And who hating his/her father ever EPPmea..meanwhile

sometimes this come as a result of d girl being brain wash by her mum and other influence around her environment, parents should be mindful of what the say around their kids.

SAINTSAMURAII:
This is heart broken. the dad must have indeed failed in caring for the emotional and mental needs of the child hence her strange outburst. how the heck can a nine year old has these insultive words in her brain? well the father is to be blame too.

her mind has been poisoned by the mother.

SAINTSAMURAII:
This is heart broken. the dad must have indeed failed in caring for the emotional and mental needs of the child hence her strange outburst. how the heck can a nine year old has these insultive words in her brain? well the father is to be blame too.

She is merely repeating what she heard her mom say about her dad.

contactmorak:
Human right activist, Joe Odumakin shared this note purportedly written by a 9-year-old girl during a counselling session in which she used unpalatable words to describe her father. She wrote "I hate my dad. He is a horrible, a bad father, betrayer, liar, idiot, stupid, wicked, mad, extremely stupid and wicked. I hate him". Wow!

http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/05/joe-odumakin-shares-note-written-by-9.html

don't blame your dad! blame your mother for she is the cause of all THIS!

she may be brainwashing you and let you think that your dad is the evil one! WOMen are known to do this RUBBISH.


your dad maybe innocent but that wicked mum of yours is BEHIND all THIS.

Dom2020:
sometimes this come as a result of d girl being brain wash by her mum and other influence around her environment, parents should be mindful of what the say around their kids.

God bless you,all those useless women of nowadays are always trying hard to portray themselves as the only caring parent and the man or father as an irresponsible parent,the good thing is as the child grows up he or she realizes the truth there is no way a 9 yrs old girl will know the meaning and gravity of the word betrayer except she was told by her mother

SAINTSAMURAII:
This is heart broken. the dad must have indeed failed in caring for the emotional and mental needs of the child hence her strange outburst. how the heck can a nine year old has these insultive words in her brain? well the father is to be blame too.

hmm,english hard oo


well op,its better that kiddo lets out her grievances now than and not when the 'deed',harm must've been done later.

Buh again,something tells me there could be a rat reeking badly on the momma.

Mother's indoctrination and brainwashing at work.

Her mum taught her those words

My dad is the WORST of dad's hardluck I know your pains

A friend is like a Sibling related by love and affection... As a father, dont just be related to your children by blood, but let them see as a friend, an elderly friend, a friend that there can feel free to expose even their greatest secrets to. However, do not rule out training them in the way of the lord. Discipline should not be ruled out of the whole process.

Please look at the handwriting. This was definitely not written by a child. These human rights people are always looking for ways to cause problems.

ladyF:
I'm probably the only one with a contrary view here... A 9 - year old wrote this? That's someone in primary 4 or 5 right? That vocabulary for someone in primary 4? lol

Ahh ann. Fear God na!!! I'm not deceived abeg!

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no be everybody dull like you

you think say na NAIJA were pinkin of 10 YEAR dey nursery 1@

I have seen child of 6 year who can write very well! hopefully she is not a NAIJA GIRL.


child of nine years can read and write just as he can SPEAK

Result of a bad communication between father and child

Too bad

These days' topics are always about Dads. God help our men to be good daddies to their children

Many Nigerian parents have failed their children.
No child asked to be born.
So, having a child means you want one and you must never let the child suffer.

lifezone247:
I'm sure the daddy loves her.

Yeah, the same way Buhari loves Nigeria and Nigerians, not so




www.nairaland.com/attachments/3773947_img20160529090234_jpegca51bdff8ad2dce07c0beef819ddf9d0

I think those are the words her mom uses on her dad

aperture11:

While the dad could be a terrible person, a good mother would find a way to make sure the child is shielded from MOST of it. She would always TRY to paint a picture of things being rosy to the child otherwise the child grows up thinking all men are like her dad and generally has mistrust towards all men.

She most likely learnt those words from her mother's description of her father and there may be a lot more to the story. Not excusing the heartless man though.

You are right bro, a good mother is suppose to cover up the bad side of the man...if not, it will make the little girl grow up and be feeling that all men are the same.It will haunt her for life...she can't build a good relationship with any man for life..she would hate men with passion, she might not even get married in the future because she detest men.

contactmorak:
Human right activist, Joe Odumakin shared this note purportedly written by a 9-year-old girl during a counselling session in which she used unpalatable words to describe her father. She wrote "I hate my dad. He is a horrible, a bad father, betrayer, liar, idiot, stupid, wicked, mad, extremely stupid and wicked. I hate him". Wow!

http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/05/joe-odumakin-shares-note-written-by-9.html

Can he tell us the girls answer if he asked her why she wrote these things?

ladyF:
I'm probably the only one with a contrary view here... A 9 - year old wrote this? That's someone in primary 4 or 5 right? That vocabulary for someone in primary 4? lol

Ahh ann. Fear God na!!! I'm not deceived abeg!

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Are you saying it's too much for a 9 year old or what. Look at the handwriting and the drawings beside it.

Even if she isn't 9 she is a child


But if you are saying the vocabulary is too big, you haven't met some of these rich kids even in nursery schools, the way they talk alone, a kid from jankara secondary school can't talk like that. They are very smart and confident.

Those are the words she hears her mother use with her father.

If her mother calls the father such names and as impressionable as th child is, the child would take it as the truth.

Imagine, "betrayer," how would a father betray his child?

I read the handwriting of a child but hears the voice of the mother, except th child was led to write these words by the counselor.

Now the child would grow up with a distorted view of men. No excuses for the father.

Very sad.

I do not believe it was the kid that wrote that

ladyF:
I'm probably the only one with a contrary view here... A 9 - year old wrote this? That's someone in primary 4 or 5 right? That vocabulary for someone in primary 4? lol

Ahh ann. Fear God na!!! I'm not deceived abeg!

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Are you saying its too much for someone in primary 4 or age 9? mind you, some 9 year olds are already in secondary school.
I see nothing 'big' about the vocabulary ooo

I bet these are words are mum uses on her dad

Burger01:
Doctored little child with doctored message.. Which child would say such to his/her biological father.... Smh

These human right people can fabricate and lie... I know some of them and how they operate..

Siddon there. Many of these rich kids are so outspoken it's scary, especially those born abroad or visiting abroad like toilet.

Can't you see how davido a 23 year old, keeps talking to dele momodu who is old enough to be his father.

A 9yr old did not write that...I can bet a million naira..

The words are too strong.

Social media is making people seek attention so much they will generate rubbish to get attention.

daretodiffer:
This is tricky


The father could be the problem or the mother could be the one whispering nonsense to their daughter.


I aint gonna judge

A balanced opinion...hmm...that's a first.

For a 9 year old to be so filled with hate, damn she really needs to change her environment.

I think dere is more to dis letter... speechless

EgunMogaji:


Absolutely on point.

You're a wise person.

Thanks but it was just the first thought that crossed my mind.

ladyF:
I'm probably the only one with a contrary view here... A 9 - year old wrote this? That's someone in primary 4 or 5 right? That vocabulary for someone in primary 4? lol

Ahh ann. Fear God na!!! I'm not deceived abeg!

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sorry, i teach primary four pupils at the moment and at least three (out of 9) of them can even write far better than this.