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Am not broke, I don't have a gf

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
What business does illiteracy have here, or you think that B.Sc from a third tier school makes you any more literate than my child prodigy nephew. Love can be found at any time and in any situation of a person's life, and if you think money is a compulsory precursor to the wonderful premonition of love, then you are a lost sheep that needs no saving.

Illiteracy often rises when kids drop out/don't go to school, which occurs due to inability of parents to pay school fees. Ergo 'poor' people marrying/getting in relationships breeds future school dropouts. I'm sorry, I don't believe in fairy tales. Pls let's be realistic, your 'uneducated' friend that had a break in life and made it through some connection is an exception, not the case. Without a degree, getting gainful employment is virtually impossible. Do you know how many graduates are starving out there, not to talk less of an uneducated person. Remember, not everybody has a flair for business. I repeat, people without a means to adequately fend for themselves should not be in relationships, unless you find someone you can leech off, simple. This goes for both sexes. I don't know where this Nigerian mentality that its ok to be a liability came from. You see so many parents begging for school fees for their 101 children and one wonders what insanity drove someone who knows he's not financially stable to marry.

PS. Learn to make your point without resorting to childish jabs

MODIFIED:
I didn't mention education in relation to intellect, I made it in reference to it being vital to make a living. I'm pretty sure that child prodigy nephew of yours does not have a regular job, unless he's an artistic savant that can work from home. If its just a matter of being brilliant, bros pls send that boy to university or relocate abroad, brilliance comes second to certificates in Naija. That's why a man with an Msc that can hardly write a complete sentence will be chosen over a brilliant chap with relevant skills who didn't have the opportunity of going to school. Go figure

AsmauDanjuma:
Illiteracy often rises when kids drop out/don't go to school, which occurs due to inability of parents to pay school fees. Ergo 'poor' people marrying/getting in relationships breeds future school dropouts. I'm sorry, I don't believe in fairy tales. Pls let's be realistic, your 'uneducated' friend that had a break in life and made it through some connection is an exception, not the case. Without a degree, getting gainful employment is virtually impossible. Do you know how many graduates are starving out there, not to talk less of an uneducated person. Remember, not everybody has a flair for business. I repeat, people without a means to adequately fend for themselves should not be in relationships, unless you find someone you can leech off, simple. This goes for both sexes. I don't know where this Nigerian mentality that its ok to be a liability came from. You see so many parents begging for school fees for their 101 children and one wonders what insanity drove someone who knows he's not financially stable to marry.

PS. Learn to make your point without resorting to childish jabs

MODIFIED:
I didn't mention education in relation to intellect, I made it in reference to it being vital to make a living. I'm pretty sure that child prodigy nephew of yours does not have a regular job, unless he's an artistic savant that can work from home. If its just a matter of being brilliant, bros pls send that boy to university or relocate abroad, brilliance comes second to certificates in Naija. That's why a man with an Msc that can hardly write a complete sentence will be chosen over a brilliant chap with relevant skills who didn't have the opportunity of going to school. Go figure

You keep getting this all wrong, people who cannot fend for themselves are human beings, they possess the basic instinct of mating and of companionship; who are you or me to restrict them from carrying out the social function which nature and evolutionary characteristic has bestowed upon them. Money is not needed for love to exist between two individuals, if you believe so, then there is no point taking this argument any further. Expressing the fundamental social function of companionship needs nothing more than a working brain, every other thing as money and material things are secondary derivatives from culture and personal opinions as in your case.