Pheals:
Y not u want the gal to die in love affection

sinaj:
It's not kul coz most guys tend to loose respect for them.

Guys always wana b in charge.

ButteredBiscuit:
It's perfectly fine for a woman to ask a man out.

But there's social stigma

She runs the risk of be labeled and taken as everything from desperate to a hoe
**;And some men perceive her as such and take advantage of her
Or want nothing to do with her.

**And all this just because she was bold enough to speak her mind.
I feeling defiant these days though
So not only would I but I will make it my mission to ask men out.

dammyjay93:
Comman ask me out

....
If you let me take you out
I will give you a tour of New York,show you the statue of liberty take you to the sun
Only say yes!

.....

ButteredBiscuit:
....
If you let me take you out
I will give you a tour of New York,show you the statue of liberty take you to the sun
Only say yes!

.....

dammyjay93:
OMG yes yes! We'll go to NewYork, we'll see the statue of liberty 2geda but ermm be going to the sun, I'll come and meet you there Baby

...You something
See now I wish I could take you out fo real

ButteredBiscuit:
...You something
See now I wish I could take you out fo real

dammyjay93:
nutty you!

so they tell me

lovingT:
I think it's just the Nigerian mentality. I don't c anything wrong with it.
Just like giving flowers is a beautiful thing but not appreciated by most Ladies.
Guys can still take charge not withstanding who asked who out.
But since we in this country, ladies should rather keep quiet n maintain their respect.

sinaj:
It's not kul coz most guys tend to loose respect for them.

Guys always wana b in charge.

It'll vary from guy to guy, I would say. It's likely that the more confident, or, dare I say it, cocky, the guy is, then he'll either not appreciate a girl thinking that she gets to ask him out, or he'll let it feed his confidence and think that he's just that great. And for less confident guys, they might appreciate being asked out, since that means you must like him at least a little bit. It takes the guess work out of it.

It takes guts to ask someone out no matter what gender you are. So I totally respect someone who asks me out.

Smellymouth:


It'll vary from guy to guy, I would say. It's likely that the more confident, or, dare I say it, cocky, the guy is, then he'll either not appreciate a girl thinking that she gets to ask him out, or he'll let it feed his confidence and think that he's just that great. And for less confident guys, they might appreciate being asked out, since that means you must like him at least a little bit. It takes the guess work out of it.

It takes guts to ask someone out no matter what gender you are. So I totally respect someone who asks me out.

sinaj:


Individual varies tho

Dnt think I will be able to ask a guy out tho

Lol.. Be brave

Smellymouth:


Lol.. Be brave

David25:
Having girl bold enough to ask a guy out is priceless!! If she is someone I like, then YES! we are a go.
Some boys who sees it otherwise need to grow up.

sinaj:
lol


Will just melt



I will rather b admiring him secretly lol

Lol.. I understand your point though.

Okay, lemme ask you out then

SuperSupremo:
Normally girls asks us out everyday but they do it indirectly, if only you have the capacity to decode actions and inactions of ladies you gonna find out

Few will say it directly but me for instance even before you say it I'd already decoded it and will lead the way.



My decodings are so accurate so I got no wahala.


I got a lot of problems with such ladies when I was younger and it only fortified me with experience which I now use wisely

dammyjay93:
It has happened to me on like two occasions and in both cases I lose respect for them afterwards. Romancelanders what are your views?