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A Brother Needs Help by panthera4: 9:41am On May 21, 2016 |
I have a fiance, she worship in Christ embassy and am a catholic,, she is finding it difficult leaving her church to marry me, her church won't even let her do that! And am not ready to raise a family were everyone goes to his or her own church! Plz what do I do? I seriously need your advice plz |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by ladyF(f): 9:44am On May 21, 2016 |
Change to her church Sir. It's all about sacrifice. Besides, it's still the same religion. |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by panthera4: 9:48am On May 21, 2016 |
ladyF:am sure as a woman, u owe ur husband that duty to follow him to his church |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by vizkiz: 9:50am On May 21, 2016 |
christ embassy? Hmmmn.... You sure your lady is furcking the pastor? On a more serious note, I think you both should change the churches you attend and come to a conclusion... Redeem isn't that bad. 1 Like |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by ashmanpolo: 9:50am On May 21, 2016 |
Op, if you borrow your best friend N5m to do facial surgery. After the surgery how will you even identify him to collect back your money? Only prayers o!!! Pray your way through and this dysfunctional salience in doctrinal religion b/w you and your fiancée will be a thing of the past. #teamCatholic# |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by panthera4: 9:51am On May 21, 2016 |
vizkiz:fucking the pastor? How |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by panthera4: 9:52am On May 21, 2016 |
ashmanpolo:I really love that! Team Catholic |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by vizkiz: 9:53am On May 21, 2016 |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by panthera4: 9:55am On May 21, 2016 |
vizkiz:mmmmmmm |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by panthera4: 10:11am On May 21, 2016 |
Really need to know what decision to make now |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by ladyF(f): 10:16am On May 21, 2016 |
panthera4:Lmao! And why is that? Because I am the supposed "weaker" sex? Abeg it is a collective decision. If he wants to follow me to my church, he is more than welcome. I have never been so particular about churches so it really won't be a big deal for me changing church. The only reason I will strongly object is if I don't consider their doctrines reasonable to me. There is a particular church I can never step foot in, and I won't mention the name before their members will start to rain down incantations But at the same time, it's the same religion, so... |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by inositol88(m): 10:20am On May 21, 2016 |
Somebody has to make a sacrifice!!!!!! when u marry her, she leaves her father's house and surname, and she takes ur name, meaning that she is ready to go with u wherever u go. I feel since she is getting married to u, to stay with u and be with u, then she should make the sacrifice of joining u . my personal opinion oh!!!!! but u can do otherwise |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by panthera4: 10:24am On May 21, 2016 |
ladyF:OK my dear. I just pray I don't make d wrong decision |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by panthera4: 10:25am On May 21, 2016 |
inositol88:I wish she knows that |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by donbenedict(m): 10:57am On May 21, 2016 |
Panther pls go and marry a Catholic! Jeez! |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by panthera4: 11:01am On May 21, 2016 |
donbenedict:then what happens to love? |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by donbenedict(m): 11:10am On May 21, 2016 |
panthera4:it dies brother. no hard feelings. She clearly doesn't even love u sef. Dunt even knw why u are here killing urself abt somthn dat don't exist |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by panthera4: 11:16am On May 21, 2016 |
donbenedict:mmmmmmm |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by Youngpo413: 11:20am On May 21, 2016 |
panthera4:love ke |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by otodeluxe(m): 11:25am On May 21, 2016 |
When you started dating didn't you know she's a love world member. |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by makydebbie(f): 11:29am On May 21, 2016 |
ladyF:sister..dont you think the doctrine will be different?.. |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by ladyF(f): 11:31am On May 21, 2016 |
makydebbie:It will, but change is inevitable. We all have to learn to compromise for the right reasons sometimes. |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by panthera4: 11:33am On May 21, 2016 |
I guess am the victim here |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by makydebbie(f): 11:34am On May 21, 2016 |
ladyF:you have a point tho! |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by AfricanApple(f): 11:36am On May 21, 2016 |
people are worrying about the other religion, some people are here worrying about the same religion |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by onoslove(f): 11:55am On May 21, 2016 |
panthera4:How I wish I could talk to your fiancee, this is the same mistake a cousin of my made, until she became 43. My aunt have to call their head pastor to plead with the pastor that since they will not allow her marry somebody out of Christ Embassy, then the pastor should look for a husband for her. When a man finally came, the first question put before her is if the man is from Christ Embassy. She said no, and then they came up with, oh don't marry somebody that is not a member of Christ Embassy. But this time around, she have to take her chance. And she never discuss the marriage issue with the church again. She just went ahead and did traditional marriage. Your fiancee should be wise. And let me advice you, I am a woman, do not ever let her pull you away from your church. |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by HARDDON: 12:15pm On May 21, 2016 |
If only christians wud follow Christ , we wudnt have these confused , mutiplicated religious sentiments as we do today. May there come a time when Christians wud really appreciate what it is like to be one and throw these religious sentiments away! |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by panthera4: 3:30pm On May 21, 2016 |
onoslove:i really wish she can see that! Am just depressed with all this church issue |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by panthera4: 8:48pm On May 21, 2016 |
You guys are really helpful! Thnx |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by panthera4: 9:44pm On May 23, 2016 |
Guys! My fiance is keeping malice with me because of this church issue |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by skywalker240(m): 10:17pm On May 23, 2016 |
onoslove:Thank u..nowadays many ladies who seek solace now gets this new mindset and thus u see many of them marrying late...i hope some ladies talking about silly sacrifices reads dis post. |
Re: A Brother Needs Help by rose54321: 10:22pm On May 23, 2016 |
Hmm, y'all weren't aware of this before, passing through the friend phase, dating phase, courtship phase?? Interesting. |
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