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Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by HardMirror(m): 8:44am On Jun 12, 2016
Listen guys,
NO CONDITION IS PERMANENT!
You can be rich today and poor tomorrow.
You can be poor today and rich tomorrow.

MY STORY.
I used to be darn broke. I mean sooo broke that I won't have ordinary 50 naira most times. Had to stay with my mum just to have food to eat while looking for a job. It was terrible.

Girlfriend? I did not even bother myself. I defriended all the girls in my life myself cos I can't be spending my little airtime to be calling any lady. I spent my little resources on things that mattered like calling my big uncles that could land me a job.

Fortunately after about a year of being jobless I got a call from on of my big uncles. This call did not just land me a job, it landed me Multi-million naira contracts. It was as if my maga don pay.

My life turned around within a week.

Talk about ladies. I was the one snatching broke guys girlfriends.

Money is power!
Even a guy came to beg me that he loves his girl and all and I shld please spare his girl friend. I remember how I told him to thank his stars that he did not come to fight me. I would have just called the police to come and lock him up for encroaching my premises to cause trouble. The guy left thanking me. Smh

See stop trying so hard to please a girl.
Imagine a girl coming to meet me that she wants a boyfriend that has a car that can I please introduce her to any of my friends? Imagine! And she had a boy friend at the time.

Ladies want the good life.

And when you finally make it, don't get carried away with the ladies.

Always remember that what they love is what they see.

Always ask yourself if she would be all over you if you were broke.

Double your hustle. If free pvssy comes your way, fvck it with sense lest you end up with unwanted pregnancy in your broke state which will further make your situation miserable.

To be honest relationship, sex, girlfriends are over rated.

Make money and change your life. Change the life of your family members. Life a good life. Eat good food, travel to beautiful places, meet important people, do something with your life. Having a girlfriend is no achievement

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Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by wilybebsy(m): 8:52am On Jun 12, 2016
Hear talk like mess
Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by wilybebsy(m): 8:53am On Jun 12, 2016
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Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by realmindz: 8:54am On Jun 12, 2016
True talk.
I was once broke back then and getting a girl was like advanced calculus as I put a lot of brain work and strategies jst to woo a girl still I get dissapointed.
But when things began to change, getting a girl has never been this easy. I remember one girl then that called me a small boy, but now # coughs. ..I reserve my comment.
Life is all about the money.

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Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by ClassCaptain(m): 8:56am On Jun 12, 2016
I love the content so much but can you please change the headline ?
Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by HardMirror(m): 9:00am On Jun 12, 2016
ClassCaptain:
I love the content so much but can you please change the headline ?
I am open to suggestions bro
Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by HardMirror(m): 9:02am On Jun 12, 2016
realmindz:
True talk.
I was once broke back then and getting a girl was like advanced calculus as I put a lot of brain work and strategies jst to woo a girl still I get dissapointed.
But when things began to change, getting a girl has never been this easy. I remember one girl then that called me a small boy, but now # coughs. ..I reserve my comment.
Life is all about the money.
Seriously we take this relationship thing too seriously. With time a guy will realize there is more to life than having a girl. Rejoice when a girl leaves you cos you don't have money, cos it is an opportunity to focus on what matters.

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Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by Kondomatic(m): 9:02am On Jun 12, 2016
Broke guys has no business in relationship and jobless women should never consider marriage.

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Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by Olalan(m): 9:07am On Jun 12, 2016
The fact you have highlighted about the average nigerian girl mentality(money equating love) but this is not in anyway right. Yes loving a person requires some level of financial commitment but this should not be the focal point to look at. Big respect to the few girls that are not driven by money alone. N.B It is equally unfair to say a Broke Guy has no business finding love, everybody irrespective of status deserve to be loved.

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Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by Airtimex(m): 9:48am On Jun 12, 2016
9ja mentality
Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by Laveda(f): 9:54am On Jun 12, 2016
Olalan:
The fact you have highlighted about the average nigerian girl mentality(money equating love) but this is not in anyway right. Yes loving a person requires some level of financial commitment but this should not be the focal point to look at. Big respect to the few girls that are not driven by money alone. N.B It is equally unfair to say a Broke Guy has no business finding love, everybody irrespective of status deserve to be loved.


Well said. smiley
Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by elkonS: 10:00am On Jun 12, 2016
HardMirror:

Seriously we take this relationship thing too seriously. With time a guy will realize there is more to life than having a girl. Rejoice when a girl leaves you cos you don't have money, cos it is an opportunity to focus on what matters.
gbam !!!
Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by elkonS: 10:06am On Jun 12, 2016
HardMirror:

Seriously we take this relationship thing too seriously. With time a guy will realize there is more to life than having a girl. Rejoice when a girl leaves you cos you don't have money, cos it is an opportunity to focus on what matters.
honestly bro u are so on point....there is this lady who was attracted to me because of my looks and all..when i made the move to talk to her...we became good friends she started acting funny replying my chats with one word(i so hate this )..
recently i was telling her about how im into importation and all..that i have some shoes that i wld like to give her one.,.bro u needed to see the reaction she jst started shinning teeth....



ALL THOSE ONE THAT GUY UP THERE IS SAYING IS STORY
THIS IS WHAT IS OBTAINABLE IN THE REAL WORLD..NOT SOME NOVEL OR MOVIE...ITS CALLED BEEN PRACTICAL

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Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by Frei(m): 10:08am On Jun 12, 2016
You is a prophet! Preach bro Preach!...... Best thread I've read in a while
Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by ireneony(f): 10:13am On Jun 12, 2016
Another female bashing thread..

Mtcheww
Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by HardMirror(m): 10:15am On Jun 12, 2016
elkonS:

honestly bro u are so on point....there is this lady who was attracted to me because of my looks and all..when i made the move to talk to her...we became good friends she started acting funny replying my chats with one word(i so hate this )..
recently i was telling her about how im into importation and all..that i have some shoes that i wld like to give her one.,.bro u needed to see the reaction she jst started shinning teeth....



ALL THOSE ONE THAT GUY UP THERE IS SAYING IS STORY
THIS IS WHAT IS OBTAINABLE IN THE REAL WORLD..NOT SOME NOVEL OR MOVIE...ITS CALLED BEEN PRACTICAL
Don't mind him.
All those so called good girls, take them to some places they never imagine they can ever go to in life, take them to places where they see men spending money buying cars for ladies, furnishing houses for ladies. I swear within a short time her true nature will show, she will start showing her broke boy friend attitude. Reason why faithful girls are either girls from VERY rich homes who can't be impressed with money easily or girls from very poor homes that don't have opportunity of rolling with rich people so she does not know how it feels like to have a guy giving you things her parents can't afford.
Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by HardMirror(m): 10:17am On Jun 12, 2016
ireneony:
Another females bashing thread..

Mtcheww
So encouraging my guys to work hard now translates to female bashing. Shows how much self esteem you have.

I am sure if I opened a thread and just wrote "SLUT" you would think I was referring to you.

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Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by ireneony(f): 10:18am On Jun 12, 2016
HardMirror:

So encouraging my guys to work hard now translates to female bashing. Shows how much self esteem you have.
go and sleep
Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by elkonS: 10:29am On Jun 12, 2016
HardMirror:

Don't mind him.
All those so called good girls, take them to some places they never imagine they can ever go to in life, take them to places where they see men spending money buying cars for ladies, furnishing houses for ladies. I swear within a short time her true nature will show, she will start showing her broke boy friend attitude. Reason why faithful girls are either girls from VERY rich homes who can't be impressed with money easily or girls from very poor homes that don't have opportunity of rolling with rich people so she does not know how it feels like to have a guy giving you things her parents can't afford.
exactly oo
Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by raziboi(m): 11:11am On Jun 12, 2016
HardMirror:
Listen guys,
NO CONDITION IS PERMANENT!
You can be rich today and poor tomorrow.
You can be poor today and rich tomorrow.

MY STORY.
I used to be darn broke. I mean sooo broke that I won't have ordinary 50 naira most times. Had to stay with my mum just to have food to eat while looking for a job. It was terrible.

Girlfriend? I did not even bother myself. I defriended all the girls in my life myself cos I can't be spending my little airtime to be calling any lady. I spent my little resources on things that mattered like calling my big uncles that could land me a job.

Fortunately after about a year of being jobless I got a call from on of my big uncles. This call did not just land me a job, it landed me Multi-million naira contracts. It was as if my maga don pay.

My life turned around within a week.

Talk about ladies. I was the one snatching broke guys girlfriends.

Money is power!
Even a guy came to beg me that he loves his girl and all and I shld please spare his girl friend. I remember how I told him to thank his stars that he did not come to fight me. I would have just called the police to come and lock him up for encroaching my premises to cause trouble. The guy left thanking me. Smh

See stop trying so hard to please a girl.
Imagine a girl coming to meet me that she wants a boyfriend that has a car that can I please introduce her to any of my friends? Imagine! And she had a boy friend at the time.

Ladies want the good life.

And when you finally make it, don't get carried away with the ladies.

Always remember that what they love is what they see.

Always ask yourself if she would be all over you if you were broke.

Double your hustle. If free pvssy comes your way, fvck it with sense lest you end up with unwanted pregnancy in your broke state which will further make your situation miserable.

To be honest relationship, sex, girlfriends are over rated.

Make money and change your life. Change the life of your family members. Life a good life. Eat good food, travel to beautiful places, meet important people, do something with your life. Having a girlfriend is no achievement



one thing you have to understand in life is that your destiny and my own cannot be de same
like you said u have big uncles ..
do u think everyone have a big uncle?
brother just thank God for ur life.. !!!

i hope to see you at the top!!
thank you!!
Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by realmindz: 11:36am On Jun 12, 2016
ireneony:
go and sleep
go get rich, and if u are rich go get richer. I'm sure u won't hesitate to date a young hardworking and successful dude
Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by ucheokpara100(m): 11:38am On Jun 12, 2016
ireneony:
go and sleep
u go and Die. lol.......
Re: Why BROKE Guys Should Stop Complaining About Girls Dumping Them by bakynes(m): 12:19pm On Jun 12, 2016
True talk OP, we cant deny this fact all women love comfort. But this over dependancy on money is caused by the Nigerian factor. Too much poverty in the land and low moral value, why should love be attached to money its not normal but in a country like Nigeria where morals is very low, everybody wants to be rich and the true fact is that everybody cannot be rich. Why can't we emulate countries like the phillipines where their women are content and will live with a man regardless of his status. Every man whether rich or poor deserves to be loved but in Nigeria only rich men gets to be loved and respected.That is why we are one of the most fantastically corrupt nation, crime, prostitution and insecuruties abound everywhere because everybody wants to b rich.Nigeria a relative poor country but wants to live like America a rich country.

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