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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by deolu2000(m): 11:45pm On Jun 13, 2016
Over the bar for me.... Some of us don't like public show off of our ladies and this doesn't mean we are not commited to them. Again we all forget thgs don't we, so hw is that a yardstick of unseriousness. I thought one of the best 5wrds in life is am sorry, so does that makes one less serious or what? Abeg jare, keep your mumu theories asyd and come back with reality if u ever have any. I am out of here.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by lordkhalifa(m): 11:51pm On Jun 13, 2016
Keep deceiving them....

One idiot is reading this trash and counting on it....

I don't give a damn
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by ebonyeyes88(f): 12:06am On Jun 14, 2016
He's dead on point. Good job OP
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by ebonyeyes88(f): 12:08am On Jun 14, 2016
deolu2000:
Over the bar for me.... Some of us don't like public show off of our ladies and this doesn't mean we are not commited to them. Again we all forget thgs don't we, so hw is that a yardstick of unseriousness. I thought one of the best 5wrds in life is am sorry, so does that makes one less serious or what? Abeg jare, keep your mumu theories asyd and come back with reality if u ever have any. I am out of here.
Why u mad tho? wink
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by pus20b: 12:15am On Jun 14, 2016
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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Lexusgs430: 12:38am On Jun 14, 2016
Some boyfriends are so prolific, and would pass all this test.
Confusing the innocent boo!!!
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Tbillz(m): 12:49am On Jun 14, 2016
7 Reasons? (1) He is broke. (2) He is broke. (3) He is broke. (4) He is broke. (5) He is broke. (6) He is broke. (7) He is constantly broke.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Gkemz: 1:08am On Jun 14, 2016
Vickyydera:
And yet some guys are just good actors.
Because ladies do like watching our movies and we feed their ears with what they're interested in. If i tell you i love you not because i love you but because that's what your ear wants to hear.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by olatex25(m): 5:43am On Jun 14, 2016
Poorboy:
If you have a boyfriend of like 2 years ask him of your phone number, if he can't tell you your phone number off-hand dump him you're playing with fire! #FACT
shoro niyen
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by menxer: 6:52am On Jun 14, 2016
the emphasis here is on "your" relationship, which is exclusively according to what pleases the lady instead of "our" relationship, which is inclusive of what pleases the man.

Come to think of it, if the guy succeeds in dealing with these her 7 signs, and she fails in dealing with his 7 signs, where do you think the relationship will end, down the aisle?
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Joygalore(f): 7:09am On Jun 14, 2016
So freaked out with this relationship bollocks on NL. undecided

Don't you buddies get tired
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by IAmXcessiz(m): 7:13am On Jun 14, 2016
8. he sends the whole article to his girlfriend to read

LOL
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Nobody: 7:13am On Jun 14, 2016
Joygalore:
So freaked out with this relationship bollocks on NL. undecided

Don't you buddies get tired
good morning ma.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Nobody: 7:14am On Jun 14, 2016
It's better to save your love for someone who understands and appreciates it ...if you don't experience immature men you won't be able to handle the real
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Joygalore(f): 7:17am On Jun 14, 2016
Good morning

Where have you been? I guess rooting for the next miss nl smiley
olihilistic:

good morning ma.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Nobody: 7:19am On Jun 14, 2016
Joygalore:
Good morning
Where have you been? I guess rooting for the next miss nl smiley
lol yes and no
school have taken most of my time. thank God cultists have told us to go home. gringrin
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Genea(f): 7:27am On Jun 14, 2016
MVLOX:
I totally disagree with number 3. most babes dont and cant have a very simple and casual chat. they would rather prefer guy who chats dirty and trashy. most case a good brings up fun interesting topics to chat abt yet he get reply like kk, wow and other annoying responses. some times having typed my Chronicles of how my day went, i expect my babe to do same so dat i will at least get a pic of her day went, but sometimes i get disappointed with very short uninspiring responses and most times i just read d annoying response and just drop my phone until she has sometin to say cuz i get tired of starting the conversation still be d 1 to put fire wood to make it continue to burn, as such in most cases i rather allow the fire die down.
no 3 is on point with me, if he doesn't ask abt my day, how do I know he has me in mind?? just a simple question, how did ur day go? goes a long way to know he cares, not one dah wud just be bothered abt wen next are u coming and isn't bothered abt my welfare... and yes some chats get boring and u begin to wonder if u were in d ryt relationship, u start d chat and it's still u dah have to make d chat lively, I just get tired and just close d chat, Its not interesting and u begin to feel d love is one sided and u need some space...

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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Joygalore(f): 7:28am On Jun 14, 2016
Good you are busy.
Cultists?
Pls be chary
olihilistic:

lol
yes and no

school have taken most of my time.
thank God cultists have told us to go home. gringrin
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Nobody: 7:30am On Jun 14, 2016
Joygalore:
Good you are busy. Cultists? Pls be chary
are you now back to Nigeria?? chary new English lemme check my Oxford advanced learners.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Joygalore(f): 7:40am On Jun 14, 2016
Nope
Chary means careful
olihilistic:


are you now back to Nigeria??
chary new English lemme check my Oxford advanced learners.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by MVLOX(m): 7:42am On Jun 14, 2016
Genea:
no 3 is on point with me, if he doesn't ask abt my day, how do I know he has me in mind?? just a simple question, how did ur day go? goes a long way to know he cares, not one dah wud just be bothered abt wen next are u coming and isn't bothered abt my welfare... and yes some chats get boring and u begin to wonder if u were in d ryt relationship, u start d chat and it's still u dah have to make d chat lively, I just get tired and just close d chat, Its not interesting and u begin to feel d love is one sided and u need some space...

Very true.... But don't get me wrong ooo all am saying that wen a guy asks a gal hw was ur day he expects her to be spontaneous and like compile all dat happened in her day and tell him.... She asks abt my day and I give her a text book like response yet I den ask and urs and u tell me fine? Mehn dat really throws me off balance and gets me mad.... D reason I say a lot abt my day is dat I expect her to pick some point and use dem in maintaining the chat just like I expect her to say a lot abt her day even if there was really nothing inspiring to say, just say it and u will be surprised at how a guy like me transforms those tins u tot were nothing into maintain wholesome points for chatting....
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Genea(f): 7:50am On Jun 14, 2016
MVLOX:


Very true.... But don't get me wrong ooo all am saying that wen a guy asks a gal hw was ur day he expects her to be spontaneous and like compile all dat happened in her day and tell him.... She asks abt my day and I give her a text book like response yet I den ask and urs and u tell me fine? Mehn dat really throws me off balance and gets me mad.... D reason I say a lot abt my day is dat I expect her to pick some point and use dem in maintaining the chat just like I expect her to say a lot abt her day even if there was really nothing inspiring to say, just say it and u will be surprised at how a guy like me transforms those tins u tot were nothing into maintain wholesome points for chatting....
we r just alike, I guess dey don't understand why we do dah, we I do it, it feels like I'm bombarding d person with my day, but no, its not, I say it so dah we can pick segments, talk abt it and laf abt it, at d end it feels like the troubles for the day are worth it and u just can't wait for tomao, knowing dah no matter how bad it is, dere is someone dah wud make u feel its worth it.. I guess they will never understand...

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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Nobody: 7:53am On Jun 14, 2016
Joygalore:
Nope Chary means careful
thank you ma. this is the June you said na
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by frubben(m): 7:59am On Jun 14, 2016
These are the signs you will show if you are no longer interested in your girlfriend /boyfriend.

Don't generalize it, I might not show all this ur signs and still nt interested. Simple matter
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by deolu2000(m): 8:38am On Jun 14, 2016
ebonyeyes88:
Why u mad tho? wink
put your words in clear tense then i ll reply appropriately.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by MVLOX(m): 8:48am On Jun 14, 2016
Genea:
we r just alike, I guess dey don't understand why we do dah, we I do it, it feels like I'm bombarding d person with my day, but no, its not, I say it so dah we can pick segments, talk abt it and laf abt it, at d end it feels like the troubles for the day are worth it and u just can't wait for tomao, knowing dah no matter how bad it is, dere is someone dah wud make u feel its worth it.. I guess they will never understand...

lol wen will dey understand....... honestly my chat with my fiance is beginning to really boring for example yesterday i was trying complete to complete a presentation work wen my phone beeped judging by the turn and time i knew for sure it was her. so i paused wat i was doing to attend to me love....fine she is really caring and as usual she asked abt my date and as usual i made sure i gave her a comprehensive update..... but afta all my epistles d the reply was "dats ok" mehn i just read the reply and knew wat i had to do next which is concentrate on my presentation.....afta some minutes she asked if i was already slping......it ok cha its just that we are both busy currently, i hope to take her out very soon and discuss some very important issues with her.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Youngpo413: 9:04am On Jun 14, 2016
Genea:
no 3 is on point with me, if he doesn't ask abt my day, how do I know he has me in mind?? just a simple question, how did ur day go? goes a long way to know he cares, not one dah wud just be bothered abt wen next are u coming and isn't bothered abt my welfare... and yes some chats get boring and u begin to wonder if u were in d ryt relationship, u start d chat and it's still u dah have to make d chat lively, I just get tired and just close d chat, Its not interesting and u begin to feel d love is one sided and u need some space...
lol @ "when next are you coming" the question is not bad, it shows he cares about something......
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Genea(f): 9:07am On Jun 14, 2016
MVLOX:


lol wen will dey understand....... honestly my chat with my fiance is beginning to really boring for example yesterday i was trying complete to complete a presentation work wen my phone beeped judging by the turn and time i knew for sure it was her. so i paused wat i was doing to attend to me love....fine she is really caring and as usual she asked abt my date and as usual i made sure i gave her a comprehensive update..... but afta all my epistles d the reply was "dats ok" mehn i just read the reply and knew wat i had to do next which is concentrate on my presentation.....afta some minutes she asked if i was already slping......it ok cha its just that we are both busy currently, i hope to take her out very soon and discuss some very important issues with her.
well I guess u just got to let her know but I do hope she isn't one of those dah wud na say, dats how they are and can't change today... It is well
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Genea(f): 9:09am On Jun 14, 2016
Youngpo413:
lol @ "when next are you coming" the question is not bad, it shows he cares about something......
oh please! Why shud I be happy abt seeing someone dah isn't caring abt my welfare?? If he doesn't care abt my welfare, I don't care abt seeing him.. Is it not wen someone feels good u see someone?
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by nnemmpi(m): 9:34am On Jun 14, 2016
love ok ooo

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