I don laugh tire here " Pet name ". Got your point my sister.

Prettiepearlz:

Don't get me wrong it's not awkward oooooo, but it's awkward when you force it someone and make it like your life depends on it. And the awkward I was referring to in my post is the daddy issue. Are you married, if yes, Did you force your wife to call you daddy? There are other pet names that aren't disrespectful and why Daddy? That's being too traditional.

Acidosis:

smh, I dey go report you now now

hahaha see am

still waiting for someone to propose to me

DollyParton1:
I never let it get to marriage proposal level.
Once I see the irreconcilable differences and/or the unpardonable flaws, I let you go.

hmmm...see miss perfect!...u go old 4 there...unpadonable flaws smh

Blade21:
hahaha see am

Blade21:
I rejected my now hubby 3times before I accepted the fourth time I just said no I can't marry you after a while he asked again I refused, the 3rd time he swore never to ask me again and he moved on we stopped talking for so long then he came back and I realised that's the only man that can make me happy in this bad world he's just perfect then I said yes the 4th time lol

lucky u den!

Sweetie25:
still waiting for someone to propose to me

Can you cook spaghetti and goat pepper soup?

even ugly girls dey reject proposal smh

wendy241:
D guy dat proposed 2 mi was way 2 big 4 mi bt I say no d other guy dat came was short n ugly n I said wot d heck is diz na only mi una see [color=#006600][/color]

Cracks me up. You didn't have to be scared of the D-eal. With dwarfs now all over you, what's the way forward?

mysticgal:
The first person who proposed to me was Damn ugly, I couldn't help but say no.
Subsequent times, I just tell them to hold on or tell them I am not ready or just dish out one of my silly marriage philosophy


Last one that proposed was like " Mysticgal I love you, I dream about you and I feel you will be my suitable help meet, please marry me" see ring, looked sooo beautiful so I just collected the ring. I didn't say yes, I didn't say no. The next day I returned it back and said "I had a bad dream, where I didn't come for the wedding ceremony". I dropped the ring and left.
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Please Ignore the above post, it was all my imagination and I have no experience of any marriage proposal

so u were keeping him till he had to propose, why?!! Maybe the was reaching ur phone and ur bank acct.

Acidosis:

Can you cook spaghetti and goat pepper soup?

thief

Blade21:
hahahaha I think i said yes at the perfect time

Happy for u though

Antina:

Happy for u though

thanks dear wish you the best of God

Blade21:
I rejected my now hubby 3times before I accepted the fourth time I just said no I can't marry you after a while he asked again I refused, the 3rd time he swore never to ask me again and he moved on we stopped talking for so long then he came back and I realised that's the only man that can make me happy in this bad world he's just perfect then I said yes the 4th time lol

Who we go ask, but if you asked me what I think about this I'd say maybe you we just desperate and didn't have others knocking at your door.
I hope I'm wrong though

drnoel:


Now thats evil and unfair but I bet I saw one most sinister than yours.

Was once men in suit for a pal of my cousin who was an architect. Guy was getting married to a babe he was dating for a few months. Organized a massive wedding to impress the bride. The bride didn't show up for her wedding but followed another nigger to South Africa. She scattered the niggers heart but we later heard why she refused. She had placed the guy on hold for years and had started dating the guy from what we heard out of pity. One would wonder what she and her sister meant by out of pity cos the 3-4/5 months she was dating the guy while waiting for her drug boyfriend in south Africa she was living in the guy's house, acting wife material. In the guys words which I believe cos I knew him pretty well, he was 4king her everyday. She didnt even drop a note or tried to explain, she just did an MIA on him.
I learnt a lesson that date. It just taught me as much as I love our naija sisters most of them gurls dont get loyality and not to be trusted. That doesn't mean we shouldn't love em. It just means in case of an eventuality don't break down. Men I saw a lively young man reduced to nothing on his own wedding day. Crying himself to pieces. It was left for us to pick up the pieces the girl had destroyed.

The guy chook himself with knife for leg.How do you organise a surprise wedding?I've know of surprise birthdays but wedding?
Whoever you are getting married to must be a part of the whole process.The person must be involved and be seen to be involved.The girl wasn't nice but your friend was rather naïve too.

ThreeGEEKS:

Who we go ask, but if you asked me what I think about this I'd say maybe you we just desperate and didn't have others knocking at your door.
I hope I'm wrong though

very wrong oo extra wrong I was just 20 when I met him in my final year then got married 2years after so if he had gone more for come

Blade21:
thanks dear wish you the best of God

Ameen. Thanks for the prayer

don4real18:

So, is it wrong to call one's hubby "Daddy"... Are u married sef DAT u are giving someone advice or have anyone ever proposed to you

Can you listen to yourself, so it's only married people that can give good advice Ehn? You make me laugh. I won't say it's wrong, because some people are actually comfortable with it but it is wrong when you try to enforce it on someone (a man she isn't married to already telling her to call him daddy) and in op case she isn't comfortable remember whatever rocks my boat may sink your ship and was I the one who told her to reject the proposal and mind you she has rejected the proposal before opening this thread. I was only happy she got out of something she wasn't happy with before she gets into it and then creates a thread asking for help because she can't cope with it and then judgemental people on nairaland would come and then insult her. We are all opinionated. thank you.

Acidosis:

Can you cook spaghetti and goat pepper soup?

lol

Blade21:
very wrong oo extra wrong I was just 20 when I met him in my final year then got married 2years after so if he had gone more for come

OK I have heard, I was right about being wrong

koolpope:
................by dat time wey u don nearly expire

When you see children, you will know by their comment

TamedWolf90:

Nufin is awkward about calling your man Daddy, its just ubderstanding

My dear, I think it's awkward when someone tries to enforce it, I believe in things happening at will and not by force, if you feel up to it, do it, if you don't, voice out. And in her case, she couldn't deal with it because she says the man is a control freak. Corrections will be accepted but with good points sir. Thank you.

jopretty:
Used to have this friend oo and suddenly he asked me if I'd love to be his wife. I told him No reason being I don't want to have a child that'll look like him.

u are saying he is ugly abi? no worry ur parent will soon post u on OLX.....wat a stupid reason

madridguy:
I don laugh tire here " Pet name ". Got your point my sister.

My brother, is it also wrong to use that for your spouse or what?

I rejected the first proposal coz he's from imo
Second coz he's from Rivers. .
Third coz he's a way older promiscuous lawyer and ibo

I just told them capital NO.. .no pretense nor game


I don't want any parent/family wahala.. ..

Dunno why maybe coz of where I live. ...i just don't meet the Yoruba guys I like. ... The few I've seen are not my type at all ....

3verblazing:
hmmm...see miss perfect!...u go old 4 there...unpadonable flaws smh

You lack basic comprehension. Your IQ is too low to understand my post.

4 me my second proposal did not come as a surprise,but I kindly told him dat I saw him more lik a friend,an advisor Dan a husband.he was not all dat happy but he later saw reasons with me & 2day we are gud friends.

Really so u re tribe selective? Sorry 2 say dis but hope it won't b too late,den u will ve 2 settle 4 someone u will have 2 pay 2 marry u

sade1994:
I rejected the first proposal coz he's from imo
Second coz he's from Rivers. .
Third coz he's a way older promiscuous lawyer and ibo

I just told them capital NO.. .no pretense nor game


I don't want any parent/family wahala.. ..

Dunno why maybe coz of where I live. ...i just don't meet the Yoruba guys I like. ... The few I've seen are not my type at all ....

By telling them suitors that my fiance' (as he then was) father was a furious Army General who wouldn't hesitate to shoot any intruder LOL.

jopretty:
Used to have this friend oo and suddenly he asked me if I'd love to be his wife. I told him No reason being I don't want to have a child that'll look like him.

But why befriend someone you wouldn't like to be associated with in the first place?

Blade21:
I loved him with my whole life but he wasn't spiritual the guy was a realist who believes in chance while me i was highly spiritual so that's y and the 4th time after our space I realised I couldn't stay without him I loved him so much and he worked on himself he's not all pastor but he believes in God now one day I just sent him a message like I miss you please don't call back and he called and that was it

When your crush was not forthcoming ni? Babe confess na

Blade21:
I rejected my now hubby 3times before I accepted the fourth time I just said no I can't marry you after a while he asked again I refused, the 3rd time he swore never to ask me again and he moved on we stopped talking for so long then he came back and I realised that's the only man that can make me happy in this bad world he's just perfect then I said yes the 4th time lol

Lol.. some ladies are just confused..
they don't mean what they say most time..

Good you guys are happy together