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Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by hibiscus76(f): 11:21am On Jun 14, 2016
[b]Wonder why guys keep hammering on ladies being gold-diggers or being over demanding. This trend has been on for so long and I mean majority of ladies have always been parasitic to the male folks and the guys know about this.
But what can be expected of us when all you want from us is sex, sex and more sex? Some shallow minded guys have already made conclusions that all a girl can offer is sex and nothing else.
When guys patronize who.res, they pay for pleasure and the fun is limited to when your time expires with them..it isn't like that when you have a girlfriend(for.most guys that can't do without sex though) she doesn't give you limits even though you're not married to her yet and you want it for free? Nah..youll definitely pay for damages naa.
You want a relationship devoid of asking and spending? Try a NO SEX relationship and you'll both be happy..its mutual..no sex, no money.

Some guys will start relating this post to my personal life, I'll be pleased to tell you that I have strong principles..NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. ##Teamvirginitymatters#...was just saying or erring my view to the issue of guys calling us girls gold diggers and parasites..and we depending on them for everything..a guy who spends so much on a lady that does nothing in return for him feels very insecure and on the other hand a girl that let's a guy take advantage of her(that's how I view sex before marriage) has the feeling that the guy should pay her bills and give her the maintenance she needs, this,many guys see as too demanding. So, the solution is simple..stay away from her body and you'll not be indebted to her financially, emotionally and otherwise and we'll move forward in our lives..guys can be able to save for rainy days and after all the hustle ,settle down with a woman(brand new pvssy, totally unused) and the issue of distrust and infidelity will be far from relationships...if you can't do this as a guy, sleeping around with women in your youthful days, where then would you find the morally inclined women to marry? Think about it!!!
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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by SmellingAnus(m): 11:26am On Jun 14, 2016
Some girls too can't stay without sex they just pretend under the canopy of a no sex relationship... I sat close to a girl in her church, and I wooed her for three weeks and she accepted.. I told her I want a no sex relationship and she accepted... Maybe she thought I was joking, she didn't know that for close to two years before I met her I have stayed with out sex... The relationship was sweet so I thought only for she to dump me because of that my no sex relationship stance... It's over three years now and she is still trying to come back into my life but it's almost too late cos I had moved on and when I remember that she almost put me in a state of heart break, my heart gets more hardened not to accept her back... So girls are also guilty of this sex crazy world...

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by ErnieSmallzz(f): 11:27am On Jun 14, 2016
cheesy *hi five Op* u said it all smiley










i know some Dolcaps are still gonna say trash/argue lipsrsealed

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Nobody: 11:29am On Jun 14, 2016
MOE! Bills over any fu*cken sh!t! f*uck the p*ussies! f*uck the bi*tches! fu*ck the p*ussy assniggaz!


You exist only for men sexual gratifications and procreation, all other things is secondary.

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Nobody: 11:31am On Jun 14, 2016
ErnieSmallzz:
cheesy *hi five Op* u said it all smiley











i know some Dolcaps are still gonna say trash/argue lipsrsealed


All Ladies Are Sluts That Needs To Be F*uck Like A Slut. Some Mothers Excluded.

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Nobody: 11:33am On Jun 14, 2016
BULLSHYT!

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by ErnieSmallzz(f): 11:33am On Jun 14, 2016
BeastAmbition:



All Ladies Are Slut. Mothers Excluded
but you know every mother was 1nce a lady lipsrsealed
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by wins18(m): 11:38am On Jun 14, 2016
After arranging the house cus
she's coming
My guy took
Tramadol 600mg
Drank 2 bullet
Drank jedi Phone rings

She==baby I can't make it
today

Him==you will never make it in
life.
grin

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Nobody: 11:40am On Jun 14, 2016
ErnieSmallzz:
but you know every mother was 1nce a lady lipsrsealed

Story For The Gods

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Aviero: 11:46am On Jun 14, 2016
Guys who say all a lady has to offer is just seexx are just stupiid, they've been attracting only their type all along.

Presently, i don't think i can survive without my girlfriend. She does almost everything for me, and has somewhat made life easier for me. And she's Nigerian.

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Aviero: 11:51am On Jun 14, 2016
hibiscus76:
[b]Wonder why guys keep hammering on ladies being gold-diggers or being over demanding. This trend has been on for so long and I mean majority of ladies have always been parasitic to the male folks and the guys know about this.
But what can be expected of us when all you want from us is sex, sex and more sex? Some shallow minded guys have already made conclusions that all a girl can offer is sex and nothing else.
When guys patronize who.res, they pay for pleasure and the fun is limited to when your time expires with them..it isn't like that when you have a girlfriend(for.most guys that can't do without sex though) she doesn't give you limits even though you're not married to her yet and you want it for free? Nah..youll definitely pay for damages naa.
You want a relationship devoid of asking and spending? Try a NO SEX relationship and you'll both be happy..its mutual..no sex, no money.
Some guys will start relating this post to my personal life, I'll be pleased to tell you that I have strong principles..NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. ##Teamvirginitymatters# [size=26]...was just saying or erring my view to the issue of guys calling us girls gold diggers and parasites..and we depending on them for everything..a guy who spends so much on a lady that does nothing in return for him feels very insecure and on the other hand a girl that let's a guy take advantage of her(that's how I view sex before marriage) has the feeling that the guy should pay her bills and give her the maintenance she needs, this,many guys see as too demanding. So, the solution is simple..stay away from her body and you'll not be indebted to her financially, emotionally and otherwise and we'll move forward in our lives..guys can be able to save for rainy days and after all the hustle ,settle down with a woman(brand new pvssy, totally unused) and the issue of distrust and infidelity will be far from relationships...if you can't do this as a guy, sleeping around with women in your youthful days, where then would you find the morally inclined women to marry? Think about it!!!
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This part is just not correct. Totally wrong.
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Laveda(f): 12:07pm On Jun 14, 2016
Nice one, but then I don't totally agree with you..

Why should a girl feel cause she had sex with a certain dude he's supposed to take care of her every need? I mean they both enjoyed it..

A relationship should be a two way thing and not the girl solely depending on the dude for her every need, no way!!! I don't support that.. In as much as I don't like some guys seeing females as sex objects I wouldn't Also want us to make it a must that a guy should Care for our every need cause of sex.

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Nnamsco4real: 1:03pm On Jun 14, 2016
Aviero:
Guys who say all a lady has to offer is just seexx are just stupiid, they've been attracting only their type all along.

Presently, i don't think i can survive without my girlfriend. She does almost everything for me, and has somewhat made life easier for me. And she's Nigerian.

Asides sex, what else does your gf offer you?
Don't tell me she feeds you, else I assume you are there for her pleasure only.

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by hibiscus76(f): 1:06pm On Jun 14, 2016
Aviero:
This part is just not correct. Totally wrong.
Well, that's the mentality, it could be subjective though..
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by lgboks(m): 1:10pm On Jun 14, 2016
wow, nice write up op you sure made some valid points....but like laveda stated it doesn't always has to be like that. What if you guys are married? Will you depend fully and demand xcesively? Times have changed and are still changing, guys don't go after girls who have nothing to offer or have jobs of their own...especially when it comes to marriage. Also it's common knowledge that habits you form before marriage tend to follow one into marriage (hence girls who demand and depends on their boy friends do same to their husbands)

In respect to having a demanding girl friend...a girl or woman who demand money and other stuffs from guys would do same even to guys that don't have sex with them.....i should know because that's one of the reason I don't just give ladies money (bcus if you do, most of them would still go behind your back and term you maga)...
Simply put, ladies are also the cause of their predicaments (its either they want to reap where they don't sow, don't want to work but want to chop attitude, would tempt guys with sex or give them sex for favours and money etc)

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Nobody: 1:16pm On Jun 14, 2016
°This the truuuuth!!!
If you want to sex her like a wife = you take care of her and her needs like a wife!!!!!

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by hibiscus76(f): 1:19pm On Jun 14, 2016
Laveda:
Nice one, but then I don't totally agree with you..

Why should a girl feel cause she had sex with a certain dude he's supposed to take care of her every need? I mean they both enjoyed it..

A relationship should be a two way thing and not the girl solely depending on the dude for her every need, no way!!! I don't support that.. In as much as I don't like some guys seeing females as sex objects I wouldn't Also want us to make it a must that a guy should Care for our every need cause of sex.
You're right but the truth remains that most of them if not all see us as objects of sexual gratification only..

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Nobody: 1:25pm On Jun 14, 2016
BeastAmbition:



All Ladies Are Sluts That Needs To Be F*uck Like A Slut. Some Mothers Excluded.
°OK. But men are hoes who bleep anything with a hole sooooo......

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by hibiscus76(f): 1:30pm On Jun 14, 2016
lgboks:
wow, nice write up op you sure made some valid points....but like laveda stated it doesn't always has to be like that. What if you guys are married? Will you depend fully and demand xcesively? Times have changed and are still changing, guys don't go after girls who have nothing to offer or have jobs of their own...especially when it comes to marriage. Also it's common knowledge that habits you form before marriage tend to follow one into marriage (hence girls who demand and depends on their boy friends do same to their husbands)

In respect to having a demanding girl friend...a girl or woman who demand money and other stuffs from guys would do same even to guys that don't have sex with them.....i should know because that's one of the reason I don't just give ladies money (bcus if you do, most of them would still go behind your back and term you maga)...
Simply put, ladies are also the cause of their predicaments (its either they want to reap where they don't sow, don't want to work but want to chop attitude, would tempt guys with sex or give them sex for favours and money etc)
Yeah true, most of us mistake generosity for f00lishness from the guys..but it's the same with guys naa haba.... imagine a lady that offers her body to you to handle anyway you want all free of charge, bros truth is most guys who kiss and tell will tag her osho free..that word is more painful than tagging a lady prosti.tute

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Venzal: 1:38pm On Jun 14, 2016
hibiscus76:
Some shallow minded guys have already made conclusions that all a girl can offer is sex and nothing else.
Hello, I found a lot of fault with what you've written, even though I get the whole gist you are trying to pass out.

However, I am very concerned with this part of your post which I have 'quoted'. FYI, guys didn't just jump to the conclusion that all a girl has to offer is sex. It is what they've experienced that begot such notions.

These days you'd be hard pressed it to find a girl who can engage in meaningful conversation on a wide variety of topics. All most of 'em know about is Telemundo. They can tell you the name of every Korean actor. They can tell you the year those actors were born, they can even tell you who the great grand fathers of those actors are.

They know every shawarma spot in the neighborhood. They know the latest clothes, shoes, bags and all sorts of materialistic things. And they are ready to offer their bodies for sex so they can acquire these things and show off to their equally slow-witted friends. This is a typical 21st century lady. And the truth is all they have to offer is sex!

So stop saying some guys are shallow minded in calling a spade a spade.

NB: I am open to corrections and criticisms.

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Rukkydelta(f): 1:39pm On Jun 14, 2016
Nice one op. I stand for no sex, no money relationship

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by hibiscus76(f): 1:41pm On Jun 14, 2016
BeastAmbition:
MOE! Bills over any fu*cken shit! f*uck the p*ussies! f*uck the bi*tches! fu*ck the p*ussy assniggaz!


You exist only for men sexual gratifications and procreation, all other things is secondary.
Your type has prolly never bleeped a female pvssy before, all you do is wish and rant..have no time for people like you shaa

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by hibiscus76(f): 1:42pm On Jun 14, 2016
Venzal:
Hello, I found a lot of fault with what you've written, even though I get the whole gist you are trying to pass out.

However, I am very concerned with this part of your post which I have 'quoted'. FYI, guys didn't just jump to the conclusion that all a girl has to offer is sex. It is what they've experienced that begot such notions.

These days you'd find it difficult to find a girl who can engage in meaningful conversation on a wide variety of topics. All most of 'em know about is Telemundo. They can tell you the name of every Korean actor. They can tell you the year those actors were born, they can even tell you who the great grand fathers of those actors are.

They know every shawarma spot in the neighborhood. They know the latest clothes, shoes, bags and all sorts of materialistic things. And they are ready to offer their bodies for sex so they can acquire these things and show off to their equally slow-witted friends. This is a typical 21st century lady. And the truth is all they have to offer is sex!

So stop saying some guys are shallow minded in calling a spade a spade.

NB: I am open to corrections and criticisms.
So in all you're saying, all a girl has to offer is sex right?
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Rukkydelta(f): 1:43pm On Jun 14, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
BULLSHYT!
eyaah! tongue
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by bqlekan(m): 1:44pm On Jun 14, 2016
Sex free relationship for where? and some guy will be somewhere shagging my acclaimed virgin grin Abeg, let them ask for the money, we shall give it to them. cheesy

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Laveda(f): 1:52pm On Jun 14, 2016
bqlekan:
Sex free relationship for where? and some guy will be somewhere shagging my acclaimed virgin grin Abeg, let them ask for the money, we shall give it to them. cheesy

I like you. tongue

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Venzal: 1:54pm On Jun 14, 2016
Read my post again, if you didn't comprehend it. If you are unable to still understand what I am saying, there's no need in explaining myself to you,. And no need in pursuing an argument
hibiscus76:
So in all you're saying, all a girl has to offer is sex right?

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jun 14, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
°This the truuuuth!!!
If you want to sex her like a wife = you take care of her and her needs like a wife!!!!!
angry
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by bqlekan(m): 1:57pm On Jun 14, 2016
Laveda:


I like you. tongue

Please don't, It is risky tongue
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Laveda(f): 1:59pm On Jun 14, 2016
bqlekan:


Please don't, It is risky tongue

I can still take the risk. tongue
Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by boynigeria(m): 1:59pm On Jun 14, 2016
hibiscus76:
[b]Wonder why guys keep hammering on ladies being gold-diggers or being over demanding. This trend has been on for so long and I mean majority of ladies have always been parasitic to the male folks and the guys know about this.
But what can be expected of us when all you want from us is sex, sex and more sex? Some shallow minded guys have already made conclusions that all a girl can offer is sex and nothing else.
When guys patronize who.res, they pay for pleasure and the fun is limited to when your time expires with them..it isn't like that when you have a girlfriend(for.most guys that can't do without sex though) she doesn't give you limits even though you're not married to her yet and you want it for free? Nah..youll definitely pay for damages naa.
You want a relationship devoid of asking and spending? Try a NO SEX relationship and you'll both be happy..its mutual..no sex, no money.

Some guys will start relating this post to my personal life, I'll be pleased to tell you that I have strong principles..NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. ##Teamvirginitymatters#...was just saying or erring my view to the issue of guys calling us girls gold diggers and parasites..and we depending on them for everything..a guy who spends so much on a lady that does nothing in return for him feels very insecure and on the other hand a girl that let's a guy take advantage of her(that's how I view sex before marriage) has the feeling that the guy should pay her bills and give her the maintenance she needs, this,many guys see as too demanding. So, the solution is simple..stay away from her body and you'll not be indebted to her financially, emotionally and otherwise and we'll move forward in our lives..guys can be able to save for rainy days and after all the hustle ,settle down with a woman(brand new pvssy, totally unused) and the issue of distrust and infidelity will be far from relationships...if you can't do this as a guy, sleeping around with women in your youthful days, where then would you find the morally inclined women to marry? Think about it!!!
[/b]

works both ways too
Girls are also the cause of their own problems
its the fucckken 21th century my dear...everyone is after something
it now depends on what ure willing to give up

meeting girls nowadays is crazy
forget generalization, but alot of girls will start asking u money after 5 days of knowing them especially when they know you are working

One lady did that to me after 3 days of knowing her
we were still getting to kn each other one phone when she was like "your baby is broke""
Im like when did i give birth to baby i dont know

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Re: Guys, You're The Cause Of Your Own Problems by Nobody: 2:01pm On Jun 14, 2016

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