contactmorak:
Human right activist, Joe Odumakin shared this note purportedly written by a 9-year-old girl during a counselling session in which she used unpalatable words to describe her father. She wrote "I hate my dad. He is a horrible, a bad father, betrayer, liar, idiot, stupid, wicked, mad, extremely stupid and wicked. I hate him". Wow!

http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/05/joe-odumakin-shares-note-written-by-9.html

Mindfulness:


Ask her mother.

lifezone247:
I'm sure the daddy loves her.

ladyF:
I'm probably the only one with a contrary view here... A 9 - year old wrote this? That's someone in primary 4 or 5 right? That vocabulary for someone in primary 4? lol

Ahh ann. Fear God na!!! I'm not deceived abeg!

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

aperture11:

While the dad could be a terrible person, a good mother would find a way to make sure the child is shielded from MOST of it. She would always TRY to paint a picture of things being rosy to the child otherwise the child grows up thinking all men are like her dad and generally has mistrust towards all men.

She most likely learnt those words from her mother's description of her father and there may be a lot more to the story. Not excusing the heartless man though.

contactmorak:
Human right activist, Joe Odumakin shared this note purportedly written by a 9-year-old girl during a counselling session in which she used unpalatable words to describe her father. She wrote "I hate my dad. He is a horrible, a bad father, betrayer, liar, idiot, stupid, wicked, mad, extremely stupid and wicked. I hate him". Wow!

http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/05/joe-odumakin-shares-note-written-by-9.html

tibaonnet:

I have one word for you young girl; what goes around comes around.

placeofallure:


Did you just say ask the mum? Whatever for? A nine year old already has a mind of her own. Whatever poo is going on in that house is not lost on the child. Stop underrating children, some of them are way more brainy than adults. A smart child knows even when the mum tries to make excuses for the dad. The dad should just amend his ways and look for means to pacify the child, this hatred is deep!

ladyF:
I'm probably the only one with a contrary view here... A 9 - year old wrote this? That's someone in primary 4 or 5 right? That vocabulary for someone in primary 4? lol

Ahh ann. Fear God na!!! I'm not deceived abeg!

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

ladyF:
I'm probably the only one with a contrary view here... A 9 - year old wrote this? That's someone in primary 4 or 5 right? That vocabulary for someone in primary 4? lol

Ahh ann. Fear God na!!! I'm not deceived abeg!

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

placeofallure:


Did you just say ask the mum? Whatever for? A nine year old already has a mind of her own. Whatever poo is going on in that house is not lost on the child. Stop underrating children, some of them are way more brainy than adults. A smart child knows even when the mum tries to make excuses for the dad. The dad should just amend his ways and look for means to pacify the child, this hatred is deep!

ladyF:
I'm probably the only one with a contrary view here... A 9 - year old wrote this? That's someone in primary 4 or 5 right? That vocabulary for someone in primary 4? lol

Ahh ann. Fear God na!!! I'm not deceived abeg!

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

SweetieConstie:
@OP, woz ur own naa?


Must you also be FTC?








BTW, that little girl needs to take a chill pill biko! The father should try to be nicer too... Cuz it's quite dangerous for a child to have that manner of hatred towards her father at such a young age!

placeofallure:


Did you just say ask the mum? Whatever for? A nine year old already has a mind of her own. Whatever poo is going on in that house is not lost on the child. Stop underrating children, some of them are way more brainy than adults. A smart child knows even when the mum tries to make excuses for the dad. The dad should just amend his ways and look for means to pacify the child, this hatred is deep!

safarigirl:
This one na ajebo pikin....pako children are mostly indifferent towards misbehaving fathers

ADEMOSU:


What has the activist done to educate the child . behind this written words the mothers Training needs to be assessed

The child can perceived the father to be wicked ,and a liar but saying the father is an idiot or stupid its like she is either been brain washed on ignorant . so if the father is truly bad the mother's training is terrible .

olugrayc:
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At 9 years i would have spelt 'stupid' correctly.thanks to the drilling by my dad and mum(that was in the 90's).you should see the books these children read these days,you will know that the writer is not even that bright.They pass notes to each other in class and trust me you don't want to read what's in them.you will be chilled to the bones.I'm a teacher and I have learnt never to underrate children.

eyinjuege:


But children are not blind, nor deaf, nor dumb, nor stupid either.

Did you see where she says she hates seeing her parents fight?
She must have seen the parents fight a lot with a lot of physical violence and the children are possibly not often exempt from the violence.
The vocabulary of some sharp 4year olds are better than this, so such words from a 9year old isn't a big deal, she doesn't need to learn from anyone to have such a vocab. The only word there that a regular 5 year old may not know the meaning is betrayer talk less of a 9 year old child on her way to secondary school.

Nusaf:

For a 9 yr old to be able to write like this, she must have been attending a good school and the dad is most likely paying the bills. My thought is that the dad may be the no nonsense type disciplinarian.

contactmorak:
Human right activist, Joe Odumakin shared this note purportedly written by a 9-year-old girl during a counselling session in which she used unpalatable words to describe her father. She wrote "I hate my dad. He is a horrible, a bad father, betrayer, liar, idiot, stupid, wicked, mad, extremely stupid and wicked. I hate him". Wow!

http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/05/joe-odumakin-shares-note-written-by-9.html

chigoizie7:



Yes, but for a child of 9yrs to write all those? My dear she was instigated indirectly.


U know that scenario of " mum, where is dad"? And the mum will be like, "baby, don't mind that silly man,don't mind that fool, don't mind that wicked man, he must be drinking out by now,if he had loved u, he would have been here for u" and all that.

And constant repetition of such language poisoned the little girls mind. @ 9yrs, she already knows what it means for her dad to be silly? Wicked? Useless? And all that? On her own? I don't think so. Someone made her see the dad in such light. I am not saying that the dad is not bad, NOPE, but the person that poisoned the little girls mind did a greater damage than he/she thought.

Btruth:
The mother certainly has a re-building role to play between the little girl and her father. Otherwise, how do you interpret this kind of ash words from a child to her father?

contactmorak:


SEE THE FULL NOTE» http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/05/joe-odumakin-shares-note-written-by-9.html

sexfabregas:

shut up your mouth, shut the fvck up you idi0t, do you live in thier house?

eyinjuege:


I think this statement should be redirected to the FATHER. To begin to rebuild his relationship with his children. Before it gets too late.
There are some battles highhandedness, or violence can never win.
Respect is earned and it can't be commanded/forced.
Money cannot buy the respect or love of your child either.

lifezone247:
OMG! All this insult cos I say dady loves her? Someone can not make his opinion comment again? May God forgive you,

SAINTSAMURAII:
This is heart broken. the dad must have indeed failed in caring for the emotional and mental needs of the child hence her strange outburst. how the heck can a nine year old has these insultive words in her brain? well the father is to be blame too.