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Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by horke(op): 5:39pm On May 21, 2016
Am a corper presently serving in Anambra, there was this girl I met three months ago, she is normal in beauty, she attracted me and I invited her to my lounge.....sincerely she allowed me to sex her that same first day of her visiting and even after d first time, we do have it, but she always telling me she doesn't like condom I tried my best not to release in **it.
Suddenly last week, she told me she is PREGNANT...and I am responsible for it but she doesn't want me to be the father of the baby 'because
(1)am still serving
(2) I might not be able to cater for d baby and her
(3) She does not want to put me in thinking or present restlessness
(4)She said she does not want to have anything with me again
Hmmmm.....but what I notice was dat dis girl did not disclose d matter to me untill we have an issue of Me giving her some thousands which I was unable to raise for Her!!!
....Although I have invited her to come to my place on monday to talk about or over the entire issue.....
---(Please advises I need dat will get me out of this awkwardness)).

Thanks
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by donbenedict(m): 5:41pm On May 21, 2016
grin why are u bothered? She doesn't want to stress u up.. u should be happy grin
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by Nobody: 5:44pm On May 21, 2016
grin was it one time thing with many rounds?
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by Nobody: 5:48pm On May 21, 2016
Congrats papa somebody
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by ronald4lif(m): 5:48pm On May 21, 2016
Do you want to father the child and can you afford the responsibilities that comes with doing so?
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by horke(op): 5:54pm On May 21, 2016
Truely am not capable....infact they shuld noy hear from my town dat I impregnated a lady..........fed up
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by sexylogan(m): 6:17pm On May 21, 2016
KashyBaby:
grin was it one time thing with many rounds?
Lol
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by makydebbie(f): 6:17pm On May 21, 2016
the babe wants to save you..better grab opportunity
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by octopusfreaky(f): 6:29pm On May 21, 2016
iyaf warned u guys to stay safe ds 2016huh
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by Nobody: 6:36pm On May 21, 2016
Lol. She used you. May be she's coming from a family of girls and some traditions demand that one of the girls will have to give them a child to continue the lineage. Or she needs a child as she doesn't want to marry. She started asking for the money to distract you, and make you leave her. Although what I don't understand is why she told you, when she could have just stop seeing you.
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by Abbeyunique2(m): 7:09pm On May 21, 2016
BabyMama 101
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by Eleniyan15: 7:16pm On May 21, 2016
BabyMama 101 5unit

upon waiting kwam1 talk
omo Naija ema sere kere ere kere nidin oyun koyun ***********
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by amauri(m): 7:17pm On May 21, 2016
It could be she wants u to bring up abortion matter or something so dat u can give her money for it.U neva can tell she mite not rilly be pregnant.My opinion dou.
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by Vikky014(f): 7:26pm On May 21, 2016
horke:
Am a corper presently serving in Anambra, there was this girl I met three months ago, she is normal in beauty, she attracted me and I invited her to my lounge.....sincerely she allowed me to sex her that same first day of her visiting and even after d first time, we do have it, but she always telling me she doesn't like condom I tried my best not to release in **it.
Suddenly last week, she told me she is PREGNANT...and I am responsible for it but she doesn't want me to be the father of the baby 'because
(1)am still serving
(2) I might not be able to cater for d baby and her
(3) She does not want to put me in thinking or present restlessness
(4)She said she does not want to have anything with me again
Hmmmm.....but what I notice was dat dis girl did not disclose d matter to me untill we have an issue of Me giving her some thousands which I was unable to raise for Her!!!
....Although I have invited her to come to my place on monday to talk about or over the entire issue.....
---(Please advises I need dat will get me out of this awkwardness)).

Thanks
op u r very cheap. imagine u risked ur life bc of sexhuh wht if she is HIV POSITIVEhuh Anambra for dt matter...did i hear u say u had sex wt a stranger on her first day of visithuh a Corper for dt matter.

i swear u lack self control..i pity your loved ones bc definitely u r nw HIV positive
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by horke(op): 7:38pm On May 21, 2016
Hmmm HIV? I reject it ooo. But going for d test shuld be later
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by nwaclassic: 7:48pm On May 21, 2016
Bro you be learner



While in hell would have an unprotected sex



Hiv is real.
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by Nobody: 7:51pm On May 21, 2016
But where is lalasticlala sef undecided
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by tee59(f): 8:12pm On May 21, 2016
Hw can u b havn sex with a lady u'v just met dre without protection? Whn u kno u av but a limited tim dre.If u av takn precautions, u wouldn't find urslf in dis mess. Now u are asking for advice frm pple who were nt there whn u wre fucking dis girl. D little common sense u av left, use it to solve ur problems.
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by tameera(f): 8:24pm On May 21, 2016
Vikky014:
op u r very cheap. imagine u risked ur life bc of sexhuh wht if she is HIV POSITIVEhuh Anambra for dt matter...did i hear u say u had sex wt a stranger on her first day of visithuh a Corper for dt matter.

i swear u lack self control..i pity your loved ones bc definitely u r nw HIV positive
And what is wrong with Anambra state huh
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by firstking01(m): 8:25pm On May 21, 2016
She's a cLassified prostitute...what nairaland would term "olosho"
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by Vikky014(f): 8:32pm On May 21, 2016
tameera:
And what is wrong with Anambra state huh
ask the op nah
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by SirREX94: 8:36pm On May 21, 2016
Chaiiiiiiii! Bae like seriously it doesn't matter. He actually agreed it happened many other times, & tried not to ''DEPOSIT'' but...................
KashyBaby:
grin was it one time thing with many rounds?
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by olac21(m): 8:40pm On May 21, 2016
No 4*-she doesn't want to have anything with you!you care to explain and what tribe are you?it will shape my advice!
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by olac21(m): 8:43pm On May 21, 2016
octopusfreaky:
iyaf warned u guys to stay safe ds 2016huh
Your thread dated Jan 07 says it all"don't open a thread on whether or not to go for abortion this year"
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by olac21(m): 8:50pm On May 21, 2016
Vikky014:
op u r very cheap. imagine u risked ur life bc of sexhuh wht if she is HIV POSITIVEhuh Anambra for dt matter...did i hear u say u had sex wt a stranger on her first day of visithuh a Corper for dt matter.

i swear u lack self control..i pity your loved ones bc definitely u r nw HIV positive
Easy on him now-ahahah(Anambra&money+sex-they are like 5&6)
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by Vikky014(f): 9:02pm On May 21, 2016
olac21:
Easy on him now-ahahah(Anambra&money+sex-they are like 5&6)
lol. i dnt hv any pity for him oo bc he thinks wt his third leg. imagine a stranger hving a sex wt u on her first day of visit. sme1 u dnt knw her sexual historyhuh
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by Nobody: 9:07pm On May 21, 2016
You said you tried your best to not release in her.. OP, you are confused.
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by Vikky014(f): 9:07pm On May 21, 2016
firstking01:
She's a cLassified prostitute...what nairaland would term "olosho"
and the boy in question is a classified good macho man abihuh i pity ur mentality sha
Re: Pls Help Me From This Big Mess, I Can't Stop Thinking. by sammyclassics(m): 9:11pm On May 21, 2016
I guess she just needed d babe and ur thing... u are useless after that
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