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Preceding my current woman, I have had just one good woman in my entire life, even though in her case I messed everytting up by cheating and getting caught (I was the bad man). I learnt from that ecperience to appreciate a good woman when next I see one. Well I have appreciated one for 5years and counting now. Thank God for her . What makes those two good women to me ? And the others bad ? Well I will tell you and note thus that these women were good dependent on my personality and needs. Thus one of the devils I met could be a good woman to another man and my women a devil to the same man.

- my woman tries to be loyal to me, its not easy for women to be totally submissive to a man, especially after they have read romantic novels describing a subjective female being courted by many men. They believe they are entitled to same and thus loyalty for most is a mirage. Their "I am faithful to you" , is only best believed in words but never in action. Only these two women, ever lived their words with verifiable action.

- these women loved and stayed loyal in my ups and downs. Many would have bailed as its human to do, yet they stuck and had faith that as night existed in my life, daytime too must exist.

- we were sexually compatible, no need ever doing shakara or pretending, even when quarelling and she needed sex, still frowning and without speaking to me, she would pounce on me for the deed, if I try and refuse or do any ego shakara, she will simply tear the boxers and rape me. We always knew that, our arrangement was completely monogamous with no spare tires, thus we had no choice but to be there for each other no matter what since we could not go outside.

- we were temperamentally compatible, in temperaments opposites are the best, to an outsider it could appear that one is stupid, but to the lovers we are wwise. I am hot tempered and she is slightly cool tempered with only brief flashes of hottness. This trait ensure that at any given time, there won't be two mad people in the house. Thus in most disaagrements she would be calm and looking at the biblically defined mad fool who thinks shouting and jumping up is wisdom (yours truly)

- she proved to me to be a good money manager and a good neck(helper). When I am low, she tries to raise me up, when I am wrong, she shows me am wrong and not telling me, when am ill she leaves her life's needs and tends to mine, when I say something, even in my absence she ensures my word is gold to others and must be adhered to.


She above all understands why men generally love their mothers too much, she is our first model of our lovers, she mummys me with wisdom and I do-baale for her in respect as I will my mum.

So have you ever dated, married or encountered a good woman....? What traits did she hold? What happened to the relationship or marriage. If you haven't ever met one, God will grant you dat favour because he said he who findeth her finds a good thing

Hmmmmm......nice and good for you. This got me thinking tho'

I technically haven't dated a bad Nigeria lady. I mean, wetin go carry me near her in the first?


I take months to study whoever my dice fell on.

Thank goodness, not a bad nigerian girl

I'm about meeting one (I hope I'm not wrong at the end of the day sha cos women be like mirage- the more you look, the less you see )