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WHY Love Is Lacking In NIGERIA!... Here's Why. by czarr(op): 4:03pm On May 22, 2016
Okay,
We all know Nigeria isn't an easy country to survive in, the economy isn't smiling!

Why is it that most of the places you can take a girl on a date to are somewhat expensive?... I'm just saying.
*The cinema.
*shopping mall.
*eatery.

These places demand money from a guy...
And that's why mostly the comfortable/rich guys have all the fun....cos they can afford it.....but then again you can't know if what attracts the girl is his ability to provide.

I went to a club the other day and they told me the cheapest drink is 7k....I'm still hustling I'm not about to spend 7k on a drink....that means i would not take a girl there na. As as how na?

I think we need cheaper fun things to do outside of the home.maybe like
*hiking paths
*recreational parks
Maybe something that wouldn't tear a hustling guys pocket.

Then genuine love will Strive!
Re: WHY Love Is Lacking In NIGERIA!... Here's Why. by obiorathesubtle: 4:16pm On May 22, 2016
undecided Nigga.. Luxury is for rich people, if you can't afford certain ish.. Stay at home! Nobody will shoot you!!
Re: WHY Love Is Lacking In NIGERIA!... Here's Why. by BiafraBushBoy(m): 4:28pm On May 22, 2016
Mama put and Other lowkey places can still help na....
lol...
Re: WHY Love Is Lacking In NIGERIA!... Here's Why. by czarr(op): 4:38pm On May 22, 2016
obiorathesubtle:
undecided Nigga.. Luxury is for rich people, if you can't afford certain ish.. Stay at home! Nobody will shoot you!!
nigga....its only in Nigeria that those things are luxury.
Guy Yankee these things are easily affordable by even college students.
You prolly didn't get me...you don't have to comment tho.

Re: WHY Love Is Lacking In NIGERIA!... Here's Why. by Nobody: 4:44pm On May 22, 2016
All the three you listed ain't really that expensive. Unless offcourse you are a broke ass. grin

Romance really don't have to be expensive, just creative. But most African people don't even want to think, they don't even want to learn I mean they don't even want to do it.
Re: WHY Love Is Lacking In NIGERIA!... Here's Why. by obiorathesubtle: 4:46pm On May 22, 2016
czarr:
nigga....its only in Nigeria that those things are luxury.
Guy Yankee these things are easily affordable by even college students.
You prolly didn't get me...you don't have to comment tho.
undecided you don't even get me sef.. Going to yankee is luxury, staying in yankee is luxury.. What is easily affordable for them isn't easily affordable for us.. We live in different worlds.. Different standards..



Check your first and second paragraph.. You'll see you answered the 2nd paragraph question on the first paragraph..



I'm sure There are places where that 7k drink is sold for 1.5k.. You just get big eye..


If you're hustling, cut your coat according to your pocket.. You can't go to sheraton abi eko hotels and buy a bottle of coke for 50naira.. Dem go just pursue you.. But if you go abõki shop.. Coke na 50naira... You see my point now??


Until you get to a particular level, don't try to leapfrog illegally and expect a grand welcome..
Re: WHY Love Is Lacking In NIGERIA!... Here's Why. by Nobody: 4:50pm On May 22, 2016
Most Nigerians aren't trained to be romantic for whatever reasons. Lack of initiative lol. But guy, you go still need the doe oh!
Re: WHY Love Is Lacking In NIGERIA!... Here's Why. by Nobody: 4:54pm On May 22, 2016
obiorathesubtle:
undecided you don't even get me sef.. Going to yankee is luxury, staying in yankee is luxury.. What is easily affordable for them isn't easily affordable for us.. We live in different worlds.. Different standards..



Check your first and second paragraph.. You'll see you answered the 2nd paragraph question on the first paragraph..



I'm sure There are places where that 7k drink is sold for 1.5k.. You just get big eye..


If you're hustling, cut your coat according to your pocket.. You can't go to sheraton abi eko hotels and buy a bottle of coke for 50naira.. Dem go just pursue you.. But if you go abõki shop.. Coke na 50naira... You see my point now??


Until you get to a particular level, don't try to leapfrog illegally and expect a grand welcome..
Adding to bolden
Else you will be shot down instantly!!!
Re: WHY Love Is Lacking In NIGERIA!... Here's Why. by Nobody: 4:55pm On May 22, 2016
rokiatu:
All the three you listed ain't really that expensive. Unless offcourse you are a broke ass. grin

Romance really don't have to be expensive, just creative. But most African people don't even want to think, they don't even want to learn I mean they don't even want to do it.
Most Africans aren't romantic, love!
Re: WHY Love Is Lacking In NIGERIA!... Here's Why. by Nobody: 4:56pm On May 22, 2016
pinceprinz:
Most Nigerians aren't trained to be romantic for whatever reasons. Lack of initiative lol. But guy, you go still need the doe oh!
they are not even interested. And love without romance is so dull.
Re: WHY Love Is Lacking In NIGERIA!... Here's Why. by Omotayor123(f): 4:57pm On May 22, 2016
Blaming the Economyhuh
Re: WHY Love Is Lacking In NIGERIA!... Here's Why. by Nobody: 4:57pm On May 22, 2016
Silkmoth33:
Most Africans aren't romantic, love!
I know so sad.

they probably think is a western thing.
Re: WHY Love Is Lacking In NIGERIA!... Here's Why. by Nobody: 5:01pm On May 22, 2016
CHAI I REJECT EVERY SPIRIT OF BROKENESS IN JESUS NAME. of what use will i woo a lady if i cant take her to the cinema. @op relationship aint meant for everybody.
Re: WHY Love Is Lacking In NIGERIA!... Here's Why. by JeffreyJamez(m): 5:23pm On May 22, 2016
..all I see is the wail of someone (probably a student ) trying to live above his means....
Re: WHY Love Is Lacking In NIGERIA!... Here's Why. by Nobody: 5:31pm On May 22, 2016
This is what leads to ritual o grin grin




Mr you can be romantic with the little you have undecided





Creativity is all you need
Re: WHY Love Is Lacking In NIGERIA!... Here's Why. by Lovelynature(m): 6:29pm On May 22, 2016
rokiatu:
All the three you listed ain't really that expensive. Unless offcourse you are a broke ass. grin

Romance really don't have to be expensive, just creative. But most African people don't even want to think, they don't even want to learn I mean they don't even want to do it.
This babe is back to Romance.

mrcock here is your bae
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