ladyF:
Change to her church Sir. It's all about sacrifice. Besides, it's still the same religion.

vizkiz:
christ embassy? Hmmmn.... You sure your lady is furcking the pastor?

On a more serious note, I think you both should change the churches you attend and come to a conclusion... Redeem isn't that bad.

ashmanpolo:
Op, if you borrow your best friend N5m to do facial surgery. After the surgery how will you even identify him to collect back your money?
Only prayers o!!!

Pray your way through and this dysfunctional salience in doctrinal religion b/w you and your fiancée will be a thing of the past.

#teamCatholic#

panthera4:
fucking the pastor? How

vizkiz:


never mind, focus on the solution given.

panthera4:
am sure as a woman, u owe ur husband that duty to follow him to his church

ladyF:

Lmao!

And why is that? Because I am the supposed "weaker" sex? Abeg it is a collective decision. If he wants to follow me to my church, he is more than welcome.

I have never been so particular about churches so it really won't be a big deal for me changing church. The only reason I will strongly object is if I don't consider their doctrines reasonable to me. There is a particular church I can never step foot in, and I won't mention the name before their members will start to rain down incantations But at the same time, it's the same religion, so...

inositol88:
Somebody has to make a sacrifice!!!!!!

when u marry her, she leaves her father's house and surname, and she takes ur name, meaning that she is ready to go with u wherever u go.

I feel since she is getting married to u, to stay with u and be with u, then she should make the sacrifice of joining u .

my personal opinion oh!!!!!

but u can do otherwise

donbenedict:
Panther pls go and marry a Catholic! Jeez!

panthera4:
then what happens to love?

donbenedict:
it dies brother. no hard feelings. She clearly doesn't even love u sef. Dunt even knw why u are here killing urself abt somthn dat don't exist

panthera4:
then what happens to love?

ladyF:
Change to her church Sir. It's all about sacrifice. Besides, it's still the same religion.

makydebbie:
sister..dont you think the doctrine will be different?..

ladyF:

It will, but change is inevitable. We all have to learn to compromise for the right reasons sometimes.

panthera4:
I have a fiance, she worship in Christ embassy and am a catholic,, she is finding it difficult leaving her church to marry me, her church won't even let her do that! And am not ready to raise a family were everyone goes to his or her own church! Plz what do I do? I seriously need your advice plz

onoslove:
How I wish I could talk to your fiancee, this is the same mistake a cousin of my made, until she became 43. My aunt have to call their head pastor to plead with the pastor that since they will not allow her marry somebody out of Christ Embassy, then the pastor should look for a husband for her. When a man finally came, the first question put before her is if the man is from Christ Embassy. She said no, and then they came up with, oh don't marry somebody that is not a member of Christ Embassy. But this time around, she have to take her chance. And she never discuss the marriage issue with the church again. She just went ahead and did traditional marriage. Your fiancee should be wise. And let me advice you, I am a woman, do not ever let her pull you away from your church.

onoslove:
How I wish I could talk to your fiancee, this is the same mistake a cousin of my made, until she became 43. My aunt have to call their head pastor to plead with the pastor that since they will not allow her marry somebody out of Christ Embassy, then the pastor should look for a husband for her. When a man finally came, the first question put before her is if the man is from Christ Embassy. She said no, and then they came up with, oh don't marry somebody that is not a member of Christ Embassy. But this time around, she have to take her chance. And she never discuss the marriage issue with the church again. She just went ahead and did traditional marriage. Your fiancee should be wise. And let me advice you, I am a woman, do not ever let her pull you away from your church.