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Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by Ifakiland(op): 9:02pm On Jun 03, 2016
my gf of 3yrs+ broke up with me cos according to her I don't give her money unless she ask me for it dat I'm making her feel like a beggar. we in a long distance relationship o...how d hell am I suppose to know wen she needs money without her askinghuh
Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by sinaj(f): 9:04pm On Jun 03, 2016
Lol sorry tongue
Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by Nobody: 9:05pm On Jun 03, 2016
Take heart undecided
Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by Cutehector(m): 9:05pm On Jun 03, 2016
Ur case is finished... i'v got sniper
Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by Smellymouth: 9:06pm On Jun 03, 2016
Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by Ifakiland(op): 9:08pm On Jun 03, 2016
imagine stupid excuse to brkup o.
Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by dollyjoy(f): 9:11pm On Jun 03, 2016
Move on bro,that is not the end of the world. tongue

so you give her money whenever she ask for it and she give what in return? I mean what was she offering? What prevented her from working since she don't want to be seen as a beggarundecided
Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by Nobody: 9:15pm On Jun 03, 2016
Vicstar come ooo Na dis kind excuse I go give smellymouth....



*Make I read dey love letter Wey my love faith551 send to me.....cheesycheesy

Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by Nobody: 9:19pm On Jun 03, 2016
being in a long distance relationship shld tel u sumone is fvcking her frm d other side
Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by Ifakiland(op): 9:19pm On Jun 03, 2016
dollyjoy:
Move on bro,that is not the end of the world. tongue

so you give her money whenever she ask for it and she give what in return? I mean what was she offering? What prevented her from working since she don't want to be seen as a beggarundecided
she just finished nysc...but wats is wrong asking ur bf for money! how can she tell me she sees it as me making her beg me for money. have neva heard such before...am I suppose to be giving her allawee? wen am not FG!!!
Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by Ifakiland(op): 9:21pm On Jun 03, 2016
dollyjoy:
Move on bro,that is not the end of the world. tongue

so you give her money whenever she ask for it and she give what in return? I mean what was she offering? What prevented her from working since she don't want to be seen as a beggarundecided
she just finished nysc...but wats is wrong asking ur bf for money! how can she tell me she sees it as me making her beg me for money. have neva heard such before...am I suppose to be giving her allawee? wen am not FG!!!!!!
Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by dollyjoy(f): 9:22pm On Jun 03, 2016
Ifakiland:
she just finished nysc...but wats is wrong asking ur bf for money! how can she tell me she sees it as me making her beg me for money. have neva heard such before...am I suppose to be giving her allawee? wen am not FG!!!
That is ladies for you, we think men are mind readers undermining the fact that they are mortal like us.


That girl is tired of the affair, so stop blaming yourself,move one.
Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by Ifakiland(op): 9:23pm On Jun 03, 2016
nnamdiokere45:
being in a long distance relationship shld tel u sumone is fvcking her frm d other side
I don't worry abt all dat bro...d pvssy belongs to her...my money belongs to me.
Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by vicstar(m): 9:43pm On Jun 03, 2016
SANDOSKI:
Vîcstar come ooo Na dis kind excuse I go give smëllymouth....



*Make I read dey love letter Wey my love faith.551 send to me.....cheesycheesy
me I dey watch teenwolf season7 ooh embarassed I no fit leave am for anything cry

Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by MUVA(m): 9:54pm On Jun 03, 2016
Are u a bank? Are you her dad?? Why d hell should you be giving her money at her own will in the first place? This slave mentality is beginning to come into relationships. undecided
Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Jun 03, 2016
While it is not advisable, you can place her on an allowance if you have the means. However, she should have discussed or should talk about it first before rushing to break up the relationship. Secondly, must you give her money before she accepts you as a boyfriend? It is as if she is muscling you into giving her money. ''No money, no relationship''. Before she met you, how did she cope? So if you cannot afford to give her money the relationship is invariably over?

Anyway, if you think the relationship is worth saving and you think she is worth it, then talk to her about the fact that it is better such things are discussed rather than the threats. Secondly, like I said above, if you have the means and not against your principles, then put her on an allowance.

I think you should move on.But then again it is me.
Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Jun 03, 2016
vicstar:
me I dey watch teenwolf season7 ooh embarassed I no fit leave am for anything cry
I dey come make I join you

Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by olac21(m): 10:19pm On Jun 03, 2016
Must a guy give his GF money?I need an answer(s)to this question pls!
Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by Ifakiland(op): 9:23am On Jun 04, 2016
AnakinSkywalker:
While it is not advisable, you can place her on an allowance if you have the means. However, she should have discussed or should talk about it first before rushing to break up the relationship. Secondly, must you give her money before she accepts you as a boyfriend? It is as if she is muscling you into giving her money. ''No money, no relationship''. Before she met you, how did she cope? So if you cannot afford to give her money the relationship is invariably over?

Anyway, if you think the relationship is worth saving and you think she is worth it, then talk to her about the fact that it is better such things are discussed rather than the threats. Secondly, like I said above, if you have the means and not against your principles, then put her on an allowance.

I think you should move on.But then again it is me.
the most annoying thin was d way she sed it asif "I've reported u to my committee of frnds (frnds I've neva met nor talked to in person or fone) and dey say ure not trying" she's a proud gal rite from tyme, I had no idea d pride will one day enter d level of feeling like a beggar asking ur bf for money. have
Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by Ifakiland(op): 9:25am On Jun 04, 2016
olac21:
Must a guy give his GF money?I need an answer(s)to this question pls!
she made it sound like it's a must o, my frnds bfs are doing it so do it or we off. so I told her "Bleep u and ur frnds" u can run away sef don't leave alone.
Re: Have I Done Somtin Wrong??? by Ifakiland(op): 12:49pm On Jun 11, 2016
so my ex called me today after a week of no contact...asking us to meet in person so she can return all d money she borrowed from me. she disagreed to send it tru d bank, sed she wants it in person. Wat u finkhuh
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