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I am from a family of three guys and I am the youngest. Almost 30 years now.

Done with school and set up a biz in the town I did NYSC. I met a girl I love so much and wish to marry her (start d marital rites in few months and tie the knot by December or so.

But my Dad was soo pessimistic about getting married now because of two reasons:

1. I want to pull my money and my wife to be's money to invest in a new biz. He believes that a woman's money should not in any way bring a man up as it will make d lady proud in future.

2. That far away in the village, we need to build another house for more accommodation. This I promised him won't be a problem if I set up d new biz in partnership with my fiancé.

He is just at d middle. He isn't saying yes and not saying no either.

The timeline I set is getting close and I feel I am being slowed down unnecessarily.

My dad is this: Nooo don't. U cant. U shouldn't hv. Wait small. Etc.

Pls help me. What should I do?

Wtf! Hw can u be at an age where ur supposed to be a fully grown man and ur still takin orders from ur dad..


No offence buh he should just go and sit down..

donbenedict:
Wtf! Hw can u be at an age where ur supposed to be a fully grown man and ur still takin orders from ur dad..


No offence buh he should just go and sit down..

In my culture leads you to lady's house for d marriage rites. So his support essential.

I do understand where you father is coming from, but this is the 21st century, I don't see anything wrong in your "wife to be" supporting your business proposal financially.

On the other point, you learn to walk before you fly. If business prospers, then you can build as many houses you want.

MARKone:
I do understand where you father is coming from, but this is the 21st century, I don't see anything wrong in your "wife to be" supporting your business proposal financially.

On the other point, you learn to walk before you fly. If business prospers, then you can build as many houses you want.

Thanks for your contributions