sista, people with worse criminal cases have lifetime bans... verify, America nor dey play...

methodjim:
Good morning all, its good to be on this family supporting thread that has been so helpful. Though I am new and I have read through many posts and successes. I would appreciate your advice and contributions on this prospect. My wife and I wishes to have our baby in the US but I just secured admission to apply for F1 visa category, do you advice my wife apply for F2 visa to give birth or she should apply for B1/B2 visa category. Note she intend going with her Mum for the interview to assist her during the period of childbirth and after. My wife is working, her mum is working and I am also working too. Please who do you think should apply first, me or her? Please just advice. We have gotten a hospital in California and a doctor correspondence as well, waiting for the doctors invitation letter.

MomSomyy:


I really wished I had known about this forum a week ago trust me I won't be in this crisis. Only discovered it yesterday when I went on Google to see how I could be equipped before I fill my ds160 form. Anyway I have gained so much just from last night and i really appreciate everyone th contributed and is still contributing. God bless us all.

shrekandfiona:

In all honesty, there are so many inconsistencies in your story and you sound desperate already.

If you were my sister, I'll advise that you abort all visa plan for now, have this baby in Naija or elsewhere give some time maybe a year and reapply.

However you aren't my sister so carry go.....

LadyGuinivere:

Are you sure u aren't my sister ?

blaize777:
Hello house .thank God my princess arrived yesterday tru a C-SECTION sadly she is not too strong weight 2kg,low sugar level. I thank God she is active not weak.

nefertitiram:


In that same hosp?

shrekandfiona:

In all honesty, there are so many inconsistencies in your story and you sound desperate already.

If you were my sister, I'll advise that you abort all visa plan for now, have this baby in Naija or elsewhere give some time maybe a year and reapply.

However you aren't my sister so carry go.....

Ajujuju2:

May God Rest the soul of the Lady...
But I asked my friend that works there,was actually accusing her that the doctors in her hospital were careless n that cost a woman and her baby their lives...She then explained what happens to me,said the Lady was transferred from another hospital and when she got to the hospital her baby was already dead..And she refused CS even tho her husband agreed to it...Think she did my pushing..
Yesso. Was doing antenatal in Havana.
Funny enough its supposed to be one of the best hospitals generally in Lagos.

Well if we dnt knw cause of death, we may b wrongly blaming d hospital. Even tho i agree they have their faults sha but d gynae there de try small.

Ajujuju2:


Yesso. Was doing antenatal in Havana.
Funny enough its supposed to be one of the best hospitals generally in Lagos.

Well if we dnt knw cause of death, we may b wrongly blaming d hospital. Even tho i agree they have their faults sha but d gynae there de try small.

MomSomyy:


I really wished I had known about this forum a week ago trust me I won't be in this crisis. Only discovered it yesterday when I went on Google to see how I could be equipped before I fill my ds160 form. Anyway I have gained so much just from last night and i really appreciate everyone th contributed and is still contributing. God bless us all.

back2dmatter:
[size=14pt]Hello Mums and Dads,

My husband just do me a strong thing recently and I'm pregnant again (failed FP).

Please, can someone help with the checklist/required docs for re-entry.

Note: I made my intentions known during the first missionary journey last year and my POE was Houston.[/size]