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No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by marvelck(op): 1:08pm On May 22, 2016
No guy should take care of any girlfriend until after marriage. And no girl should give any guy/boyfriend sex until after marriage. When you demand and collect money from your guy always, it makes him feel he owns you and your body. And when a girl gives you sex, it makes her feel she has the right to demand and collect money from you whenever she wants. Money and sex works hand in hand in today's relationship. When you dont collect money from a guy, you can always turn down his sex demands. And no girl has any right to demand you cater for her needs when she's not yet married to you. The less committed you two are, the less painful it would be for both of you when things doesnt work out in the end...
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by chekasforchekas: 1:09pm On May 22, 2016
Ok
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by halfricanadian(f): 1:12pm On May 22, 2016
Happy i dont do dat demand for money grin grin grin grin

Dat sex own let cobwebs grow deir sef im done with sex for good av sowned d place
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by GloriaNinja(f): 1:14pm On May 22, 2016
Nice thread, that's the truth but some men offer money to girls willingly, many of them have bad intentions while some don't.
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by Nobody: 1:17pm On May 22, 2016
Does that demand without supplying anything back like the guy is there father won't many here on NL.
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by ImDharay: 1:18pm On May 22, 2016
hmmm, e qet as e be sha.
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by Nobody: 1:18pm On May 22, 2016
Ok.... undecided undecided

Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by thesicilian: 1:19pm On May 22, 2016
Modified: No guy should take care of any overdependent girl until after marriage.
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by rose54321: 1:19pm On May 22, 2016
I beg to differ a bit. There is nothing wrong in buying something for your girl on your own volition, not compulsion oh, similarly there's nothing wrong if in the heat of the moment y'all have physical fun.

The issue is when the lady starts demanding for gifts or cash, when they akin it to your responsibility.
Or when guys get angry when you say NO, and for some weird reason feel it's their entitlement, that they have a right to ya body.

Basically, people need the distinction between entitlement and privilege.
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by Fourwinds: 1:22pm On May 22, 2016
halfricanadian:
Happy i dont do dat demand for money grin grin grin grin

Dat sex own let cobwebs grow deir sef im done with sex for good av sowned d place
do u want a serious relationship now
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by cruzita(f): 1:23pm On May 22, 2016
I LOVE it this way .I won't be bothered because I have my own money
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by Nobody: 1:26pm On May 22, 2016
Kini big deal with the Sex thingy?
What's the relations bTW Sex And moneyhuh


Whats with the Whole ''No girl should give A guy Sex?''
Smh! Why can't it be No ''Guy should give girl sex'' rather?




Ain't making sense...
Y'all be so fuckkedd up!

Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by Flexherbal(m): 1:29pm On May 22, 2016
cruzita:
I LOVE it this way .I won't be bothered because I have my own money
Other girls think otherwise.
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by chubbyswit(m): 1:36pm On May 22, 2016
being in a relationship can make a man wretched and veer him off from his life goals. Buh d ones built on luv and trust and which will end up in marriage is recommended.
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by vizkiz: 1:50pm On May 22, 2016
rose54321:
I beg to differ a bit. There is nothing wrong in buying something for your girl on your own volition, not compulsion oh, similarly there's nothing wrong if in the heat of the moment y'all have physical fun.

The issue is when the lady starts demanding for gifts or cash, when they akin it to your responsibility.
Or when guys get angry when you say NO, and for some weird reason feel it's their entitlement, that they have a right to ya body.

Basically, people need the distinction between entitlement and privilege.
so the only part you could counter is the monetary aspect? You buy the idea of no sex because he is not entitled to that.

You are an unintelligent gold digger. No offense
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by vizkiz: 1:51pm On May 22, 2016
Estharfabian:
Kini big deal with the Sex thingy?
What's the relations bTW Sex And moneyhuh


Whats with the Whole ''No girl should give A guy Sex?''
Smh! Why can't it be No ''Guy should give girl sex'' rather?




Ain't making sense...
Y'all be so fuckkedd up!

Shut the furck up and come back to bed! You this..... angry
Who released you from the ban sef? undecided
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by wilybebsy(m): 1:53pm On May 22, 2016
You have a point tho
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by ClassCaptain(m): 1:59pm On May 22, 2016
This is where one need to know the difference between necessary and Compulsory, Should and must and then entitlement and priveledge.


Taking care of a girl and giving her money is not equivalent to having sex... I tell you no amount of sex or pleasure derived can equate to the value of my hard earned money.

Sex is not an investment and a relationaship is not built on either sex or money but love.. Only that parties may decide to express this love through either sex or giving care and money . Either way they choose to express their love shld be no mans business.
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by Nobody: 2:13pm On May 22, 2016
vizkiz:
Shut the furck up and come back to bed! You this..... angry
Who released you from the ban sef? undecided
Lol. grin



I wasn't banned.
I just had other priorities.


I missed you too babe! wink
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by Nobody: 2:15pm On May 22, 2016
vizkiz:
so the only part you could counter is the monetary aspect? You buy the idea of no sex because he is not entitled to that.

You are an unintelligent gold digger. No offense
Lol. grin



Shut up Victor! leave her alone!


Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by Israel5(m): 2:15pm On May 22, 2016
Yeah right!! undecided
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by IamLEGEND1: 2:20pm On May 22, 2016
Estharfabian:
Kini big deal with the Sex thingy?
What's the relations bTW Sex And moneyhuh
Whats with the Whole ''No girl should give A guy Sex?''
Smh! Why can't it be No ''Guy should give girl sex'' rather
Ain't making sense...
Y'all be so fuckkedd up
Marry me,pretty pls?
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by Nobody: 2:24pm On May 22, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
Marry me,pretty pls?
Yes please? embarassed


Buh why sha...tongue shocked


Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by IamLEGEND1: 2:36pm On May 22, 2016
Estharfabian:
Yes please? embarassed Buh why sha...tongue shocked
just for being Esth'er/'ar & for making adequate sense(most of the time at least cheesy ).
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by halfricanadian(f): 2:38pm On May 22, 2016
Fourwinds:
do u want a serious relationship now
Yes why not
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by Nobody: 3:05pm On May 22, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
just for being Esth'er/'ar & for making adequate sense(most of the time at least cheesy ).
Most of the time huh? grin


Lmao...I could be pretty silly sometimes. grin huh? So....Gotten An engagement ring? it Must be diamond entrusted BTW....

Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by Nobody: 3:15pm On May 22, 2016
vizkiz:
so the only part you could counter is the monetary aspect? You buy the idea of no sex because he is not entitled to that.

You are an unintelligent gold digger. No offense
Stop trying too hard to maintain your supposed "basher" title. It's hindering you from seeing beyond your big nose. I guess the didn't see the underlined below.

rose54321:
I beg to differ a bit. There is nothing wrong in buying something for your girl on your own volition, not compulsion oh, similarly there's nothing wrong if in the heat of the moment y'all have physical fun.

The issue is when the lady starts demanding for gifts or cash, when they akin it to your responsibility.
Or when guys get angry when you say NO, and for some weird reason feel it's their entitlement, that they have a right to ya body.

Basically, people need the distinction between entitlement and privilege.
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by rose54321: 3:36pm On May 22, 2016
NewSheriff:
Stop trying too hard to maintain your supposed "basher" title. It's hindering you from seeing beyond your big nose. I guess the didn't see the underlined below.
Don't mind the adamu of a guy.
Rather than reading the entire comment, he skims through and chooses areas that will suit his "bashing comment".
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by firstking01(m): 3:40pm On May 22, 2016
Tthis is too obvious
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by vizkiz: 4:03pm On May 22, 2016
NewSheriff:
Stop trying too hard to maintain your supposed "basher" title. It's hindering you from seeing beyond your big nose. I guess the didn't see the underlined below.
nah...you are not worth the effort. grin

Not you grin



Estharfabian:
Lol. grin

I wasn't banned.
I just had other priorities.


I missed you too babe! wink
I did not miss you.. Duh! undecided
Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by czarr(m): 4:25pm On May 22, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
Marry me,pretty pls?
.

Re: No Guy Should Take Care Of Any Girl Until After Marriage... by Vikky014(f): 4:49pm On May 22, 2016
marvelck:
No guy should take care of any girlfriend until after marriage. And no girl should give any guy/boyfriend sex until after marriage. When you demand and collect money from your guy always, it makes him feel he owns you and your body. And when a girl gives you sex, it makes her feel she has the right to demand and collect money from you whenever she wants. Money and sex works hand in hand in today's relationship. When you dont collect money from a guy, you can always turn down his sex demands. And no girl has any right to demand you cater for her needs when she's not yet married to you. The less committed you two are, the less painful it would be for both of you when things doesnt work out in the end...
rightly said
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