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Toks2008:
I know many will be expecting to read long list of signs to know if a man truly loves a woman but the simple truth is that a man can show all those signs and still may not really love the lady.

I have read that when a man loves a woman he will treat her with respect,she will always be on his mind,He compromises for her sake,he touches her in public,He takes care of her,When he talks about the future,she is always in it bla bla bla... but the honest fact is that all these are also signs of initial gragra syndrome or telemudo love.

I believe that a man will naturally love a woman who seem to do his bidding or act romantic and makes him happy but how will he react if there is a tilt in the emotional balance?.

A man can spend millions for a lady and may not truly love her and many guys even propose marriage to ladies for several reasons asides true desire for her.

In my opinion,it is not really about how many years you have been with a man that matters but until a man's love for a woman is really tested by turbulent situations in the union,no woman should conclude that her man truly loves her.

[size=13pt]The simple fact is that when a man truly loves a woman,nothing on earth will make him leave her and she will remain his numero-uno against all odds till death do them part.[/size]

And this piece also applies to a woman's love for a man.

My humble take

Toks2008:
And if i try to decipher your notion here then i will say you need to work on yourself cos in this present world YOU DON'T USE SUCH WORD AS "SLAVE" to describe a fellow human being and YES i will love a "slave" that does my bidding over a recalcitrant arrogant wife who allows sophistication get into her head.

Ichliebedich:
This love you guys keep talking about I wonder where it's hiding

banmee:
Your problem is you are, I think impotent and can't perform unless you subjugate a woman. Everything you talk about always directs towards dominating a woman. I get it. We are bigger, stronger but you fail to realise we are partners. There is something seriously wrong with your psychy. I will pray for you again. Now close your eyes.

lovat:
when you come to Romance section you remember the economy is bad and hard but when you get to Politics section you become Zombified

Estharfabian:
Lmao..



do his bidding? lol. that's so sexist.


Like Hey Esther, lick my Ass.
And I just go right up And shove my tongue right up his Asshole and lick Away! doing his bidding huh?

One Word...PATHETIC!!!


I'd rather be sapphist.

banmee:
This afgan caveman is at it again. I thought by now you would have turned a new leaf. Where the phuck did you grow up? Dude, someone messed with you mind and you don't even know it. You can also love a slave who does your bidding? I have sisters and i shudder at the crap you spill here. The things you say and the way you say them leaves much to be desired. Maybe in your mind you have good intentions but your thoughts come out all creepy like. No phucking way My sisters will marry a Nigerian caveman. No phucking way.

SexyStrawberry:
hahahahahahaha, his eyes are still open o! he's not closing it

tankara1010:
Wish I had commented on time. Women are incapable of naturally loving men. I know this will shock both men and women. When a women respects a man, she automatically loves him. When a woman losses respect for you, she withdraws her love for you. A woman's love is conditional not natural. A woman only loves you for what you are and not who you are. Men on the other hand love women for who they are and not what they are.

NOW HERE IS THE POWERFUL STATEMENT...NATURAL LOVE IS ONLY PASSED FROM THE STRONGEST TO THE WEAKEST, NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND. Meaning, men naturally love women and women naturally love their children. Now women love their children naturally but not their husbands or boyfriends or father of their children. What does this also mean, it means that a man can die to protect his family ( wife and children) however a woman can die for their children only not the man. If a man looses his financial status, fame, physical attributes and sexual prowess, a woman will likely leave him for another man. This is the natural hypergamic mating characteristics of a woman...she is always looking for a better male provider.

I know countless men who lost their wives and never remarried. Not because they didn't have money or not lonely but because they are eternally still mourning their deceased wives. However women when they lose their men, they usually remarry quickly...another evidence they never genuinely or naturally loved their men. Now many in Nigeria would like to argue that they are countless of widows in Nigeria still unmarried. Yes I know, here is my explanation. Those women are unable to remarry for two reasons, the stigma of being a widow in Nigeria and lack of finances/independence. If you remove those women and put them in western countries, they will start behaving exactly like the western women. You will observe the more western culture makes its way to Africa/Nigeria, women here are slowly behaving like western women and it's just a matter of time before Nigerian women will start divorcing their men when they lose their financial status. They can't do it now because they are not as independent as the western women and the government system does not help them as single mothers nor the court system interprets laws in their favor in 50/50 divorce sharing of assests, alimony and child support. As soon as these western laws and culture makes it fully into our system, Nigerian men will be shocked to know that these women are naturally incapable of loving a man except if the man or men happens to be their children.

I close with this biblical verse Ephicians 5:33, "every husband must love his wife as he loves himself, and wives should respect their husbands." Here his God clearly saying what I said. A woman is naturally built to only respect a man not to love him. I'll open a special thread on this to advice men!

SexyStrawberry:
bros this ur insult wey u give am ehn, d tin enter wella! and u carry better English dish am for am, tiri gbosa for u!!!

Ichliebedich:
This love you guys keep talking about I wonder where it's hiding

stupidity:
Una just dey type "ok, concur, correct, nice one"

No meaningful comment.


When a man(man like me) loves a woman, its either her asxx is available 24/7 for gonking.(She also must know hw to fvck well)

When a woman loves a man(man like me also) the man's dlck must be long like my granddad's walking stick. Asin the man must know every every on bed.

If not, why love??
Abeg if u want to preach to me about loving the inner body of a women and forgetting the almighty "sex", better face ur front. I GONK all the Gonkables.

Odunharry:
love or lost??
All is well Bro.. talk to females and you meet someone you fancy and vice versa.

sammhi:
why are you narrowing it down to sex... biding may mean so many odas..like food, clothes..what will generally makes the man hapi
secret to love ia make your man hapi, he too will make you hapi.. but first found what makes him hapi...may not be what you think...
most women just assume what they feel will make a man hapi....
men loves sex but they won't want so much of it from a lady they love, respect and want to marry..
they will rada wait till marriage and get filled elsewhere before then..

You should listen to this song...



Jeniffer Lopez, I Ain't your mama.

Ichliebedich:
This love you guys keep talking about I wonder where it's hiding

stepo707:
What I was trying to say is that I last loved a woman in 2011.I have tried to force myself to love after that even to very pretty ladies and some of good character but the feeling won't just come

Michellla:
[s]In my opinion, a man will naturally love a woman who seem to do his bidding[/s]

banmee:
Your problem is you are, I think impotent and can't perform unless you subjugate a woman. Everything you talk about always directs towards dominating a woman. I get it. We are bigger, stronger but you fail to realise we are partners. There is something seriously wrong with your psychy. I will pray for you again. Now close your eyes.

banio:
Toks 2008 Why would U say that when a man truly loves a woman nothing on earth will make him leave her. I think that is over exaggerated. Love is relative, so is true love

Toks2008:
I know many will be expecting to read long list of signs to know if a man truly loves a woman but the simple truth is that a man can show all those signs and still may not really love the lady.

I have read that when a man loves a woman he will treat her with respect,she will always be on his mind,He compromises for her sake,he touches her in public,He takes care of her,When he talks about the future,she is always in it bla bla bla... but the honest fact is that all these are also signs of initial gragra syndrome or telemudo love.

I believe that a man will naturally love a woman who seem to do his bidding or act romantic and makes him happy but how will he react if there is a tilt in the emotional balance?.

A man can spend millions for a lady and may not truly love her and many guys even propose marriage to ladies for several reasons asides true desire for her.

In my opinion,it is not really about how many years you have been with a man that matters but until a man's love for a woman is really tested by turbulent situations in the union,no woman should conclude that her man truly loves her.

[size=13pt]The simple fact is that when a man truly loves a woman,nothing on earth will make him leave her and she will remain his numero-uno against all odds till death do them part.[/size]

And this piece also applies to a woman's love for a man.

My humble take