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Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by layla129(op): 3:58pm On May 18, 2016

Contrary to believe that the men cheat more in relationships, a lot of women cheat too...infact, women seem to be topping the table recently they are just discrete about theirs.
The signs may include;

1. Forgetfulness
She forgets your birthday, favorite food, tastes. She suddenly starts to confuse your likes and dislikes with that of someone else...that is suspicious.

2. She is no longer as needy.
If she was never able to do some things like shop or go to the movies alone and she suddenly doesn't need your company, it may mean that someone else is filling your shoes. Although, it is possible she just needs time to herself but if she's unusually independent, there's cause to worry.

3. She no longer gets angry.
She used to be angry when you're working late, don't go on dates or movies with her, or meet her for lunch but now everything you do is alright by her. This could be a good thing but it should make you wonder why she longer cares.

4. Change in her appearance.
Ladies love to always look good for a person they just met or like. If she's now very cautious of her outfits, looks and general appearance than she used to, it could be that she is seeing someone new.

5. Pay attention to how she works or goes on business trips.
Your woman might claim to be spending more time at work, but if she was never much of a workaholic before, this change could indicate she is spending those extra hours outside the office.

6. If she is calling the name of someone else during sex, there's no two ways about it...she is definitely cheating! Just carry your preek and leave the scene before you murder somebody angry

N.B
Do not accuse your girlfriend or wife of having an affair without confirming your suspicions.

Do that at your peril ...i no dey

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Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by Nobody: 4:01pm On May 18, 2016

Bleep and clean mouth. Who boyfriend and girlfriend help?

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by obiorathesubtle: 4:01pm On May 18, 2016

Remain single

Remain sane

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Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by layla129(op): 4:03pm On May 18, 2016

obiorathesubtle:
Remain single

Remain sane

Lol, you plan on remaining single for life?

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by halfricanadian(f): 4:05pm On May 18, 2016

Guilty of number 3 i just got tired of getting angry grin

Bt nat cheating

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Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by onstelly(f): 4:07pm On May 18, 2016

You made good points but it's not just when she is cheating but when she get tired of the guy, which can be as a result of the guy's attitude.
Num three is so me, once I no longer get angry or complain then it's gonna be over soon

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Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by layla129(op): 4:09pm On May 18, 2016

halfricanadian:
Guilty of number 3 i just got tired of getting angry

Bt nat cheating

Same here but the difference is i can't pretend i'm not angry...it must show sha ni.

Give me his number...i don't trust you angry

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by dollyjoy(f): 4:11pm On May 18, 2016

I think its high time we become mindful of what we put up online,a partner might be quilty of all those but doesn't necessarily means she/he is cheating. undecided

some of us nairalanders users are very gullible hence might s start unnecessary suspicion probably cos our partner is quilty of one or two things.

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Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by obiorathesubtle: 4:12pm On May 18, 2016

layla129:
Lol, you plan on remaining single for life?

yes.. I'd follow the babymama trend.. Get Children, live my life in peace.. Tell em their mom died when they were young..

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by layla129(op): 4:14pm On May 18, 2016

onstelly:
You made good points but it's not just when she is cheating but when she get tired of the guy, which can be as a result of the guy's attitude.
Num three is so me, once I no longer get angry or complain then it's gonna be over soon

True, but trust me when i am tired of a relationship and acting this way, i am secretly giving another guy attention. It distracts me from whatever BS my bf is throwing at me

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by halfricanadian(f): 4:17pm On May 18, 2016

layla129:
Same here but the difference is i can't pretend i'm not angry...it must show sha ni.

Give me his number...i don't trust you

Me too sha

Bt i got tired of been angry sad

His number grin

come and tiff it

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by onstelly(f): 4:17pm On May 18, 2016

layla129:
True, but trust me when i am tired of a relationship and acting this way, i am secretly giving another guy attention. It distracts me from whatever BS my bf is throwing at me

Lol so true dear and I must have caught him cheating.
If only they will be faithful and respect us undecided

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by onstelly(f): 4:19pm On May 18, 2016

obiorathesubtle:
yes.. I'd follow the babymama trend.. Get Children, live my life in peace.. Tell em their mom died when they were young..

when their mum is still very much alive
Omg now that's so mean!

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by layla129(op): 4:19pm On May 18, 2016

dollyjoy:
I think its high time we become mindful of what we put up online,a partner might be quilty of all those but doesn't necessarily means she/he is cheating.

some of us nairalanders users are very gullible hence might s start unnecessary suspicion probably cos our partner is quilty of one or two things.

Their problem not mine sorry...i can write whatever i like. You're not fit to be in a relationship or called an adult if you don't know when to make such accusation.

Plus, my N.B is for such people.

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by dollyjoy(f): 4:22pm On May 18, 2016

layla129:
Their problem not mine sorry...i can write whatever i like. You're not fit to be in a relationship or called an adult if you don't know when to make such accusation.

Plus, my N.B is for such people.

ok then

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by layla129(op): 4:23pm On May 18, 2016

obiorathesubtle:
yes.. I'd follow the babymama trend.. Get Children, live my life in peace.. Tell em their mom died when they were young..

When God wants to deal with people like you, he will just send one chic you will hopelessly fall in love with and will reset that your brain grin

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Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by misspicy(f): 4:27pm On May 18, 2016

obiorathesubtle:
yes.. I'd follow the babymama trend.. Get Children, live my life in peace.. Tell em their mom died when they were young..

Excesses of civilization

If any one thinks this way,he just hasn't had first hand experience with "babymamarism"

it will shock you to realize that in there lies the real headache.

Guess you forgot about the future of the kids too,and what happens when you are no more?

Both parents play a great role in the lives of kids except a parent truly died

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Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by obiorathesubtle: 4:27pm On May 18, 2016

onstelly:
when their mum is still very much alive
Omg now that's so mean!

That's the only way I can live in peace.. undecided

I want to avoid temptations.. I have a very bad temper..

Plus, It'll be healthy for me, I'll have an independent girlfriend on the side, one who isn't ready to commit either but willing to have sex at anytime.. I wouldn't require her to cook for me or anything.. I can do all that ish on my own..

Whenever she brings up the commitment topic.. Off I go.. Out of her life and on the road to get myself another independent girl for a semi-serious relationship..

See.. I have it all planned out.. cheesy

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by cutiedave(m): 4:29pm On May 18, 2016

Failed to read these signs back den with ma ex...especially 2 and 3....i was stupidly still trying to please her...bt now, guys don mature, no time for fake bitches

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by halfricanadian(f): 4:29pm On May 18, 2016

obiorathesubtle:
That's the only way I can live in peace..

I want to avoid temptations.. I have a very bad temper..

Plus, It'll be healthy for me, I'll have an independent girlfriend on the side, one who isn't ready to commit either but willing to have sex at anytime.. I wouldn't require her to cook for me or anything.. I can do all that ish on my own..

Whenever she brings up the commitment topic.. Off I go.. Out of her life and on the road to get myself another independent girl for a semi-serious relationship..

See.. I have it all planned out..

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by Nobody: 4:31pm On May 18, 2016

Who gf epp? undecided

am too young to be dating tongue

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by obiorathesubtle: 4:31pm On May 18, 2016

misspicy:
Excesses of civilization

If any one thinks this way,he just hasn't had first hand experience with "babymamarism"

it will shock you to realize that in there lies the real headache.

Guess you forgot about the future of the kids too,and what happens when you are no more?

Both parents play a great role in the lives of kids except a parent truly died

it'll shock you to realise I'm the exception..

The kids will be fine, when I die, they'll take care of themselves.. I come from a line of strong men.. My kids would be proud of the sperm quality.. Believe me!!

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by onstelly(f): 4:32pm On May 18, 2016

obiorathesubtle:
That's the only way I can live in peace..

I want to avoid temptations.. I have a very bad temper..

Plus, It'll be healthy for me, I'll have an independent girlfriend on the side, one who isn't ready to commit either but willing to have sex at anytime.. I wouldn't require her to cook for me or anything.. I can do all that ish on my own..

Whenever she brings up the commitment topic.. Off I go.. Out of her life and on the road to get myself another independent girl for a semi-serious relationship..

See.. I have it all planned out..

Every child needs a mother figure in his/her life, don't deny them that because it will make you a very selfish father.

Can't imagine my life sometimes without my mum not like orphans don't have a life oh but since the mother is alive, she suppose to be part of her child's life.

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by layla129(op): 4:32pm On May 18, 2016

obiorathesubtle:
That's the only way I can live in peace..

I want to avoid temptations.. I have a very bad temper..

Plus, It'll be healthy for me, I'll have an independent girlfriend on the side, one who isn't ready to commit either but willing to have sex at anytime.. I wouldn't require her to cook for me or anything.. I can do all that ish on my own..

Whenever she brings up the commitment topic.. Off I go.. Out of her life and on the road to get myself another independent girl for a semi-serious relationship..

See.. I have it all planned out..

And you say this is easier than settling down huh

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by obiorathesubtle: 4:32pm On May 18, 2016

layla129:
When God wants to deal with people like you, he will just send one chic you will hopelessly fall in love with and will reset that your brain

Lol.. I've seen em all.. Nothing will impress me enough..

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by obiorathesubtle: 4:34pm On May 18, 2016

halfricanadian:

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by obiorathesubtle: 4:35pm On May 18, 2016

onstelly:
Every child needs a mother figure in his/her life, don't deny them that because it will make you a very selfish father.

Can't imagine my life sometimes without my mum not like orphans don't have a life oh but since the mother is alive, she suppose to be part of her child's life.

they'll have their grandma or the very nice lady that likes daddy very much but daddy doesn't give a shît.. cheesy

Re: Signs You Have A Cheating Girlfriend/wife. by layla129(op): 4:35pm On May 18, 2016

cutiedave:
Failed to read these signs back den with ma ex...especially 2 and 3....i was stupidly still trying to please her...bt now, guys don mature, no time for fake bitches

Exactly! Create time for only real ladies grin